A few years ago, I dreamt that I committed suicide, then when I woke up I was suprised because I never saw any reason to kill myself as I had everything I wanted.That was when I was in service (nysc)...Fast forward to this year, I got myself into a big problem (in debts) I have been contemplating on killing myself but I just couldn't...there was a time I got myself drugged hoping that I would do it easily but to my chagrin I was terrified. I lost my self confidence and to cap it all I had to close my social media accounts to avoid seeing pictures of my mates doing better...mind u I will never commit suicide but to those in my shoes what advice would u offer?

Face that disgrace head on and learn from whatever pain you go through, while at it.

Yuceeluv:
Face that disgrace head on and learn from whatever pain you go through, while at it.

but do u know some 'disgrace' are forever in that people will always recall that event just to spite u

Face the disgrace, after 2-3monthe or less, the intensity will not be there again and people might forget it



Commit suicide, after 2-3months, your death will be forgotten and people will live on with their life


Choose one

DICKstractor:
Face the disgrace, after 2-3monthe or less, the intensity will not be there again and people might forget it



Commit suicide, after 2-3months, your death will be forgotten and people will live on with their life


Choose one

Hmmm.....this is thought provoking

boyka24:

but do u know some 'disgrace' are forever in that people will always recall that event just to spite u

Sure you are right, even some family memembers, friends will obviously do that to spite you up. the best is just to change location.

VTJN:
Sure you are right, even some family memembers, friends will obviously do that to spite you up. the best is just to change location.

changing location would help but what if one is vying for a political post, don't u think such bad occurrence would be made known again and that obviously would affect ones chances of winning

I hope this post makes it to the front page just so we could have wider opinions which would help those having suicidal thoughts

boyka24:

changing location would help but what if one is vying for a political post, don't u think such bad occurrence would be made known again and that obviously would affect ones chances of winning

That will only work in a saner clines not in nigeria where elections are rigged by the highest bidder.

boyka24:

Hmmm.....this is thought provoking

I don't know how to romance words thats why I gave it undiluted

VTJN:
That will only work in a saner clines not in nigeria where elections are rigged by the highest bidder.

that's somewhat true sha

Echoes of hard times.

What was the debt ?

my instinct is telling me that it is either the disgrace is sex-related or theft-related. Come clear Op.

I would rather kill myself than commit suicide..

Chummynoni:
my instinct is telling me that it is either the disgrace is sex-related or theft-related. Come clear Op.

You have a point...

Being in genuine debt is not something to be too ashamed about, except he defrauded people.
Owu onye di ndu ga kwu ugwo oji

One thing's for sure; there's definitely more to the story

Matheusmartin:
I would rather kill myself than commit suicide..

For your mind now you funny abi...

sageb:
Echoes of hard times.

This reminds me of my secondary school literature book. Nostalgic feeling right now!

Even Chidinma the "cucumber girl" is still alive and waxing stronger. Don't go and kill yourself. People have faced worst situation.

Like the yourubas will say
If you're praying not to be disgrace and eventually you get disgraced
Your next prayer will be Lord spare my life don't let me die

Chummynoni:
my instinct is telling me that it is either the disgrace is sex-related or theft-related. Come clear Op.

I am sorry to disappoint u it is neither of those