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Re: 'Frustrated' Lastborn Tired Of Housework Writes Warning Letter To Family Members by madjune(m): 2:55am On Jul 25, 2020 |
Clearly, this lady is being abused and disrespected in her own fathers house because she's the last born. It's so wrong. More wrong that most last born fave this bullshit because of how siblings perceive them until they act up. I could relate because I'm one myself. I support her action fully. She should follow it up with actions if nobody heeds her admonitions to regain her respect and right as a member of the House Such pretty soul, you could see she cares about their dog. |
Re: 'Frustrated' Lastborn Tired Of Housework Writes Warning Letter To Family Members by jaxxy(m): 3:14am On Jul 25, 2020 |
Lovelyn451: Did she accept |
Re: 'Frustrated' Lastborn Tired Of Housework Writes Warning Letter To Family Members by Igie4kings(m): 3:21am On Jul 25, 2020 |
Well she just poured out her mind and I think the older siblings should listen to her rather than calling her demon with horn. Only those who knows the pain she feels when has to repeat a circle without no helping hand from others, apart from her dad helping with the dog, will understand what she is going through. As a child, I asked myself one day some questions regarding when I will stop being the one doing some work in the house. It's even a shame that the last born notices that her elder sister does not know how to cook. Too bad @ using many pots to cook one soup. NtiObaEneke: |
Re: 'Frustrated' Lastborn Tired Of Housework Writes Warning Letter To Family Members by reservd(m): 3:32am On Jul 25, 2020 |
I blame the parents, they are suppose to designate duties/chores to all the children so everyone has his/her role in the upkeep of the house. Lastborn no be slave 3 Likes |
Re: 'Frustrated' Lastborn Tired Of Housework Writes Warning Letter To Family Members by Ishilove: 3:36am On Jul 25, 2020 |
SailorUgo:Lmaaaao 2 Likes |
Re: 'Frustrated' Lastborn Tired Of Housework Writes Warning Letter To Family Members by zedegit: 3:44am On Jul 25, 2020 |
NtiObaEneke: Quite hilarious. The jobs are too much nah but the washing of plates only used by my parents and I got me. It was even stressed, no washing of personal pots used in cooking. Ishilove must not miss this. |
Re: 'Frustrated' Lastborn Tired Of Housework Writes Warning Letter To Family Members by zedegit: 3:52am On Jul 25, 2020 |
anayolity: You will equally get ready made flogging or scolding from the parents for it. |
Re: 'Frustrated' Lastborn Tired Of Housework Writes Warning Letter To Family Members by ibkonekt(m): 4:05am On Jul 25, 2020 |
This is deep...i love the fact the girl is standing up for herself |
Re: 'Frustrated' Lastborn Tired Of Housework Writes Warning Letter To Family Members by ibkonekt(m): 4:10am On Jul 25, 2020 |
Kizzygentle:With the last born's diligence and intelligence I suspect she will be the richest amongst all her siblings....hard work pays after all. She is not complaining without reason. She is making sense 1 Like |
Re: 'Frustrated' Lastborn Tired Of Housework Writes Warning Letter To Family Members by UDUJ(m): 4:23am On Jul 25, 2020 |
Evergreen4: At the boldfaced : Very true I was a last born too, but luckily I never did any house chores |
Re: 'Frustrated' Lastborn Tired Of Housework Writes Warning Letter To Family Members by middlebelter(m): 4:29am On Jul 25, 2020 |
I don't know while the mother of the house is not being blamed here. Responsibilities should be distributed to children as soon as they are old enough to handle it. Why will the mother or father in the absence of a mother,watch the elders in the house overburden the younger one to the extent of wall Ng her up to put off the generator. That is not good. People who want to watch the film to their satisfaction should be ready to put it off when they are through or you set a minimum time to put it off when everyone is awake. The truth is that if not properly handled it can lead to resentment among siblings that will be difficult to erase. Responsibilities should be distributed and rotated including cooking. Senior that want the younger one to wash plate must earn it through granting of favour to the junior and junior must respect the elders but not be burdened with chores. That's my verdict. I rise. 1 Like |
Re: 'Frustrated' Lastborn Tired Of Housework Writes Warning Letter To Family Members by Futuragetty: 4:54am On Jul 25, 2020 |
Ahh, I am the youngest of the children being raised by my parents. I understand how you feel. in my case, I'd get up very early to wash cars, that I was too small to drive. In fact, My immediate sister gave me over 8+ years gap. but then, doing those chores really helped me. Living on my own, I don't find cooking, cleaning and doing anything at all difficult. some of my brothers can't cook, whenever He has a fall out with the wife, he runs to my kitchen 6 Likes |
Re: 'Frustrated' Lastborn Tired Of Housework Writes Warning Letter To Family Members by franugo(m): 5:09am On Jul 25, 2020 |
obembet: Last born spotted... |
Re: 'Frustrated' Lastborn Tired Of Housework Writes Warning Letter To Family Members by PrimadonnaO(f): 5:37am On Jul 25, 2020 |
I'd have assumed the last born was a guy... |
Re: 'Frustrated' Lastborn Tired Of Housework Writes Warning Letter To Family Members by Geemario: 5:41am On Jul 25, 2020 |
