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Disciplinary: Many Reasons A Parent Would Beat A Child Back In The Days. by kalvoken(m): 9:36am On Jul 15, 2020 |
*Children of today don't even know that in our days you could be beaten for any of the following reasons:* 1. Crying after being beaten 2. Not crying after being beaten 3. Crying without being beaten 4. Standing where elders are seated 5. Sitting while elders are standing 6. Walking around aimlessly where elders are seated 7. Eating food prepared for visitors 8. Refusing to eat 9. Coming back home after sunset 10. Eating at the neighbour's home 11. Generally being too moody 12. Generally being too excited 13. Loosing a fight with your age mate(my mum would ask if you have eating for nothing) 14. Winning a fight with your age mate (she will still beat you for fighting) 15. Eating too slowly 16. Eating too quickly 17. Eating too much 18. Not finishing your food 19. Finishing your food and Scraping your plate 20. Eating and talking 21. Sleeping while the elders had already woken up 22. Looking at the visitors while they are eating 23. Stumbling and falling when walking 24. Looking at an elder eye ball to eye ball 25. When an elder talking to you and you blink 26. When an elder is talking to you and you stare and not blink 27. When you look at an elder through the corner of your eye 28. When your mates are playing street football and you join them 29. When your mates are playing and you don’t join them 30. When you don't wash your dish after eating 31. When you wash your dish improperly 32. When you almost break your dish 33. When you break your dish 34. When you bite your nails. 34.. When you don't bathe 35. When you bath too quickly 36. When you take too long to bathe 37. When you’re beaten in school for misbehaving 38. When a car almost knocks you down 39. When a car knocks you down and you don’t die! Some of these reasons for beating a child may appear far-fetched today but they sure did happen and they were the norm that shaped the adults of today. Kudos to African parents. We, the generation you almost killed with beating say .... THANK YOU ��� 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Disciplinary: Many Reasons A Parent Would Beat A Child Back In The Days. by Kingdemi212019: 9:39am On Jul 15, 2020 |
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Re: Disciplinary: Many Reasons A Parent Would Beat A Child Back In The Days. by budaatum: 9:52am On Jul 15, 2020 |
I must say, our parents were mentally ill, and hopefully, we their children have learnt from their illness! Please indicate which of the reasons listed you'd beat your child for. 1 Like |
Re: Disciplinary: Many Reasons A Parent Would Beat A Child Back In The Days. by kalvoken(m): 10:09am On Jul 15, 2020 |
budaatum: Well your opinion matters to you also. I hope you did watch the video clip where a nigerian boy destroyed his mother's kitchen, for whatever reasons he said the mum doesn't love him enough. I was just wondering, could anyone raised in Nigeria try such with his parents? So, in as much as some parents over do it, that doesn't mean it's totally wrong. |
Re: Disciplinary: Many Reasons A Parent Would Beat A Child Back In The Days. by budaatum: 10:19am On Jul 15, 2020 |
kalvoken:Being beaten for most of the things you listed above show bad parenting, and I hope you see it as so wrong that you never beat your child for any of them. I had to educate my own ma on the errors of her beating me, and she admitted the stress and pressure she was under at the time (five kids to feed, house, clothe and educate on 1970s ₦100 a month salary), stopped her thinking straight. It was like she was blaming me for us having to starve! |
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