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Re: Dear Men, Before You Give A Lady Your Money. by Dayoebe(m): 11:48pm On Oct 03, 2020
More reason I like Feminist.
They are not leeches.

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Re: Dear Men, Before You Give A Lady Your Money. by Nobody: 11:54pm On Oct 03, 2020
Okay oo

,,,,noted
Re: Dear Men, Before You Give A Lady Your Money. by 444crop: 1:45am On Oct 04, 2020
How reverse psychology works
Zzor:
You are somehow right, a man's money doesn't really move me,if you like buy me the most expensive gifts,if I don't like you,i won't still like you

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Re: Dear Men, Before You Give A Lady Your Money. by yemi1504: 2:36am On Oct 04, 2020
Toks2008:
Dear men,

Don't ever think you can win a lady's heart by giving her money because a woman's heart is very intrinsic and she can give it to any man she desires even if she does not get a dime from the man.

And if you must give a lady money, please don't try to impress but give her only what you can afford because MOST ladies are wired to appreciate a monetary gift from a man not according to what a man can afford or the level of the sacrifice he makes but rather they compare what you give them with what another man can give or worse still what their friends get from their men.

Simply put... MOST ladies will see a gift of 75k from a guy who has only 150k in savings as nothing when they get 1M from a billionaire not minding the fact that the former sacrificed 50% of his life savings whilst the latter probably gave 0.00001% of his monetary worth..

This is why during heated argument when a man tries to remind a lady of the financial sacrifices he made for her, she usually responds by saying "what have you done that another man can't do" or worse still "how much did you give me compared to what men are giving their women out there"


Please guys, no go dey do pass yourself...

Great advice bro! Noted!

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Re: Dear Men, Before You Give A Lady Your Money. by yemi1504: 2:37am On Oct 04, 2020
DeSepiero:
Makes absolute sense.

Learn to say "NO" to urgent 10k requests when it's not convenient. You owe no one an explanation. Even if its convenient you can still simply say no if you want.

It doesn't make you stingy, it means you're in control of your choices and actions.

Is it even urgent 10k, now with poverty dealing with slay queens, na now urgent 2k SMH.

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Re: Dear Men, Before You Give A Lady Your Money. by yemi1504: 2:40am On Oct 04, 2020
GLYCOLYSISS:

The mystique statue is another femi-centric ideology promoted by the society and generally, women, to uphold women in high standard.
There's absolutely nothing mysterious about women, their dual mating strategy, hypergamous nature, innate solipsism, nature and idea of love, just to list a few are the core of women mystique promoted in the society.
Once you understand these concepts, your perception of women will change forever !
A rude awakening, and there's no going back .
Sad and depressing reality.

And an innate ability by women to love being treated by trash by their men, a sort of sadomasochism that is just hard to process and understand SMH.

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Re: Dear Men, Before You Give A Lady Your Money. by yemi1504: 2:44am On Oct 04, 2020
baralatie:


ehen!

I said it!


I knew it!


awon onigirama ati encyclopedia won n be ni nairaland!

Check my quote on him bro lol, you just learned a new word in my post - sadomasochism, you are welcome bro! wink
Re: Dear Men, Before You Give A Lady Your Money. by yemi1504: 2:48am On Oct 04, 2020
Toks2008:


Abeg you please break am down... The grammer too much for me to comprehend.

Google is there bro! I will help you with hypergamous - it is a practice of associating with someone in a higher class than the person themselves. Most women, especially Nigerian women, are very hypergamous in nature. Hypergamy can come by women marrying a rich guy, a powerful guy or a famous guy. The famous guy hypergamy is shown for example in the viral instagram message of Laycon's ex when she regretted dumping him when he had nothing. You are welcome bro. Have a great night sir.

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Re: Dear Men, Before You Give A Lady Your Money. by jeph19(m): 6:51am On Oct 04, 2020
Lazi set of people. Always making demand that their parents cannot even make.
2weeks into "friendship" she called that she needed money for bag and high heels; that they've resume school...
Me: What happened to your savings?
She: it won't be enough...
Me: OK, i don't have
She: Mtcheew, a whole big boy like u?
Me: shey i tell u say i be big boy...
I just deleted the number 2sec

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Re: Dear Men, Before You Give A Lady Your Money. by Toks2008(m): 7:35am On Oct 04, 2020
jeph19:
Lazi set of people. Always making demand that their parents cannot even make.
2weeks into "friendship" she called that she needed money for bag and high heels; that they've resume school...
Me: What happened to your savings?
She: it won't be enough...
Me: OK, i don't have
She: Mtcheew, a whole big boy like u?
Me: shey i tell u say i be big boy...
I just deleted the number 2sec

Lol!

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Re: Dear Men, Before You Give A Lady Your Money. by Aaaaarghmed(m): 7:51am On Oct 04, 2020
most women never show appreciation, when u have quarrel, the next thing she would say is.....what have you ever done for me.....not minding the fact that you emptied your account to send her money.All these scenarios made me stop doing anything to please a woman even though I have the money or financial muscle.If u ask me for 50k,I wud give you 5k.

