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Re: Help Me To Help This Girl Before She End Her Life by okoroemeka(m): 6:49am On Sep 18, 2020
UDUJ:
I feel you are not telling us the whole story undecided

Your story makes absolutely no sense. You are not dating her or you never dated her and she is having so much influence on your life to the extent it's beginning to affect your work. Are you a man at all? undecided

Your story doesn't add up. When you finally decide to tell the real story then you can get good advice. Cheers
as weird it may sound,my experiences with woman had made me not to doubt stories like these anymore, women are capable of the most strangest behavior when it comes to emotional issues like love,the girl obviously has a crush on the guy and the guy simply don't give a flying fvck about her,I am currently handling such deadly crush,an ss2 girl close to my house has decided if she doesn't have me she will die,mind you she is same mate with my fourth child,,some matters are not done with force and I am handling the issues of the deadly lethal crush with diplomacy worthy of United Nations secretary general,she is 16 yrs and I am 43 yrs for christsake with two kids in the university,I know the crush will wear off,but the key is not to do anything stupid to make the crush worse or tip it into something even fatal,and the craziest part is that the girl is so damn beautiful but the devil is a liar..

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Re: Help Me To Help This Girl Before She End Her Life by dingbang(m): 7:01am On Sep 18, 2020
Benwallt:
This is what you get when you choose to roll with underage girls. I am sure this girl is well below 20. You are getting what you deserve. You chatted on fbk, you made it manifest in real life now you are talking trash. Thunder fire you there. Be posting nonsense here. I gat no advice for you, thunder fire you again
grin lmao this is funny

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Re: Help Me To Help This Girl Before She End Her Life by heykims(m): 7:14am On Sep 18, 2020
Ur English, punctuations op.
Re: Help Me To Help This Girl Before She End Her Life by BigJoe29: 7:52am On Sep 18, 2020
Benwallt:
This is what you get when you choose to roll with underage girls. I am sure this girl is well below 20. You are getting what you deserve. You chatted on fbk, you made it manifest in real life now you are talking trash. Thunder fire you there. Be posting nonsense here. I gat no advice for you, thunder fire you again
M.u.m.u the OP say the girl na 25years old undecided
Re: Help Me To Help This Girl Before She End Her Life by Franktom247(m): 8:07am On Sep 18, 2020
Baba said i might die before her mogbe
Re: Help Me To Help This Girl Before She End Her Life by Benwallt(m): 8:19am On Sep 18, 2020
BigJoe29:
M.u.m.u the OP say the girl na 25years old undecided

Re: Help Me To Help This Girl Before She End Her Life by Karleb(m): 8:20am On Sep 18, 2020
If she wants to die, LET. HER. DIE!
Re: Help Me To Help This Girl Before She End Her Life by seyigiggle: 8:32am On Sep 18, 2020
Dear OP i understand how you feel.
I have been in your shoe before and it was not easy, only time would tell.
I guess she is still in a young age?

My advice, continue to manage her, but know for sure when you look back in the future, you would wish to have kept her.

silento:



Re: Help Me To Help This Girl Before She End Her Life by Dreyton36: 8:52am On Sep 18, 2020
Fvck mehnnnnnnnn

This is a Fvcking case

OP i have question, does she have big boobs ? That's my type of girl if she has
I have my ways of making her to stop demanding your presence , don't dull reply asap
Re: Help Me To Help This Girl Before She End Her Life by Meteng: 10:49am On Sep 18, 2020
dingbang:
Let her end it so that you will rest.
Orrr
Re: Help Me To Help This Girl Before She End Her Life by Meteng: 10:51am On Sep 18, 2020
Righteousnesss8:

Ur mummy na from England abi?
Una no go kill me for dis Nairaland cheesy
Re: Help Me To Help This Girl Before She End Her Life by Diamond23(f): 6:40pm On Sep 18, 2020
Rawhumper:
Have it in mind that Ozo is More shrewd than Kid, i have studied that guy closely, he is the type that gives ladies irreparable damages than Kid.

See how he is subtly biting Nengi and making headway.

I see it in his eyes, he doesnt love her, in his mind i Can hear him say This chic is really playing with fire.


