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| Re: The Red Truth by vest(m): 9:58am On Sep 04, 2020 |
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| Re: The Red Truth by vest(m): 10:00am On Sep 04, 2020 |
using red ink to write about redpill makes it more interesting.. every where red.. pansophist am looking foward to see your comment on this 26 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: The Red Truth by Onnasucs1(m): 11:00am On Sep 04, 2020 |
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| Re: The Red Truth by Nobody: 11:26am On Sep 04, 2020 |
I must confess your post are real life experience. Kudos 4 Likes |
| Re: The Red Truth by JasperVII(m): 11:49am On Sep 04, 2020 |
Preach the gospel bro! Nice. 1 Like 2 Shares |
| Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 12:49pm On Sep 04, 2020 |
Dpsychologist: BRIFFAULT'S LAW The female, not the male, determines all the conditions of the animal family. Where the female can derive no benefit from association with the male, no such association takes place. — Briffault R, Buxton LHD. 1927. The Mothers: A Study of the Origins of Sentiments and Institutions . Vol. I, p. 191 Briffault's law holds that females only associate with men when they can personally benefit from doing so. Striking evidence of Briffault's law is summarized in Roy Baumeister's study on sexual economics: If sex is a female resource, then it will ultimately be up to the woman to decide when and whether sexual relations commence. This view of women as sexual gate-keepers was supported by Cohen and Shotland (1996), who computed correlations between when people thought sex should start in a given relationship and when they actually began having sex. For the hapless men, the correlation was not even significant (r = .19), indicating that their wishes and preferences were essentially irrelevant, whereas for women the correlation was very high (r = .88), indicating that sex occurred when they preferred. This study also found that men wanted sex to commence earlier than the women. Thus, women decide when sex commences, and the man’s role is to invest time, money, attention, commitment, and other resources until the woman is sufficiently satisfied. — Baumeister RF, Vohs KD. 2004. Sexual Economics: Sex as Female Resource for Social Exchange in Heterosexual Interactions. Personality and Social Psychology. Vol. 8, No. 4, 339–363. 37 Likes 10 Shares |
| Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 12:53pm On Sep 04, 2020 |
BATEMAN'S PRINCIPLE Bateman's principle states that women are choosier due to greater parental investment. Being more choosy , women are overall less interested in any sexual contact. This, in turn, means men have fewer dating opportunities on average, so men more likely make compromises out of sexual frustration (principle of least interest ). This allows women substantial decision power in sexual matters, which they can exploit by strategically withholding sex. Females have greater parental investment for a number of reasons. ¶ The production of eggs is more expensive than the production of sperm. ¶ By virtue of having a womb, reproducing is physically risky for women, especially due to the large human head. ¶ Sex is also riskier for women as the pocket shape of the vagina is more vulnerable to STDs . ¶ The offspring has higher dependence on the mother as the mother but not the father is guaranteed to be present at birth, and babies depend on women's breastmilk. ¶ Human offspring is also one of the most dependent offspring of all animals due to the complex socialization process and slow brain development that allows for higher intelligence. For these reasons, females have lower expected lifetime reproductive success , so each of the few offspring needs to be held to higher standards than men's. This makes women more choosy and coy . 34 Likes 8 Shares |
| Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 1:01pm On Sep 04, 2020 |
Men, on the other hand, can produce millions of sperm cells with little cost and can get away with reproducing with lots of females, not needing to care for the offspring as much. Men have not much to lose carelessly pumping and dumping many, potentially low-quality women, except for catching STDs. Men can even brag about many sex partners, even if of low quality, as men are chosen based on their status. Conversely, women cannot brag about this since women form pussy cartels and shame free sex to avoid losing control over men. Women are hence the limiting factor in reproduction rate, men need to compete for status in order to gain copulation opportunities. This, in turn, gives women more options to choose from, so they can also afford to be extra choosy, exploiting their privilege (see hypergamy). 28 Likes 8 Shares |
| Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 2:04pm On Sep 04, 2020 |
8.) THE PARETO PRINCIPLE : The 80/20 rule recognises that in a society of rampant hypergamy roughly 20% of the men (1/5)are fucking 80% of the women. While the remaining (4/5) do not have sex. —Dpsychologist It is Only in conservative societies that each man guaranteed a wife within his relative social league established by the west. The 80/20 split indicates that 80% women are attracted to 20% of men but 20% men are attracted to 80% of women. 42 Likes 9 Shares |
| Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 2:05pm On Sep 04, 2020 |
vest:yea thats the essence of the red link. It is an indication of the red pill 5 Likes |
| Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 2:06pm On Sep 04, 2020 |
JasperVII:Yea bro. Thats the essence 1 Like |
| Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 2:06pm On Sep 04, 2020 |
solite3:Bro you are welcome 3 Likes |
| Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 2:09pm On Sep 04, 2020 |
CAPSLOCKED:Wanted responding her but your respond made me satisfied. 13 Likes |
| Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 5:31pm On Sep 04, 2020 |
