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Re: I'm In Dilemma Over A Job Offer. I Urgently Need An Advice by faoogoke(m): 12:13pm On Sep 18, 2020
If you don't have an option, stay there on the job. If you have a better option leave.

If you love to work in the university environment, stay.

At the end of the day, someone else and not her within the university system may help you.

Just keep up the hard work, interface with other lecturers, students and non teaching staff and keep a good comportment.

Sooner than you expected, help will come.
Re: I'm In Dilemma Over A Job Offer. I Urgently Need An Advice by yemi1504: 12:14pm On Sep 18, 2020
harmony940:
Hold on to it bro,but please start applying to other institution...it's not easy but a bird at hand....
Many of the universities due to Ippis inclusion are doing underground recruitment,so just put your ears on the ground and apply swiftly when you hear anything....Wish you the best.

And where will he get the connection and "grace" to be considered for the underground recruitment? Just asking o.
Re: I'm In Dilemma Over A Job Offer. I Urgently Need An Advice by yemi1504: 12:18pm On Sep 18, 2020
ubcandid:


My dear, when a favour is not directly laid to be activated by someone, do not blame or feel bad towards that person. you don't know the kind of relationship she has with her brother or the brother has with the link that he pushed his sister through. It happens to us at times, there are somethings we can only fight for one person, when another gets on the list it becomes tough. her brother had her done before you came up, do you know what happened to that link since then? don't be too quick to judge.

Nah, that is balderdash bro! Our people can promise and fail when it comes to helping for jobs in this country! So why promise in the first place?
Re: I'm In Dilemma Over A Job Offer. I Urgently Need An Advice by jman77(m): 12:19pm On Sep 18, 2020
Bro! Accept that ssce offerand let your name be on the university ippis payrol,be a confirmed staff after 3years. By then you must have through with your PhD. You just need to write the appropriate quaters and straight you become a lecturer but make sure you carry out this move behind that woman.

Its in Fed. university scheme of service that once a non academic staff acquires PhD, he /she should be converted to academics.

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Re: I'm In Dilemma Over A Job Offer. I Urgently Need An Advice by yemi1504: 12:24pm On Sep 18, 2020
Angelfrost:


You have no dignity!!! What a shame!!! That's why this nation is where it is today... Keep managing mediocrity and slavery as a doorway to prosperity??! Who raised you on such nonsense??! You need urgent psychological rehabilitation!!! This is not an insult... This is a friendly response!!!

Gas gbos! The guy deserves the insults sha.
Re: I'm In Dilemma Over A Job Offer. I Urgently Need An Advice by yemi1504: 12:26pm On Sep 18, 2020
ufotty2001:
After I finished my B.sc I found out that Nigeria school system is a scam

Not only you bro! I realized school was a scam when I was jobless for almost two years!
Re: I'm In Dilemma Over A Job Offer. I Urgently Need An Advice by yemi1504: 12:30pm On Sep 18, 2020
rickyboss333:
For crying out loud, why must every meaniful job in this country of ours be gotten if and only if, u hv d connection? Similar experience, on countless occasions... 9 - 10yrs now after graduating, that is all one gets, even after making good grades. So if no b private school, where we know u must be d best and compete with d rest to get 2 teach 4 salaries that cannot even guarantee ur rent most times, one can no longer get a job beffiting thier career prospect? I tire for this country I swear

Why jobs need connections is because of the corruption in the country, almost everybody in Nigeria is corrupt, yes you too, the followers! And we wonder why we have wicked and clueless leaders, do you plant maize and expect to harvest yam? That is the million dollar question. We need a massive re-orientation in this country, a massive one!
Re: I'm In Dilemma Over A Job Offer. I Urgently Need An Advice by Elsueno: 12:33pm On Sep 18, 2020
Adonis86

Adonis86

Haba Dr Adonis86, DO NOT TAKE THAT CRAPPY OFFER, Tell her to get you a senior staff job( level cool. with that you can easily cross to lecturing EVEN WITHOUT HER HELP. if you take the junior staff, you are stuck thier unless you plan to leave the university in the near future.


That woman is evil, how could she even look at ur face everyday and smile despite what she has done to you.

