Lightheaded:

Lol sure ain't for you, it's for our brothers who haven't come to terms with how life works. I'm just saying majorly posting about some things isn't complaining, I'd say awareness. Cheers boss

Smartb0y:

Infact they're are not even struggling to play their game,simps simply volunteer themselves to be used and dumped.

Reminderz:

na the toxicity of Martinez dey make people talk say marriage na useless sometingss for this thread... the guy with his toxic mentality..

how many men nowadays really look at the red flags when choosing women? nor be love blind their eyes and their bluepill mindset into choosing wrong wife's.. how one person choice take relate to everybody.. ahh omoo... mehn.. this is only being exaggerated with the use of social media and the likes..

Lightheaded:

Lol, Boss, toxicity is over the top.

But then Martinez has his reasons for MGTOW and he hasn't forced anybody to follow that path so far I've noticed, he only declared himself one. Different people have their different reasons for their choices. He only stated his opinions on the pros and cons of being married, the choice is totally individual.

I for one don't know whether I'll marry or not, you can't see some things in the current society and be totally inclined towards marriage hoping yours will turn out different. People have different experiences and different reasons for their decisions. Tonny gave a suitable example, your parents can't have given you the perfect idea of marriage and a stranger who was raised up differently will change your mind. Never, you'll be totally structured to trust the process. Peradventure the marriage starts heading for the rocks, you won't abandon ship, because your mentor sailors never did.

I respect people's decisions and I've seen the good an the ugly, heck the worse in marriages. Even those that are dating, a lot of ladies are disguising or have done the worst in their past knowing marriage is the saving grace (the Knight in shining armor comes for the community bride lol).

If you're ready to get married, vet properly and preferably let her be a virgin (just saying). Have the redpill as a guide. The redpill isn't against marriage, it just highlighted the obvious (or not so obvious).

Trex4:
Blue pilled people have invaded this thread and are trying to force their wrapped version of Redpill
It's the resilience for me

Reminderz:

na the toxicity of Martinez dey make people talk say marriage na useless sometingss for this thread... the guy with his toxic mentality.. the guy go dey talk say all women are hoes.. all women cheats go mgtwo.. women are useless, relationship are useless ... like godammit.. what did the guy really face in his childhood... this is totally absurd... this thread is making men considering marriage foolish... go baby mama, go surrogacy... like that's the ultimate goal... this is so damaging to the society in the long run... very crAZY stuffs... na here I hear say marriage is very useless omoooo tinz dey happen oo.. so many families are living fine till date... no be when one thing happen, news go carry that one thing and people go start to dey generalize.. what about those where it's working for them mehn which kind mentality and speech you expect from person wey nor even like pikin or wan born pikin sef?? ahh I pray for the guy omoo

how many men nowadays really look at the red flags when choosing women? nor be love blind their eyes and their bluepill mindset into choosing wrong wife's.. how one person choice take relate to everybody.. ahh omoo... mehn.. this is only being exaggerated with the use of social media and the likes..

Martinez39s:
KiNg0G! Welcome back, nwannem. You see, I have never demanded of or imposed it on anyone to go mgtow and not to marry. You see, I have never said that being redpilled means that you will shun marriage or die single and childless like I have voluntarily chosen to. That is MY path. People must note, as I do, that not everyone shares your interest and aspirations. What is a holy grail to you (eg. family, building up a next generation) are inessential to others. Being open-minded to be able to understand this is a hallmark of maturity.

The fact that I am giving my personal take based on my understanding of the red pill from my journey in life doesn't mean anyone should follow my path. If I see no reason to get married after weighing the pros and cons while considering myself or I think it that it isn't worth the stress when red pill is applied, why should anyone care? Do these mean I am stopping anyone from getting married or implying that they are lesser redpillers for getting married. Have you seen me vilify or belittle those who want marriage?

Reminderz:

na the toxicity of Martinez dey make people talk say marriage na useless sometingss for this thread... the guy with his toxic mentality.. the guy go dey talk say all women are hoes.. all women cheats go mgtwo.. women are useless, relationship are useless ... like godammit.. what did the guy really face in his childhood... this is totally absurd... this thread is making men considering marriage foolish... go baby mama, go surrogacy... like that's the ultimate goal... this is so damaging to the society in the long run... very crAZY stuffs... na here I hear say marriage is very useless omoooo tinz dey happen oo.. so many families are living fine till date... no be when one thing happen, news go carry that one thing and people go start to dey generalize.. what about those where it's working for them mehn which kind mentality and speech you expect from person wey nor even like pikin or wan born pikin sef?? ahh I pray for the guy omoo

how many men nowadays really look at the red flags when choosing women? nor be love blind their eyes and their bluepill mindset into choosing wrong wife's.. how one person choice take relate to everybody.. ahh omoo... mehn.. this is only being exaggerated with the use of social media and the likes..

heartofcity12:
Someone wants to match make this lady with a good man and this was their chat. You can’t make this shit up, smh.

