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Re: Please Help. Is The Condition I Gave My Girlfriend Too Harsh? by wirinet(m): 6:22am On Aug 22, 2020
MISSCONGENIALITY:
I've come to realize that guys of these days don't have anything like "help" in their dictionary. Just tell guy to help you with his pen which you will give him back immediately, he will start asking you what you have to offer in return. They make it sound like a joke but it isn't. I think that's why a babe will go out with a guy she doesn't even like talk more of love because she needs help and help is no more free. He giving a babe he's been fucking 50k and he's asking for her sisters. When he knows he took advantage of her condition.

Why should guys have anything like help in their dictionary (or even their search engine)? Are guys born to be "helpers" of lazy and parasitic girls?

Did you read the story at all? He said he met the lady in June and showered her with love, gifts and money. He did not ask for sex until last month. He expected to be showed love in return not money for sex relationship.

This is the part of the story that got me mad;

They intend to move to a better location. The new shop is N75k per year. My girlfriend asked me for support. I said I will give them N50k by August end. Since they were expecting N50k from me, they gathered all the money they have home and abroad and paid advance of N30,000 for the new shop to secure it. Last week, my girl asked me for N7k for something. I told her I don't have. I am gathering money for the N50k. It is a lie sha. the money is already there.

Why did they (especially the senior sister) intend to move to a better more expensive place if they couldn't afford it? Why can't the senior Sister also get a mugu (boyfriend) to leech on? Is she that ugly?
Then after promising to help the girl's Sister with a whole 50k in theses covid times, she has the audacity to demand for 7k, and then tricked and blackmailed the guy to give her.

After paying 700 for the shop, what next? Blackmail the guy again for money to renovate and equip the shop?

Abeg the guy should free the two leaches or they would suckling not only his blood but also his bone marrow join.

The condition does not make sense. Sleeping with both sisters would make things worse. What happens if one or both gets pregnant?

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Re: Please Help. Is The Condition I Gave My Girlfriend Too Harsh? by jacoik(m): 6:23am On Aug 22, 2020
Emmatee1816:
which kind mumu(unrealistic) adage is this 1?smh
lolxxxxx hahahaha I never understand the adage before not till I read the second time
Re: Please Help. Is The Condition I Gave My Girlfriend Too Harsh? by almarthins(m): 6:25am On Aug 22, 2020
If God wan punish you, e go first make u mad with ur decisions and actions. My brother retrace ur step. U don cross line o! Even if dem agree, na die u dey so o.
Re: Please Help. Is The Condition I Gave My Girlfriend Too Harsh? by jacoik(m): 6:26am On Aug 22, 2020
EmptyGarden:


Look for cold sniper drink, no be me cause your problems for this life.
lolxxxxx hahahaha cold sniper you said? u dey heartless sha. in fact meet me at third mainland bridge by 12 30 midnight today I have a massage for you
Re: Please Help. Is The Condition I Gave My Girlfriend Too Harsh? by MISSCONGENIALITY(f): 6:26am On Aug 22, 2020
Crownstar01:
Not really. I am not desperate for money, if not I would have been a multi-millionaire by now.
You better be desperate let someone not give your daughters such conditions for help.

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Re: Please Help. Is The Condition I Gave My Girlfriend Too Harsh? by Peter887: 6:27am On Aug 22, 2020
Guy pls just 4get the relationshp & the sex. Dat girl no love u and wil never love u even if u gv dem heaven go ur way and gt another girl...giving dem dat 50k confirms u as a real FOOL

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Re: Please Help. Is The Condition I Gave My Girlfriend Too Harsh? by Crownstar01: 6:28am On Aug 22, 2020
MISSCONGENIALITY:
You better be desperate let someone not give your daughters such conditions for help.
My daughters? Hahahaha. I'm not even married yet.
Re: Please Help. Is The Condition I Gave My Girlfriend Too Harsh? by agbolahan1991(m): 6:31am On Aug 22, 2020
Hezzyluv:
But it is obvious that the girl don't love you, she sees you as her succour. If not, how will she be offended because u refuse to give her 7k after u have promised them 50k by month end?


