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The Boy Who Scattered His Parent House Explained What Actually Happened. by Nobody: 5:58pm On Jul 10, 2020 |
A Nigerian boy who scattered his parents house narrates his
version of what transpired and led to the event. A video went
viral today, showing a Nigerian boy destroying properties in his
parents house after his mom allegedly denied his request.
According to the mother, her son identified as Chidera has been
ignoring her for a long time now. He goes out in the morning
and comes back later on without saying a word to her. He
suddenly came back on this particular day and demanded for
his passport. She ignored him at first, but later directed him to
meet his father, since she’s not in the position to release
anything.She stated that he started destroying things
afterwards.
However, the guy has since refuted all she said, according to
him, he was subject to physical and emotional abuse from his
mother.
Read what he wrote below;
“Firstly I would like to begin by saying thank you for everyone
who has showed love to me. I was very shocked to find
out that my personal business was so publicly displayed and
that the narrative was twisted and changed to portray me as a
bad guy.
My actions as seen in this video wasn’t isn’t because of
“disagreement” or a “passport” issue as my mum describes in
the video.My mum is a very abusive, aggressive and violent
person… and she has been all my life.
When I say aggressive and violent, I am not exaggerating… I
have endured plates/knives thrown at me. I even have to
remove my mattress and put it up to the door when I sleep for
fear she will do something to me in my sleep as she frequently
threatens to.
I have kept all of this very private… not even my friends and
good friends knew. So I was in shock to find this video
circulating the internet. I have tried talking to her about it but she
is to deep in her “Nigerian culture” to ever listen and ends up
having aggressive fits
She then left me no other choice when she kicked me out of the
house about over a month ago to report myself in. This how
social workers and Gardaí were brought in. I was moved to
numerous places over the duration of this month and feared
going back to her abuse.
But after a conversation from the man and the woman seen in
this video, I decided to go back home and make it work with
my mum (with my social worker present of course).
Unfortunately, as you all can see this “peace” didn’t last long.
The day of this altercation, I had indeed asked for my passport
to fill out college applications. But my mum wasn’t at all
cooperative… in fact at this point … she had been ignoring me in
the house and refusing to feed me. I was cycling to my friends
house daily to eat.
So to avoid one of her violent outbreaks I went and looked for it
myself without her knowledge. When I couldn’t find it I did go
back to her to ask her for it again… where she then began to be
aggressive and violent trying to physically lift me -!: remove me
from the room.
She was groping slapping and punching me… and obviously I
will not fight my own mother back so I told her to stop or I
would begin to break things
At this moment that was the only way I saw, for me to get her
to stop without being violent back to her .. however she
continued
So I broke a few things like hairdryers ( we were still upstairs at
this point) and my little brother called the guards. The guards
arrived and seeing as how they could resolve the issue they
warned both me and my mother to stay away from eachother
till Tusla were notified (again)
The guards so made their way downstairs and I accompanied
them because I wanted to make myself food… ( my mum was
still present through all of this and didn’t voice her disagreement
to me making food). The guards told me to make my food and
go straight to my room.
So the guards left and I was downstairs making food… when
my mum came rushing downstairs hysterical… telling me I had
no right to touch her food , fair. But I asked her why she didn’t
say this when I told the guards I was going to make food .
She got angry and turned off the burner and trying to
manoeuvre my way out of another altercation I went to the
fridge to eat a cold leftover … she slapped it out of my hand.
What she did next was what provoked the actions you see in
this video
She took powdered pepper and threw it in my face… and while
I was still disoriented she grabbed a moping stick and
reapeatedly beat me with it … she then grabbed me and bit me.
I still didn’t retaliate or fight back .
After this vicious attack she then proceeded to call the three
adults featured in this video, her exact words were “You better
get here before I kill Chidera”. They were there in the next 5
minutes. I had to take off my t-shirt and soak it and put it on
my face to cool the pepper.
At the moment I just felt sheer rage and instead of getting
physical or aggressive with my mum … I decided to trash the
kitchen as u see in this video. Looking back at it… it might not
have been the best solution but I didn’t know what else to do.
The guards were called again and they returned just 30 minutes
after they had left and detained me. I was put into emergency
care. And I have been in foster since that day last week.
I feel nothing towards this family other than pure disgust and
hatred for the way they all treated me ( my brothers and fathers
included). And I don’t think I can ever bring myself to ever
reconcile with them… I have changed my number and deleted
all contact with them.
I have kept all this private to protect all of us as we can all be
negatively be impacted by this. But for me to come on social
media and receive nasty death threats and messages and
finding out they posted this video and painted the narrative
completely differently.
You might all ask me why I didn’t correct my mother’s grossly
false version of the events while I was smashing things. The
answer is I was so consumed by rage and anger after what
had just happened to me. And as u can see in the video I didn’t
care about anyone.
Everyone is entitled to their opinion and that is fine. But as of
now the family is dead to me and all I’m focused on is my
future and college.
Again I would like to sincerely thank everyone who knew that
there was more to the story and knew the truth and supported
me.
Love x” |
Re: The Boy Who Scattered His Parent House Explained What Actually Happened. by missawele(f): 6:14pm On Jul 10, 2020 |
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Re: The Boy Who Scattered His Parent House Explained What Actually Happened. by Passionate888: 6:36pm On Jul 10, 2020 |
See story! Who we go believe now? |
Re: The Boy Who Scattered His Parent House Explained What Actually Happened. by MrsMusty(f): 8:02pm On Jul 10, 2020 |
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