There was a time I carried out an experiment that revealed to me that too many Nigerian men than we know are nothing but empty bums. Sorry for sounding like this but, sometimes, truth has to be bitter enough to heal enough (like Chloroquine of yonder years).

This is the experiment that I carried out: I signed up for a Facebook account with a female name and the photo of a young woman of average beauty. Before the end of that day, I already had over 100 friend requests, all from male accounts. The worst is that before the end of that day, there were more than 30 of those guys sending me love messages. And the more I ignored them, the more they begged me.

That experience made me to realize a little what the average lady out there passes through in the hands of men - both on and off-line. Is it not why many of them don't respect men AT ALL these days? Men, I tell you today, we're the reason that so many women don't respect men anymore: Many men present themselves as people who are too needy. And there is no one - yes, NO ONE - who doesn't look down on someone perceived to be needy, at least, a little.

Because of this, I am starting a 100% free online seminar for Nigerian men to learn the rudiments of how to approach women successfully anywhere. The truth - which many sexual psychologists have supported - is that women actually desire men far more than men desire them. But the problem is that too many men don't know how to approach women - African women especially.

I am not going to collect a dime from any of the participants. And if you don't like the content or the procedure of the classes, you can always sign off. I am not doing this for money at all. Instead, I feel very bad that men of our time have lost so much respect to women. You'll be surprised to find out that both men and women are suffering this lack on the part of men.

Indeed, as a child, I used to be angry with God for punishing Adam along with Eve when the whole fault was Eve's. But, the older I've got, the more I have realized how just God was (I am not very religious though; I am more spiritual than religious). God's justice in the way he punished Adam with his wife lies in the fact that God has naturally given a position of responsibility to men over the womenfolk. Unfortunately, most men get this position very wrongly, thinking that it lies in flexing muscles. No, it mainly lies in being able to manage the psychology of the average woman. So, when any romantic relationship is not working, the major fault often lies with the man.

This is what will be occupying us at the online classes. If you want to be added, send your Whatsapp number to the email address on my signature.

Sorry for digressing but can anyone advise how to help a guy dat drinks like a fish

HRHQueenPhil:
Sorry for digressing but can anyone advise how to help a guy dat drinks like a fish

Although I said that most of the responsibility for the success of any relationship belongs to men, it doesn't mean that the women do not have any role to play. So, if the guy drinks like fish, it's not only the guy that needs advice. Instead, the guy's woman also needs advice on the right role to play.

10mobile:

Although I said that most of the responsibility for the success of any relationship belongs to men, it doesn't mean that the women do not have any role to play. So, if the guy drinks like fish, it's not only the guy that needs advice. Instead, the guy's woman also needs advice on the right role to play.

thank u for replying but drop ideas for me pls