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i am beginning to think my girlfriend is cheating on me by salvationproject(m): 4:52pm On Aug 27, 2020
THIS MAY BE A BIT LONG GUYS BUT PLEASE BEAR WITH ME AND MY GRAMMATICAL ERRORS

I recently had an encounter with this girlfriend of mine I do trust a lot due to how she had tried to play clean with me in the past. We recently started having intercourse since before now, she do claim she was a virgin and would love to keep same till marriage.

Prior to our first knacking, babe was kinda acting like she is not that virgin she claims to be. Imagine her asking me questions like when we will finally have sex, will I be able to last for 2hours? is my peem big? which virgin asks such questions?. Anyways, I wasn't bothered since I know myself but was skeptical if indeed this girl was really a virgin. After the stuff, I convinced myself that she may truly be one as her stuff was so tight to penetrate in fact it was painful.

But that is not the real case. I said all that to give you guys a clue as to me trusting her to be a good girl came from. I then trusted her to be the faithful one for me since she is kind, caring n truly loves me.

Now to the recent event, babe recently help my business with 20k though I lost it to some thieves few days after. Next day, she came to condole with me. I told her am OK and opted for her phone. I started going through her phone. First, gallery and then WhatsApp but immediately she noticed I opened WhatsApp, she became uncomfortable and requested I give her the phone to do something. Knowing that she may want to delete some things, I declined and went straight to a chat I saw with one supposedly saved "Daddy". On opening, the first things I saw was nude videos sent to this man in question.

My heart immediately went blank I swear because I was already thinking of how I will pursue this girl out of my house despite her generosity towards me if what i am seeing turns true but I just managed to calm down to read first before jumping into conclusions. I scrolled up, started reading and damn it, the chat was similar to how me and her do converse. How she use to say "When are we knacking again?, will i cum inside her?, she will love to feel my cum inside her" and other stuffs like that cause since our first hit, she just love this stuff like mad now. Also, the supposed daddy sent the person chatting 20k recently (could that be what she gave to me) but the flaw was that the person told the daddy who should be a federal or state lawmaker that she would love to apply for the 774,000 FG jobs and the man told him that it was not yet open. I consider that a flaw because my girlfriend is still an undergraduate (part 2) and I don't think she will say she wants to apply for a job.

My babe started disturbing me that she wants to go as she believe her people may be looking for her but I held her down like I must see to the end of this and know if she has been pretending all this while. I confronted her as regards "Who is this man?" and her reply was she don't know and that it was her senior sister that have that conversation and that's why she wanted to delete it.

I was like "what the Bleep, your sister sending nude videos with your phone, didn't delete it and I don't even know her sef?". My only evidence was to watch the video but then, I was afraid of violating her supposed sister's privacy by watching her nude videos if eventually it was her. it wasn't easy but I just decided not to watch the videos and I allowed her go but since then, I have been thinking. Could my suspicions be right? I now blame myself for not watching the videos sef.

what do you think nairalanders?
Re: i am beginning to think my girlfriend is cheating on me by kleolouis(m): 5:40pm On Aug 27, 2020
grin grin grin
for her to insult ur intelligence like that, Mehn! she no de regard you as anything broda..advice from me to you is -move on and don't be simping that simpship you bout to cruise as eei no go end well..

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Re: i am beginning to think my girlfriend is cheating on me by VicM6: 5:42pm On Aug 27, 2020
I think you are mad. period

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Re: i am beginning to think my girlfriend is cheating on me by Adedotguy: 5:43pm On Aug 27, 2020
angry
Re: i am beginning to think my girlfriend is cheating on me by OGWILLS123: 5:56pm On Aug 27, 2020
Wetin you want make we do now ! angry
You said you saw some nude videos and photos
on her phone instead of you to watch and see if it was her or
not for confirmation. now you are up here asking
some stupid question
I don't know what to tell now angry

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Re: i am beginning to think my girlfriend is cheating on me by OGWILLS123: 5:56pm On Aug 27, 2020
angry
Re: i am beginning to think my girlfriend is cheating on me by Kalatium(m): 6:00pm On Aug 27, 2020
That was a sissy move

Why didn't you just check the video to confirm if she was the one.

My instincts keep telling me she was the one in the video.

Doesn't her elder sister have a phone? Why will she be using her junior sisters phone to send nudes?

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Re: i am beginning to think my girlfriend is cheating on me by Powerfly(f): 6:03pm On Aug 27, 2020
Are your intentions to marry her? Or you just want a faithful fornicating partner to be knacking?
Are you ready for kids because all those.' i want to feel your cum inside me' is not television that will form at the end oo...

