southniyikaye:
It is well.
I know someone because of the suffering she is going through right now will want to jump into such wealth and affluence but they forget that it sometimes always end in premium tears.

True. If only people learn from others experience, some problems would have been avoidable.

And you see this FFK always on Buhari's case instead of first learning how to manage his home like a normal human being.

I don't live with them, and so I may not know the truth about the domestic violence accusation.

But one thing is certain, FFK's recent outburst and his loose mouth are an evidence that he is capable of beating a woman, even in pregnancy.

Just like his fellow, uncouth loose mouth, Dino Melaye, he can't take half of what he dishes out regularly to men that are many years older than him.

1StopRudeness:
Sounds like turning the issue around, a desperate damage control.... u ddnt deny all the wife did, but like a classic woman behavior, look for a way to make it the man’s fault...

Yes... she attacked with knife
Yes.. she had mental issues

But no it’s the man’s fault......we don hear....

When a man has gone through four wives and all testify to the fury of his fists, what more proof do we need?

Righteousness89:
As a Firm Believer In the Bible Who does not Believe in Divorce and Remarry .

My Advice to FFK is either to Remain Single or to Go back to the First Woman he Married!

I Advice All to as much as Possible keep your Home off the Public!
Keep your Home off Social Media..

You attract so many Enemies and Spirits to your Home by Doing that

You kinda making sense you know. Social media is over killing marriages all bcoz of showoff wanting to let ppl know all is well and when the going is getting heated up you kinda of have the fear of what will ppl say. No to voilent union, no to domestic Violence

FFK is a crazy drug addict. He is nothing but an animal. Ask people around his marine road, apapa residence. Who doesn't know his story? ���

Ffk is no longer associated with ipob,mad people everywhere .

Karlifate:

Right... But that is just their Sun Sign, the Moon Sign determines the intensity of the Sun Sign.

Hmmm... Haven't gone that deep into zodiac. Don't intend to. I group everyone according to their zodiac, you know, face-value kind of thing.

HundHunter:
Stay tuned for FFK denial International Press Statement, coming soon and sponsored by IPOB; his protectors and minions of hell.

DO NOT label God's creations "minions of hell." Remember that they were created in God's image and likeness. Genesis 1 :27.
Remember that you shall be judged by every idle word you speak. Matthew 12 :36
You'll do well to receive Jesus into your life. Tomorrow may be too late. John 3 :16

Whenever aunty kemi olunloyo broke a news, there is an iota of truth in it no matter how controversial.

Righteousness89:


All that does not Matter!
They can Come back together..
That's His wife..

If FFK does not work on his temper, then he won't be able to stay married to anyone. Many Nigerians have mental health issues and are not doing anything to seek help. Any marriage where the man beats the woman or vice versa is not a marriage.

So many people have been killed by their spouses. That was not what God had in mind when he created marriage.

Stop hiding under the covers of religion and telling people who have been abused for years to go back to their abuser. If an abusive spouse is a narcissist like FFK, they should endeavor to stay single.

UNMASKING THIS VILLAIN CALLED FFK. Elombah News.

A Masquerade must never dance naked or he will no longer be feared. That is an adage Femi fani kayode failed to learn.

For many years FFK has been a thorn in the sides of many prominent people, especially those in government. He says the unsayable. He abuses elders, presidents, pastors, anybody he feels like abusing. His only relevance is his ability to lie, make up spurious, salacious stories about prominent people’s and get paid to stop his antics because those people cannot sink to his level.

And we, the Nigeria media, we have been the drummers for this vicious masquerade because even though we knew he is a liar, a self-confessed drug addict and a blackmailer, we gave him front page coverage, covered the lies, even printed his lies as fact because it was expedient. We portrayed him as a credible source and always remember to address him as a former Minister to make him look good.

Until he decided to turn his barking fangs in one of our own – then we decided to show him that we too have fangs and that the village dog is no match for the German Shepherd.
Since FFK abused Eyo Charles for asking him who was bankrolling a PR tour that every journalist knows is costing each governor at least N40/50million, our 4th estate has been up in arms as if we did not create the monster before us.

Why did we go to publicise his lies?
Why did we not call out the governors using scarce resources to pay this liar to praise their white elephant projects? Why did we give him the fuel of publicity to empower him to think he can bark at us?

Who can forget his Senate hearing when he confessed to the Senate that he had been treated by some prophet in Ghana for his drug addiction and the mental problems that resulted from it?
Why did the Senators pass him?
Who can forget that he so much abused goodluck Jonathan that the man brought him to head his media campaign in the hope that he will turn his barking fangs on the APC. Instead, he simply chopped the money and the EFCC is still on his case.

In fact, he helped Jonathan lose the election because he had no credibility and his abuse against Jonathan was enough campaign material for APC to sink Jonathan.

Now he says he is considering to rejoin the APC (or another way of asking PDP to settle him or else…). We all know.

