Tell the lady to go and report herself or else you will

Give her few weeks,if she fails

Tell your friend

Whiteball:
I dont expect you to strongly be taking sides with what is evil it shows alot about your personality...2months to wedding u should know that cards are out and extended families are involve.If my friend does same i wil scold him and report to his family to caution him. dont marry if u don't love.. This lady i dont know her family i would have reported her to her family...What is bad is bad bro.. peace out

Do unto the lady what measure you would have dealt if it was your friend in this situation.

What do I know
Guy tell ur guy o, 2 avoid sand 2 enter eyes

Whiteball:
To face front really dey my mind but my heart no gree me. My guy have said plenty holy things about this babe ..and am thinking is not God that brought me to my guyB's house to unravel some shit?

Your conscience will never be at rest until you tell your friend. He's a friend of yours and you are obligated to lead him away from danger when you sense any.

Short up, is like unfaithfulness flows in your blood[url][/url]

athaboi:
You no go face your front

You can have that phone conversation she asked for, and let her air whatever explanation she has. I'm sure it won't hold water though, but give that to her. You can give her two options; she makes some excuse and break off the engagement herself, or she confess to your friend about her infidelity. She ought to pick either of the options, and should be made aware that failure to come up with a decision within a stipulated date would warrant you going to your friend with the information you have.

Record your conversation and keep it for evidence.

cc: Whiteball

Juliusmomoh:
Even the bible say's.. "mind ur business"

Is that why you allowed them vote in Buhari?

Honestly if my guy see my babe dey hoe and no tell me..and I find out he knew..there would be serious problem between us...
You should have gotten the evidence so when you tell your friend it's backed up...but tell him what you saw

Whiteball:
I didnt see them f*ck . I wudnt wanna b at the centre of a collapse relationship and while writing i tried to b very discrete. i just wished i never saw her. My guy will b broken if i tell him .....one part of me say i should look away

You should tell your friend but pls remember that Women are very cunning... She may have told your friend( her fiance) lies about you not to make him trust you again.. You just need to take him to that guy B place to confirm from him

Whiteball:
It's a bit lenghty so bear with me.I'm in my late 30's very very eligible for marriage but still single.Alot of friends in my circle are married but up close and personal stories coming out of their camp and experience av had in d past isn't encouraging ,so i just wanna have a baby mama(These lady's arnt loyal).

Pressure from Family n friends to settle but am not giving in. so this particular friend of mine(now a true definition of born again- i wont mention name) changed my mindset and promised to help me get a 'good wife material' through his fiancee.

I yielded and i reluctantly gave him d permission . I'v never met his fiancee one on one bc she stays in a different city and each time she comes visiting her guy am always busy but we speak on phone.She gave my number to her friend (my hookup) we got talking but i told her point blank that am a christian but not a born again like ur friend fiance -i club i drink socially but i dont smoke,to my surprise she told me same here! (hmmm red flag bc i was expecting otherwise since her friend was a born again). I told her no problem.

This week my guy's babe visited town ,i was very busy still but was able to meet them at d park when she was travelling back. she was already inside d bus when i drove in.
she came down from d bus to greet me since passengers were still boarding ,she's beautiful i must confess with nice curves but was wearing all those long born again gown and holding a bible .I told my guy despite leaving 'd world' for us he still got good eyes,we laughed and joked she told me her friend(my hookup) is prettier i said wow cant wait to meet her.

Something strange happened,i noticed an old time friend in d bus which this babe was boarding we shared pleasantries and exchanged number he asked if my babe was travelling with them i told him she's my guy's fiancee not my babe he complimented her beauty also.

A minute later she said she doesn't wanna travel with this bus which they have already paid for again, she will rather wait for d next bus that her spirit isn't in line with d bus ..
I was confused and asked her to explain she said she doesn't want to go wit this one bc she's having a strange feeling concerning d bus but i should allow my friend inside d bus already to travel with them its fine -It didn't make sense to me,if u think this bus will have an accident i should at least alert my friend to come down too she said i shouldn't worry.

My guy waited for her fiancee to catch d next bus while i left for work.

The next day was weekend and i decided to go visit another friend(lets call him guy B) of mine so we could hangout . It's a big compound with plenty room n parlour self contain.when we were about leaving the compound together i saw an eye catching figure come out from another apartment wearing bump short,transparent shirt that was revealing all her breast going to dry clothes on d ropes...Behold it was my friend's fiancee!!!.

I was shocked bc yesterday nite i called my friend to confirm if his fiancee finally got a bus and had arrived her destination he told me yes and thanked me for showing up and for my concern. Someone that was suppose to b in another part of Nigeria was in another part of d city ? . Immediately she turned and saw me,she was shocked n her clothes fell off her hands. I didn't say a word i just walked straight with my guy B to my car .

