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Re: I Need Help! Bet9ja Has Finished My Life. by obonujoker(m): 8:32pm On Jul 16, 2020
Kingofcasting
Queenofcasting grin

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Re: I Need Help! Bet9ja Has Finished My Life. by phemmyfour: 8:33pm On Jul 16, 2020
EngrMarve:
Gambling is addictive, if you can't control yourself then channel that energy to forex trading.

By the way there's difference between gambling and soccer trading.
Gambling is an act of foolishness and greed.
Aponle ni soccer trading....Gambling is gambling

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Re: I Need Help! Bet9ja Has Finished My Life. by joyandfaith: 8:33pm On Jul 16, 2020
Evidence1000:
My name is David. I'm a 24 year old young man. I'm in my final year in one of the universities in the south west.
I'm addicted to gambling. Like, I can't just help it.

The craze for this thing started sometime last year. It has eaten deep into me that it now dictates my mood. The only time I can be genuinely happy is when I win money from bet9ja virtual. If I should loose, it makes me very sad to the extent that I see myself as a useless person.

I've gone to the extent of using my school fees to play virtual and that of my course mate that trusted me so much. Though, I was able to pay my course mate's fees without her knowing the truth, I'm unable to pay mine till now. I always have this mentality that I will win.

Whenever money enters my hand like this, no matter how little, it is to head straight to Bet9ja shop or online. The urge is usually very strong. Sometimes, it seems like there's a force pushing me to do it.
Before this lock down, I accumulated a debt of over a hundred thousand naira in a Bet9ja shop in my school environment which I'm unable to pay till now.
I know the owner of the shop would be waiting to pick me up with police when I resume. I don't know what to do.

I need help badly. I've prayed to God severally but it's as if nothing is happening. I've even promised God not to play Bet9ja again but I keep on seeing myself still playing it.

Right now as I'm typing this, I just came from a Bet9ja shop where I lost money. Money that is not even my own. Sometimes, I feel like taking my life so that everything will just end but if I remember the pain it would cause my mother, I'll just hold back.

Please for the people that were once addicted to gambling, how did you stop it? Is there any remedy for it because I'm in need of it badly?

I can't sleep at night anymore because I'm always thinking of debts that I've accumulated which has run into over 300,000. All thanks to Bet9ja virtual.

Someone advised me to get a job that would keep me busy so that I won't have time to play virtual but there are no jobs. I don't mind doing any, even if it is a menial job till school resumes.

Please I need your advice. Feel free to bash me because I deserve more than that even.

Please I'd appreciate if you can move this to front page.

see a psychiatrist asap or clinical psychologist
Re: I Need Help! Bet9ja Has Finished My Life. by Kyrx(m): 8:33pm On Jul 16, 2020
IamDavid:

I guess you've never been addicted to anything before. Curse can't do anything o...

Ehenn ehennn It was just a random thought though...
Re: I Need Help! Bet9ja Has Finished My Life. by eleko1: 8:33pm On Jul 16, 2020
sad I remember/usually read a good Nairalander Ipobarecriminals usually warned pipu like dis op about evil of Betting But Dey insulted him instead.As will type,some don run go Bet9ja shop to stake 200 to win 2 million in His dream

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Re: I Need Help! Bet9ja Has Finished My Life. by AlphamaleTech1(m): 8:34pm On Jul 16, 2020
Na lie jhor, its yet to finish your life. U still have data to share your addiction.

grin

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Re: I Need Help! Bet9ja Has Finished My Life. by realestniggah: 8:34pm On Jul 16, 2020
Bornfool:


What of online ?

He should throw his phone across third mainland bridge while going to his village and buy Nokia touch light.

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Re: I Need Help! Bet9ja Has Finished My Life. by knockturnal(m): 8:35pm On Jul 16, 2020
IMASTEX:
Your help has come already, the moment you have realised that betting has finished your life. Try to keep reminding yourself of that, see how you begin to hate it.

Lies. My thread about how to stop smoking hit front page in 2018. I wanted to stop smoking then. If you think admission means overcoming addiction then you obviously don't know what the fc^k you are talking about. P.S. I am smoking while typing this.

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Re: I Need Help! Bet9ja Has Finished My Life. by haiti007(m): 8:35pm On Jul 16, 2020
Thank God that you are still in final year. I know of someone that opt out of school because he has lavished his school fee, accommodation fee and pocket money on virtual.

