“Signs he doesn’t love you anymore"

The sad truth about relationships is that they are rarely ever perfect. Many relationships won’t ever have the privilege of seeing itself go all the way because human beings are inherently imperfect, and their imperfections play into the dynamics of the relationship as a whole. There are many cases wherein people fall in and out of love with each other throughout a relationship.

People have to understand that so many conditions and variables have to be perfect for a relationship to have a fighting chance. Love alone isn’t enough to sustain a relationship. It takes a lot of commitment, hard work, time, effort, and heaps of good luck.

However, there’s no getting around the fact that people fall out of love with each other. It always hurts whenever that happens. You wouldn’t want to wish that kind of emotional pain or trauma unto your worst enemy. It’s a common occurrence, and the best that you can do whenever it happens to you is to try your best to move on with your life.

The earlier you can spot the problems in your relationship, the easier it will be for you to move on from the situation. If you can detect early signs of your girlfriend falling out of love with you, it will bode better for you in the long run.

1. He doesn’t seem like he cares anymore.
You feel like there’s no effort there and that his affection for you is slowly dying. It is as if he has lost interest in life in general, but he has only lost interest in you in truth. It’s as if all the vitality and animation that was once in his life has suddenly vanished, and you don’t know what to do about it.

2. He no longer compliments you on your looks.
Initially, physical attraction is what brought you together. He used to tell you that you looked so beautiful when you first started dating. But over time, the compliments started to fade away, and now you’re left with practically nothing. He no longer has that physical attraction towards you.

3. He stops putting in the effort to make your relationship work.
He sees that your relationship is dying and withering, and he is making no effort whatsoever to save it from a slow and painful death. He couldn’t care less about whether you two fight all the time, and he no longer has the patience to resolve any lingering arguments between the two of you. 

4. Communication is rare between both of you.
Communication is always the bedrock of any healthy relationship. A couple engaging in open conversation with each other is still more likely to survive as opposed to couples who shut each other out. When you and your man no longer have deep and meaningful conversations, then that means he has probably lost interest in you and that your spark is dying.

5. He acts on his own accord regardless of how you feel.
Your thoughts and feelings are irrelevant to him. He will do what he wants regardless of how it’s going to make you feel. If his actions end up hurting you in the end, then it isn’t a problem for him because he doesn’t love you anymore.

6. He doesn’t express gratitude for your gestures.
He used to jump for joy whenever you brought him gifts or flowers. He would get all giddy and excited whenever you tell him about date plans. He used to plaster a huge smile on your face whenever you came home with food and treats. However, nowadays, your gestures are met with nothing better than indifference.

7. You are always the initiator of conversations.
If it always feels like you are the one who is making an effort to initiate conversations, then you should be worried. If he were indeed still in love with you, he would also willingly want to talk to you about anything under the sun. He would gladly turn to you for your opinions and your thoughts about things that interest him. 

8. He doesn’t make an effort to make you feel special.
He used to love doing so many sweet and romantic things for you. However, things have changed. He doesn’t care about making you feel giddy and distinctive anymore. He couldn’t care less about whether you were happy in the relationship because obviously, he’s not feeling happy either.

9. He stops asking for your attention, and he stops giving you care too.
In the past, he used to ask for constant communication with you throughout the day. He always wanted to be the apple of your eye, and in turn, he even considered you as the center of his universe. Now though, he barely acknowledges your existence. He also doesn’t ask you to give him your attention anymore because he feels like he no longer needs it.

10. Physical intimacy is a rarity.
Kisses. Hugs. Nights in the bedroom. They’re things of the past. When physical intimacy starts vanishing, you can be assured that your relationship isn’t in the right place.

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Lalasticlala

You don’t know how to use pronouns and that made this write up hard to digest. But apart from that good points you listed here.

Who cares about love ..even the ones that acts normal where are dey?

11. He cums too quickly, cos the fellings are dead and gone

debbydams:
Who cares about love ..even the ones that acts normal where are dey?

Lol. Men still love though....they only love the right woman.

Ur no 2 is a lie coz I no even dey compliment am when I love her!

Op. Please, to make your point more readable try an edit this post. I saw she and he been use in such a way that I got confused. The more you practice writing the Better you'll become.

Your points are good but your misuse of pronoun made me struggle with the write up.

However, some circumstances may disrupt certain routines in a relationship.

usj:
Op. Please, to make your point more readable try an edit this post. I saw she and he been use in such a way that I got confused. The more you practice writing the Better you'll become.

Reedited. Thanks

Tomide007:

Lol. Men still love though....they only love the right woman.

No lies!!!
We only love you when we see you are worth it.

J111333:
Your points are good but your misuse of pronoun made me struggle with the write up.

However, some circumstances may disrupt certain routines in a relationship.

Circumstances like what?

MrTAnonymous:


Circumstances like what?

A Lagos banker who leaves his house by 4am and comes back at 10pm every week day may not notice his wife's new hairstyles except on weekends.

Most importankpa, a frustrated Naija job seeker boyfriend or a hungry husband who is always in deep thoughts and who struggles to bring food into the house will likely throw this thread in the trash.

J111333:
A Lagos banker that leaves his house by 4am and comes back by 10pm every week day may not notice his wife's new hairstyles except on weekends.

Most importankpa, a frustrated Naija job seeker boyfriend or a hungry husband who is always in deep thoughts and who struggles to bring food into the house will likely throw this thread into the trash.

Tomide007:

Lol. Men still love though....they only love the right woman.

right woman � indeed

okay