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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by HARDESTNIGGAINT(m): 2:28pm On Nov 10, 2022 |
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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Martinez39s(m): 2:38pm On Nov 10, 2022 |
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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Emotionss: 3:14pm On Nov 10, 2022 |
[color=#006600][/color] LutherSanchez: I have come to realize it is mostly men that are miserable in their marriage that are quick to defend marriage and demonize any man that try to speak against the injustices men face in marriage and society.... Most married men of this age lack self worth. They have been so pussifyed in to believing that the emotional terrorism and mental demoralization being experienced in their individual marriage is a necessity for a peaceful home... Society and women have successfully used the term "REAL MAN" or "MATURE AND RESPONSIBLE MAN" to manipulate,conditioned and pussifyed men both married and single men into submission and slavery. HUMAN MAN is the only creature in existence today that will gladly use his hard earned resources to imprison himself in the name of marriage and also employ/marry his Tormentor just to prove to society that he is now mature and responsible... If men start Analysing marriage the same way we logically analyzed our everyday life, majority of Men alive today will run away from marriage.... 35 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by dontai(m): 3:32pm On Nov 10, 2022 |
Emotionss:or the way we analyzed football. 8 Likes |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Emotionss: 3:55pm On Nov 10, 2022 |
[color=#006600][/color] Tonnyray: 1) Women are against men hangouts because it brings out the boys in them. BUT THE SAME women have no problem hanging out with their Female friends even though it brings out the whoring who'res in them. Men hangouts are immature. But girls night out, girls trip and girls me time are perfectly ok. Magnificent!!!!! 2) We men are soo useless, carelessly incompetent in taking care of ourselves (even though we have been successfully doing so many many years before getting married ) that it now require our wife's to now be the ones to TELL us how, where , when, what and who to play with BECAUSE JUST LIKE CHILDREN, Paraventured we get hurt they will be the ones taking care of our childishly useless and incompetent asss... It is ok for me to climb the roof of a 30 story building all in the name of being a provider for my family BUT it is too risky and childish to hangout or play football with my friends. It's ok to drive a truck from kano to port Harcourt Even with the security situation of the country as long as madam is happy and satisfied with the money involved with such risk. But somehow it's more risky to play soccer with my friends on a Saturday or Sunday !! Because money is not involve. 3) So a man hanging out with his friends ones a week for 2hrs will deprive him the opportunity to bound with his children ? Wow!!!! what an excuse. That means truck drivers, rig workers , military men and other interstate workers are finished. They certainly can't remember the name of their children talk more of bonding with them whenever they are opportuned to return home. 62 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Emotionss: 3:58pm On Nov 10, 2022 |
[color=#006600][/color] dontai: Perfectly put. 2 Likes |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by HARDESTNIGGAINT(m): 4:16pm On Nov 10, 2022 |
Martinez39s: FOR REAL BRO FATHERLY INFLUENCE IS SO UNDERATED 5 Likes |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Tonnyray: 4:52pm On Nov 10, 2022 |
Emotionss:Pure puerile emotionalism. I expected better mate. If you are versed in the Nigerian sociocultural context most single girls often lament that their married female friends and colleagues immediately shut them out of their social life. With women there is that clear-cut social distinction between the 2. If you married a woman that's still partying and hanging out with girls then guess whose fault it is. Definitely not mine ![]() Practically every guy either played or currently plays football to some degree so I naturally homed in on that. It was what the discussion arose from. I deal with the norm. For you to start bringing up oil rig workers, long distance truck drivers, 30 storey-building cleaners is mere straw manning mate. You can definitely do better than that. There are jobs that are risky we all know that. There are jobs that take men away from home, we all know that too. Those in those jobs know what they're getting into. Responsible men make the necessary adaptations to arrive at the best outcomes. Permit me to say it still does not guarantee things will not suffer on the Homefront especially as regards bonding with the kids. It is why slayqueens (who suck at keeping the homefront) are highly vilified everywhere as unsuitable for marriage. So much for perceptions, let us argue with facts and data. Bring up research findings that prove your continuous assertion that single men are happier, healthier, more fulfilled, live longer, less likely to develop HBP, stroke etc. than their married counterparts This is the real crux of the matter. Let us argue with verifiable research findings. I'm ready when you are. 5 Likes |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Dabronze(m): 5:38pm On Nov 10, 2022 |
Nobody is behind a man that is NOT successful until he is successful. 24 Likes 2 Shares
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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Emotionss: 6:07pm On Nov 10, 2022 |