Greetings! to all last born here, it's with a pitious mind; I write to solicit for a strong association, where our individual's rights would be harnessed through thorough discussions, as we may have good legal solicitors too in the association; having seen the trauma one of us is going through in his/her family house. I believe many good number of us have similar experiences to share; but have no platform to do so. The association shall be a well disciplined one, and shall take the members' matter with utmost concern. Whomever that can create a facebook account for it should kindly do so and circulate it to the public. Acceptance would be after series of questions and the association deem it legible of the applicant to be a member with evidence can the application be accepted. Also many benefits would be made available therein, such as: job opportunities and so on. All concerned, let's help ourselves and break that belittling attitudes, even in sharing of the collective family's inheritance, our brothers and sisters do show us. Thank you all. 3 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: 'Frustrated' Lastborn Tired Of Housework Writes Warning Letter To Family Members by neonly: 6:00am On Jul 25, 2020 |
post=92071039: Am last born of family of 5 and honesty I can relate with her story People shabi chance last born but belief me d day they have courage to speak out ehh war don start for d house bi dat |
Re: 'Frustrated' Lastborn Tired Of Housework Writes Warning Letter To Family Members by temmy2210: 6:12am On Jul 25, 2020 |
I can see that she is been loaded with house chores all in the name of baby of the house. Imagine her sister doesn't know how to cook than to load them with pepper. I feel your pain Aburo mi, but I will encourage you to do your best while you leave the rest. Experience gained today is a plus for you tomorrow. Keep up being hard-working, it pays... 1 Like |
Re: 'Frustrated' Lastborn Tired Of Housework Writes Warning Letter To Family Members by NSK4U(m): 6:19am On Jul 25, 2020 |
obembet: hahahaha lol yu r wicked! |
Re: 'Frustrated' Lastborn Tired Of Housework Writes Warning Letter To Family Members by coolcharm(m): 6:38am On Jul 25, 2020 |
omoadeleye: Lol, Ancient of days, is that you? no now, the that thing can be annoying. Even as grown ups, they still treat you as a messanger |
Re: 'Frustrated' Lastborn Tired Of Housework Writes Warning Letter To Family Members by Lovelyn451(f): 6:45am On Jul 25, 2020 |
jaxxy:my baby sister accepted o without complaint plus running errands sef ...but we spoil her with gifts o |
Re: 'Frustrated' Lastborn Tired Of Housework Writes Warning Letter To Family Members by Origin(f): 6:55am On Jul 25, 2020 |
That was exactly what i faced growing up. I would repeatedly ask if my parents were truly my parents as i grew up feeling unloved. (Unfortunately they were). How can just one person carry all the work load. Egbon 1 will still send you errands Egbon 2 same Egbon 3 and so on..... If you no go na serious family meeting wahala. Worse part i wasnt the last born even then but was just ripe for all the jobs. |
Re: 'Frustrated' Lastborn Tired Of Housework Writes Warning Letter To Family Members by frozen70(f): 7:05am On Jul 25, 2020 |
Very funny complain She is really tired of the house chores |
Re: 'Frustrated' Lastborn Tired Of Housework Writes Warning Letter To Family Members by Alezy(m): 7:07am On Jul 25, 2020 |
I had like to know if its bloggers that bring things here on NL, someone's content on twitter would jus be carried here like this without even asking. Na wa o |
Re: 'Frustrated' Lastborn Tired Of Housework Writes Warning Letter To Family Members by CapitalBank: 7:30am On Jul 25, 2020 |
Evergreen4: If u are not close to that position, you won't understand that guys frustration Lwkmd. This one na rebel last born ooo |
Re: 'Frustrated' Lastborn Tired Of Housework Writes Warning Letter To Family Members by Reference(m): 7:36am On Jul 25, 2020 |
C'mon tell daddy to get electrical aids for washing and cleaning to lighten the load. Smart changeovers for the power set are cheap thses days. Remember there are no prizes in heaven and on earth for house chores neither can you put them in your resume for any job other than in the entertainment industry. |
Re: 'Frustrated' Lastborn Tired Of Housework Writes Warning Letter To Family Members by Sacrosanct12(m): 7:40am On Jul 25, 2020 |
anayolity:fairly used slap hahaha,probably the slap from 2 weeks ago completed today |
Re: 'Frustrated' Lastborn Tired Of Housework Writes Warning Letter To Family Members by prciouschika(f): 7:47am On Jul 25, 2020 |
in my case am not the last born but the only girl, when we were growing up I did all the chores,cooked, wake up early every day prepare my younger one for school including my elder brother oo then take the younger one to school still come back to the house to get ready for mine. I did a whole lot in the house even the chores wey pass me infact my growing up wasn't rosy as my other age grade The last born should clam down though I feel his/her pain because I felt it but he/she will gain if not financially but otherwise Even though we're all still struggling but the respect this guy's give me money can't buy 2 Likes |
Re: 'Frustrated' Lastborn Tired Of Housework Writes Warning Letter To Family Members by LORDKing001: 7:51am On Jul 25, 2020 |
justli: Yes sir |
Re: 'Frustrated' Lastborn Tired Of Housework Writes Warning Letter To Family Members by armzyville(m): 8:02am On Jul 25, 2020 |
Dey there dey whine yourself. Kizzygentle: |
Re: 'Frustrated' Lastborn Tired Of Housework Writes Warning Letter To Family Members by valentinos22(m): 8:03am On Jul 25, 2020 |
Kizzygentle: Scam alert!!!! DAT NA future wey him never dey sure/guaranteed of! There is also the possibility of him being in the position of giving them money in the future! His elders may lack the kinda mindset to return such love! Oga forget it...when we get to the future we will cross it! |
Re: 'Frustrated' Lastborn Tired Of Housework Writes Warning Letter To Family Members by Ejenavi18(f): 8:09am On Jul 25, 2020 |
Paramount01:Yes, I am. She's 15 |
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