BIG-DICK:

@ALL,WE LATER COLLABO AT NIGHT AND I WARNED HER NOT TO DO IT AGAIN. WE WERE HAPPY AFTER COLLABO BUT TO MY SUPRISE AGAIN,SHE DID IT AGAIN AFTER A MONTH BUT NOT SLAP. SHE HIT ME WITH HER SHOPPING BAG JUST COS I WENT OUT FOR TOO LONG AND WAITED OUTSIDE FOR ABOUT 4 HOURS IN THE COLD WHICH WAS NOT MY FAULT. SHE CLAIMED I SWITCHED OFF MY PHONE WHICH WAS TRUE COS THE BATTERY WENT FLAT.

I DECIDED TO DATE SOMEBODY ELSE BEFORE SHE KILL ME WITH SLAPS AND BAGS

BIG-DICK:

IT ALL STARTED WHEN I PICKED MY PHONE TO ANSWER A CALL WHILE SHE WAS SITTING DIRECTLY OPPOSITE ME ON D BED. THE FIRST THING THAT CAME OUT OF MY MOUTH WAS HELLO AND THE NEXT ONE WAS HOW IS IT GOING TO BE. THE NEXT THING I HEARD AT THAT POINT IN TIME WAS A DIRTY SLAP ON MY FACE COS SHE THOUGHT I WAS CODING MY WORDS WITH THE FEMALE CALLER. I JUST COVERED MY FACE FOR FEW MINUTES COS I VE NEVER SEEN SUCH A THING IN MY LIFE BUT I VE SEEING IT HAPPENED ON TV AND I VE EQUALLY HEARD ABOUT IT.
I RUBBED MY EYES FOR FEW MINUTES JUST TO ALLOW HER TO LOOSE UP A BIT COS SHE NEEDED TO BE TOLD THAT YOU DON'T SLAP A REAL AFRICAN MAN EVEN IN THIS AMERICA WITHOUT BEING PURNISHED. THE LAST THING SHE SAW WAS MY FIRST AND SECOND SLAPS SIMULTANEOUSLY AND SHE FAINTED. I LEFT HER THERE,WENT DOWNSTAIR TO PREPARE SOMETHING NICE FOR MYSELF BUT TO MY GREATEST SUPRISE,ALL HER FRIENDS WERE SCOLDING ME FOR SLAPPING HER.SO MY QUESTION IS DO THEY EXPECT ME TO FOLD MY HANDS AND WATCH HER SLAPPING ME ,

kokoye:

She slaps you dirty and then quickly breaks up with you.

what will you do?

justwise:

You shouldn't have hit her back, holding back is what makes u a man, hitting her back makes u a weaker person.

ZIM DRILL:

though am not in support of hitting each other my question is on the WHAT MAKES YOU A MAN

what is a man ?

Beync:

before this time u wud have seen it coming and act fast, u dont need to wait for this dramatic end. when u start a relationship and u find out your differences are much, each one to his own tent.

ZIM DRILL:

though am not in support of hitting each other my question is on the WHAT MAKES YOU A MAN

what is a man ?

ZIM DRILL:

but do you know that, its your own value/principle that you are imposing on another man

justwise:

ZIM DRILL:

do you agree or not

justwise:

Agree on what?

kokoye:

You still did not answer the question.

of course. . .

BIG-DICK:

@BHUSAYOR,I WISH U RE HERE SO THAT I CAN TEST IT ON U AND SEE IF U COULD STAND IT AS A WOMAN NOT A MAN.

BELIEVE ME OR NOT,I WASN'T RANDY WHEN I MET HER. SHE HAS NEVER CAUGHT ME WITH ANYBODY BUT SHE WAS TOLD BY PEOPLE AROUND HER THAT I M THE MOST RANDIEST PERSON ON EARTH WHICH I VE STOPPED WHEN I MET HER COS I LOVE HER GENUINELY.

@BEYNC,NO SIGNS WHATSOEVER AND WE WERE THE BEST COUPLE AMONG OUR FRIENDS BUT WAS JUDGING ME BY MY PAST WITH OTHER BABES.

justwise:

You shouldn't have hit her back, holding back is what makes u a man, hitting her back makes u a weaker person.

Amen! 

*turns into Ms.Cleo. . .eh mon! i prediiiiict mistah bruhnjaaaay (brownjay) will be in ere soon mon!* 

MzD@rkSkin:

Amen!

*turns into Ms.Cleo. . .eh mon! i prediiiiict mistah bruhnjaaaay (brownjay) will be in ere soon mon!*

190::

Poster You did the rite thing

A woman that raises her hand and hit a man

doesn't deserve to be in a man's home,

but why would she faint for 2 slaps, that lady is up to something~

zealot4me:

nice one poster she wouldn't do it next time

AS A WOMAN, ARE YOU SERIOUS? 


some of you folks, I swear. . .her hitting him was not right what so ever but him beating her was def. not cool.

justwise:

lol.

D-sense:

OP.
I put the blame on you for hitting /slapping her back . . . .You could have delt with the situation in a more sensible way.
I understand how you felt but next time try calming yourself down .
A man has diffrent ways for punishing his wife but not by beating her.

OMG, IS THIS D-SENSE!!!!!

Spot on!

MzD@rkSkin:

OMG, IS THIS D-SENSE!!!!!

Spot on!

D-sense:

OP.
I put the blame on you for hitting /slapping her back . . . .You could have delt with the situation in a more sensible way.
I understand how you felt but next time try calming yourself down .
A man has diffrent ways for punishing his wife but not by beating her.

2buff:

The problem with this silent treatment you women keep talking about (imatturely justifying the woman's right to slap a man in the first place) is that it harbors unforgiveness. The silent treatment is usually a time of brooding and plotting and hateful thinking, unless you have some serious help from God to calm you down and forgive her, but still let her have to work back in.

We are not to let the sun set on our malice for each other, and so if you know that given her silent treatment will make you be on hate-mode, then it may be the better way to lay the smack on her and get it out your system then and there, cause she shouldn't have started that complex game with you in the first place

Sad fact is, if you were to die in your sleep while still giving her the silent treatment in unforgiveness, you would end up in hell.

just do whatever makes you not have to go to bed without having forgiven yourselves.