CaveAdullam:
Zabiboy hope you are fine.

Ichidodo, how are you?

I know Ubunja and Martinez39s are in for something huge.

These monikers just keep ringing in my head, so a little shout.

And for the OGs present and absent still keeping the thread alive...kudos. You guys are good.

Pukkalolo, the big chief.

Well done, peeps.

HARDDON:


The fact remains that all the affairs of life operate on set rules(laws).

Disobey the law of electrical energy and get burned, gloss over the law of floatation and drown.

The world of women is no exception

One.

chenny360:
Good evening Realest bosses in the house .... How u Na dey today.. even thou Naija hard , in happy this thread is increasing. More awareness to the guys simping after women..

So far so good I have learnt practically that simping isn't loving.. you can only love woman but don't simp for woman.

The moment you start overloving woman, she will think you can't do without her then playing with your emotions...

As a married man that I am., I'm telling you my gees, know the difference between loving woman and simping for woman. It will help you a lot..

Now let me brief you what happened to me recently..


Ever since I finished my services, since February this year ,I haven't bleeped 2 woman. Only my woman. Not because I lack woman but I don't just feel theres need to stress myself too many body count already before determine to stay low-key..

So I decided to get along with this young lady a fashion designer just to test my game again.. After collecting her contacts we started calling twice a daily. She lives few kilometres from my house.

I called this lady that I'm likely to pass through her store this morning and I'll like to say hi.. Gbam.. immediately this girl said no problem that if I'm coming I should buy something along .. them my countenance changed immediately. Now this time I said what exactly do you want me to buy , she said anything I want..


I forced her to say what she want me to get for her . And she said anything she can eat..
Wow I said so you're hungry earlier this morning to have request me to get you something on my way.. I lambast her and educate her that men like me don't want that type of lady .. and I end the call . She keep flashings until she called me , and was like

Why did I end up the call that she don't really mean it and she was only joking . So I told her it's first time of trying to see her and she's requesting me to buy stuff on my way.. that' the request to me is disgusting and I don't date hungry lady or make friendship with hungry lady..
Immediately she apologized and begged me she will never repeat it again that o she's so sorry and I should forgive her sincerely.


I said no wahala and we're cool now...
Now she want us to meet on Sunday and knack , but I already lose interest In her ...

Omooo if Na before I will lose guard and try to impress her at least to gain her love by buying her suya, Asun, jollof and fish. ... But this thread have done a lot of good to my life in many ways I can't explain...

Those ladies will look for who to drain , by sampling foolish men and attack them with Billings in the name of love..


Guys be wise ooo learn ooo please don't perish.... Please.

djon78:



Lol progressives indeed

Can they compare to themselves to these Arabs?

Who born them

Dem get class?

Are they more sophisticated than these Arabs?

For where

I dey talk of people that control very good money

But they cage there women

If you travel through Dubai or Doha airport
You go see them tire

There husband's and children well dressed
While the women are on black head to toe
(Although I heard under those black clothes, these women wear designers inside from Victoria secret, Versace, Fendi)


Used to feel there Men were mean
But from understanding I have now
The Arabs are very right

Women need strict control
Irrespective of liberation being championed by the West nowadays

Rukevwe999:

You don't know the whole gist of the Arab world. One of the reasons why hijab was worn was to protect women from Hot men. In the sense, a woman was like a covered object that if a man wanted to see her full beauty, he had to commit to her (marriage).
Arab men are very Hot and sexually promiscuous, that's why you will find one of the highest concentration of ashewos in places like Dubai and Qatar.
Even the female Arabs of high class don't wear hijabs or those coverings except for religious purposes or to put up a public appearance. If the pressure is too much they catch cruise in the west where they have more freedom. Hijab itself has become a political statement.
So these restrictions on women are not applicable on certain grounds. We want a society where women choose to be modest and chaste, not out of forced submission but moral freewill

djon78:



Lol even Saudi Arabia the motherland of Islam
Hijab and controlling of there women is even the worst

Even among the wealthy royals of Saudi family
It's the same

True when they visit the West
They try to relax but still that conservative lifestyle is already ingrained in them

Had deep knowledge about Arabs from my classmates 2 of them one was a Canadian Arab grew up in Saudi Arabia, and another Indian Muslim Hussain, lived in Saudi Arabia all his Life.

