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I Just Had My 4th Child At 26 / My Husband Flogs Me / Help!!! My Dad Still Smoking Weed In His Old Age!!! (2) (3) (4)
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Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by Midadeola(f): 9:54am On Sep 30, 2020 |
MrNipplesLover:Meaning that 70year old man can still decide to beat his 50yr old son for coming late to the family gathering sef |
Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by hstar: 9:55am On Sep 30, 2020 |
[quote author=CoolJulian post=94453889][/quote] Oh God Na we d first siblings dey suffer am most |
Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by wildikeman(m): 9:56am On Sep 30, 2020 |
Righteousness89: G Thank God you are human at least not your regular posts. But he shouldn't be abused, he only left to watch a match. Beating him and making his life miserable is not the way. What foundation did his father even leave for him to have a head start in life. The father should cut him some slacks and stop inflicting pain on his son. It's demeaning 2 Likes |
Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by Midadeola(f): 9:57am On Sep 30, 2020 |
inumidun2010:Whoo Say it again!! ' 1 Like |
Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by Midadeola(f): 9:58am On Sep 30, 2020 |
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Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by Midadeola(f): 10:00am On Sep 30, 2020 |
Kweensavvy:Oh my God! Oh My God! My best one!!! Someone saw my heart, after all! 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by wildikeman(m): 10:01am On Sep 30, 2020 |
Mindlog: You just gave me a thought to ponder on... Jesus Christ. I reject a father like righteousness...i repeat. I reject a father like righteousness. Guy imagine that kind papa. I will just commit suicide. Heavens and my creator forbids!!!!! 2 Likes |
Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by Nellinis(m): 10:02am On Sep 30, 2020 |
Righteousness89: this is a very irrelevant comment. 1 Like |
Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by Midadeola(f): 10:05am On Sep 30, 2020 |
Jirehz:oh God! You just killed this! minus the idiot part sha. You bam 2 Likes |
Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by Bobage16(m): 10:10am On Sep 30, 2020 |
Kriss216:gender wey d watch ball pass |
Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by accounts2boku: 10:10am On Sep 30, 2020 |
Gabe427:I painstakingly followed this page and saw a lot of people quoting him and telling him how they're Surprised by his reactions today hence they've lost their respect for him. Anyway dude is always after the attention and likes |
Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by hstar: 10:11am On Sep 30, 2020 |
puremaker7:"Se o fe na mi ni, emi o na baba mi ri Ha, eleyi pa mi lerin o, it has really got to the extreme end. @ d second bold, u funny sha, " mi o ni na yin, eyin na o de ni na mi. @ d 3rd bold, ur dad na good man, till now we no maintain good relationship, but if he needs me to do something, I always try to do it. because since I chop slap @ d age of 26, I just detest him. I chop slap sotey my colleagues who respect me dey ask me say wetin do me for face. Me wey I don dey command respect since d age of 16, @ 26 I've got good reputation both from workplace and at home. I just couldn't fight him. But hate him much. Now he wants a good relationship Ko le shele I made him know that I can't train my unborn children d way he trained me And I told him that, in life u try to buy bond from ur children by maintaining good character with dem not demanding for it when u didn't create it initially |
Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by Midadeola(f): 10:14am On Sep 30, 2020 |
realestate99:Most African parents! |
Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by hstar: 10:16am On Sep 30, 2020 |
Midadeola:@ d bold, I know I just av to be honest, I do use "if I was you" too Instead of "if I were you " I know it will be followed by "would" Thanks mo de ade ola Please me too I wants to de adeola, though, I av got adeowo already o |
Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by OkuFaba(m): 10:16am On Sep 30, 2020 |
PureGoldh:
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Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by Midadeola(f): 10:17am On Sep 30, 2020 |
Slimsly100:Me sef |
Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by Mindlog: 10:20am On Sep 30, 2020 |
wildikeman: You just need to spend some time in a Child and Adolescent Psychiatric clinic and experience some of the adverse effect of toxic parenting. |
Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by Midadeola(f): 10:20am On Sep 30, 2020 |
Joshmanuel10:Simple! Instead of bullying people under the guise of "my roof" 1 Like |
Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by Bobyro: 10:20am On Sep 30, 2020 |
GMBuhari:Oga I wasn't trying to say I'm woke or so advanced, I'm only saying that Africans need to drop some bad traits. That's a man and it's totally wrong to flog a man of that age. |
Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by Midadeola(f): 10:23am On Sep 30, 2020 |
hstar: |
Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by hstar: 10:23am On Sep 30, 2020 |
Midadeola:Thanks, I must confess it wasn't easy for me at dat moment and I didn't want a situation where my child or children would be rude at me, and I just fem But deep down I was burning, but assuming he's my brother or someone I could fight, it would have been bloody dat night, because as I chop dat igbati my energy, strength raised to power ten, not even power ten but infinity, I swear mo ma ba nkan je la le ojo yen. Though I did something stupid dat look scary to him as a result of anger but never did I fight him |
Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by Midadeola(f): 10:24am On Sep 30, 2020 |
Mindlog:I have not been to one, but I can imagine! |
Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by Midadeola(f): 10:27am On Sep 30, 2020 |
hstar:aaas in |
Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by Acidosis(m): 10:32am On Sep 30, 2020 |
Kweensavvy: I agree. Using the word 'flog' on a grown man is out of place. Let's just hope that his father hasn't exhausted all the options (praying, talking, etc.) on him. When you remember that all the cult boys in our society today came from a home, you'll understand the frustration some parents go through. |
Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by Acidosis(m): 10:37am On Sep 30, 2020 |
stanliwise: Definitely |
Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by Medunah: 10:41am On Sep 30, 2020 |
Richy4:God bless you!!! I am a female child and I change things for my parents when necessary. I wish I can give full gist but one thing Nigerian kids need to understand is that 'rebellion is the only way you can get your freedom from Naija parents' That and Financial independence There was a time I and my parents used to fight every day cos they were trying to monitor my movement after I was done with university, I had to give it to them back to back. One time, my father told me to leave his house, I told him 'I'll soon go, na NYSC dey tie me down here abi he thinks me sef I want to be here?' Now, they are tired of my matter......i get home 10pm gan, they will just be looking at me. They talk sef, I repeat it again the next day and increase the time to 10:30. After NYSC like This, I'm not going back home. I know it is easier said than done but I'm already working towards it. OP is even a guy again, he should hustle up and leave that house and never go back again. Distance will also make them respect you 5 Likes |
Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by antibullshit: 10:42am On Sep 30, 2020 |
It seems to me like your father is a bully. Have you let him know how you feel? You need to do that. Do it politely and dont raise your voice. If he still insists on beating you the next time he tries it resist it. Dont hit him or push him but hold the whip or whatever hes trying to use or hold his hand but make sure you dont hit him. He will get the message. |
Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by TheSoothSayer(m): 10:43am On Sep 30, 2020 |
Righteousness89:Oga shut up your mouth |
Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by TheWalkingMind: 10:48am On Sep 30, 2020 |
Righteousness89:You're daft |
Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by cousym11(m): 10:50am On Sep 30, 2020 |
i have a laptop and reside in Lagos. situationreport: |
Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by hstar: 10:57am On Sep 30, 2020 |
AtoningBlood:At d first bold, I do tell some abusive parents dat because u are his or her father doesn't mean u can do anything u feel like with him or her, citing dat "don't u know I'm your father or mother?" This is wrong At d second bold, somethings are best achieved with a little bit of madness, because u are my dad, and I don't want to offend God doesn't translate to treating me like a goat, even an animal deserves to be treated well in some situations. U wey u say u be human being, Na u create urself, talkless of say u and dat animal Na same soul wey u get him get too, we only outshine dem with knowledge and wisdom. And at d bold, 'train ur children with......' Right now I work in a school, d treatment I got from my father reshaped my life thereby treating each and every kid in my school with respect and love except for some stubborn ones dat I know that d only language dey understand is cane. U know pple are different, some kids, facial expression is enough for dem to correct dem, some, clicking of fingers is enough, some treating dem with love is OK, while some shouting is what dey want, but some if dey never receive beating deir brain will not return to default settings, I understand dis due to what I passed through and my observant nature. In short I've not been beating most of them and I treat dem with respect, u know what happens to me by treating dem dat way 1 Like |
Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by benji93: 11:01am On Sep 30, 2020 |
No you don't have any right. You don't know what is happening in the confines of their household. If If a father goes over the board and kills his son, he should be put in jail. Every father must find the limits within which they effect their discipline. Op is probably not telling us the entire story. Maybe his father had warned him repeatedly to tell someone when he wants to go out, or informed him to not stay out until after a period of time. If your father tells you to be home by 8.00 pm, you must not go out cos your favourites team is a playing. If you ask me: haven't you heard of cases where father's killed their wards in the name of discipline? I can also ask you: Haven't you heard of cases where people went out and never came back, especially at night. Righteousness89 may have gone a little overboard, but he's right. These are dangerous times. A son that goes out to watch football when after 8 pm when his father had told him to be home before 8 pm deserves what's coming to him. The Op knows his father doesn't he? He knows that his father probably has a bad temperament, but he insisted on putting his father in such a bad position. It's unfortunate he lost his job, but as a man that he calls himself he should know to adapt has his situation changes. A teenager hiding in a 26 year-old body deserves an ass whooping. Enough said edoairways: |
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