2special:
some girls will even claim they're the table hence they don't have to bring anything to the table.

Reminderz:

na the toxicity of Martinez dey make people talk say marriage na useless sometingss for this thread... the guy with his toxic mentality.. the guy go dey talk say all women are hoes.. all women cheats go mgtwo.. women are useless, relationship are useless ... like godammit.. what did the guy really face in his childhood... this is totally absurd... this thread is making men considering marriage foolish... go baby mama, go surrogacy... like that's the ultimate goal... this is so damaging to the society in the long run... very crAZY stuffs... na here I hear say marriage is very useless omoooo tinz dey happen oo.. so many families are living fine till date... no be when one thing happen, news go carry that one thing and people go start to dey generalize.. what about those where it's working for them mehn which kind mentality and speech you expect from person wey nor even like pikin or wan born pikin sef?? ahh I pray for the guy omoo

how many men nowadays really look at the red flags when choosing women? nor be love blind their eyes and their bluepill mindset into choosing wrong wife's.. how one person choice take relate to everybody.. ahh omoo... mehn.. this is only being exaggerated with the use of social media and the likes..

dhiqson:




Very obvious you're new here
Because if You weren't, you won't post this nonsense
Everything has their pros and cons
And I remember specifically asking him on his view in marriage... And he gave two sides to it. Now it's up to me to decide whether to go on or forbear



Plsssss if you've got beef with anyone here
Just hush it abeg

Lightheaded:
Pics Mic
The Red pill is like a large tree with several branches yielding various fruits. However, I'd say it has a single root - The enlightenment of men .

Taking us back memory lane, we'd notice in the past, there was no redpill, no MGTOW, no this or that, why? There was no need to. Society was rock solid , it held the family together as the family reciprocated. Until things took a turn and voilà here we are.

Are we going back to the past? By the past I mean the fairy tale love we were sold in Titanic, Yemi my lover, and the 3 hours long Indian movies we watched when we were younger (those guys took romance over the top if you asked me) . NO WE ARE NOT, maybe it existed maybe it never did, I don't know. Just come to peace with it and lower your expectations mate.

Marriage has existed for centuries and may probably exist for centuries more, Cave, Martinez and other contributors have done more than enough justice to the pros and cons of marriages, why people sign the contracts and why they exit the building. But then life is a game, a game is an activity controlled by laid down rules and played using well thought out decisions by the players. Your immediate society you find yourself in and nature has laid down the rules , the decisions you take are in your hands.

You have society and the hypergamous nature of women to contend with (already tempered by other factors). Are you still willing to play the game?

I've said it before that the redpill can be compared to a guide book, some games come with guidebooks, but the redpill adds an extra, it makes it feel like the guidebook is a cheat book. You're not surprised by the new levels the game manifests, you've seen it before (or read it), it becomes expected. But can you shield yourself from the effects of the game, probably not, you can only dampen it, hence be wise.

Like I said the redpill has different branches and marriage is one of them, if you want to get married please do , we're all built or in this case our society and differing communities (including our families) have all built us differently. If you are willing to take your chances don't let people on a forum tell you otherwise (as much as they mean well) , even with a hundred failed marriages there's also a thousand functioning ( I didn't say perfect, some require some jump starting and spark plug replacement if you know what I mean ) unions. However don't expect a fairly tale bliss, be prepared to face reality. I'd recommend the redpill. Every ying has an accompanying yang, if you've decided to compare the good and bad sides of marriage it favours you, it's a personal choice.

Somebody recommend studying the Philosophy of morality as a hobby and I'd take that up. Cave and doing justice to topics, 5 and 6. Cave what did you study? I want to check something.

We might say redpill is amoral and all but then think about where the society stands without morality. We'd talk about women being hypergamous without remorse, more like them lacking conscience but then it's just being amoral, so why the fuss if they're indirectly doing what we're preaching, they put themselves first innit. You just happened to be on the other side of the 2 by 2 plank .
Society will crumble without morality, I'm not here to preach about morality, but not everybody will be moral and not everyone will be "amoral" or "immoral".

Machiavellianism will introduce you to the perks of morality and amorality and the ways of using them, don't shoot yourself in the leg by screaming redpill is amoral everywhere you go. Know control.