Re: I'm In Dilemma Over A Job Offer. I Urgently Need An Advice by obonujoker(m): 12:39pm On Sep 18, 2020
Hope you are not a benue or kogi guy??

However I wonder how you got ur Msc...

Education is supposed to broaden the mind... Infact it's better you work in one private school in Ikeja, than do boy boy for jonsing lecturers...

Well una type plenty for uni dey run after these lecturers though while they use you until you go old nothing to look back at....
Re: I'm In Dilemma Over A Job Offer. I Urgently Need An Advice by fatymore(f): 12:41pm On Sep 18, 2020
Komu1048:



Immediate family first
yes now
Re: I'm In Dilemma Over A Job Offer. I Urgently Need An Advice by Originalsly: 12:55pm On Sep 18, 2020
Adonis86:



She said if I should accept the offer that it might terminate my chances of getting a teaching job, which I've been applying.

Please, what should I reply her?



That you will take the chance. She is stringing you out... she has no intentions of seeing you move up.... just keeping you in limbo. Do you really believe she can find another with your skills to work for N20K per month? ... then why would she allow you to leave? Bro.... cut your own path... she has no interest in seeing you move up. Her mouth was saying one thing.... but her actions not the same.

Actions speak louder than words.
Re: I'm In Dilemma Over A Job Offer. I Urgently Need An Advice by yeme7(m): 1:23pm On Sep 18, 2020
yemi1504:


Failed promises especially with helping for job! That was how a manager at Grooming Microfinance also promised to get me a job there through a job test, till now after sending two emails to her, no reply or acknowledgement. When it comes to helping people with job in this country, people mostly promise and fail! Facts!



Exactly, u see that's why I so. Much believed in the Bible, man would surely fails but God. Won't fail.

That's how I posted I needed a job here on nairaland, with so many messages but later they would just give excuses that they will get back to. Me, after I waited no feedback.... So much credit I burnt whilst we should believe in God....

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Re: I'm In Dilemma Over A Job Offer. I Urgently Need An Advice by callthefred: 1:23pm On Sep 18, 2020
rickyboss333:


Civil Engineering
Pls u can overlook d Engineering aspect, I can also do any non Engineering jobs
erique333@gmail.com

We only need people who can work on the farm as supervisors and also live there. Not much space for office works. Farm workers and supervisors
Re: I'm In Dilemma Over A Job Offer. I Urgently Need An Advice by Goodzinny: 1:24pm On Sep 18, 2020
Is she making some advances to you? This may be the problem. Or is she gaining from you as par your computer works that she will miss? I will advise you to be praying for God's intervention.
Re: I'm In Dilemma Over A Job Offer. I Urgently Need An Advice by anayolity: 1:28pm On Sep 18, 2020
brandnprinting:
Those people saying you should walk away knows nothing about life. You needed to be used to become something in life. To become a master you need to be a servant. Getting jobs in Nigeria you have to know somebody that knows somebody. Breaking into that inner circle is hard bros.

Please calm down, accept the Junior job, finish your PHD, and when opportunity knocks again be on ground to grab it.

I pity the kind of people around you..... you have a very tiny mind.
Re: I'm In Dilemma Over A Job Offer. I Urgently Need An Advice by harmony940(m): 1:43pm On Sep 18, 2020
yemi1504:


And where will he get the connection and "grace" to be considered for the underground recruitment? Just asking o.

Bro the academia is like a cult you will be surprise the power of a cleaner in any of the universities.....I strongly believe with grace by his side he will get a good job....

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Re: I'm In Dilemma Over A Job Offer. I Urgently Need An Advice by yemi1504: 1:46pm On Sep 18, 2020
harmony940:


Bro the academia is like a cult you will be surprise the power of a cleaner in any of the universities.....I strongly believe with grace by his side he will get a good job....

