imustsaymymindo:


I also think you are intelligent bro. I love and respect your old posts on here especially.

But I think these days you are all about prescriptions and maybe it could be tied to you trying to sell a particular book that is meant to make the game easier for newbies. Unfortunately, there are no shortcuts and due diligence must be done.

Either ways. Good luck!

Thank you. Most smart guys just like you have told me that my redpill wisdom and "game" teaching is top-notch.

By the way,
I love this word you used:
"prescription"

Let me use that to drop some hard core wisdom... that'll help guys. I'm gonna separate the write up in four parts. Let's begin with part 1

PART one

Many guys get stuck because they're focusing on the wrong things. Here's the deal: most guys mix up their goals with by-products, and that’s where they falter. They fixate on the by-products when dealing with women, and that’s their main issue.

For clarity, let’s define "Goal" as what you're aiming to accomplish. A "By-product" is something that naturally happens as a result of achieving your goal, but you don’t actively seek it out.

Take graphic design, for example. Your real goal might be to showcase your best work. You'd create impressive designs, network with business owners, and offer your redesigns as gifts. By doing this, the by-product will likely be an overflow of clients wanting your services.

Let’s apply this to me selling on romance section nairaland. Selling a book like "Top G Dating Secrets" and making money isn’t my goal. It’s a by-product. My actual goal is to share my unique insights and help guys eliminate unproductive mindsets that hinder their success with women.

In this forum, one by-product is that I've come across some great guys like IAmHim1, KingEarnest, Lordfranklin, PinkNature, Smartb0y, AlphaNugget, Martinez39s, badblackgod, Caveadullam, luminouz and couple of others that I can't remember their names right now as I'm typing this.

Another by-product is that I've sold quite a number of copies of the book, But my main focus is helping men improve their game with women. I sell copies of my book, great—but that’s not the aim. I’m content even if I don’t sell a single copy because I’m not financially needy.

One of my mentors once said, "The worst time to start a business is when you need money." This rings true because desperate need can cloud your judgment and stunt your business’s growth. It’s similar with dating—if you’re desperate for a relationship or sex, it often backfires.

So, if you’re struggling with dating, it’s because you’re focusing on the wrong goal. Getting sex or a girlfriend isn’t the real goal; it's a by-product of focusing on the right things. The real goal is often less glamorous but far more effective.

Curious about what you should focus on instead?

Stay tuned for PART 2 of this write-up.

#truth.

imustsaymymindo:


I also think you are intelligent bro. I love and respect your old posts on here especially.

But I think these days you are all about prescriptions and maybe it could be tied to you trying to sell a particular book that is meant to make the game easier for newbies. Unfortunately, there are no shortcuts and due diligence must be done.

Either ways. Good luck!

PART 2

Gentlemen, if you want to eliminate the ONLY power women have against you, this post is essential.

Get comfortable—it's time for a game-changing revelation.

Let’s kick things off by addressing the inherent strengths and weaknesses in both men and women.

Understanding Male Weaknesses

As a man, if you're struggling with women, then the problem is you’re focused on something women have totally control: access to her sexuality.

Think of it like a military strategy. Attacking your enemy strong base head-on will only meet fierce resistance and likely defeat.

Instead, find the vulnerabilities. Attack where your opponent is weaker. While this analogy doesn’t mean women are your enemies (they’re your companions), it does highlight a crucial point:

Men's Weakness is Female sexuality.

This is a power women use to distract, manipulate and toy with men's emotions. Women often use their sexuality to gain male attention—think provocative photos and seductive marketing. Brands and media know this all too well, leveraging sexual appeal to capture your focus. Even industries like entertainment and adult content exploit this dynamic.

Historically, even in the Garden of Eden, the strategy was to sidestep the stronger figure (Adam) and target the more vulnerable one (Eve).

Why?

Because Eve represented the weaker link in terms of resisting temptation.

A woman's sexuality(pussy) is her strength and powerhouse. In fact, it's the ONLY power she has against you. That's why she actually wants you focused on it and be excited about it
Avoid the Trap

Men who are overly focused on female sexuality are stepping right into the trap. It’s the stronghold women use to assert control and manipulate. If you're overly engrossed in this aspect, you’re playing into their hands and finding yourself in a weaker position.

