Some people believe in sincerity and plainliness. But don you think telling all that happen in you past romance live will add to you feather in getting much trust from your new partner?
If not, how much should you consider telling the new him/her?

Don't share jack with her; claim the angel you are not. I hope she finds out soon and Bummer, you have a worse scenario.

as much as they wish to share i guess

About 40%

He shouldn't know everything

^^^^

Bet you have an alarming past.

*smh*

Omolola1:

About 40%

He shouldn't know everything

wat if he/she finds out by him/herself that the rest 60% of ur past is shyte

I don't av a past, just answering the question

@omolola1, there is no one wit a past, i mean no one.

i think blueice was meant to say "no one without a past".

Well if you dont really have a past as omolola claimes, then nothing stop you from telling everything tho

Am not claiming, its a fact! u don't have to believe

Old things have passed away, all things have become new. Unless u have a baby with ur ex --- the past shouldn't matter.

I once met a lady during my school days. As our relationship progressed she told me of her past, I was almost backing out just for that sake. Ahhhh, I imagined how many beds she jumped into and how many men she opened her legs for. Ahhhh, I was discouraged but I knew we can't marry because then I wasn't even ready for marriage.

Meldrick:

I once met a lady during my school days. As our relationship progressed she told me of her past, I was almost backing out just for that sake. Ahhhh, I imagined how many beds she jumped into and how many men she opened her legs for. Ahhhh, I was discouraged but I knew we can't marry because then I wasn't even ready for marriage.

I tell my new gurl the few stuffs I know she can handle about my past. Trust me, if u love and want to keep ur new woman, u dnt have to divuldge everything abt ur past to her. Somehow,that knowledge to her will haunt u in one way or the other. A woman's extreme emotions makes it difficult for her to handle most stuffs!

20% wil b okay. . D rest wil wound jor her i bet she cn handle d situation. .
**gals dnt hv a gud hrt abt d past**

This here is my take on the issue, certain sleeping dogs should remain that way. The purpose is sometimes defeated when you let it all out, the trust you think you'd be garnering just might evolve into disdain,skepticism, and the like. Me thinks the real heavyweights (as in life changing experiences that one has had, and I want to think the poster means the negative aspects of our past, correct me if I'm wrong) should remain in the closet, better yet get them out the closet,bury 'em and burn up the the piece of land it was buried. Most peeps I know never benefited from letting ALL the cats (especially the black ones) out the bag.

Mitchelin:

This here is my take on the issue, certain sleeping dogs should remain that way. The purpose is sometimes defeated when you let it all out, the trust you think you'd be garnering just might evolve into disdain,skepticism, and the like. Me thinks the real heavyweights (as in life changing experiences that one has had, and I want to think the poster means the negative aspects of our past, correct me if I'm wrong) should remain in the closet, better yet get them out the closet,bury 'em and burn up the the piece of land it was buried. Most peeps I know never benefited from letting ALL the cats (especially the black ones) out the bag.

u are there, people like talking about the sweet part of the stories, if u really have a bitter part, would u in anyway want her/him to know, if yes, wen could be d best time?

Listen up, if you've got an exceptionally dirty laundry, just burn it, don't even think about washing it talk-less of washing it in public. Now there are certain things you should beware of, if the past you are hiding has a very important hold on the future that you are trying to build,then you just might take calculated steps to disclosing it, this you do by dropping hints and gauging the reaction of your partner, take your time doing this, don't drop the whole s@#tload at once, you may not survive the odoriferous fallout.
But like I opined,if you are trying to let someone in on your past in an effort to be more loving and the usual there-should-be-no-secret-between-us repartee,then keep mum on matters that are exceptionally personal, needless to say she'll tell on you anyway, you know women, her best-friend (until their next fallout) would definitely know about your so called "love secret".

johnterry, mitchelin, fabiluv, i feel u

I've kinda discovrd in d hard way dat men despite their strong physiques realy kant handle "certain emotnal baggage".They badger u wit questions bt wen u drop it, i'v created an automatic ducktape over my mouth.wat he doesn know wldnt kill him.Also i avoid probing 2 much.I REALY DONT WANNA KNOW!.Our relatnshp is healthier 4 it.

Knowin what I know now its best not to tell, just keep shut!!

whether you tell it all or not, it will catch up with you one day and haunt you, the past is never dead
so you have to know who you're dealing with, what he/she can handle,

Well, are the two trying to create a past together? Or a future?

Sure, if na me, I'd tell him about some things of my past so that he could get to know me better. I have no problem sharing it, just that, it's the past. I don't want to dwell on it too much.

People av 2sides, d good side n d bad side, d past n d future, we av 2 embrace both in somebody we love,

Was ich nicht weiss, macht mich nicht heiss

EVERYTHING TO AVOID THE SKELETONS FROM CRAWLING OUT LATER TO HAUNT YOU AND CAUSE ONE TO DISMISS THE OTHER FOR HIDING THE TRUTH.

There is nothing new under the sun.