If you say so.
Re: I'm In Dilemma Over A Job Offer. I Urgently Need An Advice by purpleicious(f): 2:09pm On Sep 18, 2020
My dear, reject it honourably and hold on to God,He will settle you!
Re: I'm In Dilemma Over A Job Offer. I Urgently Need An Advice by Nobody: 2:12pm On Sep 18, 2020
I've been in such position before, empty promises to keep you around and using you knowing they could never get someone with such mental capacity with the meagre salary they are currently paying you. Humans are inherently selfish, do not think someone would look out for you, you are your best friend always look out for yourself. Do not take the junior staff job offer, it's not taking you anywhere, instead look for jobs outside the school.
Re: I'm In Dilemma Over A Job Offer. I Urgently Need An Advice by Pkaty62(m): 2:14pm On Sep 18, 2020
That woman is not ready to help you, she just want to continue using you. Bro don't settle for less go out and look for job! God will be your strength.
Re: I'm In Dilemma Over A Job Offer. I Urgently Need An Advice by Ndaduma: 2:14pm On Sep 18, 2020
Dont accept the trashy offer. You will live to regret your action. Be patient. Your glory is coming
Re: I'm In Dilemma Over A Job Offer. I Urgently Need An Advice by AlmaIganishire: 2:30pm On Sep 18, 2020
Don’t just base your future on her promises. Go and find a worthy mentor in academic area to guide you through.
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Re: I'm In Dilemma Over A Job Offer. I Urgently Need An Advice by yeme7(m): 2:44pm On Sep 18, 2020
callthefred:


We only need people who can work on the farm as supervisors and also live there. Not much space for office works. Farm workers and supervisors

Is there still vacant if yes please let me know
trrjoseph7@gmail.com
08162861732
I'm interested please I reside in delta state I can relocate if legit
Re: I'm In Dilemma Over A Job Offer. I Urgently Need An Advice by Oketwin(m): 2:49pm On Sep 18, 2020
To get sense go hard 4 u ooh, can u see d wrtings on d wall.
Re: I'm In Dilemma Over A Job Offer. I Urgently Need An Advice by Excuses: 3:10pm On Sep 18, 2020
Instead of been close to this your H.OD.D while not be close to the wife of the V.C
Re: I'm In Dilemma Over A Job Offer. I Urgently Need An Advice by BBright1: 3:46pm On Sep 18, 2020
This problem is now solved just move on
Re: I'm In Dilemma Over A Job Offer. I Urgently Need An Advice by mastermind1759(m): 4:09pm On Sep 18, 2020
God can use d set-back she is causing you to take u ahead of all those who no reach u DT she helped..
She meant bad but God's plan is d ultimate..
Jst anoda perspective to it.
Re: I'm In Dilemma Over A Job Offer. I Urgently Need An Advice by ubcandid(m): 4:12pm On Sep 18, 2020
yemi1504:


Nah, that is balderdash bro! Our people can promise and fail when it comes to helping for jobs in this country! So why promise in the first place?

relative to the post I made, I clearly spelt out the conditions I was basing my advice.
Re: I'm In Dilemma Over A Job Offer. I Urgently Need An Advice by theodes: 4:23pm On Sep 18, 2020
callthefred:
What's your discipline please? I think I have a job for you if you have a place to stay here in Lagos or if you wouldn't mind working in Ogun or Nassarawa.

chemistry edu (2:1) wit professional certification in PMP, BM, HSE, HSE... I reside @ akure, willing to relocate if necessary.
Contact: 08169230514 or obasam60@gmail.com
tnks bro
Re: I'm In Dilemma Over A Job Offer. I Urgently Need An Advice by Azone: 4:26pm On Sep 18, 2020
Try private university. Don't settle for less. You must have a certain level of confidence in yourself.

I know its not easy but you must determine first within you to be successful.

If tou settle for that Job you might be a slave forever. You dont know what the world has for you. Its better to take that risk then sit and allow her manipulate you.

Move whats the worst that could happen?
Re: I'm In Dilemma Over A Job Offer. I Urgently Need An Advice by ibechris(m): 4:43pm On Sep 18, 2020
Wetin u see for that school.

Man up and leave that school environment.
PhD or no PhD it does not matter now because that woman just wants u to be her slave,modern slave for that matter.

With ur knowledge of education,I don't expect less from u in any interview...so pls for the sake of posterity,go and hustle like a child without a family and u will not regret it.

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