What’s the Solution?

To break free from this cycle, you need to shift your focus from what women use to control (their sexuality) to what truly matters: their vulnerabilities.

Curious about what women’s weaknesses are? Stay tuned for PART 3.

imustsaymymindo:


I also think you are intelligent bro. I love and respect your old posts on here especially.

But I think these days you are all about prescriptions and maybe it could be tied to you trying to sell a particular book that is meant to make the game easier for newbies. Unfortunately, there are no shortcuts and due diligence must be done.

Either ways. Good luck!

PART 3

Unleashing the Power of Her Emotions: The Ultimate Game-Changer

Welcome to Part 3, where we dive into the real keys to mastering your interactions with women: her emotions and her need for external validation(attention).

(We will dive into how to take advantage her her need for male validation in part 4.)


Look guys, Forget focusing on just her sexuality. Instead, understand this crucial truth: the real game-changer is playing with her emotions.

Why Emotions Matter

Women are undeniably emotional creatures. But what you might not realize is how to harness this to your advantage. By engaging her emotions, you can create a deeper, more meaningful sexual connection rather than just being another needy pussy focused loser.

The Dual-Foot Driving Analogy

Think of it like driving a car. If you try to control the vehicle with both feet—one on the clutch (her sexuality) and one on the brake (her emotions)—you'll lose control and crash.

Focusing solely on her sexuality means she’s driving the interaction, not you. But if you concentrate on her emotions, you’ll steer the relationship where you want it to go, creating a stronger sexual connection.

The Art of Emotional Engagement

Women know their emotions are their vulnerability. They often use their sexuality to distract and control so you won't use their emotions to make them to do what you want.
If you’re only focused on her sexuality, you’re falling into their traps. The secret is to make her think about you by triggering her emotions in unexpected, engaging ways.

This is one thing I've learned over the years. This is what made gotten me in bed with top-notch beautiful ladies.

Here’s the thing. Most women love sex, but they don’t care about sex as much as we do.

Women find most men unappealing and boring by default, so the woman’s reaction towards most men is gonna be indifference. But a woman can't be indifferent towards you if you provoking her emotions. She will be forced to either love you or hate you.

I want her to either love me or get upset by my behavior. So the general goal of my interaction with women is pretty clear: fuvk with her emotions. I just concentrate on giving her what I call "emotional shock".... I say and do UNEXPECTED things YET still be cool and caring.

To be on a woman's mind and have her think about you all the time, then you have to be the guy that who his fucking with her emotions, NOT the guy who's trying to Bleep her pussy.

There are lots of guys already desperately trying get the pussy. So if you are focused on that too, then there's nothing peculiar about you. You are kind of like in her fan base. You are simply part of the crowd.

To stand out from the abject crowd full of guys who her so desperate to be with her is be the guy who's always on top of her mind. This means you have to mess with her emotions.
Infact, to be able to effectively fuvk with her emotions and make her weak on her knees for you, then you have to the kind of guy who's "happily" willing to walk away from the pussy.


Most men have The Fear Factor

The problem that typical guy here have is that he is way overly concerned with the possibility of "losing the pussy."

That's your main weakness. And guess what? women can SMELL THAT WEAKNESS IN YOU.

Fucking with a girls emotions means risk upsetting her and getting her to criticize you.

Trust me on this. As a guy, if you have a deep fear of 'offending' women or the fear of making them feel 'agitated' in your presence, then trust me, you are not ready for romantic success.

Many men fear offending or upsetting women, which makes them predictable and easy to control. To succeed, you must be willing to take risks and challenge her emotionally. This isn’t about being an asshole—it's about being memorable, impactful, and being on her mind all day.

WE ARE NOT DONE.


If you're sensitive, please don't read the part 4 of this write up....Because that will be one of the most asshole brutal game I'll be spitting.


We’ll explore the next steps in becoming the guy who’s always on her mind.

To accomplish this, we are going to use the Power of Your Validation. If you've read my book, Top G Dating secrets(Advance shameless approach), I refer to this concept as CREATE SPACE.

Most women have inflated ego because men put their sexuality on pedestal... But in reality most of these women are low-key insecure. Only guys with experience understand this.

I used the "create space" method to bring them down from that pedestal, Bleep with their emotions and make them feel vulnerable in my presence.