I and them were very close in college, we were in same class, same course. We did crazy things lol were like brothers. They call me bro till today

They personally told me about Life in Saudi Arabia Even there personal family ones.

Was from them I knew that females in the family are to only relate with there fathers and brothers.
That even a close friend can't see there mother's or sisters

Very controlling environment
I was like wow
That's where I learnt the Arabs having harem of females

So it's there culture
They don't tolerate female liberation. They believe a woman is to be controlled
Northern Nigeria has same outlook on women

I used to see it as mean
But from what I have seen with our women folk
A woman deserves some kind of control
Those that are left to total liberation turns into something else.

That's why even in my personal family
My parents raised my 5 sisters with strict upbringing, learning to be decent right from primary school
Now they are getting the benefit

2 are doctors, one a consultant doctor. All married and responsible in there homes

There husband's don't play with my family because they were raised well. Even there kids behave well

Unlike some of my sister's friends there set girls some still unmarried till today. There was one I knew, while in the uni, she smokes, drinks, was a happening babe although very intelligent. Today she never marry while her mates children, some don enter secondary School


So having a form of control on a woman is not bad.

That's how I am raising my daughter's. They must learn decency and how to be a Lady even now they are small
Raised very responsibly not in a mean way but guiding them in love and dedication

djon78:



Lol even Saudi Arabia the motherland of Islam
Hijab and controlling of there women is even the worst

Even among the wealthy royals of Saudi family
It's the same

True when they visit the West
They try to relax but still that conservative lifestyle is already ingrained in them

Had deep knowledge about Arabs from my classmates 2 of them one was a Canadian Arab grew up in Saudi Arabia, and another Indian Muslim Hussain, lived in Saudi Arabia all his Life.

I and them were very close in college, we were in same class, same course. We did crazy things lol were like brothers. They call me bro till today

They personally told me about Life in Saudi Arabia Even there personal family ones.

Was from them I knew that females in the family are to only relate with there fathers and brothers.
That even a close friend can't see there mother's or sisters

Very controlling environment
I was like wow
That's where I learnt the Arabs having harem of females

So it's there culture
They don't tolerate female liberation. They believe a woman is to be controlled
Northern Nigeria has same outlook on women

I used to see it as mean
But from what I have seen with our women folk
A woman deserves some kind of control
Those that are left to total liberation turns into something else.

That's why even in my personal family
My parents raised my 5 sisters with strict upbringing, learning to be decent right from primary school
Now they are getting the benefit

2 are doctors, one a consultant doctor. All married and responsible in there homes

There husband's don't play with my family because they were raised well. Even there kids behave well

Unlike some of my sister's friends there set girls some still unmarried till today. There was one I knew, while in the uni, she smokes, drinks, was a happening babe although very intelligent. Today she never marry while her mates children, some don enter secondary School


So having a form of control on a woman is not bad.

That's how I am raising my daughter's. They must learn decency and how to be a Lady even now they are small
Raised very responsibly not in a mean way but guiding them in love and dedication

Fiscus105:




Meanwhile, not only FEMALES that need to be controlled but MALE CHILDREN as well,since both constitute a society, parents should endeavour to monitor and control wards from childhood to a little above teenager, from that age, they can leave with discipline instilled in them by their parents for life.



How would you feel if ur sisters who were trained well ended up with untrained guys? Or u think is not possible?

chenny360:
Good evening Realest bosses in the house .... How u Na dey today.. even thou Naija hard , in happy this thread is increasing. More awareness to the guys simping after women..

So far so good I have learnt practically that simping isn't loving.. you can only love woman but don't simp for woman.

The moment you start overloving woman, she will think you can't do without her then playing with your emotions...

As a married man that I am., I'm telling you my gees, know the difference between loving woman and simping for woman. It will help you a lot..

Now let me brief you what happened to me recently..


Ever since I finished my services, since February this year ,I haven't bleeped 2 woman. Only my woman. Not because I lack woman but I don't just feel theres need to stress myself too many body count already before determine to stay low-key..

