Good afternoon,I'm sorry to bother anyone,but I'm just confused right now,there is this grl am dating,she claims to be a Virgin,we only just kiss and romance,we don't do the do,i love her a lot and I don't want to loose her ,but this sex aspect in the relationship bothers me,me as someone,I really loves sex and I don't know what to do when she says no to sex, sometimes i use to carry olosho,I use to be very scared of the consequences,there was this time I Carried olosho and condom burst,I kon go do hiv text,I tell the person conducting the test wetin sup,nah so e kon dey ask me shey I no get gf.i just tire,

Get a didlo that vibrates, gift it to her and wait 2months...

BigSarah:
Get a didlo that vibrates, gift it to her and wait 2months...

Aunty Sarah I hail o

BigSarah:
Get a didlo that vibrates, gift it to her and wait 2months...

I'm not sure she will take that from me

Shakurr:
I'm not sure she will take that from me

Then wait for her, if you think she's worth it

Listen…none of the answers here are from men who have been in this position. I HAVE!! I had a 20yo virgin GF we were together over 6 months I liked her so much that I DID NOT pressure her or even try to persuade her to have sex. We would kiss for hours and ignore my erection. I thought I was giving her time, which is what she said she needed. She said she wasnt ready and I liked her so much that I respected that. One of my BIGGEST regrets. After a few months Time doesnt do a damn thing. After 6 months She broke up with me saying we are better as friends. A month later she was dating a guy I knew and I never liked him before anyway, he was very low class, wannabe thug and obviously a bad guy. He took her virginity within the first month. End of story. Nice guy finished last. No advice other than dont wait lol have sex or breakup. Communicate how important it is. Because it is!

I read this on quora..I'm just scared make my case no go turn out like that

BigSarah:


Then wait for her, if you think she's worth it

I'm thinking of telling her point blank,that the relationship wouldn't work without sex,I'm just thinking if am not going to make a bad decision

you no supposed to use that handle.

fati2001:
you no supposed to use that handle.

Hmmm..why

BigSarah:
Get a didlo that vibrates, gift it to her and wait 2months...

With that your small face in profile now someone will think that you're a good girl

Shakurr:
Good afternoon,I'm sorry to bother anyone,but I'm just confused right now,there is this grl am dating,she claims to be a Virgin,we only just kiss and romance,we don't do the do,i love her a lot and I don't want to loose her ,but this sex aspect in the relationship bothers me,me as someone,I really loves sex and I don't know what to do when she says no to sex, sometimes i use to carry olosho,I use to be very scared of the consequences,there was this time I Carried olosho and condom burst,I kon go do hiv text,I tell the person conducting the test wetin sup,nah so e kon dey ask me shey I no get gf.i just tire,

Oga to slap you dey hungry me

I dated a virgin one time. Well if she wanted to preserve her virginity she should've stayed away from me because I ended up fccking her and she loved it.

No sex no dating...

DaddyRochie1642:






Oga to slap you dey hungry me

hmmm

ReluctantAdult:
I dated a virgin one time. Well if she wanted to preserve her virginity she should've stayed away from me because I ended up fccking her and she loved it.

I think so also..grl that doesn't want to have sex shouldn't be in a relationship either

KingWarri:
No sex no dating...

I think you're on point
Me no wan end up like Me SIMPson

Shakurr:

I think so also..grl that doesn't want to have sex shouldn't be in a relationship either

Well I think the young woman wanted to explore but she was scared it was going to hurt. But she was in good hands and loved it.

Don't force her. Just straight up make her feel the urge for sex . In no time , she'll give in . And BTW, her cherry is gonna get popped by some other nigga sooner than later. On finding out , you'd regret and weep so hard .

He he!

My girl turned 18 when we started dating, I met her as a virgin, her Ex was a nice guy who dated her for 2 years , he only kissed her and never even got a chance to grab her ass or touch her boobs. She's very slim but curvy, crazy ass behind her . First day I asked her out, she said YES and I,kissed her that same day and grabbed those mad curves. She seemed cool with it .. She and the guy were already drifting apart coz of the distance between them . she and I live in the same city!! After a month , I took her VIRGiNity!! Where are still together till today , the guy was another nice guy who lost in the jungle!! Last week , she told me the guy was too nice and soft that he does not even talk about sex or anything in the relationship and she finds him boring!!

