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Advice On Changing Wedding Date. by Greathand01: 4:21pm On Sep 09, 2020 |
Kindly advice me on this, the wedding date my spouse family, my parent and my fiancee chosed is quite not convenient for me due to work schedule, (I work far north), the date means I will be resuming to work 1 week after wedding. I want the date changed to the following month so I can have like 3 weeks bet everyone seems not to understand me.. I am looking like the bad person to everyone.... kindly advise. 2 Likes |
Re: Advice On Changing Wedding Date. by Olunmercy56(f): 4:22pm On Sep 09, 2020 |
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Re: Advice On Changing Wedding Date. by BrighterMe: 4:28pm On Sep 09, 2020 |
What of invitations sent out already? 1 Like |
Re: Advice On Changing Wedding Date. by Bola146(f): 4:31pm On Sep 09, 2020 |
Please how old are you? What were you thinking when all of you agreed on that date? Or you want to run away ![]() ![]() 14 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Advice On Changing Wedding Date. by Nobody: 4:37pm On Sep 09, 2020 |
Greathand01: Stick to your decision. You're the man here. You're the one going to marry her. So start exercising your authority as the head of your family now. If anything happens to your job, you'll lose your respect before that same family and wife of yours in no time. Except if it will not affect your job. But all the same, maintain your stance or tell them to wait till next year ![]() 33 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Advice On Changing Wedding Date. by Greathand01: 4:50pm On Sep 09, 2020 |
Thank you sir..it's e even a private job in the north |
Re: Advice On Changing Wedding Date. by Greathand01: 4:51pm On Sep 09, 2020 |
Bola146:lol..no ...I full ground, I just realized it will be so tight for me after consultations with the HR 1 Like |
Re: Advice On Changing Wedding Date. by Greathand01: 4:52pm On Sep 09, 2020 |
BrighterMe:invitations hasn't been printed sef. |
Re: Advice On Changing Wedding Date. by Bola146(f): 5:01pm On Sep 09, 2020 |
Greathand01: Since you guys agreed on the date, no going back. That is why marriage is not moimoi and pap. You need to think think well before concluding 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Advice On Changing Wedding Date. by thorpido(m): 7:31pm On Sep 09, 2020 |
You shouldn't even be asking this question.You're the one who wants to get married.You are the one who should have looked at your program,arrange a convenient time together with your fiancee and then communicate the proposed date to your family and hers too. Abi na dem find wife for you? 16 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Advice On Changing Wedding Date. by merieam16(f): 7:50pm On Sep 09, 2020 |
U neva marry u don they come nairaland for advice.It obvious u re nt matured for marriage Buh 1week after wedding never do u to rest ![]() 30 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Advice On Changing Wedding Date. by Jqtyfx(m): 8:18pm On Sep 09, 2020 |
Explain to them that your preferred date will give you more time to spend with your wife as newlyweds. Ideally, the wedding date should be chosen by both you and your bride-to-be. 4 Likes |
Re: Advice On Changing Wedding Date. by faithfull18(f): 8:35pm On Sep 09, 2020 |
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Re: Advice On Changing Wedding Date. by frozen70(f): 8:39pm On Sep 09, 2020 |
Greathand01: For the sake of peace, get it sorted out in your place of work so that you can have time to relax after your wedding At times you just dance to certain things and after that you take absolute control of the rest 2 Likes |
Re: Advice On Changing Wedding Date. by okirewaju(f): 7:09am On Sep 10, 2020 |
Sit your wife to be down and tell her what you just realized as you would like to spend a lot of time with her after the ceremony or visit your mother in law to be and tell her same. Tell them the new date you have in mind so they can check if it's fine with them too. The sooner, the better. Happy married life in advance. 3 Likes |
Re: Advice On Changing Wedding Date. by Madibah(m): 12:50pm On Sep 10, 2020 |
U are the one doing the wedding not ur family It's ur decision to make not them .. Act like a grown up bro .. No cap 100%✓ |
Re: Advice On Changing Wedding Date. by Amspecial: 12:50pm On Sep 10, 2020 |
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Re: Advice On Changing Wedding Date. by Mayng01(m): 12:50pm On Sep 10, 2020 |
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Re: Advice On Changing Wedding Date. by Uyi168: 12:51pm On Sep 10, 2020 |
... Go ahead and change the date.. Nor mind all these over sabi babes wey dey run mouth for here.. 1 Like |
Re: Advice On Changing Wedding Date. by joelbooks: 12:51pm On Sep 10, 2020 |
Don't change, just go ahead and do it with minimal responsibility or you bring it forward or hold virtual weeding 1 Like |
Re: Advice On Changing Wedding Date. by Openbusiness: 12:51pm On Sep 10, 2020 |
Greathand01:Oga you are the man and head of the relationship, tell them your plan and let everyone else adjust to it, simple. |
Re: Advice On Changing Wedding Date. by Timekeeper: 12:51pm On Sep 10, 2020 |
![]() Date or no date no concern mi. Infact family understands or not.. Sha gimme. The location and the new date make I kon chop my own 1 Like |
Re: Advice On Changing Wedding Date. by happy20: 12:51pm On Sep 10, 2020 |
i think this can be settled amicably. Since your reasons are genuine and u need more time to spend with ur spouse after the wedding then the only task you have now is convincing your family. By the way its an opportunity to plan better ahead of the special day. 2 Likes
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Re: Advice On Changing Wedding Date. by LoydJ(m): 12:52pm On Sep 10, 2020 |
Wetin Buhari nor go see for Nairaland��� 1 Like |
Re: Advice On Changing Wedding Date. by jamata20: 12:52pm On Sep 10, 2020 |
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Re: Advice On Changing Wedding Date. by GboyegaD(m): 12:52pm On Sep 10, 2020 |
First talk to your wife about it and once you both reach a conclusion on the better date, family will bow to you both. It is your function and not theirs and you guys need to start telling everyone you are capable to make your decisions in unity. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Advice On Changing Wedding Date. by bouncin04(m): 12:53pm On Sep 10, 2020 |
My little token Make her a baby mama ... and thank me later.. 3 Likes |
Re: Advice On Changing Wedding Date. by Timekeeper: 12:53pm On Sep 10, 2020 |
Greathand01: Pls. Give me location and time.... I need to come 1 Like |
Re: Advice On Changing Wedding Date. by Nobody: 12:53pm On Sep 10, 2020 |
How do you propose to be the head of your new family when you are not even man enough to stand your ground and choose a wedding date convenient for you. He who pays the piper...... 1 Like |
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