ProphetJeroboam:
Who is conversant with the whole Benjamin Mendy story? I heard some chick he hooked up with turned around and is suing him for rape. There’s even video of them having sex in the shower and she was all giggly and didn’t seem forced in the slightest.

Donnie835:
Hi Guys!
I appreciate every good work here. You guys have been awesome.

I'm in serious relationship with a girl for the past 7months, she has been a good girl so far even though she has displayed some subtle signs that she is a lover of money.
In the first three months to the relationship, she insisted that no sex would occur between us, even though we did all manner of pre-intimacy but she wouldn't allow me penetrate her because she told me she is a virgin and not ready for sex.
In the fifth month, she visited me and I got her extreme in the mood that she couldn't resist me, so we eventually had sex. It was consensual. I deflowered her.
Ever since that incident, my babe has refused visiting me. She said she can't come to my place and always advise we meet in an open place.

How do I sort this out?

Fiscus105:


There is a thin line between rape and consentual sex.

If you deliberately drug woman with intention of have weird sex with her, it's rape, if you have sexed a lady 100 times before, you can still accuse of raping her, if she is not consented the next time you meet.

Oga, many of these super stars and celebrities are forcing woman for all kinds of sex ....in the name of my fetish with woman...

Hope u know forcing in legal term is another word for t rape!

ProphetJeroboam:
so you’re saying there’s verifiable evidence that Mendy forced or drugged her and she isn’t just looking to shake him down for some millions of pounds?

KiNg0G:


This what happens when men, places high value on a girl Virginity.... anything is bound to happen.


Because you deflowered her, she automatically calls the shot.

First no sex for 3months, which you agreed.

Now let's meet in public, (her virginity makes her a shot caller)

Now you are trying to sort it out, BECAUSE YOU ARE AFRAID TO LOSE HER. (Getting virgins this days is hard, I understand)





But still





as an okpo nigga, I pass this to them virgin hunters..... Caveadullam over to you.

bayus2003:
Irrespective of the virginity, AWALT. She was in control and manipulative for those first three months. Her interest was at the forefront of that relationship those months. However, having guaranteed her control she subsequently allowed the sex. It's either he takes control or discharge her, no time. He should cut off attention, resources and time from her and see for himself.

topoftheworld:
Is good to be Redpiller.
A guy in my working place was weeping profusely last Friday bcus of his babe..
The guy said he had invested so much on this babe, bought a car worth 6.8m for her, took her to almost 7 different countries, bought car for her father, built house for father, the simp even placed all his investment in the girl's name, I didn't believe the guy in the first place until he began to show us the pictures of those properties and how he and the lady traveled.

The problem now is, the lady is into drugs, she will left the house and comes around the following morning bcus she & the guy stays in an estate together, the worst of it all is, the babe said she is not doing again and dude keep begging her n still babe said no way, the guy was abt to run mad that day.

Is good to be Redpiller Abeg..

adambeatz:



Speaking from experience righy now, i have a female junkie who is into drugs like mad, shes older than me, initially had 3 cars and worked for in a goverment house years back but lost everything due to drugs and left abuja to Lagos. I met her in lagos some months back and opened my eyes in shock, this is someone her elder brother is a prince of a state in Nigeria, now wallowing in drugs. I tried to help rehabilitate her from using drugs but she only wanted my dick game. I eventually regretted trying to help her rehabilitate cause she sold my phone after that i washed my hand from trying to save her cause even me sef need saving. Fast foward to date she still does drugs and whenever she wants Bleep, she calls me and she's always on standby should i want Bleep.
A word of advise, avoid the contagious especially if is she doesnt want to change cause her junkie behaviour would drag him down just because he felt like a knight in shining amour.

topoftheworld:


My question is why ladies are into drugs this days?

bayus2003:
Irrespective of the virginity, AWALT. She was in control and manipulative for those first three months. Her interest was at the forefront of that relationship those months. However, having guaranteed her control she subsequently allowed the sex. It's either he takes control or discharge her, no time. He should cut off attention, resources and time from her and see for himself.

bayus2003:
Irrespective of the virginity, AWALT. She was in control and manipulative for those first three months. Her interest was at the forefront of that relationship those months. However, having guaranteed her control she subsequently allowed the sex. It's either he takes control or discharge her, no time. He should cut off attention, resources and time from her and see for himself.

DonMoel:

KiNg0G:


what if the girl screamed rape?

from the op post, I can sense fear of losing her and fear of been accused. (regrets, forced)

because he said the girl didn't agreed on sex for about 3months.....until they finally did it.(deflowering)



now



"She's insisting they see outside the public vicinity" (To avoid sex)


though I might be wrong, but was the first time really consensual?

i don't really think so.



they might be more to this.... weighing 2odds

enirock:
I have come to a conclusion that it takes a strong-willed individual to imbibe the tenets of this pill.

adambeatz:


Speaking from experience as someone who worked in the medical field and having mingled with the worst streets has to offer.

