KingClown:
one of the best things I've ever read on nairaland

https://www.nairaland.com/396243/how-maintain-control-woman


probably most people here would have read it.
just in case you haven't.

Martinez39s:
As in many cases, they are projecting the the female psych on the male psych.

TheUndercover:

Naivety is very important in a woman, the more naive a woman is, the more better for the man. This is why it's best to go for young girls and inexperienced women, you'll be able to mould her to any shape you want and also maintain frame. It will be very hard to maintain frame with a woman who have had a lot of experiences with men. Experience is bad for women because it tends to damage them mentally. This is why sometimes, it's bad to date a woman who just got off in a relationship or divorced because you don't know how damaged she is from her previous relationship.

And one thing also, we men seems to ask what women has to offer in a relationship/marriage, in most cases, we shouldn't look at money. Because the more independent a woman is, the less likely she will be submissive, because she also has the power that you have. The value we should expect from a woman should be the orderliness of the home, how she takes care of you and the kids, how she teaches your kids, not being lazy, high agreeableness, etcetera. That's why the stay-at-home wives are the best option in most cases.

I'm not saying the woman shouldn't assist in making some certain payments, but she should depend more on the man.

Ubunja, the picture you posted might begin sowing some 'seeds' in young minds here and might make them 'react' in some way, your message was well understood without it. Thanks.

TheDarkGamer:

If we do not want our women to work or have jobs, why do we still complain about them asking for money? I mean, it is only fair if as a man, you do not want your partner/wife to bear any financial responsibility, then you should be able to provide her needs and wants since she would have been able to do so if she had a steady stream of income.

However, some men say they don't want their women working, but they don't want to provide the woman wants. Isn't that having double standards?

Dabronze:
Of course ! men admire women with all these value but nevertheless it can't cure the sexual fantacies,sexual imprint in their ho3ing phase and the no of sperm stored in their reservoir in the past

Martinez39s:
As in many cases, they are projecting the the female psych on the male psych.

TheDarkGamer:
From an Objective point of view:

If we do not want our women to work or have jobs, why do we still complain about them asking for money? I mean, it is only fair if as a man, you do not want your partner/wife to bear any financial responsibility, then you should be able to provide her needs and wants since she would have been able to do so if she had a steady stream of income.

However, some men say they don't want their women working, but they don't want to provide the woman wants. Isn't that having double standards?

I may be wrong in my assertions but I was just thinking about this, and I need clarification.

Emodeee:



I was reading a thread and the op told ladies in their thirties to advice younger ladies and all they were saying was "you need to make your own money". "You need to chase your career, men don't want a liability". I was just giggling.

Nezzjnr:
Wetin be this

Belafonte:


There's a massive world of difference between providing a woman's needs and being a slave to her materialistic appetite.

No human being can have all their needs met. Even the women who work cannot meet all of their own needs, hence the need to augment with provider males'.

In fact, to follow the logical path of your question, why should we stop working women with husbands from dating other married men as far as those other men also contribute in meeting their needs.

Contentment and a strong sense of self is a trait every man looking to marry must vet for in a woman. You will never have every single need met, but the basics can be met. A worthy women understands her man's limits and is satisfied within what he can provide without resentment towards forfeiting opportunity costs.

TheUndercover:

First of all, we should understand that the primary job of a woman is her matrimonial home, anything else is secondary. Also, every man wants peace of mind either in a relationship/marriage and their heart will always gravitate towards what provides this. This is why sometimes men love spending more time with friends in beer parlours than at home with family simply because they are avoiding their wife's troubles.

A woman's value is not necessarily money, if she is lazy, experienced, materialistic, not appreciative, always nagging, not family oriented, not submissive, can't cook, etcetera, then she's a liability and doesn't have anything to offer. If a man can have peace of mind in a particular relationship, he might not worry about the woman offering financial assistance.

If at all a job was provided for her by the husband, the job shouldn't affect how she runs her matrimonial home. Her main job is her home, the husband, and the kids, anything else is secondary. If a woman can provide this, then she's of value. Men who doesn't want their women working knows that they have to provide the basic amenities she needs and that of the house.

I stand to be corrected though.

Nezzjnr:
Wetin be this

ubunja:
lol the picture was deliberately meant to be appetizing.

But for real, I'm glad someone in the house understands the value of female naivete. It really makes all the difference in a woman. That undeserved trust a young woman places on a man that borders on foolishness and stupidity because she hasn't been hurt or used by men before it really is pure gold. The right man will use it the right way. A woman who still views men as good guys must be dealt with carefully because once that quality is gone, it never comes back.