He will pretends and acts as if he doesnt know what he is doing.

Ladies should dread Ozo More than Kid, Ozo is a SILENCER.


Mark my Observation!










Am not sure about about this ur observation. The guy just MUMU in the name of love. Don't be suprise when he gift Nengi that car he won as per love too grin . To be honest with u, dat guy knows no jack about been a SILENCER. HE is just over grown mummy's boy. He used to be my fav. Until he started this his IBERIBLOVEISM grin grin
Re: Help Me To Help This Girl Before She End Her Life by SoiSoi13(f): 7:03pm On Sep 18, 2020
Diamond23:
Am not sure about about this ur observation. The guy just MUMU in the name of love. Don't be suprise when he gift Nengi that car he won as per love too grin . To be honest with u, dat guy knows no jack about been a SILENCER. HE is just over grown mummy's boy. He used to be my fav. Until he started this his IBERIBLOVEISM grin grin




He will do no such thing ,he is just playing a game of mumu love, check his reply to Dora when she ask him if he is to will the car to Nengi, Nengi herself is also playing a game, in my opinion, but by next week everyone will answer his father name, just watch
Re: Help Me To Help This Girl Before She End Her Life by Diamond23(f): 7:13pm On Sep 18, 2020
SoiSoi13:





He will do no such thing ,he is just playing a game of mumu love, check his reply to Dora when she ask him if he is to will the car to Nengi, Nengi herself is also playing a game, in my opinion, but by next week everyone will answer his father name, just watch
I just hope he keeps to his words cux dat guy is foolishly in love and Nnegi on the other sure know what she is doing. She is using mind game on Ozo who is too blind to see
Re: Help Me To Help This Girl Before She End Her Life by luscioustrish(f): 7:28pm On Sep 18, 2020
Make a formal complaint at the police station, just incase she decides to eventually kill herself which I doubt undecided
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BLOCK her everywhere and IGNORE her, she'll get tired.
Re: Help Me To Help This Girl Before She End Her Life by Ikillbrokehoes(m): 7:31pm On Sep 18, 2020
luscioustrish:
Make a formal complaint at the police station, just incase she decides to eventually kill herself which I doubt undecided
.
.
BLOCK her everywhere and IGNORE her, she'll get tired.
How far now?

do you offer online services
Re: Help Me To Help This Girl Before She End Her Life by akpunda86: 7:40pm On Sep 18, 2020
silento:
Am going straight to the point , met this girl on Facebook , unfortunately we live in same area we arrange and met from that day we started hanging out together most times she has no boyfriend but got two guys that wanted to date her but she refused , I told I don't want relationship stuff also , at a time I got this project I started working on and I hardly had time to see her or go out like before to her she see it as if I was avoiding her

She started calling I assured her once am free I will come by but that Sunday I promised to see her I ran into an old friends we all drink and chatted about life , and I didn't make it later in the week she called me since I know am not yet free I skipped her calls then the person I was working for called me I picked and as we are discussing this girl started disturbing me with call for a whole ten minutes I was on call she was calling , after the call I blocked her number coz I see it as distraction to my work she sent me sms that since I don't take her calls that she will frustrate my work with calls and chat till I see her

In fact I got angered by this and blocked her on all social media and blacked listed her contact

Few days I got calls from unknown person asking me what is the problem with me and my girlfriend and I asked the person who please

She called her name and I told her please ma am not dating her ooh we are just friends , and the person said ok no problem since I said I wasn't dating her then there is nothing she has to ask me again and cut the call

After months I unlock her after a friend pleased with me to do so

Since then she keep threatening me that she will die if I stop talking to her

Or stop seeing her , in fact most time I am with her she will try to force herself on me which I will find a way to escape and same time make her not feel less of a person

Now I had another project am working on the project is giving me sleepless night and this girl can't understand that she is not my girlfriend and I don't love her , but keep insisting that I see her or she will fall sick and die

In fact she smokes now , she has lost extremely weight cost of the last one I stopped seeing her

I have tried to hook her up with another guy no way , she always wants to be around me ,

