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Re: I Am Tired Of Her Coming To My House To Eat Food, How Do I Tell Her? by ayusco85(m): 11:59pm On Jul 16, 2020 |
Alexgman1: |
Re: I Am Tired Of Her Coming To My House To Eat Food, How Do I Tell Her? by lomprico(m): 12:00am On Jul 17, 2020 |
Alexgman1: try it, that might be d solution to your problem. stingy devout church worker! tueh! |
Re: I Am Tired Of Her Coming To My House To Eat Food, How Do I Tell Her? by Lysian: 12:00am On Jul 17, 2020 |
Ga fili.... Ga donkey! See you... See kpekus |
Re: I Am Tired Of Her Coming To My House To Eat Food, How Do I Tell Her? by Mypeople2(m): 12:00am On Jul 17, 2020 |
Alexgman1:My guy is there something you are not telling us ? Is she your babe or sister that she has the effrontery to collect the key from where you hid it ? Please tell us if you are dating her or not |
Re: I Am Tired Of Her Coming To My House To Eat Food, How Do I Tell Her? by Frankicent(m): 12:00am On Jul 17, 2020 |
Alexgman1: M*M* You want it and you dey use use worker cover up. She tell you say her Kpesu no be worker? |
Re: I Am Tired Of Her Coming To My House To Eat Food, How Do I Tell Her? by andyanders: 12:01am On Jul 17, 2020 |
Op, maybe u're ugly guy and she just want to use her beauty drain u as her mugu, and she will keep draining u nd looking good why u keep drying like stockfish. Later, she will go get fvcked by another guy. Why not stop stocking food in your house, wash ur pot and make sure u keep tap water and glass cup for her? If she ask for food, tell her 'na water dey nd glass cup. If she comes arround, don't frawn ur face. If she goes to the kitchen nd no food, she will ask ' u no cook', then, tell her no money. Ask her if she has money, tht she can arrange food, tht u self never chop. Watch her reaction. By the time she finds no food 2 to 3x, she go run. |
Re: I Am Tired Of Her Coming To My House To Eat Food, How Do I Tell Her? by ayusco85(m): 12:05am On Jul 17, 2020 |
Deduks: Wise one please don't leave me. Too much brain dey Ur head. OP listen to this Bro, he is wise |
Re: I Am Tired Of Her Coming To My House To Eat Food, How Do I Tell Her? by Samkent(m): 12:11am On Jul 17, 2020 |
Op,my advice for ya....kip up the good work coz ya reward is in heaven!let brotherly love continues thou |
Re: I Am Tired Of Her Coming To My House To Eat Food, How Do I Tell Her? by bukolabeauty09(f): 12:12am On Jul 17, 2020 |
Just do her the favour and start visiting her once in a while. Go to her house and stay longer there till she cook and u eat, do it severally. Ladies cant keep calm forever she will tell you indirectly that her food is almost finished then you take that opportunity to tell her that she has also finished all your food. Then she will get the message and reduce her visitation to your place. 3 Likes |
Re: I Am Tired Of Her Coming To My House To Eat Food, How Do I Tell Her? by frozen70(f): 12:14am On Jul 17, 2020 |
Alexgman1: If you have never toast her or bed her Seat her down in one of her numerous visits and tell her that things are hard and you did appreciate if she stops coming till further notice If you can't, then get a girlfriend that her presence will scare her off If you can't with the above two ideas Start dating her since you itoo weak to talk to her |
Re: I Am Tired Of Her Coming To My House To Eat Food, How Do I Tell Her? by frozen70(f): 12:16am On Jul 17, 2020 |
Alexgman1: When it's already assumed you guys are dating based on her frequent visits |
Re: I Am Tired Of Her Coming To My House To Eat Food, How Do I Tell Her? by andyanders: 12:16am On Jul 17, 2020 |
Op, maybe u're ugly guy and she just want to use her beauty drain u as her mugu, and she will keep draining u nd looking good why u keep drying like stockfish, later, she will go get fvcked by another guy. Why not stop stocking food in your house, wash ur pot and make sure u keep tap water and glass cup for her? If she ask for food, tell her 'na water dey nd glass cup. If she comes arround, don't frawn ur face. If she goes to the kitchen nd no food, she will ask ' u no cook', then, tell her no money. Ask her if she has money, tht she can arrange food, tht u self never chop. Watch her reaction. By the time she finds no food 2 to 3x, she go run. Use this level and watch her. |
Re: I Am Tired Of Her Coming To My House To Eat Food, How Do I Tell Her? by laiperi: 12:17am On Jul 17, 2020 |
How many months pregnant is she? You nor know say as belle dey big, more food is required. Abi you think say na your Sapele water alone fill her belle. |
Re: I Am Tired Of Her Coming To My House To Eat Food, How Do I Tell Her? by Nwaonyishi69: 12:17am On Jul 17, 2020 |
To me, you are just not man enough. |
Re: I Am Tired Of Her Coming To My House To Eat Food, How Do I Tell Her? by Giba(f): 12:18am On Jul 17, 2020 |
Tell her just the way you told us here |
Re: I Am Tired Of Her Coming To My House To Eat Food, How Do I Tell Her? by ramatintin(m): 12:24am On Jul 17, 2020 |
Devoted Christian my ass were is the love your neighbor as thy self that Christ commands.my brother you are not a Christian but an hypocrite. |
Re: I Am Tired Of Her Coming To My House To Eat Food, How Do I Tell Her? by Coronavirus2: 12:36am On Jul 17, 2020 |
My niggar Slawormir, you're one of the reasons I decided to open nairaland account. I've been a guest member for a long time and any time I visit, I'm always ready to see your dammm niggar Slawormir: 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: I Am Tired Of Her Coming To My House To Eat Food, How Do I Tell Her? by Ellasure: 12:37am On Jul 17, 2020 |
