Radking7:
I can't believe I finally read through this thread from the beginning...
I started reading three days ago, I must say... I've never seen so much info about the red pill in one place. I hope it doesn't end.


I have my own long range of questions tho, buh lemme start with one.
Panophist( sorry if I didn't type his name correctly) said something about opening social media accounts and posting your lifestyle to show ladies your value...
what if I'm introverted and not into social media?
how do I get to show them I have value other than doing the social media posting stuff..

ViVaMadrid:


Being introverted doesn't make you a vampire that's afraid of sunlight. I don't think anyone scales up in any facet of life without promoting themselves and their value whether it be socially, financially or whatnot.

A business man? You have to promote your business. A politician? You have to promote yourself and your ideas. Even as an employee, if don't promote your abilities, someone else willing will overtake on the corporate ladder. Resenting promotion is one of the biggest obstacles of success.

As they say, "Build a better mousetrap and the world will beat a path to your door." True! But that's only if they know about it.

pansophist:
As a man continues to improve himself, he begins to notice that his commitment is not easily given to any woman, that is his power and what he brings to the table. He hoards it tightly, as women generally knows what it worth, and only a deserving woman will be worthy of it.

#RandomThoughts

pansophist:


From a male perspective, yes. She sets standards she herself do not meet. From a female perspective, it makes sense to her.

When she wants a man taller than her, richer and educated, can make her laugh and God fearing (lol), those are the qualities she deem sufficient to privatise her priceless body. For men, romance is objective, like one plus one equals two. For example (from a male perspective), if you want a rich man, you should be rich too, but not for women. Like I've written countless times, women are a biological prize, and they feel it in their psychology as well, and how they navigate the world with a sense of entitlement and pride.

Your refusal to meet those standards she wants is enough for her to seek out other men that will not hold her to that same standards she has, and that he should see romance from her own frame of view. All these happens subconsciously and even if this dynamics plays in the background, most are consciously not aware of it. Her contribution is NOT material and objective, that's for men. She contributes by showing up, that's how they understand it. Their presence is your present (gift).

She is probably thinking that you should feel lucky for having her, because thousands of thirsty males are out there that are begging her for a relationship, and can replace you in a second.

If women do not have double standards, they will have no standards at all.

ubunja:
Ever noticed how when you make a way for a woman she never bothers to say thank you and just strides right on like it's her right to be let through??

But make way for a man and he'll nod his head in appreciation and respect.


Women can be divas. Smh.

4gunners:
Can we see this chat. Ordinary thank you was too much.

Austeeenxx:


Imagine the entitlement mentality.

They will never learn funny enough this same nigga will made the same mistake again again and again.. that is what a man get when pussy is too important.

4gunners:
Can we see this chat. Ordinary thank you was too much.

pansophist:
I don't know about you, but for me, the reality of marriage is not a natural state. Marriage certificate at best should be like a drivers license, to be renewed after a few years. If both of the couple are truly happy, then renewal won't even be an issue, but something they eagerly do. 

#randomthoughts

Trex4:
Can you please list all the ways you feel a man can "improve" himself. Like the ways you improved yourself, and the ways you would want to move up that hierarchy in general. I'm sure lot's of people here need that information. Like me

IHate9jerianss:
Do you notice how many few "likes" this post of yours received compared to the others?On a thread about the manosphere with majority male readers and they are still pro-marriage

IHate9jerianss:
It is unfair to him to continue repeating himself over and over again.Read through this thread and read his past posts and you'll get all the information you need

Trex4:
I agree. I've read it but I just wanted him to compile it again for easy reference as lot's of people will archive it. Also I wanted to hear the places where he feels he would improve more

luminouz:


And so?

He never said marriage is wrong,did he? And when did likes or shares ever show the veracity of comments? This ain't Facebook...I hardly ever like any comment or share it on NL.

Some men these days are anti-marriage,based on personal choice. Being a redpiller doesn't teach you to hate women or marriage.

IHate9jerianss:
I have gone through many foreign manosphere forums and there always seems to be an anti-marriage stance amongst its follows.This isn't the case with Nigerian males who label themselves "redpillers" and still believe that they can get married to some unicorn,hold frame for five years straight and pass all a woman's sh.it tests.How possible is that?I believe there are many Nigeran males calling themselves "redpill" because it is considered "cool" or "hip" and not really instilling its tenets.
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