Munzy14:

Not intentionally, To avoid honey leave me, or baby I am tired when oga comes to collect his Ifeoma in the night..

Some men just side step issues to avoid trouble...E no easy o.

We have men...We also have A man..

Okaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaay! Chai!

Na you dey help me understand these things from men angle o
I too dey forget the konji aspect for man life
Wetin I go do without you eh? Nwanne mmadu

coputa:
I have proof,i have done an indept research on it.

mariahAngel:


Okaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaay! Chai!

Na you dey help me understand these things from men angle o
I too dey forget the konji aspect for man life
Wetin I go do without you eh? Nwanne mmadu

LewsTherin:


And what is the size ofur research sample?

If your proof says all women fail, why do the women I know not fail?

Munzy14:

Lol...Sex is nothing to some ladies even though they enjoy pass, but to a man, damn! very very Importanter...

And its a special package when the lady is in a happy state...All Kamasutra styles will come board...

How you deh?

Them never plan to release the other sister? abii this one is doing well?..

mariahAngel:




I dey fine o
Nna eh... O g'eruchakwa ebe ogost

coputa:
you did'nt see it because you took it as a norm or you turned a blind eye and a deafen ear.

mariahAngel:

I've always wondered the same thing...
I consider such men as weak men who cannot put their foot down.
Thank you.

Georgekyrian:

Is this coming from a woman; exactly that same post got me insane last week about husband habouring 3 siblings at home letting his blood Brother to suffer just because he's a puppet of marriage, what nonesense. I love you @Klass99

Munzy14:

lol...na clipping o...

Romangalactic:

You dis girl sef,you have come again.

No worry, marry first then tell us how u will feel when your husband start telling u how to treat una househelp. Is it not this same nl dat one man bought cloth for his househelp because his wife was not changing her clothes and it caused series of accusations. You people were defending her then now you've changed tune.

See any man dat has sense dey avoid chooking mouth in female help relative matter. Only when the maltreatment has reached astronomical levels will a husband wade into it but on the normal, most men dont. We know wat it can cause.

You pipo like to imagine say life na just 1+1

mariahAngel:


Awon wo ni you people? Ilu wo niyen?
Wo, emi o defend kankan!

Romangalactic:

Yes u people cos you follow.

Emi o si n be se!
Oya hevidens da?

mariahAngel:

Make dem go look bush!

Romangalactic:

You dis girl sef,you have come again.

No worry, marry first then tell us how u will feel when your husband start telling u how to treat una househelp. Is it not this same nl dat one man bought cloth for his househelp because his wife was not changing her clothes and it caused series of accusations. You people were defending her then now you've changed tune.

See any man dat has sense dey avoid chooking mouth in female help relative matter. Only when the maltreatment has reached astronomical levels will a husband wade into it but on the normal, most men dont. We know wat it can cause.

You pipo like to imagine say life na just 1+1

stacyadams:

Any reasonable man go return d house help to her people ,,,,,let d wife employ her sister and maltreat her any how she likes...I hate non sense

pocohantas:
I think it is highly delusional for anyone to believe a human can treat every other being with same level of love. Biological children do not get same level of love and attention, let alone an outsider.

What I find worrying is the maltreatment. That one is a crime to God and man.

Take it or not, there are benefits that come with being blood or part of an inner circle.

That said, there is no difference between an evil doer and the person that watches an evil doer go unpunished. Heck! He punishes with erect penis every night, while the battered child struggles to find the least painful side to sleep on. The latter is a more pathetic human.

Munzy14:

Not really on nairaland, its a case of instances....you know partners are met in a cluster setting. And pointers are importanter..

Klass99:


Lol, I swear.

Maybe such women pay the bills so it makes it hard for the men to speak up.

Ayam just not understanding. One of such tales will pop up again very soon on NL. It is now a rampant tale and occurrence in homes, being narrated by men.

Klass99:


Lol I love you too.

I don't think that post infuriated you as much as it did me. I was like WTF is wrong with this man? Oya, rent small place for the guy, he said why would you be living outside my house when I have a big house? Big house and your brother has to sleep in the living room?

I have seen numerous threads here by men complaining of their wives bad attitude or ill treatment of wards/help in their care. One even said he is embarrassed to take visitors home because of the wife's chronic laziness and dirty state of their home. That particular wife had even injured the help they had.

I am like, you are supposed to be the head of the home, you supposedly pay the bills in that house and you allow someone to run amock like this? What have you done to put a stop to it? Which is the real problem here, some of you men stay silent and the evil plus foolishness continues.

I am all for supporting women in real life, in helpful ways, but I don't support stupid or foolish women.