I call your condition extreme rule grin

But seriously, run for your life before you bankrupt
What kind of a person will advise a man like himself to sleep with both sisters....
Guy fear God..
No one knows tommorow
Re: Please Help. Is The Condition I Gave My Girlfriend Too Harsh? by MISSCONGENIALITY(f): 6:32am On Aug 22, 2020
wirinet:


Why should guys have anything like help in their dictionary (or even their search engine)? Are guys born to be "helpers" of lazy and parasitic girls?

Did you read the story at all? He said he met the lady in June and showered her with love, gifts and money. He did not ask for sex until last month. He expected to be showed love in return not money for sex relationship.

This is the part of the story that got me mad;


Why did they (especially the senior sister) intend to move to a better more expensive place if they couldn't afford it? Why can't the senior Sister also get a mugu (boyfriend) to leech on? Is she that ugly?
Then after promising to help the girl's Sister with a whole 50k in theses covid times, she has the audacity to demand for 7k, and then tricked and blackmailed the guy to give her.

After paying 700 for the shop, what next? Blackmail the guy again for money to renovate and equip the shop?

Abeg the guy should free the two leaches or they would suckling not only his blood but also his bone marrow join.

The condition does not make sense. Sleeping with both sisters would make things worse. What happens if one or both gets pregnant?
OP can sleep with her whole community if he likes. If the girl agrees and sleeps with both of them before giving them the the money, he shoud not go round telling people how he helped them tomorrow if they finally make it. He should remember they paid with their bodies. Because guys come here to lament how they help girls forgetting the kind of conditions they gave those girls before the help.
My brother hustle, make person no give your daughters such conditions.
Re: Please Help. Is The Condition I Gave My Girlfriend Too Harsh? by konkonbilo(m): 6:33am On Aug 22, 2020
I de vex as I de read so many comments for here. In as much the OP is a fool and has being a fool for so long before this particular incident of him wanting to bang 2 sisters because he's trying to help them. This incident wouldn't have occurred if the useless girls without manners not behave in sunh way they did. Someone is trying to raise 50k for your shop and you have the guts to insult him because he refused to give you another 7k after promising you 50k. Who does that? Insulting someone trying to help you, the OP caused it anyway, na see finish be that and typical entitlement mentality of most Nigerian ladies and to the OP no got miss road because of ordinary sex, no go loose focus.

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Re: Please Help. Is The Condition I Gave My Girlfriend Too Harsh? by MISSCONGENIALITY(f): 6:34am On Aug 22, 2020
Crownstar01:
My daughters? Hahahaha. I'm not even married yet.
You will have daughters one day. Either as a married man or a baby daddy. Work hard make your girls no see this kind conditions.
Re: Please Help. Is The Condition I Gave My Girlfriend Too Harsh? by wirinet(m): 6:34am On Aug 22, 2020
MISSCONGENIALITY:
You better be desperate let someone not give your daughters such conditions for help.
And you think his two daughters would leech on the same man out of desperation?
Re: Please Help. Is The Condition I Gave My Girlfriend Too Harsh? by wirinet(m): 6:37am On Aug 22, 2020
MISSCONGENIALITY:
You will have daughters one day. Either as a married man or a baby daddy. Work hard make your girls no see this kind conditions.

Which kind of condition have these girls seen that has not been seen by millions of other girls?
Re: Please Help. Is The Condition I Gave My Girlfriend Too Harsh? by Harmlesspill(m): 6:38am On Aug 22, 2020
greggng:



You are the most stupid person I have ever met . I don't blame you ...I blamed poverty ...how could you say this to your fellow human being ...I don't know your age but you are not responsible person...you are selfish ....no body knows tomorrow the shame you are subjecting this family to because they are seeking help from you is too unbelievable and I believe with or without you , they will fulfil their dreams ...if I can know their address and confirm this story , I will mobilise financially to put you to shame...To all the responsible men doing their best for humanity selflessly , God will never put you to shame. For you young man , go on your knees and beg God to forgive you otherwise you will still come back here to tell nairalander how life has treated you badly ...
.