9.) LOVE HIERARCHY : “Women love children how men love women.” - IM If a woman thinks she is better than you, she can’t respect you. And if she can’t respect you, she can’t love you. Women love differently from men. Woman’s love is based on adoration, adoration is a combination of admiration and respect, respect is derived from power. Thus it follows that you must be powerful if you want to be loved, or you will never be loved. You will be held in contempt for being weak.(Hypergamy) Women love pragmatically, they lack a capacity to love unconditionally for romantic partners, this is reserved for their children. This behaviour is governed by an effect known as Briffault’s Law. However, men can love women unconditionally by merit of significant personal investment. There is a hierarchy of love: Men > Women > Children. An observation of the Hierarchy of Love shows that love flows downward. That is why a woman will be willing to die for her child than her husband. Ask a man to chose between his Wife or child and he will mostly choose his Wife when in a dilemma. This is vice versa for a woman. This is possibly because man is the disposable sex, men have been going to war for centuries leaving his wife and children. This is nature's way of making sure the man's offsprings live on. Women are more self-centred than men are in matters of money and love. Man’s love is expected to be sacrificial in nature, woman’s isn’t. Women love men opportunistically, men love women sacrificially. 99 Likes 15 Shares |
| Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 5:38pm On Sep 04, 2020 |
10.) FRAME & EMOTIONAL INDULGENCE: Because women are prone to excessive emotion, they rely on men to be more emotionally resilient. This is the need for a man to be steadfast under pressure, sometimes we refer to this as “holding frame.” As women are typically more indulgent of their emotional whims than are men, they implicitly look toward men as a stabilising force. In this capacity a man often acts as a means for a woman to process her emotions, a “rock in the storm”; one who endures a woman’s Emotional turbulence while remaining unaffected himself. The reverse is not advisable, a man who confides his weaknesses in a woman all but signs his own death sentence. Women require either aggressive action to reassure them, or equanimity(calmness during turbulence) to calm them. If you lean on a woman then the relationship begin falling apart, a woman is poorly equipped to deal with her own problems, let alone a man’s – this is precisely the reason women crave for mental toughness in men. 66 Likes 9 Shares |
| Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 5:40pm On Sep 04, 2020 |
When a woman realises a man is mentally strong enough to shoulder her problems on top of his own, she will find this attractive. Women want men who can handle the problems that they can’t. This difference in emotional stability that is so intricately tied into the attraction mechanism explains why women are free to be emotionally indulgent to a point of selfishness, whilst men are comparatively restricted in the range of emotion they can express without weaving the thread of their own undoing. If both parties are to indulge their emotions, there is no stability and thus no sustainable relationship. As women find it far more difficult to be logical than men, the burden falls to men to suck it up and be the reasonable and strong ones. Even where men falter in this endeavour, they at least attempt it. It’s not fair, but it’s what works. 30 Likes 9 Shares |
| Re: The Red Truth by frankman365(m): 6:36pm On Sep 04, 2020 |
This is the real freedom fight.
Conquer women and about 50% of your problems have been solved. 31 Likes |
| Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 6:38pm On Sep 04, 2020 |
frankman365:Word bro. Flesh and bone did not reveal this to you 18 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 6:44pm On Sep 04, 2020 |
ubunja: solite3: 3 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 7:39pm On Sep 04, 2020 |
Martinez39s:Thanks mart, feel free to contribute. 4 Likes |
| Re: The Red Truth by Kalatium(m): 8:35pm On Sep 04, 2020 |
Dpsychologist: Word! Word!! Word!!! Respect sir. Following you back 2 back 11 Likes 5 Shares |
| Re: The Red Truth by Kalatium(m): 8:40pm On Sep 04, 2020 |
Auladimeji: Exactly the OP's point earlier Perfection is gotten through repeated action not by just reading instructions — Dpsychologist 6 Likes |
| Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 9:35pm On Sep 04, 2020 |
Kalatium:Exactly 1 Like |
| Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 1:42pm On Sep 05, 2020 |
Good day everyone. Lets roll shall we. 6 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 1:44pm On Sep 05, 2020 |
11.) FEMALE VISCERAL REVULSION: Continuing from the last point, the feminine disgust for male weakness is a function of hypergamy. Women have little sympathy for weak men, despite the fairer sex nonsense you may be accustomed to hearing, it is strong men that are the backbone of any prosperous functioning society. A man is far more likely than a woman to assist a man in emotional peril, for a man’s reaction to male weakness is not as pronounced as a woman’s. Men do despise effeminate men, but this is not the same as being disgusted by even minor indications of vulnerability. To be strong does not necessarily mean to be emotionally impervious, if there is anyone who will support a man through his darkest moments, it will in all likelihood be another man. Women feel revulsion(disgusted) when observing male weakness and exploited when a man depends on them. Unlike men women have no provider instinct, they are all too willing to rely, but greatly hesitant to be relied upon. You might have observed that in families where women are the bread winners or sole provider, the man is emasculated. She most times start disrespecting the man. 69 Likes 8 Shares |
| Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 1:51pm On Sep 05, 2020 |