She said I should keep staying and comforting her till she finds someone she can love

But seriously am just feed up on this

She will tell people that all she wants is for me to be around her but once w are together she will start to throw kiss and hugging me as if am her guy

It makes me mad ,in a recent chat we had few days ago she admitted that she knows that she is forcing herself on me but I should endure till she finds another guy or the feeling dies down or else she might fall sick and die in the process

She is using death to scare everybody , infact everybody keep advising me to pretend
So that she will heal completely ,

I thought i was helping her but seriously I don't feel happy again , I just feel like I will die before her

But her dead threat is too much

Please I know she is not normal upstairs i think this has to do with mental issue than just merely feeling of loving anybody

I am been victimized here and everybody keep telling me to continue ,

Please anybody in anambra nnewi that can help me to get her to any rehabilitation center

Because for me am planning to leave town anytime from Monday just to have happiness in my life back since everybody keep forcing to do something out of my will without considering the effect it is having on me

I have turned to a mini drunker
Just to help me forget stuffs it affects my work it effects me emotionally and mentally

Please insults are welcome , but please advise is much needed

As I am typing this am bleeding in my heart




How old d person.More than.30 dm me the number.my new project starts in nnewi next.month.
Can u
Re: Help Me To Help This Girl Before She End Her Life by Rawhumper(m): 11:12am On Sep 19, 2020
Nne if You noticed, i didnt reply immediately.

I wanted to Take some time and watch it and

from what i saw yesterday that Ozo is a real
mountain He-goat on heat.... He almost got third strike for staying in HOH room if he stayed there till 3.

I Hope he doesnt lose his supporters, if not for one Thing he would have left that Place since.

I now concur with You but i believe he will humiliate Nengi if he sleeps with her, i kinda think he wants to Play The fool to pull her panties down.

I know to bed or not a Lady, happens from the first day a guy approaches a lady, he didnt start well from day one with Nengi thats why he ended up worse than a simp.


Hope You are doing good.










quote author=Diamond23 post=94058999]Am not sure about about this ur observation. The guy just MUMU in the name of love. Don't be suprise when he gift Nengi that car he won as per love too grin . To be honest with u, dat guy knows no jack about been a SILENCER. HE is just over grown mummy's boy. He used to be my fav. Until he started this his IBERIBLOVEISM grin grin[/quote]
Re: Help Me To Help This Girl Before She End Her Life by Diamond23(f): 7:27pm On Sep 19, 2020
Rawhumper:
Nne if You noticed, i didnt reply immediately.

I wanted to Take some time and watch it and

from what i saw yesterday that [/b] Ozo is a real
mountain He-goat on heat.... [b]
He almost got third strike for staying in HOH room if he stayed there till 3.

I Hope he doesnt lose his supporters, if not for one Thing he would have left that Place since.

I now concur with You but i believe he will humiliate Nengi if he sleeps with her, i kinda think he wants to Play The fool to pull her panties down.

I know to bed or not a Lady, happens from the first day a guy approaches a lady, he didnt start well from day one with Nengi thats why he ended up worse than a simp.


Hope You are doing good.










quote author=Diamond23 post=94058999]Am not sure about about this ur observation. The guy just MUMU in the name of love. Don't be suprise when he gift Nengi that car he won as per love too grin . To be honest with u, dat guy knows no jack about been a SILENCER. HE is just over grown mummy's boy. He used to be my fav. Until he started this his IBERIBLOVEISM grin grin
@ the bolded

Re: Help Me To Help This Girl Before She End Her Life by Rawhumper(m): 11:09pm On Sep 19, 2020
Lol...abeg Let me join u follow dey at peace
with The universe joor. cheesy cheesy











Diamond23:
@ the bolded

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Re: Help Me To Help This Girl Before She End Her Life by Nobody: 7:29am On Sep 20, 2020
silento:
Am going straight to the point , met this girl on Facebook , unfortunately we live in same area we arrange and met from that day we started hanging out together most times she has no boyfriend but got two guys that wanted to date her but she refused , I told I don't want relationship stuff also , at a time I got this project I started working on and I hardly had time to see her or go out like before to her she see it as if I was avoiding her