We, the 4th estate, chose to ignore that this man posted half naked pictures of his own daughters on social media and was even commenting on how sexy his own daughters look! . If another person did it, we will be shouting incest and child abuse. Let an Abubakar or Usman do it and you will see the internet collapse. Fani Kayode will be shouting at the top of his voice and calling them every name under the sun. We, the 4th Estate will help him scream. But we have been silent about what he did to his own children. Why would any father display pictures of their own daughters in underwears?

This man decided to insult Igbo people by claiming a phantom relationship with the wife of the late Igbo leader, Ambassador Bianca Ojukwu. But when asked to provide a simple picture or any evidence of knowing her or issue an apology and retraction, he ran to the press with his tail between his legs and immediately issued a retraction and apology in 3 newspapers. That is what led me to investigate the matter further. If they were ever in the same school at the same time, surely this man would have published it everywhere. Public records easily available show they were never at the same school. He used her name to raise his profile and like a coward he quickly deleted the lie to avoid her legal threat.

And this man who claims to be a genius wants us to believe he was also in the same class as a girl who was still in school in Enugu (source Wikipedia) when by he claims on Wikipedia he was already in university by 1980 (Wikipedia)?

My research also shows that he graduated in 1983, went to a college in Cambridge (no actual date is available so nobody can say if he spent one day or only one month there). He started law school in 1984 and left Law School in 1985 (Wikipedia). It looks like he left Cambridge without a qualification. He has never claimed any qualification from Pembroke College in Cambridge. I have not been able to establish any. There are many rumours that he was returned early to Nigeria to cure him from drug addiction but unfortunately, including a recent Facebook post by Mr Soji Oseni Jagaban giving graphic details of fani Kayode’s drug fuelled past .

I tried to get my investigation published when the story broke around 2013 but my previous editor was not agreeable and i suffered serious consequences for my idealistic attempt to become an investigative journalist.

Can we, the 4th Estate, absolve ourselves from Senator Odua losing her job when we helped this man attack her for the crash of a private aircraft that was carrying the corpse of the aviation minister that superintended the worst air crash
In Nigeria’s history? We helped him shout about bullet proof cars. We helped him paint the Senator blacker than charcoal. We refused to give her own side of the story because of another dirty secret – Nigerian media is very, very misogynistic. We always paint women as Delilah, Jezebel, Seductress. We are less than enthusiastic about successful women. We are as guilty as FFK.

Femi Fani Kayode claims he became a Pentecostal Christian under Bishop Duncan Williams. I am not surprised that he wants to parade himself as a Ceaser. I have unfortunately witnessed Duncan Williams in action and his Bishop costume will be very welcome for all the rich Igwes and Kings in Nollywood. Fani Kayode only uses the Holy Name of God to abuse others or defend himself or deceive those who want to be deceived. Any man whose mouth runs like a river of foul-smelling sewage cannot be a follower of Jesus Christ. We, the 4th Estate know that he is a liar. We know he is being investigated for diverting Government funds. Does the Bible not say that “outside are the liars and dogs”?

Let us tell ourselves the truth. Since Eyo Charles asked the only serious question that day in PH, have we admitted that this thug called FFK has been calling us and asking for our account details to pacify us? Why do we keep quiet and not expose him completely?

We know him. We know his father. We know the source of his father’s money and how FFK used his father’s commodity to fuel himself.
We know how he has been blackmailing governors,senators, even women he has never met with his foul mouth. He was not even allowed in his own daughters wedding. He is reported to routinely physically abuse his current wife. Yet most journalists know this, but cover up his domestic violence, sometimes because of financial inducements and publicize his lies.

We even know our brother Mannie Dan Ali of Daily Trust who this barking man threatened to slap inside Aso Villa.
We know he uses another deranged female to say things to back him up and pays for the service . Sometimes, when it suits us, we quote her. When it doesn’t, we remember she is also a drug addict and was deported from North America. Sometimes, FFK uses her to insult IPOB and we all know he despises Nnamdi Kanu. Then he uses IPOB for his photo ops to deceive Igbos who want to be deceived.

I am too cowardly to say my real name because my editor will fire me. But I am praying for the days of Dele Giwa and other investigative journalists. I am praying that I have an editor who also does not have an Oga at the top who FFK has reached to beg.

I am praying for the day when people like FFK are totally ignored by the media because if we ignore him, he will become irrelevant as a blackmailer.
If we ignore him, he will have no fuel.
If we ignore him, maybe my state Governor will build the maternity clinic in my local government that we have been waiting for instead of dashing our money to this man.

Maybe even my brother’s pension can be paid before Christmas..
Maybe.

If only we rise up and honour our trade and stop enabling and promoting this blackmailer.

We made him who he is.

Let us now naked the masquerade we created by showing him his full unclothedness. Let us stop covering him and empowering him and enabling him.

We cannot complain if the dog we have been training to bite others turns and bites us because he is hungry and we are trying to take away his food by asking him “SIR, WHO IS BANKROLLING YOU?”

Oghara writes from Port Harcourt.

