Divorce looms for 90 Days Fiancé's Angela and Michael as Angela spits fire after Michael's family asked her to be submissive and allow Michael get a child from another woman

It's only a few weeks since 90 Days Fiance couple, Nigeria's Michael Ilesanmi and America's Angela Deem, got married but the cultural difference has become an issue and may lead to the courthouse.

Michael's relatives want Angela to allow Michael get a child through another woman and Michael agrees, but Angela won't have it. This leads to an argument during which Angela is asked to be submissive and respect Michael as the man.

The argument degenerates from there as Angela and Michael's relative, Lydia, gets into a verbal fight.

Angela tells Lydia - who she calls Aunt Lydia based on Nigerian culture - that since she wants her to be submissive and respect Michael as the man based on Nigerian culture, she (Lydia) has to respect her (Angela) since she's older than her and African culture asks younger ones to respect their elders.

Lydia tells Angela it doesn't work that way because in Nigerian culture, the woman who married into the family first is the elder, irrespective of age and she married into the Ilesanmi family first.

The Americans who were on the video call with the couple were shocked and couldn't understand it.

One American stated that if Angela is expected to respect Michael's Nigerian culture, he has to also respect her American culture and act accordingly.

Angela then adds that she feels sorry for Nigerian women because they are expected to break their necks to please their men and to always bow to their men. She says she won't do that and the only man she'll bow to is God.

When asked what the next step would be, Angela said they will be heading to the courthouse for a divorce.

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Loool

Shebi na team foreign wife.

Lovely!

This obey who woman, I know that it's going to happen soon

He deserves it and more.

Right there in Igbo etiti or Ijebu ode or Ikorodu, there was a lady who was sidelined for the white chick.

BTW! How can I because of marriage call a younger person Aunty? If I mistakenly call you and you answer! The way I will squeeze your mouth ehnn.

Aghotam.

This must be a joke!

Madam Angela did not know the culture she was marrying into?

Did she & Michael not talk about kids?

How can Michael's family engage her to 'let Michael have kids from other women' (whom I suspect is already existing)? Do they even engage Nigerian wives for such?

If kids was so important to Michael, why did he marry an older woman?

Before you build a house, you count the cost:

Can two walk together except they are agreed?

Bunch of jokers, them all!

#teamforeign! wher y'all crew at?

This woman is so funny and serious with her rights in marriage

The other video she was asking Obey who Obey what, it was a signal that she is not a push over

LadySarah:
He deserves it and more.

Right there in Igbo etiti or Ijebu ode or Ikorodu, there was a lady who was sidelined for the white chick.

BTW! How can I because of marriage call a younger person Aunty? If I mistakenly call you and you answer! The way I will squeeze your mouth ehnn.

Aghotam.

Hahaha..you know where not to marry from.

The woman said she pities Nigerian women. She doesn't want to know how some wives have to worship their "Nigerian" husbands to please them.

#Teamforeignwives

#TeamForeignWomen unfollowed this thread.

Davash222 now...

I love this, this is for team foreign, white women (and even worse black women) don't take shit, they were raised to question things, not like us here that are trained to be okpo. If the man is on nairaland the goat would crawl back here to post useless threads. Rubbish.

pocohantas:
#TeamForeignWomen unfollowed this thread.

Davash222 now...

All these are movies.

You should know by now.


BTW, have you seen Michael recently? He now looks like Ambode. All thanks to Angela, foreign woman.

This is so scripted.

Eyah.

Davash222:

All these are movies. You should know by now.
BTW, have you seen Michael recently? He now looks like Ambode. All thanks to Angela, foreign woman.

Even in reality, once you and your brothers get to that international airport, you drop your red-pill. The ones wey you done swallow already, na to shit am commot. If you carry your nonsense over-needy Nigerian ego and enter there, you will be lucky not to land in jail for hitting your foreign wife out of frustration.

Davash, see what your Nigerian brother is going through. I am sure he was an alfa male in Nigeria. If it were a Naija wife, they won’t even negotiate with her. One Patience Ozokwor looking MIL will just land with the second wife.

pocohantas:


Even in reality, once you and your brothers get to that international airport, you drop your red-pill. The ones wey you done swallow already, na to shit am commot. If you carry your nonsense over-needy Nigerian ego and enter there, you will be lucky not to land in jail for hitting your foreign wife out of frustration.

Davash, see what your Nigerian brother is going through. I am sure he was an alfa male in Nigeria. If it were a Naija wife, they won’t even negotiate with her. One Patience Ozokwor looking MIL will just land with the second wife.

I have friends and cousins who got married to foreign women. They are in control of their marriages. The women worship them.

Poco, everything is about composure. There’s this joy in spending your time or life with foreign women. It’s glorious.

Davash222:


I have friends and cousins who got married to foreign women. They are in control of their marriages. The women worship them.

Poco, everything is about composure. There’s this joy in spending your time or life with foreign women. It’s glorious.

Everybody has friends that got married to foreign women. However, there are not many interracial old couples. My uncle married a foreign woman, they have kids, the eldest is a teen. He is now in his early 50s and wants to retire in Nigeria. Foreign wife doesn’t understand why she should leave the US for Africa. He has finally picked a homebased wife...

I love my uncle for being very practical, he didn’t marry a youngling, he married an evening newspaper like me. Now he shuttles Nigeria and the abroad. We have never seen his kids and we may never see them, just pictures... I am sure those kids might attack you if you call them Nigerians.

ImaIma1:
The woman said she pities Nigerian women. She doesn't want to know how some wives have to worship their "Nigerian" husbands to please them.

