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I Just Had My 4th Child At 26 / My Husband Flogs Me / Help!!! My Dad Still Smoking Weed In His Old Age!!! (2) (3) (4)
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Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by Xcrapeekoko(m): 10:41pm On Sep 29, 2020 |
MrsRighteousness: And the Bible said a 26 year old is still a child |
Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by Pharovo(m): 10:41pm On Sep 29, 2020 |
Righteousness89: You know you cannot be right all the time yea? You’re just being stupid this time around. A father flogging his son at 20 is rubbish, not to talk about a man of 26. Wetin he thief? You’ve been shouting discipline all evening, what we are concern about here is the path of discipline taken. What happens to other forms of discipline. You carry cane dey flog a 26 year old man because e go watch a football game. OP call me make we get one on one shebi na warri you dey. Your father don beat cold enter your bother you come docile. Next na your wife go come dey sanction you onto say you be weakling. This righteousness guy you need better beat walahi 10 Likes |
Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by Nobody: 10:41pm On Sep 29, 2020 |
Kriss216:What percentage compared to the men? How many watch football matches out that late? That's not the main point. So far, without looking at my username, has anything revealed my gender to you? 1 Like |
Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by Rugaria: 10:42pm On Sep 29, 2020 |
Indaboski Daddy... 1 Like
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Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by molbic(m): 10:43pm On Sep 29, 2020 |
Kriss216:Hahahahaha laf wan tear ma BELLE 1 Like
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Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by Prechgold1180(m): 10:43pm On Sep 29, 2020 |
ehix89:dere are somethings that sounds stupid U reason at 26 d father still usses cane on him Dat bcus d guy is a burden Nigerians mk unah tell dat guy d truth E Should get out of dat his hustle for himself 4 years from now e would clock 30 Still receiving strikes from p man Dat s rubbish |
Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by hstar: 10:43pm On Sep 29, 2020 |
mrblessed:I learnt from your statement, thanks |
Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by Drizzy5001(m): 10:44pm On Sep 29, 2020 |
Bros you are too docile, that is why he is still controlling you like a kid. At 26 kai!... I dey change am for my dad steady!!! , to the extent that he once threatened that he won't pay my school fees again... he can't dare to flog me, but that doesn't mean that i won't respect him, and do what is right. If your dad stopped you from watching ball in a viewing centre it could be because of the security challenge in ur environment, which is for ur own good, but na for that flogging own wey i no go gree.. it's high time u man up o. 2 Likes |
Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by EleventhWeirdo: 10:44pm On Sep 29, 2020 |
mrblessed:"would" is the appropriate word. The rule of concord dictates that "would," as a past tense, correspond with "were" as another past tense. You can read it up. Report or direct has nothing to do with this. Thanks. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by Humanoid01(m): 10:44pm On Sep 29, 2020 |
Righteousness89:The problem isn't the discipline, the problem is the method used. You only flog a child because counselling them is almost always futile. When you flog a child, it leaves a trace of caution in them, even though it doesn't always last. Cane is the language most stubborn children understand. For an adult [26 years old in this case] who should know the difference between right and wrong, there are mature ways to discipline them, especially when you are still responsible for them. Flogging them only depicts that you do not value them, and that's harsh and utterly disrespectful. There are ways to discipline an adult, and flogging is most certainly not ideal sir. 6 Likes |
Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by Angelfrost(m): 10:44pm On Sep 29, 2020 |
Acidosis: Blame on his father??! At 26??!... Do you even know the meaning of 26?!! No one... Not even an idiot, will blame anyone for whatever befalls a 26 year old adult, when he is not imbecilic or mentally incapacitated. 7 Likes |
Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by chloride6: 10:45pm On Sep 29, 2020 |
Righteousness89: Thank God for this post. I used to believe you were at least sane but now I have co confirmed that you are actually mad... 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by Ybaby: 10:45pm On Sep 29, 2020 |
situationreport: You are eating free food, no job but you can watch football match. If you donot like the treatment then move out... 1 Like |
Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by Organs(m): 10:46pm On Sep 29, 2020 |
midehill: What are you talking about. @Mindlog is way more brilliant and on point than that your Righteousness89. You should tell Mindlog to ignore Righteousness89, because Righteousness89 does not come close to Mindlog intellectually speaking. 3 Likes |
Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by 2Ways(m): 10:46pm On Sep 29, 2020 |
fatymore: he is the real one |
Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by Nobody: 10:47pm On Sep 29, 2020 |
it could be that your father is not impresed with your too easy going/docile nature. flogging you at 26 is not a miscalculation. rather a calculated attempt to get u ANGRY and a little bit harsh and mean. need these qualities to be able to thrieve in the society where bullying the weak is the order of day. no strong man father wil be proud of a weak son . 1 Like |
Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by SPOLO(m): 10:47pm On Sep 29, 2020 |
I just pray you don't end up being too depressed. E go soon click for you soon, just keep trying but your Dad is funny sha!! 1 Like |
Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by Ablesam171: 10:47pm On Sep 29, 2020 |
