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Re: How Do You Cope If Married To Someone You Don't Love? by MondayOsunbor(m): 12:38am On Jul 07, 2020 |
ollins: better go buy love medicine 1 Like |
Re: How Do You Cope If Married To Someone You Don't Love? by Elxandre(m): 12:40am On Jul 07, 2020 |
CsRockefeller:Why are you a tribalist? That's awful. 3 Likes |
Re: How Do You Cope If Married To Someone You Don't Love? by mrchineke: 12:41am On Jul 07, 2020 |
Brightgem: Ok, come and marry me by force na. See if you will not be 6ft under in 6 months. |
Re: How Do You Cope If Married To Someone You Don't Love? by mentored: 12:44am On Jul 07, 2020 |
bukatyne: Okwu nke oseburuwa Ekene dili chukwu nwanne |
Re: How Do You Cope If Married To Someone You Don't Love? by UDOKABESTLUV(m): 12:45am On Jul 07, 2020 |
ollins: When you are enjoying yourself, did you inform UDOKABESTLUV about it, Bro Carry your cross. |
Re: How Do You Cope If Married To Someone You Don't Love? by TheSourcerer: 12:45am On Jul 07, 2020 |
mrchineke:this your comment I find it disgusting in all levels |
Re: How Do You Cope If Married To Someone You Don't Love? by Eniolakiite(f): 12:47am On Jul 07, 2020 |
bukatyne: 1 Like |
Re: How Do You Cope If Married To Someone You Don't Love? by OriOko88(m): 12:47am On Jul 07, 2020 |
Interesting. So you do not touch your wife for almost 6 months, and you're living under the same roof?? I guess your wife isn't attractive enough, that now gives room for saying you don't love her. She's local and not sexy, that's simply your problem. I can't imagine myself indoor with a woman without fvcking d shit outta her for six months. That's why I always pray to marry a woman I'm sexually attracted to. Even if I don't love you, sha have breast and ass for doggy. Sex is d engine that keeps marriage moving. 1 Like |
Re: How Do You Cope If Married To Someone You Don't Love? by lozanni(m): 12:50am On Jul 07, 2020 |
bukatyne: It could be that she had great physical endowment, before the marriage, but after childbirth everything has lost shape, hence the disinterest on the part of the guy as she has little or nothing more to offer (poor personality). If the ops is from a certain part of the country that likes 'enjoyment' so much, he would have married wife number 2 by now. |
Re: How Do You Cope If Married To Someone You Don't Love? by bluefilm: 12:52am On Jul 07, 2020 |
This is a very big problem that ordinary N50 Gold Circle® Condom could have prevented. But you didn't care. You dived in raw. Now you see where your stupidity has led you to? Ntooooooorrrr gi. Guys make una learn una lesson from this stupid nigga. Always use a condom. No matter what! Or else you may have to pay the price. Like this stupid nigga is paying now. Thank you. 1 Like |
Re: How Do You Cope If Married To Someone You Don't Love? by mrchineke: 12:57am On Jul 07, 2020 |
TheSourcerer: Sorry jare, that idiot just annoyed me. |
Re: How Do You Cope If Married To Someone You Don't Love? by Poseidon000: 12:58am On Jul 07, 2020 |
veave:Now, this is mature. Quite out-of-the-box you didn't approach this from a visceral point of view like others. 1 Like |
Re: How Do You Cope If Married To Someone You Don't Love? by bullionvanguy: 1:05am On Jul 07, 2020 |
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Re: How Do You Cope If Married To Someone You Don't Love? by flames01: 1:09am On Jul 07, 2020 |
ollins: Bro, can you talk to her about her ills and find out if she can change? |
Re: How Do You Cope If Married To Someone You Don't Love? by CsRockefeller(m): 1:15am On Jul 07, 2020 |
Elxandre: Chimo! I must have used the wrong term. I am not a Tribalist at all o. Abeg, I don't discriminate among people, class or religion. I believe in giving everyone d benefit of the doubt. However, in marriage or family settings, I don't think I can settle with someone outside my tribe. My family is a very traditional one, I won't be easy and I have seen how my parents lived and I think o will love to model mine after them. I love the Igbo culture. The food, the music, the language, the dance, everything about it. I hope I'm not making a big mistake shutting out other tribes. Till date, d best ladies I've met aren't even Igbo. Sincerely, I wish I did give her a chance but something kept pulling me out everytime I wanted to. 1 Like |
