Andremalan731:
Hello guys
I created this account today to share my story with you guys
I will try as much as possible to summarize it
I have been a silent reader of the redpill threads on this forum for about 2 years.
Please pardon my typo
I met this girl Jan 2019 and as at that time I have never been in any relationship even though I was not a virgin throughout my school days Bsc Nysc MSc I never had a girlfriend not because I don’t want to but the opportunity didn’t come.

When I met this girl she ticked all the boxes of how I want my woman to be... fair, not too tall, not too short , wide ass, round tits and I was like enough of admiring girls from afar, I will try my luck with this one. I got her number and we started chatting on WhatsApp, I told her I like her and I want her to be my girlfriend and she agreed.
We started dating and for the first time in my life I was getting regular sex
This girl was just so good to be true, very beautiful, always ready to have sex, she won’t even ask for money from me , she calls me like every 1 or 2 hours just to hear my voice , she will cook and bring it to my house , she calls every morning to pray for me, she send me love messages almost everyday, always begging me not to break her heart , she was even planning our future how many kids we will have etc

For the very first time in my life, I fell in in love... I was so addicted to her company that she became my only source of happiness.
I don’t watch or play football anymore, I stopped reading , stopped watching documentaries, stop watching series, I even cut contacts with my friends... foolish me I was so in love with her

This went on for about four months, during the fifth month she started withdrawing all her love and attention, she stopped calling every morning, she stopped picking calls until I call for about three times sometimes even more.
The more she was withdrawing the more I was chasing her so i started spending, she sent a message to me that she want us stop having sex
I started sending love messages, I did a lot of things to make her fall In love with me again but it just won’t work.
She finally told me she was no longer interested in the relationship on the sixth month.
I was heartbroken, she was my only source of happiness
I was not interested in anything but her
It was a really though month for me , what did I do where did I get it wrong I kept asking myself
I started searching online for how to forget about a girl you really love and that was how I found ubunja..
After a month she messaged me and we started talking again, I was still in love I told her i want her back and she agreed.
I was happy again, she came to my house few days after, we had sex and she slept off, that was when I decided to check her phone for the very first time
Lo and behold I saw things that made me cry.
In just one month she was already having sex with 3 people YES 3!!!
A new guys she just met, her ex and her boss who she just aborted for .
I couldn’t believe my eyes, it was like dagger was cutting through me.
I woke her up , showed her all what I saw and she started begging and crying, girl that has been doing a lot of shakara changed immediately.
She begged and begged , she was crying like a baby asking me to forgive her and give her another chance
She swore with the bible in front of me that if I give her this one last chance she will never disappoint
Apparently a part of me was still in love with her so I forgave her and just like that she became very loving and caring again but the flashes of what I saw keep coming back so I got ubunja WhatsApp number and I messaged him, I told him everything and he told me to be strong and let the girl go, he said once a bitch is always a bitch.

I didn’t listen to him I was still in love with her because this time around the love and care she was showing me was double to cut the story short, she got admitted to a university and she went to school Jan 2020 but before she left for school I scanned her WhatsApp barcode and I was reading her chats and just few months after getting to school this girl changed again she traveled to see another ex and they had sex.

I couldn’t believe my eyes, a girl who swore with the Bible??
I screenshot the chat and sent it to her
She started begging and crying again
She cried and begged and swore with her life her future and everything.
The funny thing is I was still in love with her
Foolish me gave her the last chance
To cut the story short after some months she started misbehaving again
Please note i have invested a lot in the relationship
She started misbehaving and she was ignoring me
I cried again.
A girl I forgave twice for cheating is ignoring me ??
Unbelievable
After 2 months she called me and started accusing me of abandoning her
She said she want us to meet that she miss me
I told her I will come and visit her in school
I got to her house in school
We talked, she cooked and we had sex again
She slept and I checked her phone
Guys in just 2 months this girl has changed boyfriend 3 times and even had sex with a guy she just me the very same week we stopped talking .

Guys for the first time in my life I raised my hand on a woman
I slapped her like 10 times
I had to control myself so that I won’t do what I will
Regret

I left her house immediately and she started begging and crying again.
I blocked her all her numbers, blocked her WhatsApp number too, I blocked her telegram, Facebook, Instagram.
In short I blocked her every where.