Stay tuned for Part 4,

Pukkalolo:


PART 3

Unleashing the Power of Her Emotions: The Ultimate Game-Changer

Welcome to Part 3, where we dive into the real keys to mastering your interactions with women: her emotions and her need for external validation(attention).

(We will dive into how to take advantage her her need for male validation in part 4.)


Look guys, Forget focusing on just her sexuality. Instead, understand this crucial truth: the real game-changer is playing with her emotions.

Why Emotions Matter

Women are undeniably emotional creatures. But what you might not realize is how to harness this to your advantage. By engaging her emotions, you can create a deeper, more meaningful sexual connection rather than just being another needy pussy focused loser.

The Dual-Foot Driving Analogy

Think of it like driving a car. If you try to control the vehicle with both feet—one on the clutch (her sexuality) and one on the brake (her emotions)—you'll lose control and crash.

Focusing solely on her sexuality means she’s driving the interaction, not you. But if you concentrate on her emotions, you’ll steer the relationship where you want it to go, creating a stronger sexual connection.

The Art of Emotional Engagement

Women know their emotions are their vulnerability. They often use their sexuality to distract and control so you won't use their emotions to make them to do what you want.
If you’re only focused on her sexuality, you’re falling into their traps. The secret is to make her think about you by triggering her emotions in unexpected, engaging ways.

This is one thing I've learned over the years. This is what made gotten me in bed with top-notch beautiful ladies.

Here’s the thing. Most women love sex, but they don’t care about sex as much as we do.

Women find most men unappealing and boring by default, so the woman’s reaction towards most men is gonna be indifference. But a woman can't be indifferent towards you if you provoking her emotions. She will be forced to either love you or hate you.

I want her to either love me or get upset by my behavior. So the general goal of my interaction with women is pretty clear: fuvk with her emotions. I just concentrate on giving her what I call "emotional shock".... I say and do UNEXPECTED things YET still be cool and caring.

To be on a woman's mind and have her think about you all the time, then you have to be the guy that who his fucking with her emotions, NOT the guy who's trying to Bleep her pussy.

There are lots of guys already desperately trying get the pussy. So if you are focused on that too, then there's nothing peculiar about you. You are kind of like in her fan base. You are simply part of the crowd.

To stand out from the abject crowd full of guys who her so desperate to be with her is be the guy who's always on top of her mind. This means you have to mess with her emotions.
Infact, to be able to effectively fuvk with her emotions and make her weak on her knees for you, then you have to the kind of guy who's "happily" willing to walk away from the pussy.


Most men have The Fear Factor

The problem that typical guy here have is that he is way overly concerned with the possibility of "losing the pussy."

That's your main weakness. And guess what? women can SMELL THAT WEAKNESS IN YOU.

Fucking with a girls emotions means risk upsetting her and getting her to criticize you.

Trust me on this. As a guy, if you have a deep fear of 'offending' women or the fear of making them feel 'agitated' in your presence, then trust me, you are not ready for romantic success.

Many men fear offending or upsetting women, which makes them predictable and easy to control. To succeed, you must be willing to take risks and challenge her emotionally. This isn’t about being an asshole—it's about being memorable, impactful, and being on her mind all day.

WE ARE NOT DONE.


If you're sensitive, please don't read the part 4 of this write up....Because that will be one of the most asshole brutal game I'll be spitting.


We’ll explore the next steps in becoming the guy who’s always on her mind.

To accomplish this, we are going to use the Power of Your Validation. If you've read my book, Top G Dating secrets(Advance shameless approach), I refer to this concept as CREATE SPACE.

Most women have inflated ego because men put their sexuality on pedestal... But in reality most of these women are low-key insecure. Only guys with experience understand this.

I used the "create space" method to bring them down from that pedestal, Bleep with their emotions and make them feel vulnerable in my presence.

