there is this lady am dating for 1yr now,we love each other but she is to desperate about marriage,so we plan for our engagement on 10 oct,but due to this covid19 pademic,am facing some finacial problems.so i tell her we should leave the engagement till next year by GOD grace but she refuse.she even tell me to forget about her if the engagement will not hold this octocber.am totally confuse because i love her.pls friends should i continue or not?

hatiri:
there is this lady am dating for 1yr now,we love each other but she is to desperate about marriage,so we plan for our engagement on 10 oct,but due to this covid19 pademic,am facing some finacial problems.so i tell her we should leave the engagement till next year by GOD grace but she refuse.she even tell me to forget about her if the engagement will not hold this octocber.am totally confuse because i love her.pls friends should i continue or not?

No problem just tell her to foot the bill that you do reimburse her later. Shebi she want to engage you.

she is from a poor background,she can not afford the bill

hatiri:
she is from a poor background,she can not afford the bill

And she's desperate?

yes

hatiri:
there is this lady am dating for 1yr now,we love each other but she is to desperate about marriage,so we plan for our engagement on 10 oct,but due to this covid19 pademic,am facing some finacial problems.so i tell her we should leave the engagement till next year by GOD grace but she refuse.she even tell me to forget about her if the engagement will not hold this octocber.am totally confuse because i love her.pls friends should i continue or not?

please run for your lives. Any woman wey dey desperate for marriage dey always change to witch after marriage, only she knows what's pursuing her. Go and find another cool and innocent woman who loves you and can wait for your time, marriage no be race. If you marry that girl you go regret am.

She then has to choose whom she loves, you or marriage.

flyingpig:
please run for your lives. Any woman wey dey desperate for marriage dey always change to witch after marriage, only she knows what's pursuing her. Go and find another cool and innocent woman who loves you and can wait for your time, marriage no be race. If you marry that girl you go regret am.

tanks for the advice

hatiri:
yes

why is she desperate, wats her age? What work is she doing?

Nephilim:
why is she desperate, wats her age? What work is she doing?

she finish her degree programe age 25

hatiri:
she finish her degree programe age 25

my question is, is she 25 now??

Nephilim:
my question is, is she 25 now??

yes

hatiri:
yes

oh OK. She might just be anxious, but don't push yourself if you are not yet ready and if things haven't yet settle well, just keep promising her.

She might be anxious probably she don too brag. But she threatening u is out of it. If u are not bouyant now, and really want to do it. Do it based on Ur pocket. Even if na 5k u use, na engagement no be wedding. But if u don't want to, pls don't to it because she's forcing u.