I wish I listen to Ubunja
I really really regret it

Redpill is the way guys , never fall in love with any girl, you cannot change a damaged girl, never give a hoe another chance, focus on yourself.

Zabiboy:
I stopped reading when he said "She got admission"
I'm not against marriage or relationships o.. But man, go and see what your current gf's or future wives are doing in universities, lets not even talk of nysc camp or the outside world ( parties,strip club, bars, hotels e.t.c)
Anytime i see marriage posters or someone tells me he's in a relationship, i just laugh unconsciously

KiNg0G:


I know it will come to this, one nigga coming out from the corner talking about we having emotions, sentiments, righteousness or na we holy pass, because we trying to spit some known facts.

Buh guess what, I speak for myself Gee.
Like I said earlier, I give no fûck about the girl or the foetus, for all I care, darcaeser could have wanked it off like our redpill monk,martinez... (Maximum 20min)

Buh since he did it raw, and decided to give his bloodline to his deputy or assistant..it's allowed. Buh what prompted this arguments, is when he comes in here, show us screenshot decide to buy us weed and beer with fàttprince as the DJ saying we should dance and drink to stupor that "A simp is going to father a child, that ain't his" (his child, that statement already showed that)
Untop of that forming rugged, we should have give him an apha award for that.

Offcus, since na free beer, most of us gon comply , but we drinking to his stupidity.



you talking about a man can run from his responsibility to attain greater height
It's the first time, am hearing it.

If that's the case, jah knows say I for nor learn how to creep, talkless how to walk when I was 9months old... mile for still de feed me till now.. buh a boy left home, when I still a teenager.


The street taught me,
a man embraces his responsibilities, no matter how small,or how hard it is , to attain greater heights.


What you wrote here, is just been self centered, bittered not a redpill drill.. ironically speaking you used this same words on me,when I first came here few months ago..now reverse is the case.








Peace.


#streetdrills

emmaodet:


It is a pity. Marriage and relationship have been bastardized.

emmaodet:


Welcome to the club brother

Martinez39s:
Wait o! She is yet to swear with her unborn generation and their success, don't you think he should try one more?

I dey always tell guys say if your babe get admission,just forget it Dem go knack am scatter,no be one,no be two.

Zabiboy:
I stopped reading when he said "She got admission"
I'm not against marriage or relationships o.. But man, go and see what your current gf's or future wives are doing in universities, lets not even talk of nysc camp or the outside world ( parties,strip club, bars, hotels e.t.c)
Anytime i see marriage posters or someone tells me he's in a relationship, i just laugh unconsciously

MJBOLT:

I dey always tell guys say if your babe get admission,just forget it Dem go knack am scatter,no be one,no be two.

fattprince:

I don't know how I came into this as I haven't commented on the subject. I'm just reading all comments to learn that's why I haven't commented. Reading your reply supported your stance but when I read those in support of him too I felt they were right. That's redpill for you. It's Amoral you can look at it from whatever lens. The best reply yet was Nwasomething's can remember his moniker now. Even let's forget about the girl what about STI and spreading your seeds up and down. It doesn't make sense. Though chances of contacting HIV is low( saw a thread where they said according to research without an open would on you penis the chances of you contacting it us 1.4%) but the chances isn't still worth it or what about other deadlier STIs? But at the same time the last I had sex with my girl she told me not to release but I did. Then she was telling me how she would love to have my baby and damn the consequences of what our families will say but it wasn't just right because we both broke and it was an unnecessary burden. And she bought after pill with her money (even as i offered to pay because it was my fault) and used it in my presence. All this after she said she was in her safe period but we shouldn't be taking chances. So as junior as said its all a game. And its still on let wait and see who wins. Both of them should be held accountable. And as I told my girl too if she happens to be pregnant we will all come together with our families and look for a way out because no matter what with time it will pass. All wounds we heal as long as we live.

Martinez39s:
^^^^


Strong head. Una no dey listen. You asked for Ubunja's advice yet you didn't listen. Why then did you ask him? I have been saying it, most times when people seek advice, they don't want it. They just want you to validate and rationalise the decision they want to make. The pusśy power and love bombing really got you.

No one is perfect. We all make mistakes. Go and simp no more.

KiNg0G:


Nice point you got here bro, even I myself the reason I always get strapped on is because of S.t I.. going in raw is a decision between life and death.... that's one of the hardest decision a game man has to make.