Nooil:


Hmmm... Haven't gone that deep into zodiac. Don't intend to. I group everyone according to their zodiac, you know, face-value kind of hing.

i see the spirit of astrology is manifesting in you

Liposure:
i see the spirit of astrology is manifesting in you

Manifesting ke? I've been a zodiac enthusiast since 2009. But I prefer making my observation, experimenting with myself and others around me.

Righteousness89:


You who calls Someone Abuser! Are u Better?

If a Man or Woman has Genuinely Repented, I will Gladly bring them together..

Well, it is obvious FFK has not repented hence he lashed out on an innocent reporter recently. Most narcissists don't repent so I will never talk anyone I love to go back to an abuser.

Maybe you are an abuser too hiding behind religion that is why you want people who are abused by their spouses to go back to such a volatile union. After all, Bible warned that in the last days many will come in Christ's name and deceive even the elect.

Your posts on Nairaland are oftentimes very contradictory and that tells me that you are not the genuine Christan that you make yourself out to be on this forum. People like you have been sent by the enemy to deceive the brethren,the very elect as the Bible would put it.

HundHunter:
Stay tuned for FFK denial International Press Statement, coming soon and sponsored by IPOB; his protectors and minions of hell.

What does IPOB got to do with this family problem.... I beg you, please get some atom of sense, I mean atom, dot.... not much sense biko

slaves to money, why won't you treated like a rag.

solmus:



His first wife is now the Aide of President of Ghana.. . She can't take him back after series of abuse several decades ago, same as his other 2 ex , his only hope is his 4th wife precious or getting a new one...

So much for Bible quoting hypocrite like Fani who is grandchild of a prominent post independence evangelist


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I don't get you, but Femi is a typical yoruba man with their chequered marriages.
You the new generation are trying to be different seeing the dangers in this lifestyle.

frankyychiji:
I don't get you, but Femi is a typical yoruba man with their chequered marriages.
You the new generation are trying to be different seeing the dangers in this lifestyle.

Nonsense lie. Femi is not like any Yoruba man he is a wayward brat . Ask around Yoruba men cherish women and treat them right hence the reason they get girls everywhere... Femi is not one of us and we warned you Ibos of him


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Godsonjoe:
What does IPOB got to do with this family problem.... I beg you, please get some atom of sense, I mean atom, dot.... not much sense biko

IPOB SPOTED!

Nooil:


Manifesting ke? I've been a zodiac enthusiast since 2009. But I prefer making my observation, experimenting with myself and others around me.

wow

solmus:



Nonsense lie. Femi is not like any Yoruba man he is a wayward brat . Ask around Yoruba men cherish women and treat them right hence the reason they get girls everywhere... Femi is not one of us and we warned you Ibos of him


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Hahaha..abi werey ni e ni? You warned which Igbos about what? I don't even think you are Yoruba for denying the normal marriage pattern down here. Yorubas have high rate of broken marriages than any other race, it's still ongoing even.

stieyven:

DO NOT label God's creations "minions of hell." Remember that they were created in God's image and likeness. Genesis 1 :27.
Remember that you shall be judged by every idle word you speak. Matthew 12 :36
You'll do well to receive Jesus into your life. Tomorrow may be too late. John 3 :16

A penny for your thought.

The generic minions are the souls of the Damned that became corrupted by Lucifer's (eg.. Nnamid Kanu) influence. They now serve him and are commanded by the higher-ranked demons of Hell.

Dante first encounters them in The Church graveyard after finding Beatrice dead. Armed with nothing, but short swords, they are the true cannon-fodder in the depths of Hell. What they lack in strength however, they somewhat make up for by assaulting in large numbers.

Avoid abusive men or women. They almost always never stop without a drastic intervention

Nooil:


Hmmm... Haven't gone that deep into zodiac. Don't intend to. I group everyone according to their zodiac, you know, face-value kind of thing.

Yeah. Alright.

Those people are seeing a glimpse of their spokesman's personality.

Those people abi ?

Yes. Those people.

Nooil:
I have always seen fear in her eyes whenever she takes pictures with her husband. I once questioned myself, is this woman really Gemini? Now I know why. It's really sad.

Pls what is it with Gemini ladies. I want to learn. Thanks

zelnababa:
somebody that cannot rule one woman, yet always insulting who is ruling the nation.

Reminds me of Soyinka Who called Jonathan’s wife a shepopotamus when even he is a serial divorcee.

sinaj:
All that glitters is not gold.

Exactly. Beauty can't be used to get money and high society status all the time.. ..

Hope our folks will understand that

frankyychiji:
I don't get you, but Femi is a typical yoruba man with their chequered marriages.
You the new generation are trying to be different seeing the dangers in this lifestyle.

Precious too on the other hand is a typical beautiful Igbo lady like Regina etc who can only marry much older men with previous wives simply for money...

They don't care if you're Yoruba or Northerner.

Their family are worse because they practically sell off their daughter once she brings home a moneybag so he can deliver them all from their poverty.... Y'all need a mind reset abeg