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Re: Please Help! My Marriage Is About Crumbling by Oyolohi24: 2:05pm On Aug 19, 2020 |
Righteousness89:Amen 1 Like |
Re: Please Help! My Marriage Is About Crumbling by Oyolohi24: 2:09pm On Aug 19, 2020 |
Righteousness89:Thanks so much 1 Like |
Re: Please Help! My Marriage Is About Crumbling by Righteousness89(m): 2:11pm On Aug 19, 2020 |
Oyolohi24: Listen My Brother, There is no Solution outside God.. Any Solution that You get outside God will be a Mega Major Problem Calm down.. You Have allowed the Issue to Overwhelm you.. That's not the way to Go.. Take it away as an issue in your Head.. it's not an issue.. Invest your Time in Boosting your Relationship with God first and your Wife .. Leave this Matter an Invest yourself in your Relationship with God, your work and your wife.. This is not a Problem! It will come Pass in Due Season 1 Like |
Re: Please Help! My Marriage Is About Crumbling by 3plet: 2:55pm On Aug 19, 2020 |
1,Op how come she has had 4miscarriages if the (pelvic polyp )is preventing conception? Pelvic polyp is general term .which one does she have uterine polyp ,or cervical polyp. Polyp most times would cause intermenstrual bleeding, it is not necessarily a cause of infertility . |
Re: Please Help! My Marriage Is About Crumbling by 3plet: 2:59pm On Aug 19, 2020 |
This ur "God " self na real attention seeker.why did he allow her to have the problem in the first place? Righteousness89: 1 Like |
Re: Please Help! My Marriage Is About Crumbling by HantaVirus(m): 3:15pm On Aug 19, 2020 |
Women go through a lot sha ! That's why they need to be loved and adored.. The pelvic polyp is very rare in women... Just about 2-5% of women have it... Please convince your wife if you really love her to go for the surgery..During the surgery, she would feel no pain.. Only pressure and pulling..And she should be feeling better in a week or two. 3 Likes |
Re: Please Help! My Marriage Is About Crumbling by vhuqnl(m): 3:30pm On Aug 19, 2020 |
Ishilove:Mtchwwwww. ITK. Omni knowest. 1 Like |
Re: Please Help! My Marriage Is About Crumbling by vhuqnl(m): 3:31pm On Aug 19, 2020 |
Righteousness89:Las las u will backslide. We know ur type, initial gra gra |
Re: Please Help! My Marriage Is About Crumbling by vhuqnl(m): 3:34pm On Aug 19, 2020 |
dep07:Pharmacists are scared of drugs and nurses are scared of many invasive procedures. It's a normal thing even doctors too are scared. It's not easy. 1 Like |
Re: Please Help! My Marriage Is About Crumbling by vhuqnl(m): 3:36pm On Aug 19, 2020 |
Oyolohi24:Ignore that one. Even bible says faith without work is death. |
Re: Please Help! My Marriage Is About Crumbling by ceeceeuwa: 3:47pm On Aug 19, 2020 |
liberalchick:God bless you for this sincere comment. Since she is a nurse, I think she should know better. Op can as well read up on his wife's condition, that way he will be able to provide the needed support. This phase shall soon pass, and you will both look back and smile. |
Re: Please Help! My Marriage Is About Crumbling by mysticwarrior(m): 4:01pm On Aug 19, 2020 |
Karleb:if you ask me and I ask you an who go answer us, the marriage vowed is made so both couples will maintain everlasting together and tackle issues together, it is expected for the man to stay by is wife this trying times. 1 Like |
Re: Please Help! My Marriage Is About Crumbling by Shukusheka(m): 4:06pm On Aug 19, 2020 |
Bro just drug her, take her to hospital and have them remove the polythene bag abi wetin you call am? When she wakes up, tell her she fell and fainted. Case closed. 1 Like |
Re: Please Help! My Marriage Is About Crumbling by OlawaleBammie: 4:27pm On Aug 19, 2020 |
mysticwarrior: Why would someone talk like he's having brain paralysis The wife said she's ready to opt out and can't risk anything in the name of marriage and someone is here saying gibberish that the woman didn't inflict herself with the predicament. So U want the man to remain childless all his life? U want him to be fighting a lost battle even when the wife wasn't interested?? Or what do U want?? someone should check his No6 o. 3 Likes |
Re: Please Help! My Marriage Is About Crumbling by Karleb(m): 5:09pm On Aug 19, 2020 |
mysticwarrior: Marriage vows are like saying "Shazam", they don't make anything. 1 Like |
Re: Please Help! My Marriage Is About Crumbling by sholay2011(m): 5:54pm On Aug 19, 2020 |
Shukusheka:See advice God help us. |
Re: Please Help! My Marriage Is About Crumbling by Nicepoker(m): 6:47pm On Aug 19, 2020 |
engrtee:Don't comment on this thread again 1 Like |
Re: Please Help! My Marriage Is About Crumbling by Joyfulgal: 7:24pm On Aug 19, 2020 |
liberalchick: You borrowed my words. Even Ivf wont work with the polyp. Be encourage her and get competent hands for the surgery |
Re: Please Help! My Marriage Is About Crumbling by mkoabiola: 7:37pm On Aug 19, 2020 |
So many immature comments here. One mumu lady asked.. If d guy must have a child? |
Re: Please Help! My Marriage Is About Crumbling by jossy1luv(f): 9:18pm On Aug 19, 2020 |
Oyolohi24:Fmc in Abuja does for 550,000 naira, with drug inclusive, and some other private hospitals do for 1-1.5million for sex selection. Secondly you guys can opt for surrogacy. 2 Likes |
Re: Please Help! My Marriage Is About Crumbling by Taal17: 9:22pm On Aug 19, 2020 |
Sadly it's her body thats taking the brunt of these challenges, she may just be fed up. Having 4 miscarriages pre-2018 is hard on any woman. Even though the foetus isnt viable you still lose a child. Its like losing a child four times before you even got to know them. Your wife may need counselling, please dont let your need to have a child override your obligation as a husband to have empathy for her case. Her being a nurse is irrelevant - I know a doctor that hates needles Back to the polyps, I doubt it is the reason for her inability to conceive of late. I suspect they suggested removing it because its causing her to bleed, intermenstrual bleeding will make her weak and possibly aneamic. I say this because if you remove the polyps and still conception does not happen - what next. Please go for a consultation with a good fertility clinic that has counselling, there is a thread in the Health section for those Trying to Concieve you will find many couples there with similar challenges. They could recommend clinics and provide emotional support for you and your wife 1 Like |
Re: Please Help! My Marriage Is About Crumbling by Goldie16(f): 3:05pm On Aug 23, 2020 |
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Re: Please Help! My Marriage Is About Crumbling by frozen70(f): 9:05pm On Aug 23, 2020 |
Oyolohi24: Being a nurse would have given her a good understanding why she needs the operation but I don't know why she prefers to opt out of the marriage unless her chances of survival is 50/50 IVF is about 500k and you have to do more more than once if the first one doesn't click I think you have to involve her family if she insist on not getting it out and rather prefer to walk out of the marriage The essence of involving he family is because of tomorrow no one will say that you chased her out of her marriage Trust no one 1 Like |
Re: Please Help! My Marriage Is About Crumbling by Acme45: 10:23pm On Aug 23, 2020 |
Karleb:God bless you |
Re: Please Help! My Marriage Is About Crumbling by Nnekaojeah: 8:10pm On Jan 12, 2021 |
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