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Re: Dear Men, Before You Give A Lady Your Money. by BigDick70inch(m): 9:21am On Oct 04, 2020
Zzor:
You are somehow right, a man's money doesn't really move me,if you like buy me the most expensive gifts,if I don't like you,i won't still like you


Okay..
I'm somehow a broke guy right now..but then am caring..
Loving..
Have a big dick..
And finally so down to earth..
I really wanna start somethin serious with u..
I guess u liking already??

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Re: Dear Men, Before You Give A Lady Your Money. by jeph19(m): 11:05am On Oct 04, 2020
Toks2008:


Lol!
na the way, its like a bus-stop, i'll board another one when i'm ready... No time to waste time
Re: Dear Men, Before You Give A Lady Your Money. by BabbanBura(m): 11:29am On Oct 04, 2020
Petyprincess:
Please tell them o, girls like me can't be impressed with money, if you like spend from now till tomorrow,what matters is a good heart with fat pocket of course grin

I don loud am for you, gold digger!

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Re: Dear Men, Before You Give A Lady Your Money. by Toks2008(m): 12:33pm On Oct 04, 2020
Zzor:
You are somehow right, a man's money doesn't really move me,if you like buy me the most expensive gifts,if I don't like you,i won't still like you

You must be from Imo state
Re: Dear Men, Before You Give A Lady Your Money. by Nobody: 1:07pm On Oct 04, 2020
Toks2008:

You must be from Imo state
No sir
Re: Dear Men, Before You Give A Lady Your Money. by Toks2008(m): 2:05pm On Oct 04, 2020
Zzor:
No sir

But igbo lady for sure.

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Re: Dear Men, Before You Give A Lady Your Money. by Toks2008(m): 3:27pm On Oct 04, 2020
BigDick70inch:



Okay..
I'm somehow a broke guy right now..but then am caring..
Loving..
Have a big dick..
And finally so down to earth..
I really wanna start somethin serious with u..
I guess u liking already??

Ekabo Mr oloko nla

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Re: Dear Men, Before You Give A Lady Your Money. by Freeko4: 3:36pm On Oct 04, 2020
........
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Re: Dear Men, Before You Give A Lady Your Money. by BigDick70inch(m): 3:36pm On Oct 04, 2020
Toks2008:


Ekabo Mr oloko nla

E seun Oo..
cheesy
Re: Dear Men, Before You Give A Lady Your Money. by Edyice: 3:52pm On Oct 04, 2020
When you give JUST forget...

It's charity money grin grin
Re: Dear Men, Before You Give A Lady Your Money. by Positiveme2020: 3:57pm On Oct 04, 2020
DontBullshitMe:
I give my money to orphans.


Some ladies are orphans u know shocked

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Re: Dear Men, Before You Give A Lady Your Money. by Nweike190(m): 4:01pm On Oct 04, 2020
Zzor:
You are somehow right, a man's money doesn't really move me,if you like buy me the most expensive gifts,if I don't like you,i won't still like you





grin
Re: Dear Men, Before You Give A Lady Your Money. by jimmychang: 4:05pm On Oct 04, 2020
Zzor:
You are somehow right, a man's money doesn't really move me,if you like buy me the most expensive gifts,if I don't like you,i won't still like you

He is very right not somehow right

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Re: Dear Men, Before You Give A Lady Your Money. by jimmychang: 4:06pm On Oct 04, 2020
Petyprincess:
Please tell them o, girls like me can't be impressed with money, if you like spend from now till tomorrow,what matters is a good heart with fat pocket of course grin


Rock of Ages herself, unmovable , unshakable..I greet you grin grin grin
Re: Dear Men, Before You Give A Lady Your Money. by jimmychang: 4:12pm On Oct 04, 2020
virginprincess:
Op this your story de two sided, anyway you are right in a way, a man money can and will never move me.

Make I give you 20million grin grin

See them awon Rock of ages

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Re: Dear Men, Before You Give A Lady Your Money. by jimmychang: 4:13pm On Oct 04, 2020
J111333:
We nairaland men are broke so why advise us, abi pesin fit give wetin he no get?

Nigga speak for yourself grin

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Re: Dear Men, Before You Give A Lady Your Money. by Blackpromise(m): 4:48pm On Oct 04, 2020
Way to go gal.
Wish all gals think like you do pretty.

Zzor:
You are somehow right, a man's money doesn't really move me,if you like buy me the most expensive gifts,if I don't like you,i won't still like you
Re: Dear Men, Before You Give A Lady Your Money. by Toks2008(m): 7:08pm On Oct 04, 2020
Is Lalasticlala still a a Mod on nairaland sad ?
Re: Dear Men, Before You Give A Lady Your Money. by AmeLonRo(m): 10:02pm On Oct 04, 2020
Re: Dear Men, Before You Give A Lady Your Money. by Earnonline9: 10:02pm On Oct 04, 2020
Oh

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