it is simply a friendly matter. don't allow Satan to tempt you to rape an innocent girl. if you like the girl make her your own thru friendship first and allow time to dictate the future for the two of you. best wishes. |
Re: I Am Tired Of Her Coming To My House To Eat Food, How Do I Tell Her? by cornelboy(f): 12:39am On Jul 17, 2020 |
Enskynelson: amen, wise word! |
Re: I Am Tired Of Her Coming To My House To Eat Food, How Do I Tell Her? by cornelboy(f): 12:46am On Jul 17, 2020 |
Alexgman1: maybe you are the only hope she has. You could tell her about how things are with you and reason together. God will provide for you, remember it's blessed to give than to recieve. |
Re: I Am Tired Of Her Coming To My House To Eat Food, How Do I Tell Her? by rolexino(m): 12:51am On Jul 17, 2020 |
She may be in need and I see nothing wrong with... If you have share but the day you don't, you politely let her know too You're not the only neighbor but she chose your place Thank you |
Re: I Am Tired Of Her Coming To My House To Eat Food, How Do I Tell Her? by Helen7654: 12:53am On Jul 17, 2020 |
Re: I Am Tired Of Her Coming To My House To Eat Food, How Do I Tell Her? by fof1: 12:55am On Jul 17, 2020 |
Alexgman1: U KNOW WHAT U ARE DOING, CONTINUE UR STUPIDITY. SAME CHURCH MY FOOT. |
Re: I Am Tired Of Her Coming To My House To Eat Food, How Do I Tell Her? by Saao(m): 12:56am On Jul 17, 2020 |
Alexgman1:then why not serve God by providing for her food need? God will bless you in turn |
Re: I Am Tired Of Her Coming To My House To Eat Food, How Do I Tell Her? by Helen1197: 12:58am On Jul 17, 2020 |
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Re: I Am Tired Of Her Coming To My House To Eat Food, How Do I Tell Her? by grandstar(m): 12:58am On Jul 17, 2020 |
Alexgman1 Just squeeze your face like WAEC question next time. She's obviously hungry hence the daily shameless visitations. Open up to her that you can't afford it any more. If you can afford biscuit or chin chin, give her. But the real food is ba shiga (No entry) Be frank and tell her you can't afford it. Some people are just parasitic. I too have that problem of saying no but I am learning. Also, learn to stay clear of parasites. Learn to sniff them out. This should be a warning when choose a life mate. Will your wife place her family on your head? Will they be coming in and out of your home 24/7? I have a cousin like that. You house her, you house her entire family. Some people don't know when to draw the line. Make sure your wife-to-be does not have such qualities. |
Re: I Am Tired Of Her Coming To My House To Eat Food, How Do I Tell Her? by Curvinus(m): 12:58am On Jul 17, 2020 |
Alexgman1: It is possible that this lady likes you and enjoys your company beyond just the food. So you may want to check her body language to be double sure that this is not the case. I say this because girls (the pretty ones), from what is common knowledge, would usually have a few reliable options where they could get some food supply and possibly other needs, as long as they are also willing to reciprocate the good gesture, pandemic or not. But from your writeup, it is possible that you are no longer comfortable with her visits, probably because you are not really benefitting emotionally or physically from this and that is quite understandable. Therefore, as a way out (if this is what you truly desire and not an amorous liaison), you may want to sit her down and let her know how her visits are making you uncomfortable, especially your fear of becoming amorously entangled or running out of food supply. If she insists, then let her know your terms, and what roles you would want her to play in this. Being a church member also, any attempt to make her stay away would require a human face. So, you could help her out with some cash and food stuff if this wouldnt be too much for you. You may also want to reassure her that you habour no ill feeling towards her and try emphasizing that things arent really going so well, hence the need for her to lay low for a little while. Personally, I have been in sutuations where I didnt have much to eat due to not being paid for an extended period and those were very trying times. I sympathize with her. Msy we not be found in situstions where poverty and hunger would deprive us of our humanity. |
Re: I Am Tired Of Her Coming To My House To Eat Food, How Do I Tell Her? by Bahamas95(m): 1:14am On Jul 17, 2020 |
Some of my relatives especially my aunty dislike me from childhood because of my blunt nature, I hate pretence. I can't be suffering and smiling. If I don't like you or something about you irritate me I tell you straight up and I don't give a damn how you feel about it. OP tell her you ain't comfortable with her frequent visits shikena!
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Re: I Am Tired Of Her Coming To My House To Eat Food, How Do I Tell Her? by chimax1(m): 1:24am On Jul 17, 2020 |
Alexgman1:just negodi this man!! |
Re: I Am Tired Of Her Coming To My House To Eat Food, How Do I Tell Her? by Otiv: 1:33am On Jul 17, 2020 |
Don't do it because of the fear of being accused of rape only, do it solely because you fear God and pls find a way to discourage her from coming, that's the honest truth. Temptation is real, flee from it even if you guys are church workers . Sin does not respect cburch workers. Pls discourage her Alexgman1: |
Re: I Am Tired Of Her Coming To My House To Eat Food, How Do I Tell Her? by hotspec(m): 1:37am On Jul 17, 2020 |
Alexgman1:it's very simple. be mindful of d time she well show up, 15 minutes bf that time, go to her house instead. whatever thing u find edible, eat and drink. repeat that for a week. than me later |
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