You don talk to much...
Ask for address nah no be yahn yahn...Op is ever ready to do that
Re: Please Help. Is The Condition I Gave My Girlfriend Too Harsh? by Harmlesspill(m): 6:43am On Aug 22, 2020
victorian:







He pain am!

My boo is a confirmed real man, as in over correct guy!

He knows who he's dating. Google my real name and u will understand what I'm talking about. My class u can't have anywhere in the world!

You think it's all about sex? I pity u!

I don't date broke hungry guys.

U no reach!
.
Girls get mind sha!
Boasting on top of my fellow man's pocket...wonders
Re: Please Help. Is The Condition I Gave My Girlfriend Too Harsh? by Crownstar01: 6:43am On Aug 22, 2020
MISSCONGENIALITY:
You will have daughters one day. Either as a married man or a baby daddy. Work hard make your girls no see this kind conditions.
Hahahaha. Please wish me good. I broke up with my girl last week.
Re: Please Help. Is The Condition I Gave My Girlfriend Too Harsh? by Steinmann: 6:44am On Aug 22, 2020
help people if you can ,do just a few good things because you believe in God.
Re: Please Help. Is The Condition I Gave My Girlfriend Too Harsh? by MISSCONGENIALITY(f): 6:44am On Aug 22, 2020
wirinet:


Which kind of condition have these girls seen that has not been seen by millions of other girls?
I don't know.
I've never been given conditions before.
Tell me, what kind of conditions do you give babes?
And did get survive it? The ones that didn't Survive what happened to them, and the one that survive, how much change did your condition impact in their lives?
Re: Please Help. Is The Condition I Gave My Girlfriend Too Harsh? by dbestuncle: 6:45am On Aug 22, 2020
You don't seem like an honest man to me, you are taking advantage of their poverty. She may not be very much into u from the beginning but this same girl can grow to love and respect you very much.
Your condition is bad, devilish and insulting. Just apologize and hand them the money n going forward treat them well.
If you have anyway to help people pls do it for God.

And if you don't I will advice they look away from you and God will open another door that will be better than the one you closed.

Poverty na disease if not imagine the effrontery!



ExBanker:
Nairalanders, I want you to judge if the conditions I gave this girl is okay or it is too much

I met this girl around June this years. I really liked her. As I was asking her out, I was always taking care of her. Buying her stuffs, giving her allowances and supporting her. Then the relationship started last month officially when we smashed. I continued to take good care of her. But note that before we officially started dating, she showed half interest. She wasn't really into the relationship. When we started dating, she showed same attitude.

Her much elder sister is a hair dresser. Like 7 years older. She lives with the sister. The sister shop is in one hidden corner. They hardly get customers. So both of them are always broke. I have being supporting them. This month, their rent is expiring. They intend to move to a better location. The new shop is N75k per year. My girlfriend asked me for support. I said I will give them N50k by August end. Since they were expecting N50k from me, they gathered all the money they have home and abroad and paid advance of N30,000 for the new shop to secure it. Last week, my girl asked me for N7k for something. I told her I don't have. I am gathering money for the N50k. It is a lie sha. the money is already there.

She then asked me to borrow her. She will pay me back. So I gave her. By weekend, she was acting funny. I told her I am tired of the relationship. She should forget it. It turned to quarrel. Then she left. We quarreled on phone till Monday. I think they felt bad that I am leaving out of the deal to help them secure the shop. On Monday, the sister called to quarrel with me too. Imagine.