But I suggest everyone should know that you being moral doesn't sideline you from the consequences of the actions of the amoral or immoral. Just like saying because you're good means you won't be duped. Life doesn't work that way.

One of my friends was bullied as a kid and it did quite a score on him till today, he asked me why "nemesis" doesn't catch up with bad people (this case his bullies), despite him being a good person. His bullies are still doing good according to him, but he was expecting some fvxked up shvt to have happened, well life happens and I didn't make the law of karma and nemesis.

There's this intersection between what's right, morality (moral, amoral, immoral), what favours one (selfishness). Not everyone will get the intersection and make the best decision. It's dicey but let's think about it.

Sharing memes and stories is a major way of keeping the thread alive and continuous reminder that we shouldn't lower frame and not exactly complaining, I think Tonny might have misconstrued it. However, if you're still complaining about the female nature, just go back to page 1 of this thread and start all over, you should be beyond that by this time.
My hands in the the air for those that keep posting , heartofcity you too much.

Why are women women? Think about this.

"A lion in the wild is primed for preying, it's jaws, claws, muscles, athletism all incorporated into every nucleotide in its DNA.
However a lion cub, unexposed to the wild, groomed and trained in the house, behaves as a house cat, until its very basic nature is triggered knowingly or unknowingly and from there there's no going back."

This might be a rant, but it's just my thoughts.
Drops mic.

maak400:
You just gained a follower, thumbs up to you for this post!

Reminderz:

na the toxicity of Martinez dey make people talk say marriage na useless sometingss for this thread... the guy with his toxic mentality.. the guy go dey talk say all women are hoes.. all women cheats go mgtwo.. women are useless, relationship are useless ... like godammit.. what did the guy really face in his childhood... this is totally absurd... this thread is making men considering marriage foolish... go baby mama, go surrogacy... like that's the ultimate goal... this is so damaging to the society in the long run... very crAZY stuffs... na here I hear say marriage is very useless omoooo tinz dey happen oo.. so many families are living fine till date... no be when one thing happen, news go carry that one thing and people go start to dey generalize.. what about those where it's working for them mehn which kind mentality and speech you expect from person wey nor even like pikin or wan born pikin sef?? ahh I pray for the guy omoo

how many men nowadays really look at the red flags when choosing women? nor be love blind their eyes and their bluepill mindset into choosing wrong wife's.. how one person choice take relate to everybody.. ahh omoo... mehn.. this is only being exaggerated with the use of social media and the likes..

Lightheaded:

Lol, Boss, toxicity is over the top.

But then Martinez has his reasons for MGTOW and he hasn't forced anybody to follow that path so far I've noticed, he only declared himself one. Different people have their different reasons for their choices. He only stated his opinions on the pros and cons of being married, the choice is totally individual.

I for one don't know whether I'll marry or not, you can't see some things in the current society and be totally inclined towards marriage hoping yours will turn out different. People have different experiences and different reasons for their decisions. Tonny gave a suitable example, your parents can't have given you the perfect idea of marriage and a stranger who was raised up differently will change your mind. Never, you'll be totally structured to trust the process. Peradventure the marriage starts heading for the rocks, you won't abandon ship, because your mentor sailors never did.

I respect people's decisions and I've seen the good an the ugly, heck the worse in marriages. Even those that are dating, a lot of ladies are disguising or have done the worst in their past knowing marriage is the saving grace (the Knight in shining armor comes for the community bride lol).

If you're ready to get married, vet properly and preferably let her be a virgin (just saying). Have the redpill as a guide. The redpill isn't against marriage, it just highlighted the obvious (or not so obvious).

Reminderz:

I nor dey argue this one brother.. he nor dey force in decision directly but he dey do am indirectly.. wetin be the meaning of all women are hoes or all women cheats?? relationship are useless marriage are useless?? if you dey hear this one all the time, shey you go still wan marry... if you go through his memes thread, your mind will be filled with so much hatred and toxic mindset you'll never even consider relationship talklesss of marriage if you're not careful..people should learn to use their brain also.. nor just go dey swallow everything wey you dey see or read online... as there are some percent of bad marriages, there are billions of good families and marriages... check deeply those bad marriages... you'll surely find where things went wrong from the beginning.. the redpill go let you know that one... cheerio

dhiqson:




Very obvious you're new here
Because if You weren't, you won't post this nonsense
Everything has their pros and cons
And I remember specifically asking him on his view in marriage... And he gave two sides to it. Now it's up to me to decide whether to go on or forbear



Plsssss if you've got beef with anyone here
Just hush it abeg

Lightway:


Marriage is a fool's dream in this generation.
If you're angry. Leave the group

Martinez39s:
KiNg0G! Welcome back, nwannem. You see, I have never demanded of or imposed it on anyone to go mgtow and not to marry. You see, I have never said that being redpilled means that you will shun marriage or die single and childless like I have voluntarily chosen to. That is MY path. People must note, as I do, that not everyone shares your interest and aspirations. What is a holy grail to you (eg. family, building up a next generation) are inessential to others. Being open-minded to be able to understand this is a hallmark of maturity.