Stay tuned for Part 4,

You don't need to read any book to know girls are insecure.
A lady can look at the mirror for hours. That's insecurity over their looks.
As per emotions they fall for poetry. I mean just sweet innovative poems you send to them at night. I'm not an expert but that's what I know. The issue is this kind of thinking won't make sense to most people as they wonder how emotional things can trigger a lady. Woman is not logic but just emotion

Good morning guys.
I want you guys to be as brutal as possible.
I’m a 26yrs old guy,done with school and nysc.
For the past two years and some months I have been working as a bet9ja cashier, I stayed with my brother who is married with kids. My brother has been very supportive.
During this 2yrs,I have been able to save up to 1.8m since I don’t have much expenses.
I know how big and small the money is at the same time.
The truth is there’s more to life than being a cashier.
secondly
Nobody knows I have that kind of money.
I just want to start my own Life as a man.
My parents are late.this are conversations I would have loved to have with my father.
BROTHERS if you were in my shoes how would you go about things.

Lifestarter007:
Good morning guys.
I want you guys to be as brutal as possible.
I’m a 26yrs old guy,done with school and nysc.
For the past two years and some months I have been working as a bet9ja cashier, I stayed with my brother who is married with kids. My brother has been very supportive.
During this 2yrs,I have been able to save up to 1.8m since I don’t have much expenses.
I know how big and small the money is at the same time.
The truth is there’s more to life than being a cashier.
secondly
Nobody knows I have that kind of money.
I just want to start my own Life as a man.
My parents are late.this are conversations I would have loved to have with my father.
BROTHERS if you were in my shoes how would you go about things.

.

Lifestarter007:
Good morning guys.
I want you guys to be as brutal as possible.
I’m a 26yrs old guy,done with school and nysc.
For the past two years and some months I have been working as a bet9ja cashier, I stayed with my brother who is married with kids. My brother has been very supportive.
During this 2yrs,I have been able to save up to 1.8m since I don’t have much expenses.
I know how big and small the money is at the same time.
The truth is there’s more to life than being a cashier.
secondly
Nobody knows I have that kind of money.
I just want to start my own Life as a man.
My parents are late.this are conversations I would have loved to have with my father.
BROTHERS if you were in my shoes how would you go about things.

First and foremost you are on the right track. Why I said so, is judging from your brief explanation of your current situation and what you have been able to achieve for the past 2yrs and how you have decided to stay with your married brother; instead of renting your own space and lavishing the money. It clearly shows you know what you really want in life.

A few tips from me:

1) Don't quit the Bet9ja job yet.
2) Don't think about renting your own space. 1.8million is too small right now to get a decent apartment and properties needed to make you comfortable in your new home.
3) Look for another side hustle and invest some part of that money. There are many side hustles that you can invest in that will yield results from now till December.( E.g 10% of that money can give you extra 50% ROI in Forex trading with bots monthly)
Then next year you can think of renting your own space and starting life with a strong financial backup.
4) Avoid Nigerian girls at all cost. They are leeches all of them. They only know how to take and take and take from you. And takers don't know when to stop... untill your are down.

Wishing you all the best of luck man👍

Thank you man.
As for other streams of income am thinking of starting a car wash business.

Rukevwe999:
Many do - if applied properly.
The problem with today's redpill is that it now attract weak men. Incels and wrong men have infiltrated the manosphere and transformed it into a echo chamber for projecting insecurities.

Gbam.

SpencerForbes:
#truth.

Untrue 98% of the time so what's the point in this?
98% of the time she pays for the service in cash or a smile and a "thank you" and drives off not even recalling what the repairman/fixer looks like.

Faber:
First and foremost you are on the right track. Why I said so, is judging from your brief explanation of your current situation and what you have been able to achieve for the past 2yrs and how you have decided to stay with your married brother; instead of renting your own space and lavishing the money. It clearly shows you know what you really want in life.

A few tips from me:

1) Don't quit the Bet9ja job yet.
2) Don't think about renting your own space. 1.8million is too small right now to get a decent apartment and properties needed to make you comfortable in your new home.
3) Look for another side hustle and invest some part of that money. There are many side hustles that you can invest in that will yield results from now till December.( E.g 10% of that money can give you extra 50% ROI in Forex trading with bots monthly)
Then next year you can think of renting your own space and starting life with a strong financial backup.
4) Avoid Nigerian girls at all cost. They are leeches all of them. They only know how to take and take and take from you. And takers don't know when to stop... untill your are down.

Wishing you all the best of luck man👍

Excellent advice.