Buh I think you really didn't get the scenario or where my stand is.



Let's say your my tight pal, I look towards you in advice n all, so yesterday I had to dial your number.





Me: howfa, na my guy

You: alaye, I de wetin de sup?



Me: bros, your boy loyal, I won clear you one matter

You: oya shoot..I de hear.




Me: omo, you remember Becky na, when I lash for your house last 2weeks, she just call me say she don get belle o..I shock.

You: hehehe, you nor wear condom?



Me: na raw we do am bros ..with like so, I even tell her make she go abort am she nor won reason straight.


You : na be say na you get am, how it come de be na?



Me: I come tell her say make she carry the belle, give her seriousy boyfriend... you know say the guy na simp na. him nor go suspect...as I never get money so to run all this kind package..



You: na wetin you tell Becky be that?



Me : yes na bros, even like so self I get like 6 girls when dey come find my big long prick this Sunday You even dey house self,? I de come yourside may we go run one or two bottles.








You :





Give me your honest reply, what would you have said to me physically, if we had this conversation visually...( Forget the redpill.) Or rather still, input the redpill.


I want you to speak from your mind, not from your heart.

Speak from your mind as a man.

fattprince:

Bro from my perspective I'm 100% with you. From my perspective the guy no do good. But that's from my perspective.
I was telling someone that I feel a girl carry my unborn baby to another man. I said when I get money I will use everything I have to look for the child and confirm if its mine. Where ever I plant my seed and watch it grow I must take responsibility of it.

Andremalan731:
that was when I decided to check her phone for the very first time
Lo and behold I saw things that made me cry.

Andremalan731:


Guys for the first time in my life I raised my hand on a woman
I slapped her like 10 times
I had to control myself so that I won’t do what I will
Regret

I left her house immediately and she started begging and crying again.
I blocked her all her numbers, blocked her WhatsApp number too, I blocked her telegram, Facebook, Instagram.
In short I blocked her every where.

I wish I listen to Ubunja
I really really regret it

Redpill is the way guys , never fall in love with any girl, you cannot change a damaged girl, never give a hoe another chance, focus on yourself.

MetalJigsaw:
Abundance mindset... It works wonders.

But ironically, it's underrated.

You see different guys boasting of loyalty to their girlfriends and still come back to complain about the same lady they claim to be special... That's the price they pay.

Women dread this mindset a lot because they hate rivalry and it keeps them on their toes. It attaches more value and respect to their guy and makes him more desired, even by other women.

But alot of guys are ignorant of this. Even the so called players and rich dudes.

I know a guy that cheats recklessly which his girl knows about but still maintains loyalty only because nigga has many other girls at his disposal.

That's the power of an abundance mindset.

It's a woman's nightmare. It's their tamer

Zabiboy:
I stopped reading when he said "She got admission"
I'm not against marriage or relationships o.. But man, go and see what your current gf's or future wives are doing in universities, lets not even talk of nysc camp or the outside world ( parties,strip club, bars, hotels e.t.c)
Anytime i see marriage posters or someone tells me he's in a relationship, i just laugh unconsciously

Peaceyw:

According to the redpill, the guy isn't wrong and he isn't right. Redpill says; put yourself first. And this thread is "Strictly Redpill' according to The title. People who are insulting him are not sticking to the context of the thread. If they want to reprimand him, they should do it on where it is accepted and not troll on this thread. The guy can do whatever he wants with the redpill. Imagine shouting redpill is amoral and preaching morality on a " strictly redpill" thread.
What a Shame.

SkyFlint:
Let no one define what Alpha Male, Masculinity or being RedPilled means.
Define it for yourself. That's the whole point for being unplugged from the Matrix.
To think for yourself. With your own brain.
If you must follow any definition of what Alpha Male, Masculinity or being RedPilled means, leth this be it:
To thine own self, BE TRUE.

Calibrator:
Two wrong doesn't make a right, same way mathematically, a negative and a positive don't also make a positive.


Don't take shiit from anybody in guise of trying not pay evil back with evil.

Evil is the only language some people understand, speak with them appropriately!

SkyFlint:
Recent posts on this thread show that most people are unwilling, and perhaps unable, to learn.

Someone on this thread was generous enough to recommend a great book - Sperm Wars. The book is a comprehensive manual on sex, sexual habits and sexual strategies.

