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Re: I'm Tired Of My Wife, What Do I Do? by Louisboy22(m): 4:25pm On Aug 25, 2020 |
Stop converting olosh to wife una nor dey hear |
Re: I'm Tired Of My Wife, What Do I Do? by SweetDipBenny(m): 4:27pm On Aug 25, 2020 |
Dis one na small mata I'm sure u can handle it |
Re: I'm Tired Of My Wife, What Do I Do? by chaloskyx: 5:10pm On Aug 25, 2020 |
divorce her and make sure you give her enough monthly stipends and allowance to maintain the lifestyle of her and the kids, after that you can do whatever you want with your life they wont care |
Re: I'm Tired Of My Wife, What Do I Do? by Peachbloom(f): 5:11pm On Aug 25, 2020 |
newace: I don't see a problem with what you are claiming to go through. You seem to just be looking for excuses. As far as I am concerned, your child is eating well, and healthy. All these SMA bouhaha is just mere noise and excuses. Let me ask you this, what if your child is lactose intolerant? Your excuse will be what? You seem not to be in tune with reality but a fantasy. If she argues with her mum, is it your mum she is arguing with? You will always be a son in law, and she will always be her mum's daughter. Maintain your lane. |
Re: I'm Tired Of My Wife, What Do I Do? by treach(m): 5:19pm On Aug 25, 2020 |
newace: Don't push it. She's not having her way. From a professional view, provided Ur child is healthy, what ever he eats will still work on him. Just have Faith. God is on throne. No ever change am or put film for her oo.. Na to make Mattas worse... we don pass through all dis ones. |
Re: I'm Tired Of My Wife, What Do I Do? by Nobody: 5:27pm On Aug 25, 2020 |
newace: This is your child too. Why don't you wake the child up by 6 am and give him the milk you so much desire? With regards to what your wife is feeding him, please give him lots of water when you come back home. You can also give him fruits. And stop buying cerelac. In this life, you don't need to talk too much. Action speaks louder than words. |
Re: I'm Tired Of My Wife, What Do I Do? by Nobody: 5:35pm On Aug 25, 2020 |
abbasajao: Don't you have Google? Just type foods to give a three-month-old baby... Simple! |
Re: I'm Tired Of My Wife, What Do I Do? by belloboy: 6:33pm On Aug 25, 2020 |
[quote author=newace post=93167449]Today, I told my wife to start feeding our 18 month old son sma baby milk once a day so he could take in all the necessary nutrients from the milk since he was never breast fed. Note: he eats cerelac in the morning, yoghurt at 12 noon, Eba/Amala at 4pm and cerelac again in the night. I mentioned to her to find a way to feed him sma milk at least once a day but instead she started arguing with me. OP, it hasn't gotten to that...bro argument is a normal thing in marriage ooo. Marriage goes with patience and maturity. From the look of things, it seems your marriage is still young; with time you guys will get understand each other. I have been married for 6 years now, so I know what I am saying. Just take things easy with her please. |
Re: I'm Tired Of My Wife, What Do I Do? by HomerTimpson: 6:34pm On Aug 25, 2020 |
newace:SIRE,just remember your good old chilhood days...na to use the whole sma box for DIY o instead of fighting madame |
Re: I'm Tired Of My Wife, What Do I Do? by abiodunfat(f): 6:38pm On Aug 25, 2020 |
God bless you brother. Why will you get yourself worried because of this? If you feel she is not doing the right thing call and talk to her with love. There is no woman that will misbehave if she is accorded her respect and honour. Don't report her to your people, talk to her with love. My previous comments were sarcastic, I hope you saw through it. Mothers go through a lot nursing their children and no mother will deliberately put her child in harm's way. Tbh, most kids would have stopped breastfeeding at that age and would be on pap or solids. I'd suggest you talk to an elderly woman she respects or take her to seek counselling. There are more issues to worry about in marriage than issues like this. If you're getting tired over this small issue, wetin u go come do if one wey big pass this one come? You don't sound like you still love your wife. Is there a problem like that?[/quote] |
