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The First Major Mistake Ladies Make: Making the First Move by Doitquickly: 6:10am On Aug 28, 2020 |
Mistake Number 1 Making the First Move Never make the first move You may think that there is nothing wrong if you walk up to a man you admire and express your feelings to him. You may have the opinion that a woman should go all out for what she wants. Going all out for what you want is true in the world of business where no one is likely to give you what you want provided that the rights of others are not violated. In the world of relationship with men, things are different. If you want a truly caring relationship with mutual reciprocation of love, do not make the first move. If you want a mutually fulfilling and complimentary relationship, never make the first move. When a woman makes the first move, many men think she is too cheap and desperately looking for a man. They think she is loose and can easily run off with any man who smiles at her. Many men may accept her proposal but only to abuse her and to dump her. They will exploit her sexually and financially and drop her. When a woman makes the first move, she will be the one striving to please the man rather than the other way around. A woman who makes the first move indicates that she has a weak character and lacks control over her emotions. Many men will not respect such a woman and will not treat her with the love and respect she deserves. They may accept to date her for the purpose of having access to her body but when it comes to commitment to marry, they will take off. Do not listen to the women liberation movement who tells you to make the first move to approach a man. In the Western countries where the women make the first move, the divorce rates are higher. Remember that the Bible says that he who finds a wife finds a good thing. It's the man who has to do the finding and has to make the first move. 1 Like |
Re: The First Major Mistake Ladies Make: Making the First Move by Nackzy: 6:12am On Aug 28, 2020 |
Hmmmmm |
Re: The First Major Mistake Ladies Make: Making the First Move by LawLab247: 6:14am On Aug 28, 2020 |
Ok |
Re: The First Major Mistake Ladies Make: Making the First Move by Nobody: 6:24am On Aug 28, 2020 |
Doitquickly:God bless you for this,very wrong for a woman to make first move on any man 1 Like |
Re: The First Major Mistake Ladies Make: Making the First Move by godofuck231: 6:36am On Aug 28, 2020 |
Zzor:it's not always true, see thins different and see the possibility |
Re: The First Major Mistake Ladies Make: Making the First Move by Kdon2: 6:44am On Aug 28, 2020 |
Doitquickly: So true. Man Chase woman not the other way round. Women have the power to seduce men though, that is more honourable. 1 Like |
Re: The First Major Mistake Ladies Make: Making the First Move by Kazeem47(m): 6:48am On Aug 28, 2020 |
Instead,they should stick to giving green light to the man they love than making the first move. 1 Like |
Re: The First Major Mistake Ladies Make: Making the First Move by Nobody: 6:55am On Aug 28, 2020 |
Oga there is nothing wrong in ladies making the first move. you even used the bible to support your claim lolllss. As a lady, if you see a guy u like and u guys have been friends, you can tell him u like him and would love to be his wive. In fact, ask him to marry you, there is nothing bad about doing that. It maybe that the guy, just like Boaz in the book of Ruth, could not summon the courage to tell u he likes u and would love to marry u. Boaz loves Ruth and was showing her lots of care but he couldn't summon the courage to ask her out. Naomi the mother in-law of Ruth, asked Ruth to tell Boaz to marry her and Ruth did just that and everything became history. Now, do u even see that, it was a woman that even advised Ruth to take the bold step and ask Boaz out? You see...even in the bible, women took the bold step... there are other places in the bible where such stories are illustrated. Don't listen to anyone telling you to buckle up how u feel, most of you do that and becomes old for marriage. When u see a guy u like, just like Ruth in the bible, summon the courage and let him know what's up. it may be that he is shy to ask u out o ask u to be his wife. There is absolutely nothing bad about you doing that. Most guys just like me, would admire your boldness and if truly they like u, would surely marry u. Ladies and gents u all can go and read the sweet love story of Boaz and Ruth in the bible...Start from Ruth chapter 1, you will enjoy the story. Do you know that, after Ruth said that to Boaz, he did everything he could to make sure he married her and finally had her as his wife. If a guy truly likes you and you took the bold step my sis, I am telling you the truth, he will marry u. 1 Like |
Re: The First Major Mistake Ladies Make: Making the First Move by Nobody: 7:17am On Aug 28, 2020 |
This is archaic and backward. I'm sure 90% of young women these days won't go by this rubbish you wtote |
Re: The First Major Mistake Ladies Make: Making the First Move by Nobody: 10:21am On Aug 28, 2020 |
You are right and wrong. Right that women should not be doing sssshhh on the road chyking men like she-goat but nothing should stop a lady from going after a gentleman that she finds attractive especially when purposeful attraction is involved. She doesn't have to tell him I love you talk your own. A simple attention or what they call greenlight won't make her less a responsible lady and if the attraction is mutual, the man will take it up from there. 1 Like |
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