wahaladondey:
Hey men, I need y’all input. I’ve been talking with this girl for a while and she likes me (very obviously), now the problem is I’m a very socially restrained kind of guy so I consciously avoid the sex topic, I want to ask her out but I want to Bleep her first or at least get sexual with her. How do I go about infusing sexuality in our normal daily conversations?

Pukkalolo
Rizzputin
Caveadullam
Ubunja
Karlifate

And every other senior men on this thread, good morning.

IAmHim1:
This is the perfect example of what we call agree to disagree

You agreed with him in the beginning only to crash land blindly at the end.
Massage emotions, make the person see you as a friend momentarily and strike so it'll hurt deep. If you were that good, I wouldn't have noticed it.


Pukkalolo is right.

For someone to be LOOKED UP TO, the person must be above and worthy to be LOOKED upon.

You gotta be above to control what's below. The king of the blind mans Village must be someone with eyes...even if it's just one eyes

Same way you gotta be above your sexuality to control you woman's...SAME EXACT WAY men are advised to be in control of their emotions unlike women. Because you woke up FEELING tired on a Monday morning doesn't mean you will skip work. . Your 'feelings' doesn't matter at that point

When pukkalolo says don't be 'pussy focused' , HE DOESN'T MEAN YOU SHOULD BE A CELIBATE OR GO MONK MODE so you can use your reserved cobweb sperm to make cold pap on your honey moon

all he's saying is MAKE THE GIRLS AROUND YOU FILTER THEMSELVES (focus slightly on girls so they can be themselves and invariably filter themselves) before you go bleeping nonsense into your life and be switching between Shilohs and hospital$


You can't bleep all the girls you crave. And even if some of the girls you crave were to strip for you, you'll lose your erection. Girls are not unicorn

This is getting wayyyy long

But see it this way
When you go to the market, you don't show full desperation on the sellers goods or the seller will take advantage of that and hike the goods price

YOU WANT IT DEEP DOWN BUT YOU CAN LIVE WITHOUT IT. that's what not being pussy focused is to me when I read Pukkalolo Shameless Approach pdf. And that's just one point from there I managed to 'summarize' here

Perfectskills01:


He understands what I said better than you , that was why he never argued.

Rizzputin:


Abeg give me guidelines on how to nack hell out of a girl
Yes it is powerful. Very powerful. Sexual energy exists in everyone.

But it goes beyond just harnessing it... it's has to be refined, channeled and displayed in a way that it can wake up a woman's sexual desire for you

It something that takes practice, experience and skill to know how to do.

Now, regarding your stuff about entrepreneurship... I'd like to remind you that my primary goal is making men better at handling women. And to give men the choice and opportunity to have wonderful, beautiful, stimulating relationships with women that serve their goals

If you do things the way I teach them, women will be a compliment to your life. They will help and support you in your purpose. Few things are as powerful as a woman riding for you and supporting. She will go all out to please you

In a world where about half of the population are women, it is delusional to not learn how to handle or deal with them.

You seem to underestimate how many men are clueless and lost with women. Even a large majority of red pillers are clueless with women (always trying to play defensive and thinking women are out to get them)... Not to talk of average guys who aren't privileged to know this


So you make all the money, get all the status... then what? You pick the wrong woman. And everything comes crashing down. This happens regularly. I've had men write me to tell me how one woman or the other finished them

And most of them are just basic stuff they could have handled.

While there's a place for business etc... there's a rightful and we'll deserved place for seduction and sex. No two ways about it.

It's even harder to learn about women when you're successful because you become a target for fake love and gold digging. If you're inexperienced, you will fumble massively.

I have rich, successful guys that are completely clueless with women. These men are even willing pay thousands so I can teach them. Something they could have learnt for free back then by interacting with women.

Seduction and sex is an area I specialise in because I have extensive experience in. That's why I talk about it

If you have other areas of male development you talk about, share it. But don't discourage men who are looking to develop their relationship life


EDIT:

Also, if you go through my posts you'll notice one where I gave a guy that had his mental health messed up by a "Drama Diva"

Those girls are very common now with Gen z. The guy has already made a huge mistake with that girl. And will most likely pay for it in future whe the girl comes for him after he's successful

Learning how to deal with those girls and other categories of girls will be beneficial to any man

IAmHim1:
Do you see Tinubu arguing with Nigerians

Pukkalolo:




If you read through all my post on this thread, I think I have answer questions similar to this a couple of times...

But let me just chip in somethings...

First off....

Is infusing sexuality in a conversation helpful? Well, Yes. but is it mandatory? Well, No.

Remember, attraction/interest is predermined.

You can infuse sexuality in a conversation all you want, but still don't get the pussy... Why? Because she's not really interested.

And you can also don't infuse sexuality in the conversation, but as long as she's interested, and you behave CONFIDENT and detached while leading the interaction forward, then you still have a shot with her.

Okay, beyond that...


Women love sex... We all know that already.

But the typical Women desire "power over you" more than sex itself. That's why these women sometimes play hard to get in order to make you feel insecure, or worse they try to manipulate and exploit you. They do all that because they want power over you.

