Ode,i think you toss your replies out of the forum cos thqts zhere they belong
Missty pls if ‎​​You consider this seebluff's lqst reply you go fall my hand o

mumu I thought yu said yu were going back there now (yaba psychiatric hospital)

why are you still here?

Cod m missing nw.you knw ‎​​You were my bed mate back dere.infact the nurses doctors cleaners gatemen all miss ur crazy actions n kolomental dance steps.plss we all expect you

See How una don Vex the poor girl!
For Person to come ask for una advice, na bad thing?
Some of you need to grow up!


**MzG I dey greet:-) **

Twsnt my intention jare,na dat seebluf.

Orton1 0 I dey hail o

hmmmmm fowl of the same clique shaking head at each other,  I thought yu said when it's early mon mon the lady go see good advice, I don't think there's any good advice other than the one i've given. mmshhhheeeewww

Seebluff247 I dey greet you too o.I don't hate early in the morning o buh hope I gave you a nightmare sha

@poster pray to God he will answer you, he never forsake's his children.

Thanks dears for ur advices they are really helping, having a thought en a sleep over have realize that this guy really don`t appreciate me wid all i do for him as a woman eg respect him, cook for him any type of food he disires, wash en iron his clothers etc, but still he's ungrateful, is OK i wont complain anymore,he can go ahead wid his ugly baby mama en for me i will be just fine wid my unborn child, i can't fight him or do anything to harm him but God is my biggest weapon,

Blueice4re:

@poster pray to God he will answer you, he never forsake's his children.

Gbammmm

missty:

Thanks dears for your advices they are really helping, having a thought en a sleep over have realize that this guy really don`t appreciate me wid all i do for him as a woman eg respect him, cook for him any type of food he disires, wash en iron his clothers etc, but still he's ungrateful, is OK i wont complain anymore,he can go ahead wid his ugly baby mama en for me i will be just fine wid my unborn child, i can't fight him or do anything to harm him but God is my biggest weapon,

Shikeeenaa, He's able to all things

Well said, ORTON.

@ Poster

There's only so much a woman can take from a man! The first day you let him hit you and get away with it, you gave him the express permission to keep abusing you. You lost a baby for him as a result of him battering you . . you almost broke your leg when he tried to kill you with his car . . you are pregnant for him again (even though you are not his wife) and yet he leaves you to go live with another woman!

What more are you waiting for him to do before you leave him

Honestly, I don't understand these women approaching 30 . . . does desperation make you guys lose you self worth and your brains

Where are your family members? Do they know what you are passing through

The worst part is that you are not even married to him . . . what the heck are you waiting for to leave him

Another home Breaker enters hmmmmmm mshewwwww dalemoshu,

I don't think yu have BF not to talk of getting married, well sha yur signatures shows

that yu are home when yur mate are in Christ embassy looking for man to marry.

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@Poster

My dear this guy loves you so much, what a rhetorical question?

However, you may open your eyes in heaven after a day's beating before realizing this fact,

Love is not blind,but if it is blind YOU had better shine ya own eyez 

one of this days he is going to kill you, you are far much more worth than what he is giving you

sorry missty but you don't need to ask b4 you act.bcuz i no the greatest lies i can expect from a lady to me that she is inlove me.or maybe i myself tellin a lady that i love her.that means am lyin.you can experience my love thru my actions.he don't love you

I don't blame you because though i am a man, I have been in such an abusive relationship like this before. But, one thing I promise you is that after I 'm through with this comment, your mind would have been settled on the next step. (1) Your fiance like most  60 per cent men, I stand to be corrected, has inflated ego and  suffers from insecurity. (2) His insecurity and egotism will go from worse to worst because he doesn't know what he wants thus does not deserve you. A man that doesn't treat you as an individual with aspirations, emotions, need, values and acceptance, love and respect but as a intimacy gadget doesn't deserve you. (3) There are men who have been healed and will treat their wife as the woman they ought to be. Your man needs healing and from the wallowing he is in right now just as you also need healing therefor you need to apply the 'rule of disengagement' ASAP. (4) You may love him, but you hurting, hurt, bruised and battered. You have low confidence. Starting again with another man from the the scratch is your worst nightmare and the future is no longer the same like you dreamed about  as a child. But, honestly speaking is he your dream man. In swimming, the best way to save a drowning man even if you are an expert life guard is for him to stop kicking and to submit. (5) pregnancy or not, take time off your relationship for the next 3 months and seek self renewal. When you return, you will know what you want. let me pause, ask your question I will respond accordingly. Regards.

:/

@ poster I dont envy u at all. pls stop d relationship ASAP.

