CAN A COUPLE WHO ONLY DO TRADITIONAL OR COURT WEDDING HAVE SEX?

A lady posted a question in one of our what's app group. And it's reads...

An intending couple did court wedding 2 months before the traditional and white wedding can they start having sex after visiting the registry n if they do have sex after registry is it considered a sin before God cos I followed a friend to have her court wedding and the registrar that joined them said they are legally married now so is it right to have after then while still awaiting the trad and white?
Thanks

My response to the above question.

There are three types of marriage in Nigeria or Africa.
Court wedding is wedding
Traditional wedding is wedding
Church wedding is wedding

The main wedding in the sight of God is Traditional wedding. If you have done traditional wedding then you are already husband and wife in the sight of God. When the both families had given their consent of the relationship and the dowry is paid that is wedding.

Do you know those who did church wedding and court wedding without the dowry paid are committing fornication?

The dowry must be paid as the both families gives their consent.

Church wedding is not in the bible. Why? God has already blessed every marriage in the book of Genesis. Every marriage with the consent of both parents are blessed. There is nothing like church blessing because EVERY MARRIAGE ARE ALREADY BEEN BLESSED BY GOD RIGHT IN THE BEGINNING.
Genesis 1:28 And God blessed them, and God said unto them, Be fruitful, and multiply, and replenish the earth, and subdue it: and have dominion over the fish of the sea, and over the fowl of the air, and over every living thing that moveth upon the earth. This is the blessing of marriage.

Church wedding was introduced to us by the British. Church wedding is only church blessing but the truth is NO MINISTER OF GOD CAN BLESS ANY MARRIAGE, BECAUSE MARRIAGE IS ALREADY BLESSED BY GOD IN THE GENESIS.

God blessed them and say be fruitful and fill the earth.
You can still do church wedding to entertain your friends if you wish. But if you did not do church wedding then your marriage is not cursed. Every marriage of every one here on earth has been blessed by God in the beginning.

Please do not get me wrong. I DID NOT SAY CHURCH WEDDING IS NOT GOOD. I did mine years ago. But my point is if you did not do it you are not commit any sin. I told you above that GOD HAS ALREADY BLESSED EVERY MARRIAGE IN THE BEGINNING. That is why unbelievers like Muslims and others get marriage and have children. When God blessed marriage in the beginning, He says they will be fruitful with children. If you are married, then children is one of the blessing of marriage.

Lastly, the marriage that God recognised is the ONE YOU PAID THE DOWRY OR THE ONE BOTH FAMILY GAVE THEIR CONSENT. Hope you understand my point, both families must give their consent to the union. Jesus never attend marriage in any synagogue and the apostles did not conduct and marriage in their gathering or synagogue. Church wedding is not in the bible, it was brought to us by the white and the way we carry the expenses on our head nowadays the whites are doing 5minutes wedding with less than $100 but in Africa it's now a burden. It's our stupidity that brought it to our sense.

I am not condemning church wedding, PLEASE DO IT MODERATELY.

Thanks

Good response

Can they just f**k already and leave us with konji alone??

No, they can..

What other thing do you want to do to be qualified as man and wife? Traditional marriage as you all call it is the real deal. That is where you pay her bride price. All the white wash things that churches do is only to present your selves before the church telling them you are now married as their member. Nigerians are just too confused with religion.

Court wedding is marriage by law
Traditional wedding is marriage by culture which all families are involved and consented to so why not make love to your partner
Church wedding is borrowed culture from the west brought in through missionaries that introduced Christianity to us.
To me church wedding is borrowed culture, if I want my marriage blessed by a pastor or priest, I will simply fix a date to visit him to bless my union not one Saturday waste of time and money but my wife no agree

Iru radarada ibeere wo leleyi ni tori Oloun

Which kind nonsense question is this for God sake

Traditional marriage is as good as any marriage in any church anywhere!

what are they waiting for? They are good to go

our fore fathers were happy with jus those ones..

Better start having safe sex on time to confirm if all the critical parts are functioning as they should. Couples getting tied for life only to realize that lover boy hasn't got the fire power to deliver the juicy stuff [nigga's be shooting blanks hoping to score a lucky shot], or Juliet's chamber can't bake the dough well enough to produce an heir to the throne..damn, stuff like this breaks my heart

I stopped reading when I saw "unbelievers like muslims". I'm not even muslim but that is a dumb thing to say.

Once the traditional marriage is done, they are free to lamba