Lack of a father figure is always a factor as this gives room to females been easily influenced into doing drugs. When men don't take control of their homes to rule in wisdom and strength, their daughters become the experimentations of other men. You can imagine drugs like Ice, Gbana, Banku, Crack being taken by beautiful youths of the society only to drop low into the depths of hell just to get money to buy more fix, tell me what they wouldn't do just do get more.
I have a younger sister whom i taught all the evil this world as to offer so when guys and ladies try to entice her with vices, she tells them there's nothing her older brother hasn't opened her eyes to, in cases like my sis, it would be hard to be thrown off course by anyone. Sadly this is something parents neglect to teach the young and end loosing their kids to vices that'll give them heart attack when they eventaually find out.


Hmmm
U have a point boss, lack of a good parenting upbringing os one factor contributing to this social vices..

Meek127:
lol,thats a typical nigerian girl syndrome,they never know what they really want.it shows a high degree of immaturity.
simply tell her...."are you in or out".i really dont get why you're giving yourself headache over nothing when women full everywhere.
move on swiftly if she aint ready.
i bet she's those types that run their mouth anyhow. After all your hardwork to get her,only to realise you bought a bad market. End the charade once and for all bro,this life too short to dey waste ontop one person wey no ready

bayus2003:
Irrespective of the virginity, AWALT. She was in control and manipulative for those first three months. Her interest was at the forefront of that relationship those months. However, having guaranteed her control she subsequently allowed the sex. It's either he takes control or discharge her, no time. He should cut off attention, resources and time from her and see for himself.

DonMoel:



Trust me, I've done all this. I've once asked her if she's in or out but the response was she's not ready to date.

At some points I withdrew my attention but then she increased hers and she never stopped showing the interest, care and concern.

I have options too but I like her because she actually meets up with some of my specs

DonMoel:



Trust me, I've done all this. I've once asked her if she's in or out but the response was she's not ready to date.

At some points I withdrew my attention but then she increased hers and she never stopped showing the interest, care and concern.

I have options [b]too but I like her because she actually meets up with some of my specs (not physical now). [/b]She's got the vibes and all. I feel now discarding and withdrawing total attention because she wouldn't date me wouldn't be a fair decision...

I'm just curious and confused as to why she's acting it but not wanting it.

Battalion1:
baba Don too give am attention which be make Dem meet 4 open place....baba go still go .... SMH

Donnie835:


I didn't give too much attention. I just deduced she is trying to avoid being intimate with me.

DonMoel:
Guys, so there's this lady who we're so close and I asked out even though she's yet to say yes but she's acting the girlfriend role already.

She's scared of committing because she doesn't want to experience what she experienced in her previous relationship where her ex took her for granted after accepting to date him but not willing to f**k him. She hates being taken for granted and that's what pained her the most in her previous relationship (according to her)


Now, this lady gets mad at me whenever I don't bother to assume the boyfriend role (she's not demanding any material thing from me) but if I don't call or didn't really show I care, she gets to complain that I didn't do this or that , then ends it with (well, I'm (she) in right position to complain since I'm not your girlfriend)

This lady has been wanting to know about my previous relationships which I didn't bother to talk about because I'm confused on why she'd be so interested in knowing what's up with my previous relationships and what lead to the end of each.

She claims to love me though and to an extent, I believe she's showing it because she's somehow more invested in me , talking about calling and texting and her attention.

Would it be right to let her know about my previous relationship? The number of ladies I've had and reasons why we separated?

Why does she prefer staying as "more than friends" but less than dating with me , and still acting like my girlfriend based on her ways. ?

solidmyk:

The lady knows her onions dude, She has a tight game.
First she's actually making you fall out of your feet by pulling you into her frame, then you'll have no other options than to come to her bid whenever she makes one.
She needs to confirm how simpish you're, that was why she asked about your past relationship.
Even that statement she loves you to an extent shows she's more matured than you are dude
The best thing is just to abort mission bro, you're not fit
She's gonna use ur head bro

bayus2003:
what's your favorite drink bruv! �
You nailed it

solidmyk:
I still find it amusing that some men claims some women still loves them
Like upon all this writeups on this thread up to this current post, it's just so funny.

G0LANHEIGHTS:

They has to be something you don't like about her. May be how she behaves, talks, dress, cook, smell etc. Just occupy your mind with her imperfections and in no time you'll forget about her. Also try and fill this void by learning a skill or something.
Personally i believe all women are smellos..so i just reject any one that comes my way with the speed of light. A gender that can't stay a day without bathing and not smell down there. That's my trick.
Right now I'm focused on building my knowledge of the universe and wealth. No time to entertain inconsequential thoughts.

solidmyk:

The lady knows her onions dude, She has a tight game.
First she's actually making you fall out of your feet by pulling you into her frame, then you'll have no other options than to come to her bid whenever she makes one.
She needs to confirm how simpish you're, that was why she asked about your past relationship.
Even that statement she loves you to an extent shows she's more matured than you are dude
The best thing is just to abort mission bro, you're not fit
She's gonna use ur head bro

bayus2003:
For the Bolded you mentioned, you need to maintain frame and be careful. It's best to cut her off unless she comes to give a definite response and thus you define the relationship. Women are so volatile and irrational.

DonMoel:
I've once asked her if she's in or out but the response was she's not ready to date.
I have options too but I like her because she actually meets up with some of my specs (not physical now). She's got the vibes and all. I feel now discarding and withdrawing total attention because she wouldn't date me wouldn't be a fair decision...