In their early 20s, women only date older men because they are more matured and have enough financial stability to pay the bills.

In their late 20s and early 30s when marriage comes knocking, they start looking for their mates because all the older men are married.

And by this time, some of those boys they used to treat with contempt as broke and "not serious" in their early 20s have "made it."

But those broke boys of yesterday want to enjoy life with some of the young, beautiful, "fresh" girls in their early 20s before settling down.

And that late 20s and early 30s is when they attend the most weddings in their life. Most of their friends and relatives are increasingly getting married.

By the time they experience all the love and mushiness in weddings, they come home and start scrolling through their contacts. They start remembering some of the boys they rejected some years who seem like they're okay. They arrange hangouts, dates.

But most of the guys they'd hit up are now proper Bleep boys who just want to flex life. So they give you hope, smash you 1-3 times and japa. Heartbreak.

And you swallow your L, tell yourself that marriage is not that important,come on social media to talk about how you "love the women I am becoming."

And then party with home girls, down it with alcohol ,live the life. And then another wedding invitation for the weekend. Rinse. Repeat.

You know, a point comes when you'd be the only single person in your squad. All your homegirls are now married. And they're are too invested in their marriage that they don't have as much time as before. They have a husband, kids to love and care for. You are no longer top priority

At this point, you are exhausted from going on dates, getting to know different guys, sharing your body and bed with different men who only want you for the sex.

And you transfer the bitterness from all these disappointment to men on social media aka join the "men are s**m" squad.

Anyway, this is a cycle we are all too familiar with. Some people get caught up in this loop as a consequence for playing the great game of life.

Keep taking those L for now. The lord that did it for your homegirls will do it for you too. This life na turn by turn.

mtchewww

Always learn how to give credit to whom it is due. Kelvin ordanz wrote this but you didn't quote him.. Promptly do so.

But most of the guys they'd hit up are now proper Bleep boys who just want to flex life. So they give you hope, smash you 1-3 times and japa. Heartbreak

No time abeg. Plenty kpekus dey queue.

Zzor:
mtchewww

If you like don't read and learn. See you see Shiloh.

Kriss216:

If you like don't read and learn. See you see Shiloh.

if you like,dont go and make money,see you see TB Joshua

Op I realised this afternoon, some women don't want to get married

All they want is a kid or kids .

A colleague of mine is so heartbroken and realising his friend of 5years just wanted him to get her pregnant and japa.

Immediately they had sex once ,she started forming busy as she realised she was pregnant.

She rejected his ring , and told him she's not ready for marriage and he should move on with his life after confronting her .
That' she's capable of taking care of herself and baby .

She's just 25years old

The guy is 34years

He's so heartbroken and in shock with hurt and dejection written all over him .
I feel so sorry for him

Life !

So change the topic. Not all women want marriage and they are at peace with their decisions .

Zzor:
if you like,dont go and make money,see you see TB Joshua

Advice no be curse, baby girl.

Kriss216:

Advice no be curse, baby girl.

true,we just gave ourselves some piece of advice.

New day same topic?

You are right a friend once told me she was looking for someone to in-pregnant her and she will changed her house and stop seeing the person. That how i stopped seeing her.

The truth is no-matter the heartbreaks and the misunderstanding men and women.
We are met for eachother that's the plan of God for us to have lasting peace and fulfillment but some have joined hands with the enemy (satan) not to tolerate eachother which is the cause of the chaos happening between couples now globally. I have never seen a truly successful man or woman that doesn't have a man or woman beside eachother.... may God give us understanding.

We need to each other in everyway everyday everywhere for lasting peaceeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee.

victorian:
Op I realised this afternoon, some women don't want to get married

All they want is a kid or kids .

A colleague of mine is so heartbroken and realising his friend of 5years just wanted him to get her pregnant and japa.

Immediately they had sex once ,she started forming busy as she realised she was pregnant.

She rejected his ring , and told him she's not ready for marriage and he should move on with his life after confronting her .
That' she's capable of taking care of herself and baby .

She's just 25years old

The guy is 34years

He's so heartbroken and in shock with hurt and dejection written all over him .
I feel so sorry for him

Life !

So change the topic. Not all women want marriage and they are at peace with their decisions .

That is not far from the truth but they're still decent girls out there willing to settle down with a guy in their age bracket

cooooooks:
New day same topic?

wetin prick and Toto no go see....

gratefulheart:
You are right a friend once told me she was looking for someone to in-pregnant her and she will changed her house and stop seeing the person. That how i stopped seeing her.

The truth is no-matter the heartbreaks and the misunderstanding men and women.
We are met for eachother that's the plan of God for us to have lasting peace and fulfillment but some have joined hands with the enemy (satan) not to tolerate eachother which is the cause of the chaos happening between couples now globally. I have never seen a truly successful man or woman that doesn't have a man or woman beside eachother.... may God give us understanding.

We need to each other in everyway everyday everywhere for lasting peaceeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee.

But some people , can only have the desired peace if they are not married .

I know my most peaceful moments is when I'm single and not dating .

Not everybody must marry, be happy and live peacefully .

Not everyone .

Personally I would love to stay single for life and just have few friends of like minds and live peacefully but another part of me want to have kids and experience what it feels having a home .

I hope I won't end up as a single mother with kids , cos the last thing I need is man emotional stress breathing down my neck . I don't need it one bit .

Baby steps does it for me . I can't come and die because I wan marry and stay married . God forbid .

Peace of mind is number one in life .

victorian:






But some people , can only have the desired peace if they are not married .

I know my most peaceful moments is when I'm single and not dating .

Not everybody must marry, be happy and live peacefully .

Not everyone .

Personally I would love to stay single for life and just have few friends of like minds and live peacefully but another part of me want to have kids and experience what it feels having a home .

I hope I won't end up as a single mother with kids , cos the last thing I need is man emotional stress breathing down my neck . I don't need it one bit .

Baby steps does it for me . I can't come and die because I wan marry and stay married . God forbid .

Peace of mind is number one in life .

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