12.) WOMEN IN-GROUP BIAS : Women have a pronounced gender group bias, meaning they typically automatically side with other women in conflict regardless of the situation’s material facts. Women are herdlike(remember herd mentality) and stick together closely, they form cartels and use the power of the group to hen peck and destroy their enemies. The female has an alliance called the sisterhood. This can be seen on Nairaland where a lady did something terrible but her fellow NL ladies will be supporting and defending her or blame the guy. A woman’s loyalty is to the sisterhood. For those looking for research evidence see: http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/15491274 38 Likes 10 Shares |
| Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 4:15pm On Sep 05, 2020 |
13.) FEMALE SEXUAL PLURALITY/DUAL MATING STRATEGY : Women have a sexual plurality also known as dual mating strategy, if you are a nice guy/beta male with money, you are a husband material. The Beta male is given ambiguous promises that sex will be offered in return behind many barriers such as the " three dates " rule, all-expenses paid dinners, shopping trips,fulfilling favors, funny jokes, rapport building, lengthy text convos , etc . The Beta doesn’t create a spark of attraction, but she’s looking for safety and security and so she decides to consider him. This describe how a woman spends her young and fertile years hooking up and getting knocked up by the Alphas with absolutely no strings attached, and later on when she wants to settle down, seeks out a Beta to provide for her. If you’re a man who sets out to assert rather than impress—charismatic, charming, suave and confident —you’re the man who gets to nail her within very little time . You “create a spark,” you give her butterflies, you’re the lustful lover and not the perfunctory provider. This dichotomy is the essence of the popular phrases : Alpha fvcks, beta bucks. Alpha Fame Beta Shame Alpha Boss Beta Loss Alpha Lay Beta Pay Alpha Sex Beta Checks Alpha Seed Beta Need Alpha Spawn Beta Pawn Alpha Fornicate Beta Masturbate 43 Likes 13 Shares
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| Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 4:30pm On Sep 05, 2020 |
14.) ON LOW TIER MEN /WEAK MALES : You’re given a dichotomy, sink or swim. You sink, and you end up drowning yourself in failure and self-pity. If you swim and only if you swim, people will start taking notice . Neither women nor society care about male weakness. As alluded to in section 6, low tier men are invisible to women as a function of hypergamy. If you are weak, depressed, small, poor, uneducated, unconfident, or anything else that prevents you from being powerful, nobody will care about whether you live or die. People only care about you when you’re powerful, or a woman. You have to pull yourself up and become self-reliant because nobody else gives a Bleep. Society will always have a safety net for women, for weakness is a function of femininity. White knights will come to the rescue, the state will provide welfare and other women are more than happy to side with her – all of this in spite of any success or remarkable accolades! A man of equal unworth is condemned, and rightly so. Whilst women can cruise without social ostracisation(exclusion) , men cannot. Fair it is not, but true it is all the same. 59 Likes 11 Shares |
| Re: The Red Truth by saladinnoir: 5:59pm On Sep 05, 2020 |
Dpsychologist: While I love what you're doing, I'm sceptical about what you said here "Ask a man to chose between his Wife or child and he will always choose his Wife" I don't have any kids but I've seen examples that prove this wrong, and I believe you shouldn't generalise. 10 Likes |
| Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 6:17pm On Sep 05, 2020 |
saladinnoir:Thanks for bringing my attention to this. I think i didn't clarify myself vividly on that statement. I think i have to reorganize that statement. My message is that men will choose their wives over their child not that they don't love them but if in a situation to choose between both of them especially in situation like death. For example : a woman with complications in a labor room will chose to die to let her unborn child live but if a man is given the choice between his wife and his unborn child he will choose the wife over the child. With the Belief that she can give birth to another child. 124 Likes 11 Shares |
| Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 6:27pm On Sep 05, 2020 |
15.) GYNOCENTRIC FAMILY LAW : In matters of law, the courts always side with women. The law prioritises female well-being over logic, honour and justice. Family law is as such corrupt, contemporarily ruled in its decision-making by feminist dogma. This had resulted in women now abusing the previleges and using it to exploit men The constitutions have been rewritten by modern statutes which discriminate most violently against the rights of men per common law. A woman can kill you and go scott free but if you just slap her, you will be suprised at the mob that will gather to defend her. The question now is, why are females favoured than male? The answer is because of male disposability and female privilege. 27 Likes 5 Shares |
| Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 6:28pm On Sep 05, 2020 |
Male Disposability and Female Privilege Male disposability is society's treatment of men as a disposable gender in dating, marriage, doctor's offices, female-on-male domestic abuse, government policy on war, job choice, workplace safety, pay, child custody, and effective suicide prevention. It refers to treating men as a utility, as a source of provision for women and society at large to such a degree that it causes massive harm to men. For more on this read, the myth of male power. Female privilege is the set of cultural, institutionalized and internalized privileges that women benefit from. Female privilege varies across history and cultures and has skyrocketed in 21st century societies. 20 Likes 7 Shares |
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