So I decided to get along with this young lady a fashion designer just to test my game again.. After collecting her contacts we started calling twice a daily. She lives few kilometres from my house.

I called this lady that I'm likely to pass through her store this morning and I'll like to say hi.. Gbam.. immediately this girl said no problem that if I'm coming I should buy something along .. them my countenance changed immediately. Now this time I said what exactly do you want me to buy , she said anything I want..


I forced her to say what she want me to get for her . And she said anything she can eat..
Wow I said so you're hungry earlier this morning to have request me to get you something on my way.. I lambast her and educate her that men like me don't want that type of lady .. and I end the call . She keep flashings until she called me , and was like

Why did I end up the call that she don't really mean it and she was only joking . So I told her it's first time of trying to see her and she's requesting me to buy stuff on my way.. that' the request to me is disgusting and I don't date hungry lady or make friendship with hungry lady..
Immediately she apologized and begged me she will never repeat it again that o she's so sorry and I should forgive her sincerely.


I said no wahala and we're cool now...
Now she want us to meet on Sunday and knack , but I already lose interest In her ...

Omooo if Na before I will lose guard and try to impress her at least to gain her love by buying her suya, Asun, jollof and fish. ... But this thread have done a lot of good to my life in many ways I can't explain...

Those ladies will look for who to drain , by sampling foolish men and attack them with Billings in the name of love..


Guys be wise ooo learn ooo please don't perish.... Please.

luminouz:


Mah Nigga!!!

It's the your sister's unmarried friend part wey interest me. Since she is not married, shey you go gimme her contact make I marry her?

*Evil grin*

Fiscus105:




Meanwhile, not only FEMALES that need to be controlled but MALE CHILDREN as well,since both constitute a society, parents should endeavour to monitor and control wards from childhood to a little above teenager, from that age, they can leave with discipline instilled in them by their parents for life.



How would you feel if ur sisters who were trained well, ended up with untrained guys? Or u think is not possible?

narite:

That lady might have not eaten anything all day and probably there is no hope that something will come at the end of the day. If it turns out that this is the precarious situation she is in, You have no idea the blessings you might have thrown away by not buying her just one Donut.

There is nothing wrong in stretching out a hand to someone you are just seeing for the first time; what or who they are, the things you have heard about them shouldn’t not really matter to you. Good is good and it should be rendered unconditionally. This is the grandeur purpose of everything in existence. A Cup will allow you to drink water with it, whether you are bad or good does not really matter to that cup.

Lastly, simping is not about being brutal to ladies right from day one. Yes! You might need to become brutal but it is only when you are being taken for granted. This is the moment you stop and walk away from her.

A man can be simping to his fellow man, being taken for granted by his friends, not appreciating or seeing any worth in him and taking the things he does for them as nothing. This is where you stop and move on. Move on to those who really values and appreciate the things you do for them and not actually becoming a just brutal person.

One day, those that you left behind will begin to see your true value but they have blown their chance. They probably will want to move back into your life but do not look back. Only then will they truly learn something significant from that experience and you would have helped them grow.

narite:

That lady might have not eaten anything all day and probably there is no hope that something will come at the end of the day. If it turns out that this is the precarious situation she is in, You have no idea the blessings you might have thrown away by not buying her just one Donut.

There is nothing wrong in stretching out a hand to someone you are just seeing for the first time; what or who they are, the things you have heard about them shouldn’t not really matter to you. Good is good and it should be rendered unconditionally. This is the grandeur purpose of everything in existence. A Cup will allow you to drink water with it, whether you are bad or good does not really matter to that cup.

Lastly, simping is not about being brutal to ladies right from day one. Yes! You might need to become brutal but it is only when you are being taken for granted. This is the moment you stop and walk away from her.

A man can be simping to his fellow man, being taken for granted by his friends, not appreciating or seeing any worth in him and taking the things he does for them as nothing. This is where you stop and move on. Move on to those who really values and appreciate the things you do for them and not actually becoming a just brutal person.