That book especially gives invaluable insights into sexual strategies. All men should read and comprehend it.

Now, a guy on this thread posted a string of messages where he boldly told a woman how he wasn't ready to be a father yet...

And almost everyone came for his head. Funniest of all, some people dubbed him a "simp." Others claimed he's not a "true alpha male" and others said "that's not what red pill is about."

They are all full of sh1t.

First of all, if there's anything that the TRP is unequivocal about, it's PUTTING YOURSELF FIRST. In fact, that's the first few lessons you learn when you come in contact with TRP.

Now here's a man doing exactly that and he's being vilified. All because he's somehow violating the moral principles of some people. Moral principles that were painstakingly sculpted by a gynocentric society, I might add.

These outcries are vestiges of ingrained blue pill conditioning sealed deep where even daily exposure to TRP is yet to exorcise them.

The guy claims he's not ready yet and he's called irresponsible for his decision. Meanwhile, the lady in question seems to have a "serious BF" somewhere else while still fxcking another man raw.

Plus, abortion is ALWAYS an option. Especially when the pregnancy results from casual sex. Religion is obviously NOT an excuse here since the girl is already fxcking outside marriage and possibly double dating.

So if she's keeping it, she'd better take responsibility for the baby.

By the way, women are not called "Gatekeepers of Sex" for no reason. They are the Gatekeepers because they decide whether sex is going to happen or not.

If they decide whether sex is going to happen or not; they automatically decide whether baby is going to follow or not. If they decide that a baby will follow, then it is expected that they have a way to cater for the baby already.

Women as the Gatekeepers have to take responsibility for the offspring that results from a sexual congress they authorized.

Responsibility for offsprings is NOT a man's duty, it's a woman's. Marriage conveniently turns the equation on its head. But marriage is not an evolved phenomenon, it's conditioned by society.

Women, of course, are aware of this reality - that responsibility for the offsprings rests on them. That's why female sexual strategy are so BRUTAL and UNFORGIVING.

They are very quick to get hitched to a beta PROVIDER that guarantees provisioning that'll give their offsprings the best chance of survival. They'd also never hesitate to fxck an ALPHA who'll provide the best genes that also improve the survival chances of their offsprings.

The strategy emanates from a deep-seated understanding that responsibility for offsprings rests on them.

This is an unbelievably effective strategy.

Women are confident that the beta PROVIDER will raise the offsprings whether they are his or not because he's a GOOD DOG of the society. Thus, he does what the society tells him to do. But the Alpha, not so much.

Now, I'm not saying that ALL fathers are betas. All I'm saying is that no one should EVER blame a man who makes it clear that he's not ready to raise a kid.

By the way, there are undeniable genetic benefits to impregnating ladies and letting betas raise them. But they'll not be coming from me.

Read SPERM WARS.

That said, whenever someone says:

"A true redpiller..."
"A real Alpha Male..."

Remember this age-old line:

"A real man..."

And tell them to SHOVE IT!

Let no one define what Alpha Male, Masculinity or being RedPilled means.
Define it for yourself. That's the whole point for being unplugged from the Matrix.

To think for yourself. With your own brain.

If you must follow any definition of what Alpha Male, Masculinity or being RedPilled means, leth this be it:

To thine own self, BE TRUE.

Kevincal144444:


I don't know how to like this a million times.

Redpill doesn't give a Bleep about what you feel mehn.

Kaycee54321:



I just had to laugh

Anyways, all I can say is, you will currently find yourself in the angry phase of being a redpiller...which will mostly mean that you will find yourself calling all Ladies, Hoes or "Vagina people"...then, you will call every man with a dissenting opinion, a simp and you may be a bit impaired when it comes to reasoning logically, simply because you're really hurt.

With time and experience though, you will find out that what you experienced is simply human beings being human. It hurts more when sudden pain/betrayal comes from a female simply because they have a softer demeanor (a physical camouflage) compared to their male counterparts...and they sure know how to use tears and fake sorrow to utilize that deadly emotional weapon...

Always remember though;
With time, everything and everyone will disappoint you at some point... including yourself.
Don't beat yourself up man. Enjoy Life and be human. Next time, let the source of your happiness originate from you.

Y.O.L.O.

PrinxArthur1:
You literally don't have to lie to women, if she likes you enough ,she will lie to herself