Re: I'm Tired Of My Wife, What Do I Do? by ImaIma1(f): 7:01pm On Aug 25, 2020 |
WandaMaximoff: Milk is good for a child. It's except she has specific reasons why she doesn't want to give the child milk, she needs to. The fact that a woman carried a child for 9 months and took care of the baby does not mean she knows it all. Besides, the baby is also the man's and he should have a say in he/she is brought up. |
Re: I'm Tired Of My Wife, What Do I Do? by eyinjuege: 7:02pm On Aug 25, 2020 |
OP, all the things you're saying are simple stuff and I think there's more behind your anger towards your wife. Has your child's pediatrician mentioned anything about the child not growing as expected for age in terms of weight and height? Are there concerns about your child's developmental milestones? If no, what then is the problem? I hope you do realise there are cerelac products already mixed with powdered milk hence you don't need to add any other milk. You just mix only with water. What kind of cerelac milk does your wife use? Is it the one already mixed with milk or the one without milk? You probably don't know. You mentioned your child only eats 3 times a day. That's probably not true and I'm sure that child will still be eating in between meals too. What exactly are your concerns about your child's health? I hope you know formulas/baby milk can cause constipation in children anyway, so even your own sma/nan milk can cause constipation in the child. Children can be weaned off milk and introduced to normal food at 6 months, so eating amala/eva shouldn't be a problem provide the soup is rich and has a lot of nutrients like fish, crayfish etc. Don't add unnecessary stress into your family |
Re: I'm Tired Of My Wife, What Do I Do? by nonhuman(m): 7:13pm On Aug 25, 2020 |
Your wife has brain tumor, her brain is damaged |
Re: I'm Tired Of My Wife, What Do I Do? by kurlz(f): 7:21pm On Aug 25, 2020 |
newace: Collect all the rags. Burn them. End of story. |
Re: I'm Tired Of My Wife, What Do I Do? by WeRblessed(f): 7:41pm On Aug 25, 2020 |
newace: Babies without proper nutrients have delay brain development. In other word, when their peers re giving a quizz in class or exam, he will normally be the last to finish because he is slow to understanding. Eba and amala, cerelac and yogurt are good meal for physical development, but not good for babies brain development. BREAST MILK OR BABY FORMULA are best. Since you based in NIGERIA, please look for baby formula called NAN. You can give it to him three times a day, and then if he loves eating anything else like amala or cerelac you may give him. Do not forget to give him destilled water. |
Re: I'm Tired Of My Wife, What Do I Do? by Kennydoc(m): 7:48pm On Aug 25, 2020 |
WandaMaximoff: Not all mothers know what is best for their children. |
Re: I'm Tired Of My Wife, What Do I Do? by Kennydoc(m): 7:52pm On Aug 25, 2020 |
Ishilove:Are you for real with respect to the statement in bold? Do you open your bowel twice or thrice every single day? Do you have Irritable Bowel Syndrome? |
Re: I'm Tired Of My Wife, What Do I Do? by corpershun: 7:54pm On Aug 25, 2020 |
newace: You are behaving like a Woman Wrapper, Just whining and whining. Ogbeni why can't you feed your son abi no be the two of you get am. If your son wears old cloth why can't you always bring out the clothes you want him to wear and wear it for him. You can even try to do 'To-Match' so he wears new things. You are just looking for excuse to leave your marriage, maybe you think Marriage is all about eating KFC chicken and Licking Ice Cream. Marriage is work! At least you have a child. What of people that don't have and are together for years. Mr Man divorce if that's what you want to hear but the next one may be submissive but a cheat. No One has it All!!! |
Re: I'm Tired Of My Wife, What Do I Do? by HomerTimpson: 7:56pm On Aug 25, 2020 |
