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Re: How Do I Turn Him Down And Not Hurt Him? by Benwallt(m): 11:17pm On Sep 02, 2020 |
shepherd316:so a stack n demoralised illiterate like you wants to upgrade yourself to literate level. Scram boy. Pack what is left of your perforated life n walk walk yourself into oblivion. |
Re: How Do I Turn Him Down And Not Hurt Him? by laiperi: 11:21pm On Sep 02, 2020 |
De guy don knack am taya BabaRamota1980: 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Turn Him Down And Not Hurt Him? by JBoss25(m): 11:24pm On Sep 02, 2020 |
PureGoldh:I know you're an ozo 2.0 stop lying |
Re: How Do I Turn Him Down And Not Hurt Him? by BigJoe19: 11:57pm On Sep 02, 2020 |
The guy doesn't love her or wants a future with her, he only wants to fvck her, all the calling her "my wife"and touching na just strategy. He hasn't even asked her out or say he wants to date her. What the guy is trying to do with her is "Friends with Benefits". Most people in this thread ain't streetsmart 2 Likes |
Re: How Do I Turn Him Down And Not Hurt Him? by Champagnegold: 12:10am On Sep 03, 2020 |
Even as you seem to sound nice I like hearing stories from both parties better you call a spade a spade what is this I enjoy his company but he's not my spec are you perfect or special? forming irrelevant importance you said you don't like him so what are you always doing around him do you visit all your former single male neighbors like that.. ok if you have a guy and he notice this will you proudly say exactly what you are telling us.. cheating is embedded in female and cry more when they see their crush or enspouse do same... Stop acting holier than thou, is a yes or a no stop giving people greenlight before tomorrow the world will say it's rape or she engage in it and tag bestie.. thunder abeg some people don too reason rubbishhhhhh in this generation |
Re: How Do I Turn Him Down And Not Hurt Him? by mojolajesu(m): 12:13am On Sep 03, 2020 |
If he doesn't tell you that he wants to take the relationship to the next level, the next time he touches or do all sort, tell him to his face you ain't into all that. Men needs to get sense and be straight with what they want in this life |
Re: How Do I Turn Him Down And Not Hurt Him? by Grateful02(m): 12:56am On Sep 03, 2020 |
HE IS ALREADY REFERING TO YOU AS HIS FUTURE!! CHEI, my sister just flee oo |
Re: How Do I Turn Him Down And Not Hurt Him? by Frankcallys(m): 2:46am On Sep 03, 2020 |
Well said sir
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Re: How Do I Turn Him Down And Not Hurt Him? by Rotji(m): 3:38am On Sep 03, 2020 |
Give him the impression that you have started dating someone and see how he reacts. This will go a long way in putting him in check, and from his reaction you will know what to do next in friend zoning him. |
Re: How Do I Turn Him Down And Not Hurt Him? by Nobody: 4:25am On Sep 03, 2020 |
Had similar experience. I told the guy straight up cause he was already trying to make some funny moves. Just tell him or ignore,relationship isn't about bread n butter. Feelings at times can mislead you. |
Re: How Do I Turn Him Down And Not Hurt Him? by Shafiiimran99: 1:12pm On Sep 03, 2020 |
A Charge is a basic property of matter. ... Like charges repel each other; unlike charges attract. Thus, two negative charges repel one another, while a positive charge attracts a negative charge. Therefore, we don't need to continue to deceive ourselves that a man and a woman can make a good friend except if it was business that brings them together. You are visiting a man at his home and you expect him not to have a feeling for you, do you think can control nature or what? |
Re: How Do I Turn Him Down And Not Hurt Him? by MarieSucre(f): 1:19pm On Sep 03, 2020 |
ednut1: You did hear that they were friends and used to visit each other. Se if she comes out today she stopped visiting her make friends because he is a man and men rape women so she cut him off, all of you will come out to shoot NOT ALL MEN! Which is it Oga? Y'all are confused people. |
Re: How Do I Turn Him Down And Not Hurt Him? by MarieSucre(f): 1:21pm On Sep 03, 2020 |
Intrepid01: You think life is a Nollywood movie, where because the girl rejected the boy, her life hot bad and his got better. You better wake up! Nothing will happen to her in 10 years, she will be married, have a good career abroad and a loving circle of friends, while you will still be here on nairaland being bitter because a woman rejected you once. |
Re: How Do I Turn Him Down And Not Hurt Him? by MarieSucre(f): 1:22pm On Sep 03, 2020 |
jaxxy: Na by force. If she chooses to change her spec again and again wetin concern you. Some of you here, your spec is a virgin but you're here fornicating up and down, worry about your own confused spec oga |
Re: How Do I Turn Him Down And Not Hurt Him? by MarieSucre(f): 1:24pm On Sep 03, 2020 |
maiquel: Imagine if she had said this exact words to him and posted about it on nairaland, it's the same you guys that will come and start shouting about how women are rude kini kan kini kan. What do you guys want exactly? |