The same group of men that will broke shame you, demonize you for defending your rights as a man or for questioning the societal standards between a man and a woman in a relationship/marriage in this age and time are probably the same set of men that will mock and laugh at any man/male child that is a victim of Raped or sexual harassment from women.... The same society that expects you to be a provider and protector, is the same society that will criticize and demonize you for expecting some level of respect and submission from the same woman you are expected to love, protect and provide for.... It is considered childish and irresponsible for a married man to still keep in touch or even hangout with his friends or relatives But it is absolutely normal and acceptable for a Woman/wife to still keep in touch, hangout and even travel out with her own friends regardless. And it will be considered oppression, misogynist or toxic if the man asked her to stop hanging out with her friends just as he did.... You are a Real Responsible Man if your wife/woman looks healthier and more sophisticated than you. BUT it is considered an abomination, another version of domestic violence if you the husband somehow look more healthy than your wife. Regardless how you looked before getting married. And guess what It is men like you and me that are the society. We are the ones oppressing ourselves. It is men like me and you that are creating and enabling this social iniquity and transgression against their fellow men. Me, I refuse to be a mental and emotional slave to anyone talk less of a woman. I refuse to live a depressed and miserable life all in the name of being mature and responsible. My life matters. My happiness matters. My heart and health matters. My mental and emotional health also matters. As I always tell all the women in my life I will be respectful to you (if you deserve it). I will be compassionate and understanding but I will not compromise my authority as a man neither will I displease myself to please you. My peace of mind is non negotiable take it or leave it..... 33 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Trex4(m): 6:18pm On Nov 10, 2022 |
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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Trex4(m): 6:20pm On Nov 10, 2022 |
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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Trex4(m): 6:24pm On Nov 10, 2022 |
Emotionss:Don't waste your strength bro. That guy is another troll. Ignore. 20 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by MisterRuk(m): 6:48pm On Nov 10, 2022 |
What I would say could be cringeworthy to many, but let me talk: I've come to believe that marriages are important in the society. In fact marriages could even be the oldest form of human association ever known. Almost every human civilization, country, religion, and culture despite their differences and levels of development recognise the institution of the union between a man and a woman/women. They say families are the foundations of society but marriages are the root. Couples produce offsprings who become members of the society. Marriage has brought about advancement in human civilization because without it our ancestors would have been risking the possibilities of incest. Imagine two siblings, a brother and a sister in a society where there is no marriage. They possibly don't know their father as it's mostly the mother who will bear the burden of child raising. The siblings become of age and their sexual capabilities begin to reveal, the male who may not be motivated to go outside and find a mate could use his sister to satisfy his sexual urge. Without a marriage which eventually bring forth children, it would be difficult for the older generation to pass on useful knowledge and skills to coming generation. If a man could easily satisfy his sexual need on any female he finds it becomes hard for him to build because he has nothing to loose and no children to father. Civilization would remain stagnant that way. Even society itself is a form of union between two opposite forces: the government and the people. So if we as men begin to condemn marriage as a trap, we might laying foundations for a society built on sexual promiscuity and eventually chaos. 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by MJBOLT: 7:09pm On Nov 10, 2022 |
Society descended into sexual promiscuity and chaos the moment feminism was born. Society descended into sexual promiscuity and chaos the moment men were demonized and women made to look like angels. Men choosing not to get married is due to the fact that modern day marriage is of no benefit,the number of happily married men today is extremely low compared to their counterparts decades ago. MisterRuk: 25 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by MJBOLT: 7:12pm On Nov 10, 2022 |
A single mother out here is angry with me because I said I can never take care of another man's child ![]() 35 Likes 1 Share
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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Martinez39s(m): 7:21pm On Nov 10, 2022 |
MJBOLT:Make she dey vex dey go. Her vex, her high BP. ![]() 22 Likes 2 Shares
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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by JasperVII(m): 8:09pm On Nov 10, 2022 |
MJBOLT:Man it's been a while. I have missed this thread. 10 Likes
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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by KennethIbe59(m): 8:12pm On Nov 10, 2022 |
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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Tonnyray: 8:27pm On Nov 10, 2022 |
Tonnyray: Trex4:Once you call out their old grandma’s fables they suddenly realize you’re a troll that should be ignored. Bring out your data biko. Jokers. ![]() 5 Likes
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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by MisterRuk(m): 8:28pm On Nov 10, 2022 |