The fact that I am giving my personal take based on my understanding of the red pill from my journey in life doesn't mean anyone should follow my path. If I see no reason to get married after weighing the pros and cons while considering myself or I think it that it isn't worth the stress when red pill is applied, why should anyone care? Do these mean I am stopping anyone from getting married or implying that they are lesser redpillers for getting married. Have you seen me vilify or belittle those who want marriage?

Reminderz:

its not a must you mention me if you have nothing tangible to say.

Lightway:


KiNg0G! cheesy Welcome back, nwannem.

You just like clout

Lightway:


You're still a child who doesn't know about redpill

How can you say you come here to read things for fun... Do you think women are out there to joke.

Marriage is a fool's dream in this generation.

You can get married if you want.

Lightheaded:

Lol, Boss nobody is fighting with you. Calm down on the attempted shaming. You sound pained, like you've been hurt before. Are you just coming to terms with life or getting out of your rage stage. Or probably just confused.

Nevertheless, I'll lay something on you, you'll get to a stage in life ( or the redpill) where happenings becomes normal to you, your emotions won't cloud your speech. Your haphazard demeanor becomes calm and you've attained peace with life. You sound like someone who hasn't come to terms with the redpill, calm down. You'll still joke about things happening around you, you might joke about how your girl left you.

I don't know about you (you still sound surprised though) , but a lot of things about the female nature doesn't surprise me anymore. I'm sure it doesn't surprise a lot of people here, even the poster. So man, chill a bit with something chilled, preferably non alcoholic and attain peace.

bunja

Junnior:

I disagree with you.

People should get married if they want to. There are always pros and cons of any choice we make. It is left for each man to pick his own poison.

The thing with Tonnyray is he is open-minded and not just another redpill junky like many of us here.

Now, how exactly did he screw his friend over?

Because he allowed him get married? If so, are you enforcing mgtow on him? Not every man must mgtow.
Are you saying all married Nigerian men are screwed over?

Or, is it because his friend is married to a lady who wouldn't have married him if he were broke?

If so, why should you get married when you're flat broke in the first place? If I were a lady, I wouldn't wanna marry a broke man too. It's simple survival sense. So, why are you mad about that?

Why should you expect a working high-class lady to marry you when you are flat broke? If you were this lady, would you marry a flat broke guy?

You would probably say men marry broke women.

Yeah, we know. It's not fair.

But that's how things work naturally.
Men mate down. Women mate up. Hypergamy is not due to society's decay. It is natural.

And the sooner we come to terms with this, the better.

His friend's case looks like a fair deal, not a "lose-lose", to me, since he claimed the lady he married is "high-class and humble".
It doesn't matter if she would have married him or not in the past when he was broke.
We all, men and women, seek to roll with people who are doing well, not losers.
I don't expect a rich girl to want to marry me as a flat broke guy -- it would be a disaster for us both.
The same way, a hoe shouldn't expect me to marry her as a rich guy.

We all know these things, but some of us refuse to come to terms with them and be at peace.

Lightway:


Keep your mouth shut boy

I never had a heart for a woman to break... You're claiming that some things in the redpill are extreme

Woman sympathizer. If you want to get married go ahead

No one's forcing you.

Lightheaded:


Awwwn...

Abeg whoever drop light way for thread abeg come carry am o. Man the behavior you are exhibiting is a joke.

No lady is specifically at war with you , she's living her life, life is life. Learn about life, the red pill and guard yourself and if possible the ones you love. You don't elevate, you get dropped.

If you believe I'm blue pilled by all means believe away.

People with the ability of comprehension got my points.

You're just hyperventilating for no reason. Be careful man, it leads to tachycardia, which in the "lung" run isn't good for your heart man (oh I forgot, you had agenesis of the heart, or in this case atrophy).

RikudoSennin:
An average girl starts having sex from 16 yr old. If she is single at the age of 30, that is 14 years of "Ruminige". Don't settle for less. The generation X will probably have the record of most single mothers. Don't date broken women. Keep popping those bitter pills. Gracias Amigos.