RudyNerdy:
are you for real

RudyNerdy:
Hello Good afternoon fellas!

There's this Young girl of 22 I met on the road and I was attracted to her cos she was so irresistibly gorgeous in her moderate way of dressing and her voluptuous figure.

So we exchanged numbers, communicated on WhatsApp and calls, few weeks later we met at an eatery, like I've been told that first impression matters, so i dressed well and got some perf with a nice fragrance sprayed on my body then I got some malts for us to drink, when I ordered for Ishi-Ewu and the waitress informed me the price was 3k, she rebuffed and told me I shouldn't buy it cos twas so costly, so we took just malt and departed.

Now ever since we met, she has been bombarding me with Calls and tons of messages, even in her office during working hours She'll still be calling like thrice in the morning and I now observed she's going crazy.

Now about Social media, I lied to her that I wasn't on Facebook while I've been anonymously spying on her and then I came to realize that she has a boyfriend who stays in the same state but a far away Local Government.

Now the girl is asking me if I have a girlfriend of which I denied and she is now littering my pics all over her WhatsApp status as she begged me to take a selfie with her of which I reluctantly obliged.

So the crux of the matter is that I asked her if she is dating and she denied it and told me she's single, I kept on pestering her to tell me the truth and she said she's dating but she is no more interested in the guy again, meanwhile the guy in question still loves her.

So is this a green light for me to ask her out?
I'm 27.

RudyNerdy:
that's what she said, that it isn't that serious and she is not loved nor cared for but the way the said guy litters her timeline with love and their pics refutes her claims

RudyNerdy:
your sis dey Delta? Ughelli to be precise?

RudyNerdy:
I actually wanted a girl I can build a career relationship with

theForth:
so we all end up marrying prostitutes?. Just asking.

RudyNerdy:
through out those months you went out with her, did she squeeze your wallet?

justscorchone:


Yes, except you don’t need my help

Zzor:
nothing like boyfriend,its a waste of time

Zzor:
we are still saying the same thing if you look deep

malvisguy212:
true that , but at least you must start from some where , or do you want to marry a stranger ?

RudyNerdy:
what's your opinion on dating before marriage?
cos majority of my church brethren see it as a sin.
I'm a 27 year old dude in my finals as a law student and I believe in building a relationship now till when I culminate to the top so by then we already know and trust ourselves and not just getting married to a stranger after already achieving success.
That's the kind of situation I wanted applying to my relationship with this girl I met and the relationship is devoid of premarital sex but my church brethren see it as a sin and advised i should wait till i graduate, get a job and the good wife will come.

malvisguy212:
keeping friendship with a girl , is it a sin ? i don't think so , your church is too religious , don't get me wrong my brother , i know what they are trying to do, as the apostle paul say , when there is a law then there is a violation of sin , when u set law like this , then there is a big chance of you violating this law than keeping its, this will only happen when you focus on the law and ignore the right thing.

my advice to you is , don't date who you can't marry ,and when you date your woman , dont make it secret .

RudyNerdy:
Hello Good afternoon fellas!

There's this Young girl of 22 I met on the road and I was attracted to her cos she was so irresistibly gorgeous in her moderate way of dressing and her voluptuous figure.

So we exchanged numbers, communicated on WhatsApp and calls, few weeks later we met at an eatery, like I've been told that first impression matters, so i dressed well and got some perf with a nice fragrance sprayed on my body then I got some malts for us to drink, when I ordered for Ishi-Ewu and the waitress informed me the price was 3k, she rebuffed and told me I shouldn't buy it cos twas so costly, so we took just malt and departed.

Now ever since we met, she has been bombarding me with Calls and tons of messages, even in her office during working hours She'll still be calling like thrice in the morning and I now observed she's going crazy.

Now about Social media, I lied to her that I wasn't on Facebook while I've been anonymously spying on her and then I came to realize that she has a boyfriend who stays in the same state but a far away Local Government.

Now the girl is asking me if I have a girlfriend of which I denied and she is now littering my pics all over her WhatsApp status as she begged me to take a selfie with her of which I reluctantly obliged.

So the crux of the matter is that I asked her if she is dating and she denied it and told me she's single, I kept on pestering her to tell me the truth and she said she's dating but she is no more interested in the guy again, meanwhile the guy in question still loves her.

So is this a green light for me to ask her out?
I'm 27.

Revolva:
@op

Just never trust any girl in naija don't try it they all have plenty boyfriend now that it's so obvious with their smart fones at hand it's is now their working tool to take connect easily unlike the olden days when woman are more reserved

Any girl.with a smart fone can be easily decivied by boys and date them and even bang Dem if they are the loose type

Trust no girl wit ur heart don't love anymore just play your game well

RudyNerdy:
I'll give you her number

Charly68:
So you have not never seen a married woman telling you she has no husband before..? This happen when women can not any substance of manhood in a man.

Skmoda360:
As slawormir always say "real niggars don't lament over a bitch that has been f*kd before just swim your own and leave it for the next niggar to swim too ....

Fucsheetup:
Slawormir got that advice from his dad, his mom is still out there being the ocean. I wouldn’t take such advice from people who have females in their families but talk trash about them.

Disregard this childishness OP.

RudyNerdy:
Thank you so much.
You might as well give me ideas on how to play along without involving my heart cos I got issues in that aspect.

RudyNerdy:
Hello Good afternoon fellas!

There's this Young girl of 22 I met on the road and I was attracted to her cos she was so irresistibly gorgeous in her moderate way of dressing and her voluptuous figure.

So we exchanged numbers, communicated on WhatsApp and calls, few weeks later we met at an eatery, like I've been told that first impression matters, so i dressed well and got some perf with a nice fragrance sprayed on my body then I got some malts for us to drink, when I ordered for Ishi-Ewu and the waitress informed me the price was 3k, she rebuffed and told me I shouldn't buy it cos twas so costly, so we took just malt and departed.

Now ever since we met, she has been bombarding me with Calls and tons of messages, even in her office during working hours She'll still be calling like thrice in the morning and I now observed she's going crazy.

Now about Social media, I lied to her that I wasn't on Facebook while I've been anonymously spying on her and then I came to realize that she has a boyfriend who stays in the same state but a far away Local Government.

Now the girl is asking me if I have a girlfriend of which I denied and she is now littering my pics all over her WhatsApp status as she begged me to take a selfie with her of which I reluctantly obliged.

So the crux of the matter is that I asked her if she is dating and she denied it and told me she's single, I kept on pestering her to tell me the truth and she said she's dating but she is no more interested in the guy again, meanwhile the guy in question still loves her.

So is this a green light for me to ask her out?
I'm 27.