She started calling I assured her once am free I will come by but that Sunday I promised to see her I ran into an old friends we all drink and chatted about life , and I didn't make it later in the week she called me since I know am not yet free I skipped her calls then the person I was working for called me I picked and as we are discussing this girl started disturbing me with call for a whole ten minutes I was on call she was calling , after the call I blocked her number coz I see it as distraction to my work she sent me sms that since I don't take her calls that she will frustrate my work with calls and chat till I see her

In fact I got angered by this and blocked her on all social media and blacked listed her contact

Few days I got calls from unknown person asking me what is the problem with me and my girlfriend and I asked the person who please

She called her name and I told her please ma am not dating her ooh we are just friends , and the person said ok no problem since I said I wasn't dating her then there is nothing she has to ask me again and cut the call

After months I unlock her after a friend pleased with me to do so

Since then she keep threatening me that she will die if I stop talking to her

Or stop seeing her , in fact most time I am with her she will try to force herself on me which I will find a way to escape and same time make her not feel less of a person

Now I had another project am working on the project is giving me sleepless night and this girl can't understand that she is not my girlfriend and I don't love her , but keep insisting that I see her or she will fall sick and die

In fact she smokes now , she has lost extremely weight cost of the last one I stopped seeing her

I have tried to hook her up with another guy no way , she always wants to be around me ,

She said I should keep staying and comforting her till she finds someone she can love

But seriously am just feed up on this

She will tell people that all she wants is for me to be around her but once w are together she will start to throw kiss and hugging me as if am her guy

It makes me mad ,in a recent chat we had few days ago she admitted that she knows that she is forcing herself on me but I should endure till she finds another guy or the feeling dies down or else she might fall sick and die in the process

She is using death to scare everybody , infact everybody keep advising me to pretend
So that she will heal completely ,

I thought i was helping her but seriously I don't feel happy again , I just feel like I will die before her

But her dead threat is too much

Please I know she is not normal upstairs i think this has to do with mental issue than just merely feeling of loving anybody

I am been victimized here and everybody keep telling me to continue ,

Please anybody in anambra nnewi that can help me to get her to any rehabilitation center

Because for me am planning to leave town anytime from Monday just to have happiness in my life back since everybody keep forcing to do something out of my will without considering the effect it is having on me

I have turned to a mini drunker
Just to help me forget stuffs it affects my work it effects me emotionally and mentally

Please insults are welcome , but please advise is much needed

As I am typing this am bleeding in my heart



She sounds mentally unstable n obsessive.
She needs to see mental health dr.
Isn't healthy for either of you.
If she can't understand your not interested in romance with her then honestly U can't let it affect your life as it is.
For your own sake U should just tell her she needs to get help or deal with it cos it's affecting your life too much n just cut her off. Wat happens to her is of her own choice. It may sound mean but she's an adult n Ur not responsible for her n U need peace of mind in your own life.
Wat else can U do anyway.

And pretending will only encourage her behaviour n make it worse. If she's behaving this way knowing U don't want a romantic relationship with her imagine her behaviour if she thinks U do n eventually have to break away from her n be honest?
She'd be way worse. It's selfish of her scaring ppl with death because she has an unhealthy obsession with you.
I've been in same situation once n the guy kept threatening to kill himself n a month later he did n I still don't know if it was cos of me cos I cut him out of my life completely. I tried reasoning with him for months to no avail n in the end I had to end the friendship it was too much. After he killed himself for a cpl years I felt guilty bout it all but in the end he was an adult n I never ever once led him on so he knew it was all him n he made his own choice n wouldn't get help n chose death.
I couldn't put my life on hold forever n follow him around every second to make sure he didn't die. And I couldn't pretend either. It sucks wen someone puts U in that position.