So as man, in order to hold the power in the relationship and get what you want with women...

Here are two lessons:

#1. Never make her feel like she has power over you.

For example, some women might play hard to get in order to make you feel insecure and begin doubting yourself as a man. Guess what? She's trying to gain power over you. In that situation, desperately trying to convince or cajole her to accept you will only make her feel like she has gotten the power. So she get bored and lose interest.

Like I said, women love sex, but the feeling of having power over you is more exciting than sex... because even with sex she feels she giving her power away to you. This is why she withold sex in order to retain power.

This leads me to the second point:




#2. Never give her the impression that you are excited about her sexuality...

The first step to achieving this is NOT viewing getting her pussy as win. Because if you veiw getting the pussy as win, you are gonna feel like a loser if you don't get the pussy.

This is very important: never treat her pussy like it's some end goal or trophy. You need to train your mind to STOP idolizing women sexual companionship.

This might sound counterintuitive: but most times I give the woman the impression that fucking her ISN'T something I'm necessarily excited about.

Just the other day, I told this girl who was acting up that if she doesn't behave herself, she won't be tasting my dick anytime soon... She was flustered and floored by that statement.

I Never give a woman the impression that her sexual companionship is valuable to me.... Instead I make her feel like getting sex from me is a win for her, but I also make her feel like the sex isn't really a win for me.

Paradoxically, this attitude alone gets me lots of sexual opportunities...

Perfectskills01:




You made sense in your illustration and I must say that your copywriting skill is top notch . Not so many men on this thread can counter you, because you sound so perfect.

One thing is to understand the red pill , and another thing is to understand the game . You made a good illustration of the red pill through the snack . But a game of not being focus on pussy, is actually a weak game to approach women in the context of your illustration

My advice to you :
You see that aspect of not being pussy focus In your dating ideology must be corrected.

I understand that before anyone would wake up and write a book , he must have been so convinced about his ideology on dating and consider it worthy to market . He sees it as a way to help other people. It doesn't matter whether they pay for it or for free , the value must be shared .

See.... Being pussy focus or not , you can get sex. No strategy special. In dating, you can do the opposite of your game and still get same result. For instance: you can spend on girls and end up not getting laid , you can decide to claim the alpha of not spending on women and up not getting laid, vice Versa.

Whatever that work here might not work when you apply the opposite . For instance: You might decide not to be pussy focus and still not get laid and you can be pussy focus and still get laid . Many road leads to sex . No one is special.

If ," not being pussy " is the best game you come up with after all your experiences and knowledge acquired from dating arena , then you need to open your mind to various aspect of approach in dating, to make your book a great one . Your experience is too limited to cover so many things in dating. You need more experience.

heartofcity12:
Let these women keep teaching these simps the hard way like this, a simp and his money part ways..
When we try to tell them here, they call us all sort of bad names and get trolled heavily, y’all simps will always end up in blogs as objects of ridicule and mockery like this simp, it’s not a cuss. #trp

MetalJigsaw:
Omoh😮 women are really cashing out o

heartofcity12:
Let these women keep teaching these simps the hard way like this, a simp and his money part ways..
When we try to tell them here, they call us all sort of bad names and get trolled heavily, y’all simps will always end up in blogs as objects of ridicule and mockery like this simp, it’s not a cuss. #trp

heartofcity12:
Let these women keep teaching these simps the hard way like this, a simp and his money part ways..
When we try to tell them here, they call us all sort of bad names and get trolled heavily, y’all simps will always end up in blogs as objects of ridicule and mockery like this simp, it’s not a cuss. #trp

heartofcity12:
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Philosopher1979:


Young man you are harnessing sexual energy which us a basic crude but powerful energy of the universe, humanity and human relations. Its present in every human being. Thats all. I'm not good in the details anyway.

However, try and encourage youths to go into something that will develop them. Entrepreneurial skills, intellectual development etc. No be everything be sex. Woman etc. We all know sex is innate to everybody male or female. But then, there is more to life than having sex.
Teach young men more useful things. How to be succesful and respected in society. How to harness your talents etc

luminouz:

Oh I love the lessons they keep getting. They don't want to listen to redpillers right? Then, they will learn from the billers,leeches and gizzards who eat them up

Philosopher1979:


Most Nigerian men need a dating coach tha
T will guise them on how to Interact with women. Simps plenty.
A dating coach does many things. Your body language, your dress eense, your belief system, self confidence, social skills etc. Even personal self development in business and career. It all comes together I. The dating scene.
I know most of us men won't agree but we need it. We nigerians including me are not used to seeing psychologists but we need it. Men need counselling and we should not shy away from it.
You have to believe your are special before other people do.
He believes the girl is more special than h8m and is putting her on a pedestal.
As a man you have to discover your greatness and move with it. You only appreciate people who appreciate you.

ubunja:

Okay, what I'm going to say will have many variables and question marks and holes,, but I'm just putting it out there to give a general idea of things. It must not be taken as a complete, ironclad theory or set of principles.