Faber:


First and foremost you are on the right track. Why I said so, is judging from your brief explanation of your current situation and what you have been able to achieve for the past 2yrs and how you have decided to stay with your married brother; instead of renting your own space and lavishing the money. It clearly shows you know what you really want in life.

A few tips from me:

1) Don't quit the Bet9ja job yet.
2) Don't think about renting your own space. 1.8million is too small right now to get a decent apartment and properties needed to make you comfortable in your new home.
3) Look for another side hustle and invest some part of that money. There are many side hustles that you can invest in that will yield results from now till December.( E.g 10% of that money can give you extra 50% ROI in Forex trading with bots monthly)
Then next year you can think of renting your own space and starting life with a strong financial backup.
4) Avoid Nigerian girls at all cost. They are leeches all of them. They only know how to take and take and take from you. And takers don't know when to stop... untill your are down.

Wishing you all the best of luck man👍

Lifestarter007, I didn't read this advise but the first sentence that said you should not quit YET is the best you could get. You can even do it for 2.5 years more to save more but please don't just leave that 1.8 million as savings as inflation will finish it up before you save another 3-4 million in the next 2.5 years as I factored in inflation because you will also be seeing more money. So I'd say you should follow the advise of the second person as per investing in govt Treasury bills, the investment wouldn't much interest but it will make it stable against inflation. So after like that 2.5 years you should be having a projected 6-7 million then you can look for what to invest in which by the way you would have learn at least 50% of the investment. I mean having knowledge of the investment thereby you would not be asking what you should invest on but the investment will be fr the knowledge of 3-4 you have learnt and the one that suits you best. I wish you luck in whatever decision you choose to take.

A recap of women nature below...these are not new stuffs here. They have been explained here by the founders and veterans of this thread. It is just to remind new comers of the essence of this one in a million thread

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Detest weakness

Women tend to have high levels of empathy they feel for others.

But when it comes to men, and weak men to be more specific, most women lack any empathic ability.

In fact, they biologically despise weakness in men.

The modern world has fooled men into believing it's okay to be weak and cry, and that is why most guys make the mistake of being vulnerable and weak around women. Pathetic.

Women have always been attracted to strong, leaderful men, and so they feel no remorse for a fragile man that can't handle his problems, no matter what anyone tells you.

She may pretend to feel for you, but deep down, your weakness disgusts her.

Now, I am not telling you to become a robot.

You are a human, and there will be moments of weakness in your life.

But no good ever came from displaying weakness towards a woman.

All it does is trigger her brain to know you are not a fit leader for her and her offspring.

Instead, learn to control your emotions, and share your problems with your peers and brothers instead of women

She will test you endlessly.

Most guys think women are unpredictable because they change their moods all the time.

The reality is that women consciously or subconsciously test men while dating to make sure that they are worth committing to.

You see, for ages, women have been testing men to determine the best partner, and this evolutionary trait continues today.

It is something that all women do.

They want to find out whether you are the one with whom they can spend the rest of their lives with and produce offspring.

These tests come in different forms.

It could be her getting emotional and starting a fight with you.

If you get emotional and start arguing with her, you have failed the test.

But if you are able to remain stoic and unfazed, you pass the test.

Most guys fail these type of tests all the time because they don't understand what's going on.

They think these tests are disrespectful and take it as an insult. But that is the last thing you should do.

Listen, women don't test guys out of bad intentions.

Most of the time, they don't even know they are testing you themselves.

It's like their biological makeup forces them to poke and test a man to find out if he is the capable man he needs to be.

She needs to know that your actions speak louder than your words.

[quote author=Tonnyray post=131730290]Untrue 98% of the time so what's the point in this?
98% of the time she pays for the service in cash or a smile and a "thank you" and drives off not even recalling what the repairman/fixer looks like.[/

It clearly says “can” that’s a word of probability. It doesn’t say 100% of the time but there’s a probability of it happening.
So you don’t loose guard.
Fixing the car alone won’t get the girl’s attention but if he is on a higher SMV than her partner then there’s s chance of it happening.
#respect_boss

This thread is currently loosing it. Miss the days where you could come here for daily pills. Now I just start from first page so I don’t miss track. Really sad.
#longliveredpill

Darkest Female Secrets that NO woman wants you to know!

let's go👇👇👇👇👇👇👇