#Teamforeignwives

You are a nigerian wife, do you sing praise & worship songs to your husband early morning or sundays, do you kneel to serve him food or kneel to get things from him. just curious what a nigeria woman does that depict "worship".
Maybe it time some of you go back to school, hopefully you all will know the disparity between respect & worship.
When you ask our darling feminist to accord the same respect they give there boss @ the office or pastor to there husbands.. such act overnight metamorphoses to " i can't worship him" women brain capacity ehn

Red pillers are approaching...

Armed with needless analogies, questions and rebuttals- do not engage them. All questions should be directed to the #ForeignWife

pocohantas:


Everybody has friends that got married to foreign women. However, there are not many interracial old couples. My uncle married a foreign woman, they have kids, the eldest is a teen. He is now in his early 50s and wants to retire in Nigeria. Foreign wife doesn’t understand why she should leave the US for Africa. He has finally picked a homebased wife...

I love my uncle for being very practical, he didn’t marry a youngling, he married an evening newspaper like me. Now he shuttles Nigeria and the abroad. We have never seen his kids and we may never see them, just pictures... I am sure those kids might attack you if you call them Nigerians.

pocohantas:
Red pillers are approaching...

Armed with needless analogies, questions and rebuttals- do not engage them. All questions should be directed to the #ForeignWife

Your comments have made me watch the videos of them on youtube. Damn! This Angela is hell! I can't stand her. She is extremely rude, crass and disrespectful but Michael is very submissive.

MLTR:




You are a nigerian wife, do you sing praise & worship songs to your husband early morning or sundays, do you kneel to serve him food or kneel to get things from him. just curious what a nigeria woman does that depict "worship".
Maybe it time some of you go back to school, hopefully you all will know the disparity between respect & worship.
When you ask our darling feminist to accord the same respect they give there boss @ the office or pastor to there husbands.. such act overnight metamorphoses to " i can't worship him" women brain capacity ehn

You are the one who needs to go back to school to learn how not to jump into conclusions.

Does "some" represent every woman?

The truth is that the average Nigerian man with that traditional mindset will find it difficult living with a foreign wife because they cannot get the kind of submission they expect.

pocohantas:


Everybody has friends that got married to foreign women. However, there are not many interracial old couples. My uncle married a foreign woman, they have kids, the eldest is a teen. He is now in his early 50s and wants to retire in Nigeria. Foreign wife doesn’t understand why she should leave the US for Africa. He has finally picked a homebased wife...

I love my uncle for being very practical, he didn’t marry a youngling, he married an evening newspaper like me. Now he shuttles Nigeria and the abroad. We have never seen his kids and we may never see them, just pictures... I am sure those kids might attack you if you call them Nigerians.

As if he is living in their houses to know that they are in control. Isn't it what they tell him, that he believes.

ImaIma1:


You are the one who needs to go back to school to learn how not to jump into conclusions.

Does "some" represent every woman?

The truth is that the average Nigerian man with that traditional mindset will find it difficult living with a foreign wife because they cannot get the kind of submission they expect.

Is there any reason why people don't bring reality along to social media. are we gonna pretend the africa women of today haven't evolve so much that there is only little disparity between them and so called foreign wife.
You need to know there is a difference between submission and tolerate, white women also submit to there husbands, they cook, they do laundries with machine n also take care of there homes just like other wives buh they just don't tolerate bullshiit, which in most cases is cheating.
If you marry a white woman and stay faithful, their is little or nothing to worry about buh if you marry a naija woman, faithful or not wahala, no money double wahala we sha dey manage una

MLTR:



Is there any reason why people don't bring reality along to social media. are we gonna pretend the africa women of today haven't evolve so much that there is only little disparity between them and so called foreign wife.
You need to know there is a difference between submission and tolerate, white women also submit to there husbands, they cook, they do laundries with machine n also take care of there homes just like other wives buh they just don't tolerate bullshiit, which in most cases is cheating.
If you marry a white woman and stay faithful, their is little or nothing to worry about buh if you marry a naija woman, faithful or not wahala, no money double wahala we sha dey manage una

The disparity is not little at all. African women have evolved. True. But we still have the cultural background, ideals and norms that makes us African.

The white woman has a different mindset, culture or lack of culture, upbringing that is totally different from ours. Even the way we bring up our children is different. But some African men have no issues with it and can live with it.

You guys go around criticizing Nigerian women like you are blameless and perfect. We on the other hand don't just enjoy crying over already spilled milk

These ladies only want you if you have big gbola. Pooorn has led them to believe that black men are horses down there.
Once they are tired, u become garbage.

And u must be very submissive.
U got to see our guys behaving like zombie just to please one old mama.

descarado:
These ladies only want you if you have big gbola. Pooorn has led to to believe that black men are horses down there.
Once they are tired, u become garbage.

And u must be very submissive.
U got to see our guys behaving like zombie just to please one old mama.

I don't think all these ladies see black men as sex objects and even if they did, gbola wouldn't make them marry these men. I have been hearing this from white folks too and I think it is a terribly racist thing to say whether you are black or white.

MLTR:



Is there any reason why people don't bring reality along to social media. are we gonna pretend the africa women of today haven't evolve so much that there is only little disparity between them and so called foreign wife.
You need to know there is a difference between submission and tolerate, white women also submit to there husbands, they cook, they do laundries with machine n also take care of there homes just like other wives buh they just don't tolerate bullshiit, which in most cases is cheating.
If you marry a white woman and stay faithful, their is little or nothing to worry about buh if you marry a naija woman, faithful or not wahala, no money double wahala we sha dey manage una

This is what submission is? I am learning.

Hathor5:


This is what submission is? I am learning.

i stand to be corrected "miss" .... maybe you can tell these honourable house if your husband demands more of you. show me brains n i will show you more

MLTR:

i stand to be corrected "miss" .... maybe you can tell these honourable house if your husband demands more of you. show me brains n i will show you more

No need to make it personal.