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d by Nobody: 10:12pm On Feb 28, 2011 |
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Re: d by kokoye(m): 10:32pm On Feb 28, 2011 |
First of all, you need to learn to love yourself above all others. Only then can you give true love and appreciate the love others give you as well. The lady may truly love you but you feel you deserve more at all times. That would be called 'greedy' if we were talking about money. Kinda like you are the one putthing urself in bondage. Take things easy and goodluck. 1 Like |
Re: d by Pweety4me(f): 1:32am On Mar 01, 2011 |
@Op You just need to gain the courage to let go sometimes, or maybe you need to voice ur opinion & how ur feeling to this woman let her understand how you feel, maybe she will make some changes. |
Re: d by Nobody: 1:37am On Mar 01, 2011 |
based on what you described here, i'd say yes. |
Re: d by 190: 2:40am On Mar 01, 2011 |
Im too old for this sh1t going on here, >>>>>>>>>>> [flash=400,300] https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Q37xJtuQ24w[/flash] 1 Like |
Re: d by frank317: 8:06am On Mar 01, 2011 |
ya, i understand the feeling. been thereb4.(i cant believe it) guy, you need to be angry. not only angry with her, but with yourself. the bottom line is that you are making yourself unhappy and thinking she is that one making u unhappy. LOOK! no one is worth all these stress you are giving yourself. stop telling yourself that you are just a piece of rag by dating her. you are no difference with someone who hurts himself with a knife and yet complains of pains. have u ever heard of masochism? its a psychological condition in which one derives pleasure(could be sexual pleasure) by subjecting himself to pain. u might think you are far from this act but that is what you are doing to yourself. all i am saying is that you are unhappy and u are still there. isnt relationsip supposed to make us happy? why do u think ur happiness is in her hands? when last did u make any effort to make yourself happy. JUST STOP HURTING YOURSELF!!!! |
Re: d by dollext: 8:50am On Mar 01, 2011 |
Am in a similar situation but what i did was to learn living without her. I engage my self in another hubby and i reduce the way i called her. she felt guilty and ask for comprise then i told her how i feel. and she promise to change |
Re: d by Nobody: 9:13am On Mar 01, 2011 |
l, lol |
Re: d by pwiz(m): 10:07am On Mar 01, 2011 |
goodsegs:Hope is nt her beauty u are after bt her personality if u knw what i mean.Beauty is a minor stance,if she cnt live to ur desire try to work things out wiv her and dnt hurt urself coz of a lady! Cheer up bro |
Re: d by pwiz(m): 10:07am On Mar 01, 2011 |
Re: d by Nobody: 10:37am On Mar 01, 2011 |
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Re: d by Nobody: 10:42am On Mar 01, 2011 |
goodsegs: firstly please change your arabic keyboard secondly love can never be one sided communication is the key to making a relationship walk i mean honest sincere communication not just talking you owe it to yourself to be happy so if she does not want to put in her best try finding out why? and if you are not satisfied then simply leave. finito |
Re: d by medjai(m): 10:55am On Mar 01, 2011 |
I think you should just let go. |
Re: d by Omolola1(f): 11:04am On Mar 01, 2011 |
OP Be patient with her, u neva knw, maybe she's d shy type |
Re: d by MayorSchwags(m): 12:38pm On Mar 25, 2013 |
exact sitautn am in. Until i searchd masef deep dwn and noticed twas probably her beauty i was obsessed wif even wen shes not half as caring as i am2 her. All i did was2 stop calling. Nw she whines. Attymz,d best way 2 get attentn is2 stop givin it. Hope ds helps,even tho am also relieved by sharing it. |
Re: d by Nobody: 3:02pm On Mar 25, 2013 |
that is way too much love...unless you are like 16-19 then i can understand... |
Re: d by MayorSchwags(m): 3:50pm On Mar 25, 2013 |
Mr knowitall.:i kinda disagree wt u. Obvious uv nt bn in luv |
Re: d by dmcdad: 4:53pm On Mar 25, 2013 |
Omolola1: OP C'mon! Don't be insensitive. What the OP narrated has nothing to do with shyness but someone's inability to replicate what should exist between the pair. @OP, I aint disposed to write much at this juncture, but I would say u make use of your tongue in counting your teeth. Till you are able to do that, just hang on... |
Re: d by shawn5ng(m): 10:05pm On Mar 25, 2013 |
Poster exactly what you have narrated was what I went thru just this february. Guy mine was hell. I could not concentrate in office, I lost peace of mind, my body is always hot cos of excessive thinking all sort. What I did was to start dating a friend first to reduce d pressure but when I discovered it wasn't working as I want it to be I had to delete her from my contact list so that I won't be tempted to call her even though I can recall her number by heart. Since that day I started experiencing peace nd gradually I started coming to my senses. Though I thought strike my mind ones in awhile but atleast am back to normal. I hope it helps. |
Re: d by 190: 10:07pm On Mar 25, 2013 |
shawn5ng: Poster exactly what you have narrated was what I went thru just this february. Guy mine was hell. I could not concentrate in office, I lost peace of mind, my body is always hot cos of excessive thinking all sort. What I did was to start dating a friend first to reduce d pressure but when I discovered it wasn't working as I want it to be I had to delete her from my contact list so that I won't be tempted to call her even though I can recall her number by heart. Since that day I started experiencing peace nd gradually I started coming to my senses. Though I thought strike my mind ones in awhile but atleast am back to normal. I hope it helps. since 2011 |
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