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Troubled, Confused & Hating It. by DeBlunt: 2:19pm On Feb 26, 2011 |
ok, mine goes lik this, there's this chic i dated back in sch during ma 2nd year. Her name was Jessy. She was 2yrs older than masef n i really loved her. Twas tough getting her 2 date me cos of d age stuff but soon she fell in love with me cos i was more matured than other guys ma age from the way i do ma things, dress n stuff also i am a vry pretty boi lol (so she confessed). But d problem was we knew dis rship wasnt headin anywer(marraige) cos der was big pressure 4rm her family 2get married. I wasnt ready but i promised her i wud stik wit her til she gets married. Few wks b4 ma graduation she told me dat she had 3 suitors 4 marriage n dat i shd help her choose 1,twas a tough decision buh i finally chose 1 guy 4her.knowin fully well dat d dude in question luvs her so much, he's a nice guy n a broda 2her best frnd n most importantly he hates me SO MUCH as this wud mak her 4get abt me quickly, she agreed. i graduated (2009) left 4 Abuja 2b with ma family & also 4my NYSC. We stil kept contact n she told me dat d guy had don d introduction n was now prepin 4d marriage stuff. At a point she kept remindin me of our past n that she stil luvs me n wished i was d1 she was gettin married to & d whole tin scares her alot. I felt the same way buh i wanted d best 4her so i always adviced her 2 channel all dat love 2wads her to-be-husband she complied, Till dat faithful day. Twas a sunday morning,i was in ma flat which i shared wit a cousin jst few blocks 4rm my family house. I heard a knock on ma door n went 2 kno who it was and BAM!, der she was(Jessy) with a fainted smile on her lips n tears in her eyes, almost cryn she said 2me ''baby i tried buh i cnt go on wit it'', i stood der transfixed as if ive jst seen a ghost. She also said she got ma address 4rm a close frnd of mine cos i neva gav it 2her. A part of me didn't want 2 let her in but at last i had to, i hav bin pleading with her evryday 2go back 2her husband but to no avail. I left ma room 4her n i'm presently sleepin on d couch 4 2wks now. I dont kno wat 2do & im so scared cos her family might be searchin 4her. Im stil not ready 4 marriage as i am starting my Masters in september, pls i need ur advice wat shd i do , throw her out or notify her family, sh*t im so confused n mad ryt now. Thanks |
Re: Troubled, Confused & Hating It. by MMM2(m): 2:36pm On Feb 26, 2011 |
marry her |
Re: Troubled, Confused & Hating It. by DeBlunt: 3:07pm On Feb 26, 2011 |
^^^, no sir i cant, mayb in 5 or 6yrs, ![]() |
Re: Troubled, Confused & Hating It. by Beync(f): 3:57pm On Feb 26, 2011 |
dats why when a lady say no take it like dat. now with ur fineboy stufs and ur dressing bla bla bla ur knock her down, now where are you running to |
Re: Troubled, Confused & Hating It. by Dyt(f): 4:22pm On Feb 26, 2011 |
Sighs serious mata tho u need nt avoid er jst st er down talk 2 er if d love s rili strong lyk u claim i m sure she ll succumb one of d sacrifices we mk 4 lov |
Re: Troubled, Confused & Hating It. by Phate07(m): 4:51pm On Feb 26, 2011 |
De~Blunt: Hmm, this biography is just too much. ![]() |
Re: Troubled, Confused & Hating It. by DeBlunt: 5:51pm On Feb 26, 2011 |
@beync, lol, i didn't plan for this, i thought we had an agreement.was jst a teen den. @Dyt, tnx gurl, will do as said. Phate, sorry about that just had to break it down like this. ![]() |
Re: Troubled, Confused & Hating It. by Dyt(f): 5:57pm On Feb 26, 2011 |
n limit d way u screw er brains out 2 mk er c.u.m less |
Re: Troubled, Confused & Hating It. by DeBlunt: 6:54pm On Feb 26, 2011 |
^^^ ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Re: Troubled, Confused & Hating It. by Dyt(f): 6:57pm On Feb 26, 2011 |
well me i m jst sayin mab she wants u do it ask er na n she cld want it as a sent forth |
Re: Troubled, Confused & Hating It. by MrCork17: 7:20pm On Feb 26, 2011 |
Dyt. Sweeery but why did you remove your picture? I loooooove fat womens ![]() |
Re: Troubled, Confused & Hating It. by DeBlunt: 7:24pm On Feb 26, 2011 |
lol, dunno buh it feels wrong, she's kinda married n i'm vry principled, ![]() |
Re: Troubled, Confused & Hating It. by Dyt(f): 7:28pm On Feb 26, 2011 |
cork i removed it cos i want u stop wa.n.kin well de-blunt jst give it a trial it myt work bt no 2 do dat thing o so she wont com back |
Re: Troubled, Confused & Hating It. by Nakele(f): 12:02am On Feb 27, 2011 |
Hmmm, Trouble in paradise,,,,,,,, But on a serious note, marry the gal or otherwise tell her seriously that u don't want her,,,,,,,,,,sometimes we women fall in love with wrong pple |
Re: Troubled, Confused & Hating It. by Pweety4me(f): 1:52am On Feb 27, 2011 |
@OP Is this girl even ready 4 marriage?sounds like one of them fairtytale bollywood/nollywood stories ![]() How old is she? that girl is not ready for marriage from what i am seeing she is just being subjected by her parents demands/wishes. Seriously, talk to her & don't take her for a ride, you know what you want so just be straight with her, i think u have been to close with her with all the decision making & all dat, u should have just left her let her live her life. Goodluck |
Re: Troubled, Confused & Hating It. by Nobody: 9:21am On Feb 27, 2011 |
Beync:babe u just changed my mindset abt girls wit dis coment of urs. Any chick wey tell me NO frm nw on i go just let her be cos i dnt want to be in dis kind of sh*t, damn! |
Re: Troubled, Confused & Hating It. by Nobody: 9:24am On Feb 27, 2011 |
Beync:babe u just changed my mindset abt girls wit dis coment of urs. Any chick wey tell me NO frm nw on i go just let her be cos i dnt want to be in dis kind of sh*t, damn! |
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