Bro you're on point on this.

Never invest in a woman because you're just improving her SMV (sexual market value). Which will activate her hypergamy. Keep her where you found her and use your money in such a way that if she disconnects from you and goes, she'll find herself where you found her.

There's a huge difference between marrying a beautiful woman whose hair, nails and makeup are top notch AND marrying a plain woman then making her beautiful with good hair, nails and makeup. The first is you getting what you deserve or can afford. While the second is you INVESTING in a woman - Which is what men must avoid. You can use your money to maintain a slay queen. But if you find an average girl and turn her into a slay queen then you're investing in her. Which will backfire spectacularly, Because after you're done with her, her SMV will be higher than when she started, which means she's now considering you BELOW HER - nevermind you yourself improved her said SMV.

Investing in a woman includes things improving a woman's education, helping her start her own business (which will inevitably lead to her independence from you) etc. You must keep her dependent. Supply her needs and wants without putting her in a position where she can replace you. She must not own anything but be happy. (Hard but not impossible) . You must be her provider, not investor. You can very well give a woman a good life, a nice home, fun trips and good experiences without investing in her. But just showing her how much you love her.

Pïmps mastered this game ages ago. They keep all the money but make sure their women get the best of anything - the best accommodation, the best food and the best outfits. The women get everything they ask for - except for cold hard cash. That's always a no. These pïmps even do the shopping on behalf of their women to stay ahead of the game. Cause give a woman cash, no matter how little - she'll find a way to grow it. It's their gift. Pïmps prevent this and keep cash away from women.

This may seem unfair, cruel or extreme in this day and age; but women do play the same game with men as regards to sex. A Woman always keeps a man dependent and relying on her and her alone for sex. A man is not allowed to even masturbate. If a married man services himself you'll hear all the wailings from women shaming him and demanding to know if his wife is not enough for him!! He'll be Condemned for destroying his wife's self-esteem and confidence. He must always get his sex from the wife. If she's not in the mood, he must wait for her. Not go elsewhere. Not even to a prostitute.

Now, because women are masters of the game, they monopolized the sex and also monopolized men's money:
Did not our elders, fathers and uncles hand over their own hard-earned money to their women, the WOMEN who would then give the men money bit by bit on a daily basis as the needs arise, eg every morning he's given transport money and every weekend he's given beer money. This was the norm a few generations ago in many places. This is how cunning women have been. Pïmps merely give women a taste of their own medicine - with brilliant results. It needs be that men start looking closely at how those flesh peddlers mastered women.

But many men are intent on achieving women's growth. They'll take a woman from the bottom and keep pouring money into her growth until she outgrows him. Then she leaves. Men are out here educating their wives, getting their women plastic surgery, buying investments and the like. Which is foolish.
All that money and effort and even plastic surgery must have been for themselves. For the men. To keep their own SMV ever so high. And yes I said it, men must not shy away from plastic surgery. If you've something about your face that you don't like, save money and go get it fixed. Leave the scratches and scars, they add to your masculine beauty. But that nose, that eye, those ears - get them fixed if you ain't happy. Same goes for teeth: if yours are discolored, go whiten them. If they're crooked, consider investing in braces to straighten them. If a front tooth is missing, move heaven and earth to replace it. All this may sound all too shallow and even feminine... But it will pay dividends. Cause combine this with the body game (gym) and you're an Adonis. women will come. And you won't be invested in any of them because you invested, instead, in yourself.

Karlifate:
Dear [young] men,

Avoid being in contact, dating, marrying or having any entanglement with a slu+ or an ex-slu+

A slu+ can easily destroy you because she has low sense of self-worth & that also means less capacity for shame, guilt or remorse.

She's already damaged.
So, she has no problem damaging your reputation.

💯

Ericmaestrooffi:
Good morning house

I’ve been following this thread for a long time but I’ve not commented before. I want to ask your opinion on cohabitating with a lady that’s not your gf or wife.

A female friend of mine who recently graduated reached out to me that she wants to come stay with me and use that opportunity to look for a job, she didn’t tell me how long she intends to stay but from our conversation it seems she will be staying for a long time.

I’m currently a banker and not doing bad for myself, I don’t have any issue housing or feeding her but I don’t know if it’s right for a guy and lady not dating to live together.

N.b: we are only friends and nothing more, although I once dated her sister.

Please I need your opinion on this before I take a final decision on this.

Ericmaestrooffi:
Good morning house

I’ve been following this thread for a long time but I’ve not commented before. I want to ask your opinion on cohabitating with a lady that’s not your gf or wife.

A female friend of mine who recently graduated reached out to me that she wants to come stay with me and use that opportunity to look for a job, she didn’t tell me how long she intends to stay but from our conversation it seems she will be staying for a long time.

I’m currently a banker and not doing bad for myself, I don’t have any issue housing or feeding her but I don’t know if it’s right for a guy and lady not dating to live together.

N.b: we are only friends and nothing more, although I once dated her sister.

Please I need your opinion on this before I take a final decision on this.