Till today, the guy never get him bearing at age 26

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Re: I Need Help! Bet9ja Has Finished My Life. by Yada01(m): 8:35pm On Jul 16, 2020
With God all things are possible. Keep praying and believing God to strengthen you

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Re: I Need Help! Bet9ja Has Finished My Life. by Yada01(m): 8:35pm On Jul 16, 2020
With God all things are possible. Keep praying and fasting and believing God to strengthen you

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Re: I Need Help! Bet9ja Has Finished My Life. by Menance: 8:35pm On Jul 16, 2020
EngrMarve:
Gambling is addictive, if you can't control yourself then channel that energy to forex trading.

By the way there's difference between gambling and soccer trading.
Gambling is an act of foolishness and greed.

Is Forex not also gambling?

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Re: I Need Help! Bet9ja Has Finished My Life. by bejeria101(m): 8:36pm On Jul 16, 2020
Your life. Your choice
Re: I Need Help! Bet9ja Has Finished My Life. by professore(m): 8:36pm On Jul 16, 2020
It is now a spiritual matter. Don't let anyone tell you otherwise, I know what I'm saying 100%. If you are serious about ending it, I have two options for you and you most take the one you choose seriously (if you do, you won't have to kill yourself).

1) Open your bible everyday, read one chapter minimum of two times a day, any book of the bible but read a whole chapter at least twice in a day. Then think upon the content many times before the day runs out, however long or short the thinking time may be.
2) Find a delieverance pastor who will cast out the evil spirit that is almost taking the best of you.

N.B You will need to take church activities serious, whether you choose option 1 or 2. Goodluck.

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Re: I Need Help! Bet9ja Has Finished My Life. by haiti007(m): 8:36pm On Jul 16, 2020
knockturnal:


Lies. My thread about how to stop smoking hit front page in 2018. I wanted to stop smoking then. If you think admission means overcoming addiction then you obviously don't know what the fc^k you are talking about. P.S. I am smoking while typing this.

Nawa oo
Jesus is the answer bro, take it to Him in prayers. He'll surely answer you

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Re: I Need Help! Bet9ja Has Finished My Life. by Mana1227: 8:37pm On Jul 16, 2020
My brother, it's a decision, I was once addicted to it but I took a decision that I won't do again, it's over a year now I haven't and I detest it alot now.

Simply take a decision and stand by it, also avoid people that gamble and the bet shop for now.

May God give you the Grace

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Re: I Need Help! Bet9ja Has Finished My Life. by Goodman247: 8:38pm On Jul 16, 2020
Read psalm 16, Pray to God to remove the demon of gambling from you,cast it out into the abyss.

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Re: I Need Help! Bet9ja Has Finished My Life. by pafo(m): 8:38pm On Jul 16, 2020
I just lost 24k now. It's all goid when its your money �

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Re: I Need Help! Bet9ja Has Finished My Life. by friday2011(m): 8:38pm On Jul 16, 2020
Those who keep loosing in bet9ja are the greedy ones...

How will you want to win 50m with N100?

E get 1 yeye boy for my area wey play 47m with N100, 35games, over 25 don enter, them give the stupid boy 2.1m cash out, he no gree, until the game spoil, the guy mood never dey ok till today... Na before lockdown ooo.

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Re: I Need Help! Bet9ja Has Finished My Life. by Crochet: 8:39pm On Jul 16, 2020
This is not ordinary the spirit of betnaija is now in your blood, the only way out is spiritual cleansing , I wish you understand

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Re: I Need Help! Bet9ja Has Finished My Life. by banhammy: 8:39pm On Jul 16, 2020
Confess to your parents. Your mother especially, she can help you with prayer.
Keep off from friends who gamble like you.

If you can support yourself with 21 days fasting and prayer.
May God help you

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Re: I Need Help! Bet9ja Has Finished My Life. by Birniwa(m): 8:39pm On Jul 16, 2020
I pray may no money no matter big or small ever enter your hand except that you'll use for eating. Only this way you can quit gambling 100% because you can only play the likes of Bet9ja with money.

Amen in Jesus name!