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Re: Help Me To Help This Girl Before She End Her Life by Nobody: 7:44am On Sep 20, 2020
Spysees:
Are you tellin' us the truth & nothin' but the truth?

grin
Your signature tho grin
Re: Help Me To Help This Girl Before She End Her Life by silento(m): 3:11am On Sep 21, 2020
Missyford31:


She sounds mentally unstable n obsessive.
She needs to see mental health dr.
Isn't healthy for either of you.
If she can't understand your not interested in romance with her then honestly U can't let it affect your life as it is.
For your own sake U should just tell her she needs to get help or deal with it cos it's affecting your life too much n just cut her off. Wat happens to her is of her own choice. It may sound mean but she's an adult n Ur not responsible for her n U need peace of mind in your own life.
Wat else can U do anyway.

And pretending will only encourage her behaviour n make it worse. If she's behaving this way knowing U don't want a romantic relationship with her imagine her behaviour if she thinks U do n eventually have to break away from her n be honest?
She'd be way worse. It's selfish of her scaring ppl with death because she has an unhealthy obsession with you.
I've been in same situation once n the guy kept threatening to kill himself n a month later he did n I still don't know if it was cos of me cos I cut him out of my life completely. I tried reasoning with him for months to no avail n in the end I had to end the friendship it was too much. After he killed himself for a cpl years I felt guilty bout it all but in the end he was an adult n I never ever once led him on so he knew it was all him n he made his own choice n wouldn't get help n chose death.
I couldn't put my life on hold forever n follow him around every second to make sure he didn't die. And I couldn't pretend either. It sucks wen someone puts U in that position.

Thanks my dear u understand what am going through

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Re: Help Me To Help This Girl Before She End Her Life by Nobody: 5:16am On Sep 21, 2020
silento:


Thanks my dear u understand what am going through

Yes I do.
Seriously don't pretend with her it'll only make it worse.
She's an adult n she knows wat she's doing. Just cut her off if she won't get help
U can't live your life this way n she's not your responsibility. Whatever she decides to do is her choice n will not be your fault either way.
But I know ppl can get arrested for all kindsa rediculous things in naija so I would let the police know the situation cos if she does hurt herself U can't be blamed n arrested or something like that.
Re: Help Me To Help This Girl Before She End Her Life by Mrluv(m): 5:32am On Sep 21, 2020
Missyford31:


She sounds mentally unstable n obsessive.
She needs to see mental health dr.
Isn't healthy for either of you.
If she can't understand your not interested in romance with her then honestly U can't let it affect your life as it is.
For your own sake U should just tell her she needs to get help or deal with it cos it's affecting your life too much n just cut her off. Wat happens to her is of her own choice. It may sound mean but she's an adult n Ur not responsible for her n U need peace of mind in your own life.
Wat else can U do anyway.

And pretending will only encourage her behaviour n make it worse. If she's behaving this way knowing U don't want a romantic relationship with her imagine her behaviour if she thinks U do n eventually have to break away from her n be honest?
She'd be way worse. It's selfish of her scaring ppl with death because she has an unhealthy obsession with you.
I've been in same situation once n the guy kept threatening to kill himself n a month later he did n I still don't know if it was cos of me cos I cut him out of my life completely. I tried reasoning with him for months to no avail n in the end I had to end the friendship it was too much. After he killed himself for a cpl years I felt guilty bout it all but in the end he was an adult n I never ever once led him on so he knew it was all him n he made his own choice n wouldn't get help n chose death.
I couldn't put my life on hold forever n follow him around every second to make sure he didn't die. And I couldn't pretend either. It sucks wen someone puts U in that position.
are you real?
Re: Help Me To Help This Girl Before She End Her Life by Nobody: 5:34am On Sep 21, 2020
Mrluv:
are you real?

Well am not imaginary grin
Course I'm real lol watchya mean am I real
Wat I'm saying? Is that wat U mean
Re: Help Me To Help This Girl Before She End Her Life by Mrluv(m): 5:43am On Sep 21, 2020
Missyford31:


Well am not imaginary grin
Course I'm real lol watchya mean am I real
Wat I'm saying? Is that wat U mean
are you an Australia and what you posted is it real?
Re: Help Me To Help This Girl Before She End Her Life by Nobody: 5:46am On Sep 21, 2020
Mrluv:
are you an Australia and what you posted is it real?

Yeah I'm from Tasmania Australia.
Yes it's true.
Why do U ask?

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