One day, those that you left behind will begin to see your true value but they have blown their chance. They probably will want to move back into your life but do not look back. Only then will they truly learn something significant from that experience and you would have helped them grow.

djon78:



Lol Bro

I remember the babe then
Was telling my sister's that they were Jew unexposed girls

When they graduated then in there mid twenties
My mum insisted they must Marry
Because responsible Men were coming
She will be yabing them that they no know how far

They married, had there kids while she up till now never did

Was asking my sister what of your friend
She told me she is in the UK
After doing her master's in instead a top business school in Europe
That she called her one day and was confiding in her the challenges she was having and she was encouraging her as a friend


You see Life
A woman being responsible is a big gain
It will even run off on the husband and children

narite:

That lady might have not eaten anything all day and probably there is no hope that something will come at the end of the day. If it turns out that this is the precarious situation she is in, You have no idea the blessings you might have thrown away by not buying her just one Donut.

There is nothing wrong in stretching out a hand to someone you are just seeing for the first time; what or who they are, the things you have heard about them shouldn’t not really matter to you. Good is good and it should be rendered unconditionally. This is the grandeur purpose of everything in existence. A Cup will allow you to drink water with it, whether you are bad or good does not really matter to that cup.

Lastly, simping is not about being brutal to ladies right from day one. Yes! You might need to become brutal but it is only when you are being taken for granted. This is the moment you stop and walk away from her.

A man can be simping to his fellow man, being taken for granted by his friends, not appreciating or seeing any worth in him and taking the things he does for them as nothing. This is where you stop and move on. Move on to those who really values and appreciate the things you do for them and not actually becoming a just brutal person.

One day, those that you left behind will begin to see your true value but they have blown their chance. They probably will want to move back into your life but do not look back. Only then will they truly learn something significant from that experience and you would have helped them grow.

Dream25:
Chiefs...

What's the best thing to get for a girl on her birthday

Karlifate:


While it's good to display empathy.

Displaying 'kindness'/'niceness' to a woman you intend to be romantically involved with, in the early stages, will only seem as if you're trying too hard to buy her affection. 👌


Stop trying to rationalize women's emotions.
It always backfire.

narite:

When you are working too hard. It will be obvious that you are working too hard.

djon78:



Lol even Saudi Arabia the motherland of Islam
Hijab and controlling of there women is even the worst

Even among the wealthy royals of Saudi family
It's the same

True when they visit the West
They try to relax but still that conservative lifestyle is already ingrained in them

Had deep knowledge about Arabs from my classmates 2 of them one was a Canadian Arab grew up in Saudi Arabia, and another Indian Muslim Hussain, lived in Saudi Arabia all his Life.

I and them were very close in college, we were in same class, same course. We did crazy things lol were like brothers. They call me bro till today

They personally told me about Life in Saudi Arabia Even there personal family ones.

Was from them I knew that females in the family are to only relate with there fathers and brothers.
That even a close friend can't see there mother's or sisters

Very controlling environment
I was like wow
That's where I learnt the Arabs having harem of females

So it's there culture
They don't tolerate female liberation. They believe a woman is to be controlled
Northern Nigeria has same outlook on women

I used to see it as mean
But from what I have seen with our women folk
A woman deserves some kind of control
Those that are left to total liberation turns into something else.

That's why even in my personal family
My parents raised my 5 sisters with strict upbringing, learning to be decent right from primary school
Now they are getting the benefit

2 are doctors, one a consultant doctor. All married and responsible in there homes

There husband's don't play with my family because they were raised well. Even there kids behave well

Unlike some of my sister's friends there set girls some still unmarried till today. There was one I knew, while in the uni, she smokes, drinks, was a happening babe although very intelligent. Today she never marry while her mates children, some don enter secondary School


So having a form of control on a woman is not bad.

That's how I am raising my daughter's. They must learn decency and how to be a Lady even now they are small
Raised very responsibly not in a mean way but guiding them in love and dedication

narite:

That lady might have not eaten anything all day and probably there is no hope that something will come at the end of the day. If it turns out that this is the precarious situation she is in, You have no idea the blessings you might have thrown away by not buying her just one Donut.