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Re: i am beginning to think my girlfriend is cheating on me by salvationproject(m): 6:15pm On Aug 27, 2020
Powerfly:
Are your intentions to marry her? Or you just want a faithful fornicating partner to be knacking?
Are you ready for kids because all those.' i want to feel your cum inside me' is not television that will form at the end oo...
I really want to marry a white woman but she will never let me be... all attempts to break up were fruitless and now, I have no option but to accept her as the final bus stop
Re: i am beginning to think my girlfriend is cheating on me by Powerfly(f): 6:17pm On Aug 27, 2020
salvationproject:

I really want to marry a white woman but she will never let me be... all attempts to break up were fruitless and now, I have no option but to accept her as the final bus stop

wow.. Pls can u introduce her to NL.? Tell her to join nl.
Re: i am beginning to think my girlfriend is cheating on me by 2dice01: 6:22pm On Aug 27, 2020
Nobody should call the Op the "S"® word

Nice move for not watching the video
You are a real 21st century Man
At least that would be the last time she will be caught

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Re: i am beginning to think my girlfriend is cheating on me by Nobody: 6:26pm On Aug 27, 2020
ditch her and get a new girl or get a sidechick
Re: i am beginning to think my girlfriend is cheating on me by Gee64: 6:31pm On Aug 27, 2020
For goodness sake!
You don't own her yet. She has the right to who she gives her body or love to, man!
She is your girlfriend and not your wife. You have no right over her as she has no right over you.
So stop being bossy and selfish!
Re: i am beginning to think my girlfriend is cheating on me by 2dice01: 6:38pm On Aug 27, 2020
Gee64:
For goodness sake!
You don't own her yet. She has the right to who she gives her body or love to, man!
She is your girlfriend and not your wife. You have no right over her as she has no right over you.
So stop being bossy and selfish!
Uncle so when he marries her she will automatically change from being a Hoe to a Good girl fa

To knack you 2 by 2 dey hungry me

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Re: i am beginning to think my girlfriend is cheating on me by salvationproject(m): 6:57pm On Aug 27, 2020
Powerfly:

wow.. Pls can u introduce her to NL.? Tell her to join nl.
Hahahaha, for why na?
Re: i am beginning to think my girlfriend is cheating on me by Elvictor: 7:27pm On Aug 27, 2020
absolute thrash!
Re: i am beginning to think my girlfriend is cheating on me by Nobody: 7:54pm On Aug 27, 2020
Op you deserve a tongue lashing from everyone here. She played you, just fvck her no value pucce and move on to the next girl
Re: i am beginning to think my girlfriend is cheating on me by Powerfly(f): 8:12pm On Aug 27, 2020
salvationproject:

Hahahaha, for why na?

make she follow come feel the vibez 4 here na.. Abi na only you sabi better thing?
Re: i am beginning to think my girlfriend is cheating on me by paulolee(m): 8:33pm On Aug 27, 2020
you had the chance to help urself, the phone was with you and all you had to do was to open the said video and confirm bt you didn't bcoz of your own reasons and now you are asking us to help advice you if she's cheating or not..
how do we know if she's cheating or not?? we cnt help you since you are too weak to help urself..

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Re: i am beginning to think my girlfriend is cheating on me by Nobody: 8:47pm On Aug 27, 2020
Your girlfriend is in her wh0re stage at this time but one thing is certain, she loves and cares a lot about you and your welfare.

You either dump her and try your luck with ladies that have successfully graduated from the wh0re stage or you allow her to pass through her own stage in peace, it's not abnormal for a lady of her sexual status. cheesy cheesy

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Re: i am beginning to think my girlfriend is cheating on me by Nezzjnr: 9:24pm On Aug 27, 2020
cheesy cheesy cheesy

OP your babe is Saying the Truth.... That conversation is that of her sister's.... Your babe is Virgin cheesy

Please show her genuine love.... Don't follow the Advices from people here....Please Forgive your gf cheesy

Cc lefulefu

Re: i am beginning to think my girlfriend is cheating on me by Kaycee54321(m): 11:02pm On Aug 27, 2020
Powerfly:
Are your intentions to marry her? Or you just want a faithful fornicating partner to be knacking?
Are you ready for kids because all those.' i want to feel your cum inside me' is not television that will form at the end oo...

cheesy

Tell am oh

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Re: i am beginning to think my girlfriend is cheating on me by merieam16(f): 11:27pm On Aug 27, 2020
salvationproject:

Hahahaha, for why na?
dey will help u do d needful noni,at least u re tired of her
Re: i am beginning to think my girlfriend is cheating on me by PureGoldh(m): 11:29pm On Aug 27, 2020
Oga......na only her know why she dey keep such I her fone.

