proclinician:
Hmmm God forbid evil spirit. Through out corona he is working, risking it all while you're doing what? Fixing lashes? Now the money he made throughout the period u want him to give them to u is that it? Nawaoo. Go and make ur own money na... Are u disabled? Like no arm or no leg sort of?

Tango123:


Wonderwoman, what u have not understood is that many men in Nigeria are learning to be like men in Europe

They are beginning to learn that beijg your boyfriend does not mean assuming your responsibility.

If your boyfriend should need money now, would he come to u? Would a boy going into a relationship in Nigeria be expecting that his girlfriend shoukd give him money. Why should nigeriqn girls even think that men should be responsible for them.
And when they dont ask for monwy, they say it with pride, as u did, as if that is an achievement. U didnt tell us u brushed ur teeth today. Because it is normal. U should not be proud u dont ask ur boyfriend for money. That should be normal.

I was happy when u said u have never depended on him for money. I love that. Keep it that way. Build urself and be ur own provider. Work for ur money.

Just as u dont depend pn ur blood brother or cousin for money. So u should not depend on ur boyfriend or husband for money. Equality maam

SweetCunt97:
Men in Europe? Buhhaaaahhaaahhaaa, I laugh at this stupid talk. Abi una dey lash out from frustration. Please if one cannot lean on their partners for assistance, I don't understand what relationships is about o.

Akinbahm:


You made sense in your write up only to spoil it with that husband side...

Xsem:


See, most people here are bitter and I know why but the matter at hand is overcoming the fear of asking your partner for monetary assistance. Well just do, ask him if it's reasonable enough or even ask him to lend you that you'll pay back.
I do give my gf money whenever I have enough or my spirit moves me but if she asks and it's reasonable enough I do give her even if she comes as a form of borrowing i will give her and set target for repayment, not like I am expecting her to pay back anyways.
When you're in a relationship with someone, you support each other and be ready and open to assist him when the need arises. Ask him ,even me sometimes feign broke and ask my babe for money. She will be sending money, cooking and bringing rich food to me.

Though relationship is not employment opportunity but that doesn't mean if you're in need of unavoidable help, you won't ask your partner.

SweetCunt97:
Please Shut it. If e easy to get job, people no go come dey threaten to kill themselves if nairalanders no help them. This lady is still a student sef. Graduates wey suppose think outside d box litter here asking for crumbs from strangers.. Atleast she wanna ask from her boyfriend who claims to love her.

SweetCunt97:
If he assists her to pay for skill acquisition and she gets good at it and start making money from there, won't that be a win win for them? What's d essence of a relationship if both partners cant support each other? Baba if e easy like that men and women no go litter nairaland dey drop account dey beg for 500h to feed for d day. Reason man.

WonderWoman5775:
Thanks.. I'll bring myself to ask him if he gives me fine if he doesn't it's still fine, I just need to get over the fear of asking

Tango123:


Continue looking for men to lean on them ma

For u, relationship is about what u gain? That is parasitic. U should be wih somwone because u love them, not because u can lean on them

chukwuibuipob:
Press ignore bottom.As long as u don't beg any of dem/solicit for their assistance here,u are good.Majority here are struggling.Let those insulting u wey Neva beg for money b4 curse himself

cezarman:


See this man

You that's not struggling, why haven't you collected her account details and do the needful?
You want her to go and be stressing one innocent, struggling niggarr right?

Empty barrel

WonderWoman5775:
Nah
I want to pay for a skill acquisition

chukwuibuipob:
She said her boyfriend.She's not Almajiri like u dat beg online/drop Acc number.Wisdom make pipu wise.If she ask Generally/drop her Acc,I'll surely give her.Did she beg u?

WonderWoman5775:
Hello everyone, this is my first time seeking advice here on nairaland and this is something I just can't get my mind around..
My relationship with my boyfriend will be 2yrs next month and our relationship have only come this far as a result of understanding and love we have for each other... He's a student just like me and all this while I never asked him for money unless he gives me himself, but he doesn't always do so
We are in our finals and he has been working throughout the corona period and I think he has been able to save money... I need money right now and I don't know how to ask him..
I never asked all this while when school was in
session because I don't want to put pressure on him... I don't know how to tell him that I need money because he won't give me voluntarily..

Lee99:

My father stupidity is foolish

SweetCunt97:
Shut up! You think if her parents are OK, she'll be having such thoughts? As long as they in a relationship, it's perfectly fine for her to share her worries with him. Abi is a relationship about sex and groovy freaky?

You'll be here asking her why she no work yen yen yen, If e Easy We wouldn't Have OLD GRADUATES AND FAMILY PEOPLE LITTERED ON NAIRALAND ASKING FOR MONEY naaa.

Una go just dey type rubbish... Frustrated souls. I'm even disappointed at ednut1, upon say u don jand you still never polish ur sense.

kullozone:


You people just can't hide that begi begi nature for long.

May thunder fire the guy if he doesn't embarrass you.

Mtcheeeew!
Rubbish thread.

Vivian16:
just like me I find it difficult to beg even now that I am married I find it difficult to ask my husband for money, I always think that he should know that I need money even without me telling him, in fact to me begging is the hardest job.

chukwuibuipob:
.Kid.Wetin a beggar like u sabi? Aren't u d same hopeless boy begging for loan to pay Ur school kudi .U are insulting u father age mate

chukwuibuipob:
She said her boyfriend.She's not Almajiri like u dat beg online/drop Acc number.Wisdom make pipu wise.If she ask Generally/drop her Acc,I'll surely give her.Did she beg u?

Lee99:

Lol I later raised the funds myself and done with my service. You my friend are really stupid for someone Who claims to be my father’s mate

chukwuibuipob:
Why com online to beg at the 1st place? .Yeah! I'm Ur fada's mate.U just round off with Ur service.U are a kid.Dumb goat

WonderWoman5775:
Thanks.. I did not come Here to seek for money.. But to ask of the opinion of thinking minds, not shallow ones like those that have insulted themselves

SweetCunt97:
How can you love someone you can't lean on? And that goes for the guy too? E be like una no know wetin love means. You think leaning on gat to do with money only?

When you sick, wouldn't you need your partner to be there to care for you? Abi she go disappear then when u better, she appears and be talking about love? I'm not a relationship counselor to b schooling you men on what love entails abeg.

Lee99:

Like I said you sound really foolish to be my father’s mate also I don’t come from a poor home, I used my school fees and couldn’t ask my parents for another that’s why I came here to ask but like I said I sorted myself out. So go and talk to your unfortunate children who Will listen to your unwise self

chukwuibuipob:
Don't mind their foolish talk.Even the one dat com here to beg Nairalanders for financial help to pay his sch kudi still open his shitbox mouth to insult

WonderWoman5775:
Lol those that beg online I just don't know how they do it... They are usually the first to pour out their hunger & frustration on other people's thread

WonderWoman5775:
Lol those that beg online I just don't know how they do it... They are usually the first to pour out their hunger & frustration on other people's thread

chukwuibuipob:
U are a thief.Why come here @, d first place to seek for assistance ,,,?Why not sorted it out outside,? Ur parents struggle to give u dat money,a Useless son like u probably used it to play Bet9ja hoping to Win.Online beggar