She ran towards me and drew me privately and said i should keep it privately she will explain on phone .my guyB confirmed to me that she came in last nite and that's her boyfriend apartment i refused to tell him anything tho.

The reason why she left that initial bus begin to make sense to me now.

I need advise please ,ordinarily i will look the other way but the guy in question is my very good guy and a born again christian engaged to her,weeding is two months away. The lady also according to him is supposedly a born again but this dressing stated otherwise... tho i didn't catch dem 'doing' oh.

If that guy is truly your friend,then you should tell him. Imagine marrying such a pretentious lady. Women like this lady in question can do, overdo and undo, giving the womenfolk a bad name. Safe your friend the impending disaster and tell him. Yes, he will be distraught for a while, but he sure would get over it soonest.

athaboi:
You no go face your front

Shut up your mouth

Guy, put urself in your friend's shoes... Would you be happy if he knew such and didn't tell you... Na bad person go see fire allow him friend jump enter.

But fear women o...

athaboi:
You no go face your front

See them...

Whiteball:
Love/marital affair is a dicey situation. if i tell him and dey finally get married d woman will forever hate my generation for trying to kill her joy,if dey dont get married same tin goes. Am thinking i should tell him to pray more.. While i stay my lane

Perhaps you tip him off anonymously.

Whiteball:
Her friend is a write off as it stands . Na to block her lines sure pass. Not looking for a born again tho but i hate deceit! My guy is hansome n doing very very well financially... I dont know what lady's crave for really..

Don't conclude just yet. There is no harm in giving her a trial. Just make sure you do a thorough due dulligence. The fact that she opened up to you about her social life, albeit unpleasant to you, is a whiteflag (like your moniker). She simply could have answered in the negative and pretended all along you know.

All thanks to my experience, some people who shield themselves with the Bible and call the name of the lord at ease are monsters in disguise.

How does dat concern you?

get the full story and write it here. it might be genuine. that is how my gf saw me in a girls house but she didnt know thaat i was not there for sex. most times what we se is not what it is

athaboi:
You no go face your front

Ok Jezebel geng

Guy abeg tell your friend as soon as possible.

If you let him marry her, God will punish you for 600 years.

Whiteball:
He's not aware yet and he's not on NL. Am thinking of talking to d lady to stop that nonsense if she truly wanna marry my friend. I dont know what my friend will do if he gets to know

Why can't you see the big picture? This goes beyond her act of infidelity... For her to deceive your friend all along while living a double life shows that she may do worse in the future.

Ahmed0336:


Three things are involved.

1. You can tell your friend.

2. Strike an agreement with her that you won't tell your friend, chop her then tell your friend.

3. If you keep quiet and your friend goes ahead and marry her your conscious will forever haunt you.




Singing these hoes ain't loyal till chorus fade.....

Chei, Ahmed wicked sha

Whiteball:
Her friend is a write off as it stands . Na to block her lines sure pass. Not looking for a born again tho but i hate deceit! My guy is hansome n doing very very well financially... I dont know what lady's crave for really..

Imagine your friend paying school fees for kids belonging to another man 5 years from now
8f you're truly his friend TELL HIM

Whiteball:
Love/marital affair is a dicey situation. if i tell him and dey finally get married d woman will forever hate my generation for trying to kill her joy,if dey dont get married same tin goes. Am thinking i should tell him to pray more.. While i stay my lane

You need to tell him

Bro,

Tell your friend and dont look back, you'll save him a life time of torture

Juliusmomoh:
Even the bible say's.. "mind ur business"

For where?

Collyweed:
Mind your freaking business!

Amebo, olofofo.

After your friend has finished chopping other people’s future wife, he wants to clean mouth and firm “born again”.

Well karma works in mysterious ways. And they’re not even married yet.

lol. karma is a bitch. You chop my girl, i chop your fiancee

Juliusmomoh:
Even the bible say's.. "mind ur business"

the same bible also advised us to "be our brothers keeper".

so if the op freind was your brother would you after finding out "mind ur business"

If you're actually having doubts about telling him then he isn't really your friend!

Mind your business simple. The world is turning around, man is desperately seeking an avenue to commit

Whiteball:
Love/marital affair is a dicey situation. if i tell him and dey finally get married d woman will forever hate my generation for trying to kill her joy,if dey dont get married same tin goes. Am thinking i should tell him to pray more.. While i stay my lane

TELL HIM WHAT YOU SAW EXACTLY!!
leave the judgment to him