Re: How Do You Cope If Married To Someone You Don't Love? by charles2963: 1:16am On Jul 07, 2020 |
Talk to God for guidance. |
Re: How Do You Cope If Married To Someone You Don't Love? by CsRockefeller(m): 1:19am On Jul 07, 2020 |
UjuJoan2: Yimu, you think I told the complete story here abi? |
Re: How Do You Cope If Married To Someone You Don't Love? by Nobody: 1:27am On Jul 07, 2020 |
baby124:Die in jail for what exactly? For not marrying her after impregnating her? 2 Likes |
Re: How Do You Cope If Married To Someone You Don't Love? by Caseless: 1:27am On Jul 07, 2020 |
gudvibz:the relationship is loveless and this textbook solution you're proferring won't solve the problem. |
Re: How Do You Cope If Married To Someone You Don't Love? by Naijaarchive(m): 1:29am On Jul 07, 2020 |
bukatyne: Chai |
Re: How Do You Cope If Married To Someone You Don't Love? by Nanavati(m): 1:40am On Jul 07, 2020 |
so all what you say to make her open her legs for to go in were lies abi |
Re: How Do You Cope If Married To Someone You Don't Love? by Depressedkidd: 1:52am On Jul 07, 2020 |
ollins:get a divorce. Don't ever force yourself or listen to others against your happiness. Your happiness comes before any other thing. Your kid won't be the first to live with divorced parents, won't be the last either. Going your separate ways doesn't mean you won't be able to take care of your kid. |
Re: How Do You Cope If Married To Someone You Don't Love? by VickyRotex(f): 1:52am On Jul 07, 2020 |
Enemyofpeace: Only person wey don smoke osogbo weed go quote imself for im comment. We know sey na you be notoriousbabe, yet you dey quote yourself. You well so? >>>rhetorical question Get sense for once. |
Re: How Do You Cope If Married To Someone You Don't Love? by lonelydude: 1:53am On Jul 07, 2020 |
If you divorce her, there is a high chance that you will regret it because of your child. I'm not a marriage counsellor but what I know works like a magic in your situation is: 1. Try to identify her love language which she must have been telling you verbally or through body language but YOU ARE LIKELY NOT LISTENING TO HER (I don't mean not hearing, I mean LISTENING TO HER). 2. When you identify her love language, meet that need......(clue: I think most women love gifts). 3. Also, try to see how you can develop her either by furthering her education or setting up/expanding a business for her. 4. Give her parents more surprise visits with gifts for them as well (you can do this without her). Sex will naturally come before you know and your relationship will receive a boost. Thank me later. |
Re: How Do You Cope If Married To Someone You Don't Love? by Toks2008(m): 1:54am On Jul 07, 2020 |
ollins: LOVE is a thing of the mind. Trust me, if you just close your eyes and think of at least one thing you like about her then focus on that one thing whilst you accommodate other inadequacies, you will realize it is easy to love her. Anybody can love anybody... It is about conditioning your mind. |
Re: How Do You Cope If Married To Someone You Don't Love? by obowunmi(m): 2:08am On Jul 07, 2020 |
Toks2008: Lies. Lies from the pits of hellfire. My father was a terrorist. My mother was passive in accepting his terrorism. Their marriage was painful and brutal. It was unkind and devilish. Painfully married for 40years. I can never be with human beings like my parents. |
Re: How Do You Cope If Married To Someone You Don't Love? by obowunmi(m): 2:09am On Jul 07, 2020 |
It is children that suffer under these types of conditions. |
Re: How Do You Cope If Married To Someone You Don't Love? by Naijalitz(m): 2:10am On Jul 07, 2020 |
Mad ooh |
Re: How Do You Cope If Married To Someone You Don't Love? by Toks2008(m): 2:19am On Jul 07, 2020 |
obowunmi: I'm not talking about beauty and the beast. I'm talking about normal humans but nevertheless, your mum still coped. There is no perfect marriage so let's not deceive ourselves. |
Re: How Do You Cope If Married To Someone You Don't Love? by Billygee2u: 2:20am On Jul 07, 2020 |
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Re: How Do You Cope If Married To Someone You Don't Love? by Tolzy11(m): 2:37am On Jul 07, 2020 |
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