After everything, today, my girlfriend called to apologize. I told her that I have forgiven her. But, for our relationship to continue, there is one condition. She asked me what condition. I told her that despite the fact I have being supporting her and her sister, both of them still had the gut to talk to me anyhow. I will only continue the relationship if I will be having sex with the 2 of them. She was shocked. She wanted to start talking nonsense. I told her to shut up and relay my condition to her sister. Let the sister call me to tell me if she agrees.

Is my condition too harsh or it is okay?
Re: Please Help. Is The Condition I Gave My Girlfriend Too Harsh? by MISSCONGENIALITY(f): 6:46am On Aug 22, 2020
Crownstar01:
Hahahaha. Please wish me good. I broke up with my girl last week.
Why did your break up with her? Who gave who conditions that let to the break up cheesy
Re: Please Help. Is The Condition I Gave My Girlfriend Too Harsh? by segun18(m): 6:46am On Aug 22, 2020
Where is that Righteousness 89 when you need him. My brother come o.. Come and preach to this man o
Re: Please Help. Is The Condition I Gave My Girlfriend Too Harsh? by MERCHANDISER: 6:46am On Aug 22, 2020
AtoningBlood:
Exbanker, if this your story is true, please for God's sake, drop the girl's number here for some of us or dm it.

This is rude on women, how come we have become the less previledged among men and you guys rudely insult us? She needs to know her worth, and she deserves someone better not you.

They are angry because you promised them and they have committed 30k on that shop. Stop messing with her creator, stop the pride. Who knows tomorrow?

If you care, please drop her number here.
Nice one


Almsgiving in this sense is one of the most important things
we can do to remake the world and restore it.
What Op don't know is that, almsgiving is not only something we do
to benefit the poor, but to 'benefit' us.

Please I also need Ur help 0129038929 Gtbank
Re: Please Help. Is The Condition I Gave My Girlfriend Too Harsh? by Harmlesspill(m): 6:48am On Aug 22, 2020
Joannebaby:
You're a fool. You have no shame. If you can't continue to support them, y not leave....Abi they swear for you say you must date her..." You want to have sex with both of them". Pele
.
Support dem...
As the papa abi??
Re: Please Help. Is The Condition I Gave My Girlfriend Too Harsh? by Simonsmg: 6:51am On Aug 22, 2020
Bro this condition is the best for a Lady of her type ! is either she accept or no deal period , but also be careful such Ladies could be dangerous ,b4 they trap you nd lock inside bottle .

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Re: Please Help. Is The Condition I Gave My Girlfriend Too Harsh? by AyodeleM1(m): 6:51am On Aug 22, 2020
You are very wicked you should be living in a zoo
Re: Please Help. Is The Condition I Gave My Girlfriend Too Harsh? by focus7: 6:54am On Aug 22, 2020
ExBanker:
Nairalanders, I want you to judge if the conditions I gave this girl is okay or it is too much

I met this girl around June this years. I really liked her. As I was asking her out, I was always taking care of her. Buying her stuffs, giving her allowances and supporting her. Then the relationship started last month officially when we smashed. I continued to take good care of her. But note that before we officially started dating, she showed half interest. She wasn't really into the relationship. When we started dating, she showed same attitude.

Her much elder sister is a hair dresser. Like 7 years older. She lives with the sister. The sister shop is in one hidden corner. They hardly get customers. So both of them are always broke. I have being supporting them. This month, their rent is expiring. They intend to move to a better location. The new shop is N75k per year. My girlfriend asked me for support. I said I will give them N50k by August end. Since they were expecting N50k from me, they gathered all the money they have home and abroad and paid advance of N30,000 for the new shop to secure it. Last week, my girl asked me for N7k for something. I told her I don't have. I am gathering money for the N50k. It is a lie sha. the money is already there.

She then asked me to borrow her. She will pay me back. So I gave her. By weekend, she was acting funny. I told her I am tired of the relationship. She should forget it. It turned to quarrel. Then she left. We quarreled on phone till Monday. I think they felt bad that I am leaving out of the deal to help them secure the shop. On Monday, the sister called to quarrel with me too. Imagine.