Nice guys can never win

ZINIBANKS:

With that your small face in profile now someone will think that you're a good girl

Good?... Everyone has a perspective

Virgins gets Hot over any little chance of romance
That's because they have no experience how it feels like and they can't just wait to
If you're dating a virgin girl and she's not dying go have sexy with you then check yourself well
She doesn't love you deep , if she does she'll be the one disturbing you for it
Except it's against something I don't know

And if you can't get your virgin girl turned on till the point that she gets wet when with ordinary chatting , then she doesn't love you genuinely

l0uie:
Don't force her. Just straight up make her feel the urge for sex . In no time , she'll give in . And BTW, her cherry is gonna get popped by some other nigga sooner than later. On finding out , you'd regret and weep so hard .

He he!

that's my major fear ah swear

Uncle93:
My girl turned 18 when we started dating, I met her as a virgin, her Ex was a nice guy who dated her for 2 years , he only kissed her and never even got a chance to grab her ass or touch her boobs. She's very slim but curvy, crazy ass behind her . First day I asked her out, she said YES and I,kissed her that same day and grabbed those mad curves. She seemed cool with it .. She and the guy were already drifting apart coz of the distance between them . she and I live in the same city!! After a month , I took her VIRGiNity!! Where are still together till today , the guy was another nice guy who lost in the jungle!! Last week , she told me the guy was too nice and soft that he does not even talk about sex or anything in the relationship and she finds him boring!!

Nice guys can never win

You make a good point bro
But this my grl, whenever I start talking about sex matter she start saying she is feeling uncomfortable bla bla
The thing dey vex me,and is not that I don't love her oh ,me no just wan fool mAh self

Shakurr:

You make a good point bro
But this my grl, whenever I start talking about sex matter she start saying she is feeling uncomfortable bla bla
The thing dey vex me,and is not that I don't love her oh ,me no just wan fool mAh self

Well I didn't mention that it wasn't so easy to disvirgin mine too , she must have said No a million times, You have to get her in the mood , turn her on , get her Hot, suck her damm nipples so good , touch her other sentitive parts, use a finger or two inside. If you do this for like a few weeks ,,she' might finally give in ! When she's mad Hot

Uncle93:


Well I didn't mention that it wasn't so easy to disvirgin mine too , she must have said No a million times, You have to get her in the mood , turn her on , get her Hot, suck her damm nipples so good , touch her other sentitive parts, use a finger or two inside. If you do this for like a few weeks ,,she' might finally give in ! When she's mad Hot

Okay bro
Thanks so much

Shakurr:

that's my major fear ah swear

You go dey alright .

Shakurr:

You make a good point bro
But this my grl, whenever I start talking about sex matter she start saying she is feeling uncomfortable bla bla
The thing dey vex me,and is not that I don't love her oh ,me no just wan fool mAh self

How are you even sure she's a virgin ...girls these days lie to guys they are dating but don't like the guy and would rather not have sex with him and can use the virgin excuse card for you not to try

Shakurr:
Good afternoon,I'm sorry to bother anyone,but I'm just confused right now,there is this grl am dating,she claims to be a Virgin,we only just kiss and romance,we don't do the do,i love her a lot and I don't want to loose her ,but this sex aspect in the relationship bothers me,me as someone,I really loves sex and I don't know what to do when she says no to sex, sometimes i use to carry olosho,I use to be very scared of the consequences,there was this time I Carried olosho and condom burst,I kon go do hiv text,I tell the person conducting the test wetin sup,nah so e kon dey ask me shey I no get gf.i just tire,

I don't cope, I elope

NoChill:


I don't cope, I elope

Can you share more on that
Elope as how

Op kindly find someone else Biko!

I’m glad I didn’t mind my hearts getting broken by guys like you, glad I waited for my husband

God First always and not these chop and clean mouth men.

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JIMMY1393:


How are you even sure she's a virgin ...girls these days lie to guys they are dating but don't like the guy and would rather not have sex with him and can use the virgin excuse card for you not to try

True talk

SpicyMimi:
Op kindly find someone else Biko!

I’m glad I didn’t mind my hearts getting broken by guys like you, glad I waited for my husband

God First always and not these chop and clean mouth men.

Do I said I never loved her