A man had 2 sons. The eldest lived in a far distant land....always calls but never around nor sends money across due to economic hardship even till after their dad burial. Before the man died, he told his kinsmen that his first son is no longer the heir and not entitled to any asset rather that the last son would inherit all. This gave rise to ranchor in his household daily when the first son returned with the family. The last son became rude and bossy to the first son owing to their late dad's statement. Did the man do well by saying such? If you are an elder in such kindred, how would you resolve the fire the dead man set?

If the Eldest is doing well for himself in the Place he was, he should just jejely return back there and continue Facing his Life there. With or without his Father's property, he will still Survive.

Whatever anyone thinks, the wishes of the dying dad should stand... regardless of what the oldest son thinks.