After everything, today, my girlfriend called to apologize. I told her that I have forgiven her. But, for our relationship to continue, there is one condition. She asked me what condition. I told her that despite the fact I have being supporting her and her sister, both of them still had the gut to talk to me anyhow. I will only continue the relationship if I will be having sex with the 2 of them. She was shocked. She wanted to start talking nonsense. I told her to shut up and relay my condition to her sister. Let the sister call me to tell me if she agrees.

Is my condition too harsh or it is okay?

Guy don't start what you will regret later in the future. Some actions have spiritual consequences that are hard to crack
Re: Please Help. Is The Condition I Gave My Girlfriend Too Harsh? by Harmlesspill(m): 6:55am On Aug 22, 2020
redsun:
grin grin grin

Since you are taking care of the two of them, you may be right in your demand. But whatever happens, help them to start off that business in a better location because that could help them to become a little more independent and less burden to you.
.
Are you OK at all.
Do you sow where you can't reap??
Be wise ohhhhh
Re: Please Help. Is The Condition I Gave My Girlfriend Too Harsh? by LINTUNE(m): 6:57am On Aug 22, 2020
victorian:
Exbanker u are not suppose to be labelled a human being!

So because of 50k u want to fucvkk two sisters for as long as u live!
God punish poverty!

What if u were mistakenly blessed like my boo, who has spent and doled out 3 million naira in a space of 8months of dating me, just splash and say Princess take, and make yourself happy?
And he is still deep in money.

What will u do? Exhume and Fucvkk my dead family resting their graves ?

I wonder the kind of wicked animal uv turned into?

Tell the ladies to contact me for the balance 50k!
What rubbish!

To hell with your miserable 50k!
Tufia!
lol everygal on nairaland will always claim that their boo is one tony elumelu in the making, i dont think a responsible man will spend over 3m on a mere girlfriend, how much would he spend on his family memebers then, i wonder what u gals gain in lying..
Re: Please Help. Is The Condition I Gave My Girlfriend Too Harsh? by ussy09(m): 6:58am On Aug 22, 2020
MrSensor:
Now he wants both of them and if they agree, the mother is next. grin cheesy
And this got me laughing
Re: Please Help. Is The Condition I Gave My Girlfriend Too Harsh? by lexander(m): 6:59am On Aug 22, 2020
wirinet:


Why should guys have anything like help in their dictionary (or even their search engine)? Are guys born to be "helpers" of lazy and parasitic girls?

Did you read the story at all? He said he met the lady in June and showered her with love, gifts and money. He did not ask for sex until last month. He expected to be showed love in return not money for sex relationship.

This is the part of the story that got me mad;


Why did they (especially the senior sister) intend to move to a better more expensive place if they couldn't afford it? Why can't the senior Sister also get a mugu (boyfriend) to leech on? Is she that ugly?
Then after promising to help the girl's Sister with a whole 50k in theses covid times, she has the audacity to demand for 7k, and then tricked and blackmailed the guy to give her.

After paying 700 for the shop, what next? Blackmail the guy again for money to renovate and equip the shop?

Abeg the guy should free the two leaches or they would suckling not only his blood but also his bone marrow join.

The condition does not make sense. Sleeping with both sisters would make things worse. What happens if one or both gets pregnant?
this is the problem with guys that think with their third leg, he was upset when he discovered she really doesn't care or love him but only sees him as a meal ticket but he's not actively hoping to include the sister Sex is overrated
Re: Please Help. Is The Condition I Gave My Girlfriend Too Harsh? by colyx1(m): 6:59am On Aug 22, 2020
@op for u to have suggested that to the babe, u nor try. If they finally gree to that terms, just believe me those girls go puff u.
Re: Please Help. Is The Condition I Gave My Girlfriend Too Harsh? by somtoto(m): 7:00am On Aug 22, 2020
Op you dey mad o...na him make,he good make person dey independable.kia

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