Dont follow you catch on facebook, twitter, instagram or be in the same whatsapp or Facebook page or group. Just spy without following

Use only your nickname sparingly

Do not let your catch know where you work or where you live.

Try to keep your catch away from family & friends.

I repeat "On no account must she know where you live.

Do not visit desame guest house or hotel twice with same girl.

Delete all your inbox messages on your mobile device.

On your mobile device, save her name as "Emeka" or any other guys name but change it to "My love" whenever u guys are together

Never discuss or talk to her about marriage.

Act rich, talk rich... wear perfumes, kit well, join the beard gang... get a clean shave. Talk less and brush your teeth


You are good to go