MJBOLT:1. Not actually feminism on it's own. Modern feminism was an instrument for sexual revolution to happen, which I believe led to a lot of sexual debauchery the modern world experiences. Women are the custodians of sex and men are the buyers of sex. So don't only blame women or feminism alone for the rise of sexual promiscuity. Is it not men that solicit prostitutes, go to strip clubs, watch porn, subscribe to Onlyfans, become sugar daddies? Aren't magazines like Playboy and Penthouse not targeted at men? So as there a lots of women who are willing to prostitute themselves there are much more men willing to pay for it. 2. The male and female nature both have their positive and negative sides but society today have only examined the positives and negatives of the masculine nature, but have neglected the negative sides of the female or tend not to talk about it. I feel the reason is because women are seen as the only "victims" according modern day feminism. And to garner public sympathy and support to the victim, only their positive side is shown while their negative tendencies are pushed to the corner. This strategy is also practiced by radical anti-racism movements like BLM whereby the blacks are seen as innocent victims to the white oppressors while crimes committed by blacks against black people and other races are ignored. This is not enough excuse for men to start forming a victim mentality. 3. A man choosing not to get married should be influenced by his own belief and not a biased red pilled narrative. Life is suffering, the single man and the married man both have different forms of suffering. Choose your own suffering. Marriage is not guaranteed to give you happiness, so you must carry your cross on whatever path you take. As there are unhappy men in marriage, there are equally unhappy women in marriage. Just be very careful when choosing a spouse. 8 Likes |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Tonnyray: 8:36pm On Nov 10, 2022 |
MisterRuk:You have sense. Preach bro. 7 Likes |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by MJBOLT: 9:20pm On Nov 10, 2022 |
Prior to feminism, sexual promiscuity wasn't that common because sex was a private affair, prostitutes did their affairs in private and prostitution was not as common as it is now then feminism came along and told women "their body,their choice",today we have women who are proud to be prostitutes. Feminism told women that sleeping around wasn't prostitution but "sexual revolution",how many feminists have we seen condemned prostitution?? ![]() It's these same feminists that say being a housewife is slavery but being an onlyfans model is being strong and independent,in societies where feminism has little or no effect,the level of sexual promiscuity is extremely low. Yes, every man must choose his suffering and men choosing not to get married is not a biased redpill thing.There are dozens of men today who haven't heard of the redpill but have chosen to stay unmarried,it's basic common sense now. Men have simply gotten wiser and realized marriage is a waste one's time and resources with little or no benefits. MisterRuk: 21 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Zabiboy: 9:35pm On Nov 10, 2022 |
Tonnyray:"Research findings" done by who? Those in the matrix?, those trying so hard to keep others in the matrix? Those who don't want men to truly be free? I'm quoting you because i know you always talk about being "realistic". Same "Researchers" said a popular covid vaccine was effective with no side effects only to come out less than 2 years later to discover that it doesn't even get to the lungs. Researchers could be wrong too. The best form of research for those of us "Unplugged" is personal observation and from my own personal observation, In this age of social media, the "growing up/maturity" and "marrying the right spouse ![]() i'm not active enough to make this a debate, just had to quickly put this out.. 12 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Boomboost(m): 9:39pm On Nov 10, 2022 |
Tonnyray: Shut Up! 14 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Zabiboy: 9:40pm On Nov 10, 2022 |
Emotionss:Like i said during the last debate, MEN, ( even some on this thread, judging by the last debate) know they are being used and are even happy with it (including all the side effects like low life expectancy e.t.c) provided you give them that illusion of control ( submission) and sex. 20 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Tonnyray: 10:00pm On Nov 10, 2022 |
Zabiboy:And you haven't used research findings from this same "matrix" to back your assertions up in this same thread. I guess it's about cherrypicking then. When it suits your argument it's valid. When it doesn't it's from the matrix. Lol Keep humoring me. ![]() 3 Likes |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by ettelinhno: 10:38pm On Nov 10, 2022 |
u guys talked about not being judgemental when dealing with women ....well i want to say it is really working like magic, now there is this pastor daughter in my workplace she now open most deep secret to me and sometimes she also sounds kind of naughty to me modified:i also applied the strategy of building sexual tension in the first place. it's really working. kudos to u guys 28 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Hrhdujdb: 2:43am On Nov 11, 2022 |
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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Hrhdujdb: 3:11am On Nov 11, 2022 |
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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by wagzy37: 5:21am On Nov 11, 2022 |
Itzlinda: While that is true. It isn’t completely true. Some men pay for sex because they are simps. Some others pay not for the sex, but because of after the sex. I have red pillers as friends with great game and a number of them pay for sex because they don’t want the attachment after sex. Not necessarily for the sex itself. As a busy man sometimes, If after spitting your game and getting sex, you just want the girl to leave immediately. Most times, the girl will feel insulted. Most wealthy men pay for sex. Sometimes, It’s not simping. It’s just the convenience. 10 Likes |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by ubunja(m): 7:01am On Nov 11, 2022 |
For the guys who have been following the John Wick films, the trailer for John Wick 4 is out. The movie itself is coming in 2023. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qEVUtrk8_B4 11 Likes 2 Shares
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