ibrutex:
I feel your ordeal sis. it's really pathetic , please note the following ....

....Try to improve your social life(be more friendly especially to the opposite sex)

......stop staying indoor and stop forming busy always, try to hang out on weekends only by yourself , goto bar relax.

........Bitter truth is release your guard and enjoy the company , that's why most bad girls easily get hooked up .

....... connect with your married friends and explain to any close one you don't mind to hook up. trust me it works . One of my wife friends got hooked up through me after she opened up and coincidentally a friend of mine too was ready but shy.

........Lastly , don't stop praying ...it will end in joy.

Timekeeper:

This is Zzor

Palema007:
Perhaps you may want to ask for manuals from your Mom on how to keep the modern lady then and ask her if she rejected or never liked your dad. You are welcome.

As for feelings, acceptance and attraction. Both are the first steps to love and lasting union.

Palema007:
It's one thing to get marry, it's another to stay in marriage. I wonder why people focus on the former more.

ublight:


hello everyone. This is d op. This is anyiiii. I don catch am

Palema007:
Lol

Ive been expecting someone to type this since . BTW it's a known fact here: i'm 57, will be 58 soon married with four kids.

Look for anyii elsewhere please.

Anyiiii:
I had to open another account to conceal my identity. Please I need help. I have gone to several pastors and churches for deliverance, yet, no solution. I'm 35years old lady and I'm not yet married. My elder sister is 37years old, still not married. My female younger cousins are in their early 30s too but not yet married. They said it's forces from the family but we have carried out all sorts of deliverance but no way. We are all graduates, doing well and very beautiful. I'm almost giving up hope on this marriage matter. Please I need a solution to this problem��

ublight:


wow. I dont bliv dat, bt just for d sake of a conversation, do u have a fine daughter that i could date?

Palema007:

I don't give out personal information just for the sake of conversation.

Anyiiii:
I had to open another account to conceal my identity. Please I need help. I have gone to several pastors and churches for deliverance, yet, no solution. I'm 35years old lady and I'm not yet married. My elder sister is 37years old, still not married. My female younger cousins are in their early 30s too but not yet married. They said it's forces from the family but we have carried out all sorts of deliverance but no way. We are all graduates, doing well and very beautiful. I'm almost giving up hope on this marriage matter. Please I need a solution to this problem��

Jiva:
Definitely there was one guy that was in love with u and dieing to spend the rest of his life with u when u were in ur early twenties but u brushed him off....now is the time to face the music of ur actions.

Anyiiii:
I had to open another account to conceal my identity. Please I need help. I have gone to several pastors and churches for deliverance, yet, no solution. I'm 35years old lady and I'm not yet married. My elder sister is 37years old, still not married. My female younger cousins are in their early 30s too but not yet married. They said it's forces from the family but we have carried out all sorts of deliverance but no way. We are all graduates, doing well and very beautiful. I'm almost giving up hope on this marriage matter. Please I need a solution to this problem��

Jiva:
Definitely there was one guy that was in love with u and dieing to spend the rest of his life with u when u were in ur early twenties but u brushed him off....now is the time to face the music of ur actions.

Anyiiii:
I had to open another account to conceal my identity. Please I need help. I have gone to several pastors and churches for deliverance, yet, no solution. I'm 35years old lady and I'm not yet married. My elder sister is 37years old, still not married. My female younger cousins are in their early 30s too but not yet married. They said it's forces from the family but we have carried out all sorts of deliverance but no way. We are all graduates, doing well and very beautiful. I'm almost giving up hope on this marriage matter. Please I need a solution to this problem��

Ygrette:


I beg to disagree. Nothing in this life is perfect, so is love. If a woman finds a good man who loves her.. that's all she needs. A good man who loves you will treat you right and will never cheat on you. He would place your needs above his. Loving him back is just a plus, not all that's required. If a woman is wise, she would respect that man with her life and learn to love him too. If she's waiting to find someone to love and who loves her in return, she may wait forever.

Even as you grow older, chances are that your priorities will change cos maturity will set in. By now you're thinking of having a responsible man who's financially stable cos love don't put food on the table. You're thinking about your kids (even though unborn) and how you want them to have a good life. You'd realise that getting a man with marriageable qualities is more important than your feelings.

If you have a man who loves you to the moon.
A man who would have done anything for you.
A proactive go-getter who sees nothing as a problem or challenge.
A man who's ambitious, hardworking and honest, with the highest standards of integrity.
A man who gives you open access to his phone and declared since you met that you were his wife...pls which kind of "loving him back'' are you looking for again.

If a woman is privileged to find this kind of rare specie of a man, she had better husband him. Respect him and love his family and most importantly, learn to love him.

Anyiiii:
go out to where?

Anyiiii:
I had to open another account to conceal my identity. Please I need help. I have gone to several pastors and churches for deliverance, yet, no solution. I'm 35years old lady and I'm not yet married. My elder sister is 37years old, still not married. My female younger cousins are in their early 30s too but not yet married. They said it's forces from the family but we have carried out all sorts of deliverance but no way. We are all graduates, doing well and very beautiful. I'm almost giving up hope on this marriage matter. Please I need a solution to this problem��

Palema007:
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Anyiiii:
I had to open another account to conceal my identity. Please I need help. I have gone to several pastors and churches for deliverance, yet, no solution. I'm 35years old lady and I'm not yet married. My elder sister is 37years old, still not married. My female younger cousins are in their early 30s too but not yet married. They said it's forces from the family but we have carried out all sorts of deliverance but no way. We are all graduates, doing well and very beautiful. I'm almost giving up hope on this marriage matter. Please I need a solution to this problem��

Omihanifa:
Evil family pattern
You will need plenty of prayers

sotherefore:
this is the most senseless comment have ever seen... maybe because you are a slowpoke... can't you read when she said that her sisters are also included ? Or are you one of those brainwashed fool who believe that every woman that is not married are those that were doing ashawo in their teenage age...she said is a spiritual problem then why do you judge her base on things you don't have a deep understanding about?

Ayemileto:
So, what do you want us to do?

Palema007:
Lol... That's the new trend now, create a thread like a woman would then the redpillers and alpha males will come to rant with long epistles

These boys will never grow!

Palema007:
Are you saying she should have been with someone she felt nothing for because he was in love and dying? Do people who give narratives like yours ever think of the "freedom to make a choice" when a woman is involved?

Now I see why most Men fall in the wrong hands! It is all about your feelings, the woman's feelings doesn't matter, sadly when you lots face the consequences of your ideologies, you come back here to rant and tag women names.

J111333:
More like disclose your moniker, then we can shame you. Stop it.

Hanty marriage is not the apogee of success but if it bothers you so much, channel the time and efforts you waste in prayer houses to mingling with people in your workplace, church, get togethers, events, workshops etc.

One more thing, dress to attract suitors and not boyfriends.