As for the bolded, I agree 100%. I spoke of it once but from a virgin's point of view: https://www.nairaland.com/5322786/ubunjas-miseducation-sexual-imprint

And concerning the second bolded: https://www.nairaland.com/6242360/ubunjas-miseducation-2020-femininity

TheUndercover:

Naivety is very important in a woman, the more naive a woman is, the more better for the man. This is why it's best to go for young girls and inexperienced women, you'll be able to mould her to any shape you want and also maintain frame. It will be very hard to maintain frame with a woman who have had a lot of experiences with men. Experience is bad for women because it tends to damage them mentally. This is why sometimes, it's bad to date a woman who just got off in a relationship or divorced because you don't know how damaged she is from her previous relationship.

And one thing also, we men seems to ask what women has to offer in a relationship/marriage, in most cases, we shouldn't look at money. Because the more independent a woman is, the less likely she will be submissive, because she also has the power that you have. The value we should expect from a woman should be the orderliness of the home, how she takes care of you and the kids, how she teaches your kids, not being lazy, high agreeableness, etcetera. That's why the stay-at-home wives are the best option in most cases.

I'm not saying the woman shouldn't assist in making some certain payments, but she should depend more on the man.

Ubunja, the picture you posted might begin sowing some 'seeds' in young minds here and might make them 'react' in some way, your message was well understood without it. Thanks.

Junnior:

What does it mean to have abundance mindset?

Weather he has multiple wives or he has one wife but decides to be fvcking multiple hoes, it is still abundance mindset.

He wouldn't be fvcking around if he didn't have that.

It is, however, possible to have this abundance mindset and still be faithful in marriage to one woman ( i.e, decide not to act on the mindset).

I don't know why we always forget that the redpill is amoral.

Hyerin:


So grooming essentially and predatory behaviour. Noted

Hyerin:
Wow so there's a growing manosphere aka incel culture on nairaland. Wonderful

Belafonte:


Men are also guilty of projecting themselves as agreeable and sweet towards women when woman want the exact opposite.

It's all a side-effect of wrong gender socialization. Straight men don't desire masculine women, straight women don't desire effeminate men

ubunja:
that front page story is especially sad. Guys if you have serious money just get yourself two or even three official wives. These side chicks no longer know their place. In the US side chick are busy exposing their lovers, destroying their careers. Smh.

Drenimarcus:
What do you guys think? 7th kid?

ObinnaValentine:


Jes calm down and focus on the part of any of the messages passed that benefits u..it is easier..life isn't that hard my dear

TheUndercover:

Naivety is very important in a woman, the more naive a woman is, the more better for the man. This is why it's best to go for young girls and inexperienced women, you'll be able to mould her to any shape you want and also maintain frame. It will be very hard to maintain frame with a woman who have had a lot of experiences with men. Experience is bad for women because it tends to damage them mentally. This is why sometimes, it's bad to date a woman who just got off in a relationship or divorced because you don't know how damaged she is from her previous relationship.

And one thing also, we men seems to ask what women has to offer in a relationship/marriage, in most cases, we shouldn't look at money. Because the more independent a woman is, the less likely she will be submissive, because she also has the power that you have. The value we should expect from a woman should be the orderliness of the home, how she takes care of you and the kids, how she teaches your kids, not being lazy, high agreeableness, etcetera. That's why the stay-at-home wives are the best option in most cases.

I'm not saying the woman shouldn't assist in making some certain payments, but she should depend more on the man.

Ubunja, the picture you posted might begin sowing some 'seeds' in young minds here and might make them 'react' in some way, your message was well understood without it. Thanks.

Belafonte:


Every woman wants to be naive to the man of her dreams. She wants him to teach her interesting things. She wants to look up to him. She wants to dissolve into his arms and feel safe. Can you feel safe in the arms of any of your classmates? Be honest with yourself. Maybe unless that classmate is far ahead of the other boys in your class. Then all you girls want him, and many will gladly f*ck him secretly. Tell me I'm wrong

ubunja:
What many men think Female Masculinity is...

Illumined939:
That young girl you are happy for about her naivete, just so you can mould her into what you desire her to be for you, would one day experience an awakening that could shock you, and make you dispute and question the validity of those games / training you ran on her.

With women, nothing is carved in stone. Once you know this, you don't spend too much time writing about women.
Although, the knowledge of the redpill reduces the risk of a man getting burnt in his affairs with women.