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Re: I Need Help! Bet9ja Has Finished My Life. by Mayng01(m): 8:39pm On Jul 16, 2020
Keep gambling til you gamble no more

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Re: I Need Help! Bet9ja Has Finished My Life. by joshrooy23(m): 8:40pm On Jul 16, 2020
I stopped my virtual addiction with this 3 words

(1) what is gone is gone, I can't get it back....just like a clock doesn't rewind for anyone

(2) I agreed to stop fighting to get back the money I have lost

(3) I looked at different people who are playing it and compared there condition with those who are not playing

...my friend stop thinking about the once you have lost and focus on a better tommorow

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Re: I Need Help! Bet9ja Has Finished My Life. by vivalavida(m): 8:40pm On Jul 16, 2020
Childofdoom come and mentor someone oo

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Re: I Need Help! Bet9ja Has Finished My Life. by Nobody: 8:40pm On Jul 16, 2020
The only reason you are still playing it is that you are trying to recover your debt. The more you try the more you go into more debt. You need to make some decisions
1) forgive yourself of all the debt you have incurred
2) Try and do something legitimate that will fetch you money
3) Negotiate with those you owe on how you will be paying them small by small. Show willingness to pay.
4) have the mindset that there is dignity in labour. Be contended with whatever you have. Develop yourself, invest into business start small.
5) Ask God to forgive you. Tell him to bless you and help you overcome this habit
6) decide you will never enter a bet shop not even to charge your phone or watch a match. Do this consistently for the next 3 months and see a transformed you.

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Re: I Need Help! Bet9ja Has Finished My Life. by Yankee101: 8:40pm On Jul 16, 2020
You want to finish your own life with your hands

U don't deserve any financial help from anyone

You need to help yourself first
Re: I Need Help! Bet9ja Has Finished My Life. by chukwuibuipob: 8:40pm On Jul 16, 2020
Evidence1000:
My name is David. I'm a 24 year old young man. I'm in my final year in one of the universities in the south west.
I'm addicted to gambling. Like, I can't just help it.

The craze for this thing started sometime last year. It has eaten deep into me that it now dictates my mood. The only time I can be genuinely happy is when I win money from bet9ja virtual. If I should loose, it makes me very sad to the extent that I see myself as a useless person.

I've gone to the extent of using my school fees to play virtual and that of my course mate that trusted me so much. Though, I was able to pay my course mate's fees without her knowing the truth, I'm unable to pay mine till now. I always have this mentality that I will win.

Whenever money enters my hand like this, no matter how little, it is to head straight to Bet9ja shop or online. The urge is usually very strong. Sometimes, it seems like there's a force pushing me to do it.
Before this lock down, I accumulated a debt of over a hundred thousand naira in a Bet9ja shop in my school environment which I'm unable to pay till now.
I know the owner of the shop would be waiting to pick me up with police when I resume. I don't know what to do.

I need help badly. I've prayed to God severally but it's as if nothing is happening. I've even promised God not to play Bet9ja again but I keep on seeing myself still playing it.

Right now as I'm typing this, I just came from a Bet9ja shop where I lost money. Money that is not even my own. Sometimes, I feel like taking my life so that everything will just end but if I remember the pain it would cause my mother, I'll just hold back.

Please for the people that were once addicted to gambling, how did you stop it? Is there any remedy for it because I'm in need of it badly?

I can't sleep at night anymore because I'm always thinking of debts that I've accumulated which has run into over 300,000. All thanks to Bet9ja virtual.

Someone advised me to get a job that would keep me busy so that I won't have time to play virtual but there are no jobs. I don't mind doing any, even if it is a menial job till school resumes.

Please I need your advice. Feel free to bash me because I deserve more than that even.

Please I'd appreciate if you can move this to front page.
I usually warned youth like u to stop playing Bet9ja but whosai! We'll,there is job for u b4 u resume even when u resume.Join car wash gang/psp street sweepers
Re: I Need Help! Bet9ja Has Finished My Life. by IamDavid(m): 8:41pm On Jul 16, 2020
Kyrx:


Ehenn ehennn It was just a random thought though...
Addiction is one crazy concept. Although what sets people free differs actually, so the Curse thing can work for some but definitely not for me. I have this belief that I'm so blessed beyond curses
Re: I Need Help! Bet9ja Has Finished My Life. by uuzba(m): 8:41pm On Jul 16, 2020
dimexy247:
Sorry
This is the BEST response to give a person as stupid as the OP.
Sorry! smiley
Re: I Need Help! Bet9ja Has Finished My Life. by Godwithus20: 8:41pm On Jul 16, 2020
I was addicted to gambling, porn and masturbation.

Forget those that tell you if you have strong will power.

addition is something you can't get out from on your own.
LIKE DIS COMMENT NOW.
AS I COMMAND THE SPIRIT OF GAMBLING OUT OF YOUR LIFE IN JESUS NAME. AMEN

Make yourself available for the Lord's use and you will be fine

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Re: I Need Help! Bet9ja Has Finished My Life. by Goldenkrezi: 8:42pm On Jul 16, 2020
Totoscatter212:
17 year old boy who won millions in bet9ja is now building house its indeed a game of luck

I can see u portray foolishness... Nonsense

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