Wetin I wan tell you be say..

Dx current generation haff spoil finish
Re: i am beginning to think my girlfriend is cheating on me by MAGG0T(m): 11:33pm On Aug 27, 2020
cheesy


What I sense here, 2 teenagers, claiming they are in love, infatuated souls
Re: i am beginning to think my girlfriend is cheating on me by salvationproject(m): 12:19am On Aug 28, 2020
MAGG0T:
cheesy


What I sense here, 2 teenagers, claiming they are in love, infatuated souls
who is a teenager? we, Nigerians especially those on nairaland will never feel the pain of others claiming they are immature and this but these are everyday things all of us are facing
Re: i am beginning to think my girlfriend is cheating on me by silento(m): 12:22am On Aug 28, 2020
You are a semi yeye boyfriend she gave you 20k and you dey cry say she send another man nude to better your life and hers let me tell you the early you confront her and give her format to collect more money from the man the better your life will be , see as far as respect you as a boyfriend it is enough this girl love you use her do business , see in this life na only your family be true love ,

Keep collecting money from her and always be in need bro she is a jackpot don't loose her because of yeye nude , can you finish her honey well all by yourself use your brain , she will be paying you while you dey collect free kpekus

Is like u never jam babe wey go dey cheat on you dey bill you every month

Go back and find a way to give her format so una both can collect more money from the lawyer or what ever

And finally find another girl behind her back all guys do it and be smart

Don't put all your love for one girl no matter how nice she might be and if you must love find a babe above 26

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Re: i am beginning to think my girlfriend is cheating on me by Nobody: 1:30am On Aug 28, 2020
Nezzjnr:
cheesy cheesy cheesy

OP your babe is Saying the Truth.... That conversation is that of her sister's.... Your babe is Virgin cheesy

Please show her genuine love.... Don't follow the Advices from people here....Please Forgive your gf cheesy

Cc lefulefu
i dont know why ppl are so obessed with this virginity of a thing cheesy.a girl can still be bad and promiscious and still be a virgin..very possible.There are girls these days who take it through the backdoor without taking it at the front if u know what i mean cheesy so does that make her a good cos she didnt get any vaginal sex? cheesy
ok what of those girls who are sexually wild and when its time to settle down they start rubbing lime and other concortion on their pussy to mAKE it tighter and give the impression they are virgins
abeg some guys are just foolish
character is the main thing.If the girl has ur spec then next is her character..if the character is in place then u can check other things.Of what use is a virgin if she nags,she cheats on u and gives u high blood pressure cheesy
Op say im see nudes on her fone wich she sent to a sugar daddy and he"s still asking weda he should dump cheesy
ok ooo he should forgive her and accept her back cheesy
orisisi sumptin

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Re: i am beginning to think my girlfriend is cheating on me by Nezzjnr: 2:23am On Aug 28, 2020
lefulefu:
i dont know why ppl are so obessed with this virginity of a thing cheesy.a girl can still be bad and promiscious and still be a virgin..very possible.There are girls these days who take it through the backdoor without taking it at the front if u know what i mean cheesy so does that make her a good cos she didnt get any vaginal sex? cheesy
ok what of those girls who are sexually wild and when its time to settle down they start rubbing lime and other concortion on their pussy to mAKE it tighter and give the impression they are virgins
abeg some guys are just foolish
character is the main thing.If the girl has ur spec then next is her character..if the character is in place then u can check other things.Of what use is a virgin if she nags,she cheats on u and gives u high blood pressure cheesy
Op say im see nudes on her fone wich she sent to a sugar daddy and he"s still asking weda he should dump cheesy
ok ooo he should forgive her and accept her back cheesy
orisisi sumptin
The Girl just dey use OP play ludo

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Re: i am beginning to think my girlfriend is cheating on me by Nobody: 2:57am On Aug 28, 2020
Biggest bs i ever read undecided
Re: i am beginning to think my girlfriend is cheating on me by Nobody: 3:02am On Aug 28, 2020
Nezzjnr:

The Girl just dey use OP play ludo
exactly cheesy
Re: i am beginning to think my girlfriend is cheating on me by Yellowblack: 3:16am On Aug 28, 2020
Op. you. stupid..

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