Re: How Do I Turn Him Down And Not Hurt Him? by jaxxy(m): 1:25pm On Sep 03, 2020 |
MarieSucre: I’m trying to help her make the best choice not my choice or his choice. What the benefit in going round in circles when u can take ur time and get it right in fewer steps from experience of others?? I never said it was by force or she shud date the guy bt rather be sure of what she wants. |
Re: How Do I Turn Him Down And Not Hurt Him? by MarieSucre(f): 1:25pm On Sep 03, 2020 |
J111333: I'm sure your male friends also touch you inappropriately. But keep in mind they also just want friendship. rada rada |
Re: How Do I Turn Him Down And Not Hurt Him? by MarieSucre(f): 1:28pm On Sep 03, 2020 |
jaxxy: Why should she take the advice of a random internet stranger. Especially one who started off his advice by insulting her, calling her confused and insulting her whole gender in the process. If your original intention is supposed to benefit her then you must work on a better way to deliver your message or risk losing your audience. |
Re: How Do I Turn Him Down And Not Hurt Him? by ImaIma1(f): 1:31pm On Sep 03, 2020 |
Berryli: There is nothing wrong with a relationship/marriage developing from a friendship. So, if he started catching feelings, it's expected. But since the issue is that he is not your spec, I suggest you reduce the time spent with him to the minimum to help him. Though, you are two single people with possibilities, love can blossoms if you let it. |
Re: How Do I Turn Him Down And Not Hurt Him? by jaxxy(m): 1:31pm On Sep 03, 2020 |
MarieSucre: Probably my words were misconstrued then. I was just being blunt or perhaps direct. What exactly is her spec? If u ask she might not give u Smtn concrete. I have seen gals make these mistakes over and again. I have a lot of female frnds. How do they even arrive at that spec might be from a fairly tale or holly movie. Lol That’s why I probed her with that question to be sure she knows what she wants exactly. That’s all. If u noticed she didn’t mention anything bad about this guy and I wanted more details of why he isn’t her spec to judge the matter better. 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Turn Him Down And Not Hurt Him? by MarieSucre(f): 1:32pm On Sep 03, 2020 |
ehix89: She is not the only one who defined what they have as friendship. |
Re: How Do I Turn Him Down And Not Hurt Him? by MarieSucre(f): 1:35pm On Sep 03, 2020 |
jaxxy: That is not contention here, the contention is not what her spec is but how to turn the guy down gently. Don't read ABC and go and answer DEF. Except you like her, then come our plain and ask her out so she she can turn you down in front of all of nairaland. |
Re: How Do I Turn Him Down And Not Hurt Him? by MarieSucre(f): 1:36pm On Sep 03, 2020 |
Maj196: I like how Nigerians are proud about their illiteracy and inability to comprehend simple things. It is stated clearly there that the guy is financially okay, but because you have an agenda, you must insert into everything, even stories wey e no concern. You bettr go and work for your own money and stop being jealous of other men who have money |
Re: How Do I Turn Him Down And Not Hurt Him? by MarieSucre(f): 1:38pm On Sep 03, 2020 |
bluefilm: I'm sure your male friends also refer to you as their husband too. Since y'all want to act ignorant here. It's like y'all don't read a story to understand. Y'all just open your mouth waaaaah |
Re: How Do I Turn Him Down And Not Hurt Him? by jaxxy(m): 1:41pm On Sep 03, 2020 |
MarieSucre: Ure accusing me of jumping ABC to DEF and u just did same thing by telling me if I like her I shud make a move? what’s my business do I know her? The many gals I have around me I haven’t made unnecessary moves then I shud make a move on an anonymous post? incredible bt life is not that hard. Let’s just be nice. I gave my advice like I wud to a sister bt the gal is free to do whatever she likes. I don’t know her or the guy I was only being objective based on my own experience. |
Re: How Do I Turn Him Down And Not Hurt Him? by MarieSucre(f): 1:44pm On Sep 03, 2020 |
jaxxy: If it's based on your own experience then you're being Subjective not Objective. Know the difference. |
Re: How Do I Turn Him Down And Not Hurt Him? by ehix89(m): 1:58pm On Sep 03, 2020 |
MarieSucre:I really don't think she is the only one who defines that, how about the guy, where does he stands, does he sees whatever they are having as just mere friendship? |
Re: How Do I Turn Him Down And Not Hurt Him? by Intrepid01(m): 2:01pm On Sep 03, 2020 |
MarieSucre: Lol...what a huge blow from an unsuspecting person. Babe, calm down and take water. I didn’t insinuate anything negative but reality. So pls stop crying more than the bereaved. You actually do sound like a victim you know. |
Re: How Do I Turn Him Down And Not Hurt Him? by Maj196(m): 2:07pm On Sep 03, 2020 |
MarieSucre:Biitch please ... You don't know shiit |
Re: How Do I Turn Him Down And Not Hurt Him? by MarieSucre(f): 2:07pm On Sep 03, 2020 |
ehix89: That's what I mean. |
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