There is nothing wrong in stretching out a hand to someone you are just seeing for the first time; what or who they are, the things you have heard about them shouldn’t not really matter to you. Good is good and it should be rendered unconditionally. This is the grandeur purpose of everything in existence. A Cup will allow you to drink water with it, whether you are bad or good does not really matter to that cup.

Lastly, simping is not about being brutal to ladies right from day one. Yes! You might need to become brutal but it is only when you are being taken for granted. This is the moment you stop and walk away from her.

A man can be simping to his fellow man, being taken for granted by his friends, not appreciating or seeing any worth in him and taking the things he does for them as nothing. This is where you stop and move on. Move on to those who really values and appreciate the things you do for them and not actually becoming a just brutal person.

One day, those that you left behind will begin to see your true value but they have blown their chance. They probably will want to move back into your life but do not look back. Only then will they truly learn something significant from that experience and you would have helped them grow.

Caicedobets:
yes after a year I stopped
She called 3 weeks ago and said" why you no wan call me"
I gave excuse of being busy she is asking when I will be back to the SouthWest again as I currently traveled interstate.
I lost interest in her since she kept me on read(on WhatsApp) a year ago.
Am surprised on her new found interest and she has money(she is into online business)so billing me is out of the picture

Survivor20:
So today been a Sunday,took time to visit my uncle and his family. After our discussion he left me alone with his wife and she tried linking me up with a friend of hers , immediately I told her I don't do ENP ,she started laughing and later asked if her friend was an English newspaper what about her, I told her she's fairly used or tokunbo omo if you see the anger for her face. I had to quickly take my leave before things escalate.

godgrace777:
Good day to all in the house... I can't lie but say that this red pill is really good and working, i'm a living testimony to it,not that i'm perfect in the game ooo but atleast it's has helped me in some ways,can you imagine i was once a loser but immediately i discoverd about this forum and also this thread omo things change for me, me wey be say them take me for granted before, now after taking the pill and uped my game wonders started to happen,even as i dey type now i get 3 chic wey dey my phone in just less than 1 week, to burst your head all of them are older than me and 3 of them are the ones calling me not the other way round.... Chai thank God i now know about the red pill and luckly for me i'm still entering my early twentys,i never reach 20yrs...

luminouz:


Good but lemme add these:

Redpill is not about women alone and fuqin pussies!!! It's about self development and knowing your value. Build yourself mental, financial and social security so you can live your life to the fullest and if you are interested in marriage, able to vet your woman thoroughly and not being taken for granted like mumu. The reason we talk more about the ladies is because most men don't know jack about their wives and even if you make money like Dangote and you are not redpilled, women will make you father bastards and show you shege Pro Max.

You are young. Time is your best currency now. USE IT!!

UppaZakum:
Difference between a wife and mother:

Wife: Costs you money

Mother: Saves you money.

Wife's love: Conditional.

Mother's love: Unconditional

Choose who you entrust all your assets and everything you've worked in life carefully.

When chips are down, who do you trust more to have your back? Always save for the rainy days.

narite:

That lady might have not eaten anything all day and probably there is no hope that something will come at the end of the day. If it turns out that this is the precarious situation she is in, You have no idea the blessings you might have thrown away by not buying her just one Donut.

There is nothing wrong in stretching out a hand to someone you are just seeing for the first time; what or who they are, the things you have heard about them shouldn’t not really matter to you. Good is good and it should be rendered unconditionally. This is the grandeur purpose of everything in existence. A Cup will allow you to drink water with it, whether you are bad or good does not really matter to that cup.

Lastly, simping is not about being brutal to ladies right from day one. Yes! You might need to become brutal but it is only when you are being taken for granted. This is the moment you stop and walk away from her.

A man can be simping to his fellow man, being taken for granted by his friends, not appreciating or seeing any worth in him and taking the things he does for them as nothing. This is where you stop and move on. Move on to those who really values and appreciate the things you do for them and not actually becoming a just brutal person.

One day, those that you left behind will begin to see your true value but they have blown their chance. They probably will want to move back into your life but do not look back. Only then will they truly learn something significant from that experience and you would have helped them grow.