newace:SIRE,calm down first,just tell her you are not in the position to command her on what to feed our baby as she's the mommy of the house,and beg her to pls consider the money involve in buying the sma milk as it will waste and that waste is not good(do this with a romantic gesture and put some EMOTIONS in it even thou you are pissed) if possible with a gift as small as popcorn just a weird nice thing,anything just for her to see the effort e.t.c Everything is not violence for peace to reign,or na with violence you take did the do? TRUST ME SIRE,YOU WILL BE SURPRISED She might even tell you stuffs you may not know like the milk you bought is not the right thing for your baby |
Re: I'm Tired Of My Wife, What Do I Do? by culf: 8:27pm On Aug 25, 2020 |
max57: very true boss 1 Like |
Re: I'm Tired Of My Wife, What Do I Do? by culf: 8:29pm On Aug 25, 2020 |
DrFunmisticGlow: i won't suggest that, the woman will do a better job in that regard. Its for him to make her understand. |
Re: I'm Tired Of My Wife, What Do I Do? by stormborn28(m): 8:31pm On Aug 25, 2020 |
mariahAngel:God bless you for this comment 1 Like |
Re: I'm Tired Of My Wife, What Do I Do? by aalangel(f): 8:41pm On Aug 25, 2020 |
newace: So what exactly is your problem?? |
Re: I'm Tired Of My Wife, What Do I Do? by stormborn28(m): 8:46pm On Aug 25, 2020 |
Biglittlelois:let me ask a question. Must you sweet talk a wife or a woman before she does the right thing... This is where I'm different oooooo... You don't need to praise me or sweet talk as people will say before I do the necessary... To me I always feel it is for my own good and it is has really helped me in life |
Re: I'm Tired Of My Wife, What Do I Do? by RPG2020(m): 9:01pm On Aug 25, 2020 |
Run for your life |
Re: I'm Tired Of My Wife, What Do I Do? by mentored: 9:59pm On Aug 25, 2020 |
newace: Sir, Can I come and collect the SMA Gold E get why sir |
Re: I'm Tired Of My Wife, What Do I Do? by delpee(f): 10:03pm On Aug 25, 2020 |
abbasajao: Sorry about the loss of your wife. May God keep you and your daughter safe and sound always. In addition to NAN, you can give your baby Cerelac and pap with her baby milk. As she grows older, you can blend potatoes and mixed vegetables for her. Mackerel fish and boiled egg are great too for good nourishment. You may have to keep trying different combinations to arrive at the one she accepts willingly. At six months, she can take very soft amala (pure yam flour) and ewedu without stew to avoid pepper. Gradually other foods can be introduced but she needs to keep taking milk. Peak milk has for the different stages as she gets older. May God help you all the way. May she always be a source of joy and blessing to you. Amen |
Re: I'm Tired Of My Wife, What Do I Do? by veykey: 10:18pm On Aug 25, 2020 |
newace:This is the third page and what I've been able to gather is that your wife is 1) Stubborn 2) Disrespectful 3) Not fashionable and 4) Unemployed. And the conclusion I've drawn from your replies so far is that you've made up your mind on leaving her or still be married but have children from other women or woman but my only advice to you is to think of the impact your choices of today will affect the tomorrow. |
Re: I'm Tired Of My Wife, What Do I Do? by delpee(f): 10:24pm On Aug 25, 2020 |
newace: This diet is poor for an 18 month old. The baby is old enough to eat properly. Milk is truly still very necessary. Try to feed your son playfully when you have the time. Allow him to eat with you if possible. Create a bond with him. As you get involved without complaining about your wife's attitude, she may be forced to change. Kids like trying new things and will relate well with anyone who provides the chance. Provide that opportunity since his mum is insisting on a fixed routine that won't yield good results. |
Re: I'm Tired Of My Wife, What Do I Do? by mikemiyaki: 2:08am On Aug 26, 2020 |
Tired of your wife, ke? We die here! |
Re: I'm Tired Of My Wife, What Do I Do? by ussy09(m): 6:44am On Aug 26, 2020 |
VLTA:the op is not getting the gist |
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