To be successful with this you must be bold, confident and smart and also sensitive to open opportunities to act. If you do not act quickly and smartly some one else would take your place and you might just be in for it. The following are simple tips that will help you to turn a stranger to a companion in seconds.
Ask some kind of OPEN ENDED approach question (it will normally begin with the word 'what').
1.
Have at least one other OPEN ENDED follow up question, preferably more than one, to defend
you against stalling.
2.
By the time you've reached this stage. Providing your questions were interesting enough, you are
"in conversation"
3.
Before point 1) above, you are a stranger & the woman is wary of you. At
point 2) she's still wary, but talking. By the time you've hit point 3) - and it
doesn't matter if it's one woman or a group - she/they have more or less
accepted you and seem to drop their barriers a lot. All in a couple of
minutes.
To continue. If the girl is a talker, paraphrase her and ask intelligent
questions. Then ask some cheeky questions, maybe neg hit & get some of
your own stuff in. If she's a listener, you'd better have something ready to
talk about [or you're gonna CRASH and BURN] - a tale or two about your
interesting and humorous exploits (laced with SS of course) that moves
gently from being innocent into being more and more risqué. Throw in negs
if you need."