Uniquewise: you're very right ma, My mum stopped hitting me when I started resisting her slaps i even told her that she should stop it that I'm an adult, I remember the last time my mum tried to beat me (funny enough I was already in the higher institution) she noticed some form of resistance from me (though she knows that I'll never disrespect her). Op when next your dad tries that bs please put up some resistance (please don't fight him), let him know that you're grown up, him beating you at 26 is not good for you esteem. 6 Likes |
Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by MrHandsome2013: 10:48pm On Sep 29, 2020 |
situationreport:. Where do you stay in delta |
Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by Righteousness89(m): 10:48pm On Sep 29, 2020 |
Chidorx60: My Dear! You don't need all these talks ! What did I do Wrong? What do you mean by Banter! 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by Drizzy5001(m): 10:48pm On Sep 29, 2020 |
Greatfullheart:which course did u study there? |
Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by LikeAking: 10:49pm On Sep 29, 2020 |
Angelfrost: He did. |
Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by Peterosky(m): 10:50pm On Sep 29, 2020 |
Righteousness89:.Next time, if you don't have anything to contribute,Just keep quiet. How can you justify the beating of a 26 year old as discipline? even the Bible you claim to preach on every thread says you should train up a child (not adult) in a way he should go so that when he grows up (to adulthood) he should not depart from the lord. At age 26 the best the father should do is to advise and not beat. If you support a man beating his son at age 26,then I am afraid you must be a wife beater after all you will also want to discipline your wife too. 18 Likes |
Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by inumidun2010(m): 10:51pm On Sep 29, 2020 |
chloride6:Easy does it... Please don't use derogatory remarks... Reserve it for POLICE.... 1 Like |
Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by ronyman(m): 10:51pm On Sep 29, 2020 |
"May God forgive you if you can't bear this" like you wanna commit suicide. I can't judge you cos I know it's been hell. Are you a student or have you graduated? If yes go back to school perch with any of your friends. Talk to your dad or show him an aggressive/Male side of you. Plan to leave that place and you're gonna get something to do. Look for a friend or relative and go to his house so you can think,but talk to your papa, him de Bleep up even u sef situationreport: |
Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by Jamesbiodun(m): 10:51pm On Sep 29, 2020 |
I wanted to say you are a mumu man, but I don't know what to type. oboy give your pman voice and look for a job ooo |
Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by Organs(m): 10:52pm On Sep 29, 2020 |
Acidosis: Keep quiet, why is the dad not providing TV and subscription in the house? Nonsense. It is not people with your mindset he needs advice from. You yourself need a 20 year old to advise you so please keep quiet when men are talking. 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by Babysuccess02(f): 10:52pm On Sep 29, 2020 |
I actually don't support his actions but please you're still under his roof and I know it's not your fault. Please just try and do your best by coming home early. 2 Likes |
Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by LikeAking: 10:52pm On Sep 29, 2020 |
PresidentJosh20: These are not my words. Read the 48 laws of power. I belive the author doesnt mean killing,but falling of such a fadas hands. Him papa don cross boundary. After all nobody will miss him. 2 Likes |
Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by 0neal(m): 10:52pm On Sep 29, 2020 |
light099: Interesting physics analogy 3 Likes |
Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by holyghost(m): 10:52pm On Sep 29, 2020 |
Ordinarily I won't comment on this issue but because many may have similar issues so I'll do some justice. 1 at your age you are way above such treatment unless your father did not do his job well in raising up properly. To punish or beat a stubborn child starts and end from 4years to 12years at worst 14years. Because by that age a normal and even a stubborn child must have understood life value and acceptable social balance (like not picking fights easily, pocket lifting stealing low life lies chasing after girls for sex, smoking, and folding or submitting to ego and peer measures of pressures like smoking, cultism, gang membership. 2. You failed to display maturity and self discipline in your manner and behaviour. 3. You are still a child in his eyes because you don't sit and discuss real issue like a man that you have become. But do have such time with your mom and get free food like a child that you still are. What made you go watch match in viewing center? When you have so much to think about. If you work hard enough and with little luck you can achieve a viewing center your self. That should be your mentality at this age. "How do I own my business" 4. Go out to look for menial jobs, like laundry, labourer, Hawking small wares like fruits, stockings or whatever that sales fast in your state towns. These are just small ways to stay active and earn pocket money while you hunt for a better Job or save enough to learn a proper skill or build a small business, like hair cut shop, small electrical shop even on wheel barrow or push-truck, all this you can start with as littles as 75k. And make like 1,500 to 2500 a day depending on your entrepreneurial skill and luck. No one will lower you, unless you lower yourself when you have nothing to offer. So when you make your money be humble and know your limits and place in the society then demand your respect in like manner. Go the right pastors for prayers and be prayerful yourself then face life like a man. Like Joseph, Jacob, David, Solomon, they ware nobody but prayer and self discipline got them to the top. The same God, the same world, the same land, the same sun and moon nothing has changed God still do it for you and anyone with prayerful soul and self determined to grow and achieve. Work, work, work, work hard for it! In fact work harder for it. Only when you have respect will you understand the value of been independent as the captain of your (ship/life). God help you. Wake up early your morning start now! 18 Likes 3 Shares |
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