Well, all you guys who replied. u are all wrong,

Let the PRO handle this, is not for babies,

1) missy, we really cant judge this one without hearing from your fiance

2) before u got pregnant, what was this all about, was it a quickie, a one night stand, cutting shows or
what?

3) I mean did u and this guy ever talk about getting married at the start? Where do u guys worship and who is your pastor, not to talk of his own?

4) Had u made any moves to meet his people and has he made moves to meet yer people? I dont mean, "mum, this is beast, my new boyfriend", I mean "Dad, these are the family of darling who have come from Okitipupa, ariam-elu in anambra state to see you with kolanut"

5) You see if you can answer question 1 & 2, I will help u judge the matter, but if you answer question 4 and 5, you will find the people who should actually judge it, removing the neccessity of you going public like PHCN on a private matter like this,

6) what you can do now is to go fopr deliverance then report this thug to the police, so he can keep away from u before he kills you. Meanwhile face reality, and born your child quietly. hand him over to mama after 3 months and return back to school, and get yourself a good qualification, and a job. Work hard with your head and hands, and that your beautiful backside will soon land you a good pay and a solid husband,

That's my advice,

I bet u dont want to get 2 ur grave b4 realising d truth,See,d truth is bitter,d guy no send u.Yes u love him but it takes 2 to tangle(2 love i mean).It's pretty difficult cos it's a matter of d heart but uv got 2 no wat u want,b brave,b bold about it n move on in life.The guy doesnt deserve u.PLS RUN AS FAST AS UR LEGS CAN TAKE U.Im sure someone who deserves u will find u b4 u get to d finish line.GOOD LUCK DEARIE.

@ OP
d truth why most marriages fail nd will continue failing is dat most times we fail to tell ourselves the simple truth.d worst thing any human being on earth can do 2 him/herself is to deceive oneself. u knew u guys were nt compartible enuf nd u went on 2 take in for him, no doubt he may love u to some extent but he dsnt truly love u neither does he respect u i mean does he have 2 kill u before u realise that? his type can hit u on ur pregnant tummy nd u know d implications of that.any little provocation he leaves u for his other woman dat should speak volume of wat 2 expect in d future now.
the unadulterated truth is that u guys can never make it far in marriage, and plz dnt go into marriage so dt it will be on record dt u've married nd divorced u'ld probably regret it more then, act wise 2 stay alive

I think the OP is high on drugs. How can you think such a hideous relationship is love ---- I'd be happy to attend ur funeral when he beats u into the grave ---- I'm sure he will continue to love you then to

@ Poster,

I am sure you have realizes that Nairaland is the last place to come for advice for such crucial matter. Most of the responses are from people under 25 years,way younger than you.  You dont need advice from children. It is only a child who will say that at 30 you a a granmma!!  Don't take their childishness serious.

You know exactly what to do my dear. Are you really engaged to this fellow? If not,then weigh your options very well. Do not expect him to change when you are married to him. In fact he will get worse with time.

Who says there is anything wrong in being a single mum? You still have time now to run for yor life,next time you might not escape.

Nairaland is full of children,so watch out for the kind of advice you get and don't take every comment serious,

First, report to ur ppl and his ppl if u guys are really fiance(s) and they know u, odawise, speak to his friends,
endure till u get the child to him & pack ur load, & if per chance, his troubles prevents u 4rm having d child, girl, get ur self outta him, u're in ur 30's rmbr,

in all, if u're good without him (financially), then seek ur greener love else where not wiv him,

Ruuuuun for ya dear life. U may end up dead on the long run

That guy is not good for you, not even a l'il bit. Anyway lady who gets beaten by her lover should not consider getting married to that person.

Is the guy working? Somehow, I guess the answer will be no. He's obviously relying on you and using you for his selfish reasons.

Quit the relationship before we lose you!

@OP, there are some tins you are not telling us, Its doesn't really matter if you have or pay your own house rent or own a car,  1) WHY WOULD YOU WANT TO STAY WITH A GUY WHO WANTS TO END YOUR LIFE IN A SHORT WHILE?

I never ask anything from him except love, i drive my own car, i pay for my roof, i pay for my all needs, i have my own principle, I still insist that there is something u re not telling us!!

Better find your love somewhere else and stop deceiving yourself, Msheww!

Missty,
you are being very stupid to still be in that relationship. infact, i think you are suffering from low self esteem and what gives you the impression that he loves you,
stop being silly and stupid. He is treating you that way because you are begging him, of course you are paying all your bills,
dont get stuck on this and why do you need a lightening to stike you down before you get some sense into your skull, girls like you really annoy me, desperado

dont leave him o, just  hang in there, itz ur dead body they will carry back to your parents, love ko, love ni ,